Welcome to "Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend"! (AMAABF). A hilariously chaotic podcast that delves into the highs and lows of being an anxiously attached boyfriend of an avoidant attached partner. Join the first visual and audio LGBTQ+ podcast hosted by a mixed heritage couple! Get to know Faris (anxiously attached), who's always seeking reassurance, and Josh (Avoidant attached), who self-sabotaged every relationship, until this one! No matter how hard he tried. This podcast came to ...
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Hammams, Crossing Borders & Becoming an Author: Khaled Alesmael
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51:57In this episode, Khaled Alesmael shares his remarkable story of life as a gay Syrian writer, journalist and refugee: from cruising in secret hammams under an oppressive regime to crossing borders on foot and building a new life in Europe. Khaled talks candidly about growing up queer in Syria, the hidden LGBTQ+ community and the power of desire as r…
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Open relationships, Reality TV & DJ Supper Club: Joel Mignott
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55:36In this episode, we’re joined by model, DJ, Chef & reality TV trailblazer Joel Mignott. From open relationships and reality TV edits to childhood trauma, healing through therapy, and navigating gay love without a blueprint. This conversation is raw, hilarious and full of depth. Joel opens up about what it means to grow up mixed-race and queer in th…
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Identity, Seeking Refuge & Changing UK Law: Saif Ahmed
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53:03In this episode, Saif Ahmed shares his story of growing up as a gay, Arab, Muslim man — and how he went from fleeing Iraq as a child to helping shape the UK’s Equality Act. Saif talks honestly about leaving Iraq during the war, spending his childhood in Dubai, coming to the UK as a teenager, and trying to work out who he was in a culture that didn’…
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IVF, Meet Cute & Resolving Arguments: Taylor & Jeff
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1:06:11In this episode, we’re joined by Taylor and Jeff—the charismatic couple behind one of the internet’s most loved LGBTQ+ love stories. From DM slides and Halloween run-ins to IVF, visibility and making a home in NYC, this conversation is full of warmth, honesty and hard-earned wisdom. We dive into coming out in small-town America, redefining masculin…
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Being Mixed Race, Unpacking Identity & Queerness: BBC’s I Kissed a Boy
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50:46In this vibrant and deeply personal episode, we’re joined by stars from I Kissed a Boy—Callum, Jack S, and Ruben—for a raw, hilarious, and heartfelt conversation about life before, during, and after the show. From Black barbers and messy sleepovers to discovering queer brotherhood and confronting racism growing up, nothing is off limits. We dive in…
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Asexuality, Domestic Trauma & Palestine: Aryam
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54:45In this powerful episode, we sit down with Aryam Marafi, a survivor, storyteller, and Kuwaiti refugee who opens up Asexuality, domestic violence, and sexual trauma. From seeking refuge and safety abroad, their journey is one of resilience, pain, and reclaiming identity. We talk about the impact of abuse within family systems, escaping a violent hom…
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Flamboyance, Gender Fluidity & Fetishisation: Tyreece
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58:42In this episode, we sit down with performer, creator and unapologetic queer icon Tyreece. From go-go dancing in Heaven at 18 to navigating identity as a gender fluid, mixed-race powerhouse—this conversation is loud, proud and unfiltered. We talk about being “too gay” for straight people, growing up between cultures, coming out journey, and finding …
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In this episode, we sit down with Britain’s first out Muslim drag queen and transgender activist Asifa Lahore. From transitioning on the NHS to navigating faith, family, identity and the queer scene as a South Asian woman—this conversation is raw, eye-opening and deeply human. We talk about losing male privilege, finding gender euphoria on a motorb…
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Made in Chelsea, Sobriety & Coming out: Kabir Khurana
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48:02🌟 Kabir on Made in Chelsea, Queer Identity & Life Beyond the Screen 🎬✨ In this episode, we sit down with Made in Chelsea’s Kabir to talk about everything from reality TV and representation to sobriety, dating as a queer person of colour, and finding purpose after pain. It’s raw, it’s real—and it’s seriously empowering. 🎥 How Kabir Got on Made in Ch…
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Body Hair, IBS Journey & A little Moan...
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22:52🧔🏽♂️ Body Hair, Bias & Bloating – Let’s Talk About It! In this episode, we go there — from body hair politics to bloated tummies and invasive procedures. What does it mean to be hairy and brown in a world that prefers smooth and white? While we also dive into Faris's IBS journey! 👀 Hair & Race – Why being hairy hits different when you’re South Asi…
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Colonialism, Queer Travel & Allyship Fails: Aisha Shaibu Lenoir
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58:24🌍 Aisha on Queer Travel, Colonialism & Building Safe Spaces 🏳️🌈 In this episode, we’re joined by Aisha to unpack identity, activism, and what it really means to move through the world as a Black queer woman. From reclaiming queer history to building inclusive spaces like The Common Press, this conversation is honest, powerful — and full of heart. …
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The Queer Arab Debate, Cultural Imperialism & Boycotting: DEAD SEA SPECIAL!
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31:41🌊 Gay in Jordan: Culture, Boycotts & The Truth About Queer Life in the Middle East 🧳 In this on-location episode, we're coming to you live(ish) from the Dead Sea in Jordan, with coffee, shisha, and some serious conversation. We’re diving deep into what it’s really like to be gay in the Middle East—and why Western perspectives don’t always get it ri…
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🌈 Dan Harry on Chemsex, HIV Stigma & The Truth About ‘I Kissed a Boy’ 💋 In this episode, we’re joined by Dan Harry from I Kissed a Boy to dive into some of the biggest (and most taboo) conversations in the LGBTQ+ community. From his BBC documentary PreP, HIV & Me to the realities of chemsex, we break it all down—while still finding time for laughs …
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Atlantis, LGBT In the Middle East & ‘fake’ Dubai
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26:09🌍 Exploring Dubai: Stereotypes, LGBTQ+ Life & The New Middle East Culture 🇦🇪 In this episode, we’re recording straight from Atlantis, Dubai—because why not? We dive into the stereotypes surrounding Dubai, its real culture beyond the glitz, and what it’s really like being LGBTQ+ in the Middle East. 🏙️ Is Dubai Fake? – People love to call Dubai artif…
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Traitors, Gay Adoption & Cowboy Carter: Miles Asteri
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1:05:54In this episode, we’re joined by the incredible Miles Asteri for an open and heartfelt conversation about reality TV, navigating identity, and the emotional weight of adoption and fatherhood. 🎭 TRAITORS – Miles opens up about his time on The Traitors, the challenges of playing the game, and the pressure of public perception. 👨👦 Adoption & Fatherho…
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Coming out, Stereotypes & Becoming besties: Lordin
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1:09:44In this episode, we're joined by the incredibly talented Lordin for an open and inspiring conversation about breaking stereotypes in the music industry, being an independent queer artist, and navigating identity through music. 🎶 Breaking into the Music Industry – Lordin shares the realities of working without industry support, building a career fro…
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What it's ACTUALLY like being on BIG BROTHER: Dean Quinton
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59:15In this episode, we’re joined by the charismatic and unfiltered Dean Quinton for a raw and revealing conversation about reality TV, media narratives, and life inside the Big Brother house. From the brutal audition process to how the show twists reality, Dean gives us the inside scoop with humor and honesty. 🏠 The Big Brother Experience Dean breaks …
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The White Default, Bonnie Blue & Gays Dating Themselves
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30:46Is Whiteness the Default? We dive deep into the unspoken biases that shape our perceptions of beauty, desirability, and relationships. From dating preferences to Hollywood’s beauty standards, we unpack how whiteness continues to be seen as the "default" and why that needs to change. 🔥 Topics We Cover: 💡 Why Whiteness is Still the Standard – How med…
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Queering The System... Taking The SHAME Out Of SEX: Anouszka Tate
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1:08:23In this episode, we dive into a thought-provoking conversation about challenging societal norms and embracing personal agency. Our guest shares their journey of questioning expectations around relationships, marriage, and identity, revealing how they moved from simply following the "default" life path to making choices that truly align with their d…
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Discovering hidden LGBTQ+ histories: Dr. Justin Bengry
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42:25In this episode, we dive deep into the fascinating world of queer history with Dr. Justin Bengry, a leading historian and pioneer behind the world's first MA in Queer History. From exploring historical gaps to addressing modern queer representation, Justin offers thought-provoking insights, blending academic expertise with personal stories. 🎓 Queer…
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KATSEYE, Dark Forest Theory & Bridget Jones
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32:33This week, we’re diving headfirst into the world of K-pop, exploring wild alien theories, and reflecting on the randomness of life. It’s fun, it’s deep, and just a bit chaotic—just the way we like it. 🎶 K-pop Craze: We break down the hype around K-pop and the intense training that shapes these global stars. Is the West ready for K-pop-style pop gro…
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In this episode, we’re back after a little break, and things get hilariously messy as we dive into what’s been happening in our lives. From attachment styles to a dramatic take on decorating our apartment, nothing’s off the table. 🏡 Decorating Chaos: We’ve been sprucing up the apartment, and let’s just say Faris doesn’t love my (Josh’s) taste. We s…
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How Open Mic Nights Sparked a Comedy Career: Morgan Rees
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54:52In this episode, we’re joined by the hilarious and insightful Morgan Rees for an honest and entertaining conversation about comedy, identity, and queer joy. From chasing the comedy dream to embracing body positivity, Morgan takes us through his journey with humor and heart. 🎭 Chasing the Comedy Dragon Morgan shares the highs and lows of being a com…
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In this episode of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend, we continue our Christmas special with family members Sam and Sass. From hilarious science "facts" to cultural debates and growing up in two worlds, this episode has it all — heartfelt moments, sibling banter, and festive cheer. 🎄 Christmas in Jordan vs. England: The group dives into thei…
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Our Chaotic Family Christmas Special 🎄 Part 1
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40:36In this episode of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend, Faris and Josh are joined by family members Sam and Sassy for a hilarious Christmas special. From chaotic gift exchanges to childhood stories of sneaking out and sneaking back in, this episode is full of laughs, awkward moments, and festive fails. 🎄 Sibling Chaos: What happens when siblin…
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From GRNDHOUSE to GAYNS: Connor Minney
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1:14:49In this episode, we're joined by the brilliant Connor Minney for a candid and thought-provoking conversation about LGBTQ+ community dynamics, fitness culture, and personal growth. 🏋️♂️ Gym Culture & Gay Spaces: Why do gay and queer communities have such a conflicted relationship with gym culture? Connor dives into the legacy and evolution of these…
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Kardashians, Hollywood and the Toxic Beauty Revolution
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36:57This week, we’re diving deep into the cultural shifts that have shaped the world around us: 💄 Kardashians & Beauty Standards How did one family redefine beauty—and at what cost? We break down the ripple effects of their influence on today’s society and self-image. 🇺🇸 The Fall of the American Dream As kids, it was the ultimate goal, but Hollywood sc…
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You Don’t Have To Be Queer To Fight For Queer Rights: David Allwood
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1:19:50🎙️ A Conversation with Mr. Gay World, David Allwood In this heartfelt and dynamic episode, we’re joined by the incredible David Allwood, Mr. Gay GB, for a deep dive into his life, work, and passions. 🌈 Homoparody: David shares the inspiration behind his company, which brings the LGBTQ+ community together through fabulous events and dance classes de…
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This week, we’re leaning into the chaos with a messy, hilarious chat about relationships, reality TV, and everything in between. No structure, just vibes. 🫂 Attachment Styles: Josh opens up about his attachment type and why affection is strictly on his terms. Let’s just say, it’s a journey. 👰 Love Is Blind, Habibi: Our unfiltered thoughts on the la…
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Toxic Masculinity Can Be Exhibited By Any GENDER!
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35:47This week, we’re diving headfirst into the intersection of feminism, the environment, and some good old-fashioned spooky chaos. It’s thoughtful, it’s funny, and it’s a little unhinged—just how we like it. 🌱 Ecofeminism: Diving deep into what Faris was researching during his PHD , exploring how feminism and environmentalism connect. Turns out, savin…
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Are You RACIST for having a preference? Jordan Hailwood
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36:15In this episode, we’re joined by the insightful Jordan Hailwood for an open and honest discussion about some of the complex dynamics within the LGBTQ+ community. 👀 Experiences of Being Fetishised: We share personal stories about encounters with fetishisation, unpack its emotional impact, and explore how it shapes relationships and self-perception. …
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Navigating INTRUSIVE thoughts and Anxiety!
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46:04🧠 Navigating Anxiety & Intrusive Thoughts – This week, we're opening up about the struggles of anxiety and those intrusive thoughts that seem to come out of nowhere. From practical tips to personal stories, we share what’s helped us cope and remind everyone that they’re not alone in these battles. 🌈 Heartstopper & Self-Acceptance – The hit show Hea…
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Spooky SZN, Beauty standards & Psoriasis…
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34:43🎃 This week, we're diving into a mix of personal experiences, societal standards, and some spooky vibes! 🍂 💆♂️ Dealing with Psoriasis: Scaling skin, broken finger nails, and chanting, no we are not talking about the witches of Salem. We are talking Faris' psoriasis situation. 💄 Beauty Standards in the Gay Community: Are we too ugly to be gay? We u…
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Where To Travel Safely As LGBTQ: Stefan Arestis
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53:50🌍 Exploring the World with Nomadic Boys’ Stefan: Gay Travel, Safety, and More! This week, we’re thrilled to have Stefan, one half of the Nomadic Boys, joining us for a special episode! Stefan and his partner travel the world, offering invaluable insights on where gay travellers can feel safe and welcome. We’ll be diving into: ✈️ Travel Misconceptio…
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Dissecting the era of SHOWING OFF on social media…
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36:40💄 In this episode, we're unpacking GRWM culture and the way people flaunt what they own—what does it say about consumerism today? 👜 Dior’s Scandal: We discuss the recent controversy surrounding migrant workers being paid just $57 to make luxury bags under poor conditions, while the price tag tells a very different story. 👗 Fashion Powerhouses: A lo…
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Agatha Harkness: The Queer Coding Behind MARVELS Dark Witch!
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31:37This week, we’re back with a spicy mix of pop culture, music, and laughs! Here’s what we’re unpacking: 🎃 Agatha All Along and the Queer Legacy: We dive into the queer-coded characters that WandaVision has brought to life and why Agatha, in particular, resonates with the LGBTQ+ community. 🚂 Tyla and the VMAs Drama: We break down the Tyla Hate Train …
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What it's REALLY like being BLACK in the MEDIA Industry: Lee Gray
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52:34This week, we’re unpacking the complexities of navigating the media industry with our special guest, Lee. Join us as we dive into: ⚔️ The Double-Edged Sword of Being Black in the Industry: Lee shares his experiences of how his identity can work for or against him in the competitive landscape of media. 💖 Sex and the City Deep Dive: We explore the ic…
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Hey hey Anxious Bunnies✨ This week, we’re tackling some fiery topics that will definitely get you thinking! In this episode, we explore: 🔥 EDL and the Riots: What’s fueling the rise of far-right groups like the EDL, and how are they connected to recent unrest? 🇬🇧 Brexit - Why It’s Not Working: We dive into the aftermath of Brexit and why things hav…
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GAYS & DADDIES: The Fascination NO ONE Talks About!
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29:32Hey hey hey anxious bunnies! 🐰✨ This week we have so many spicy topics which will PEAK your interest, in this episode we explore: 👨🦳 Why Are Gays Obsessed with Daddies?: Let’s talk about the "daddy" obsession in gay culture—what’s behind this trend, and why does it resonate so deeply? 💥 Austin Wolf Scandal: We break down the drama surrounding the …
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Why MEN NEVER Leave Without a BACKUP Plan!
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34:01This week on Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend, we're dishing out the tea and spilling the secrets! 🌈 Ever wondered what it's like being gay in Jordan? We’ve got the inside scoop on navigating love and identity in a society that's not always on the same page. We also dive into why we think every man cheats (yep, we said it!) and why they sta…
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'We're going to CUT OFF your d**ks!' - Bradley Salu
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49:27Hey hey hey anxious bunnies! Welcome back to another guest ep! In this week’s episode, we have the fabulous Bradley Salu joining us for an unforgettable chat! 🕺✨ We dive into all things fashion, music, and surviving hard times with some awesome stories and tips on how music helps us through. As well as his view on revenge, and why it no longer serv…
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Can your PARTNER look through your PHONE? Yes or No?
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34:50Hey hey hey anxious bunnies! In this episode, we dive into some hot topics and personal updates: 🌴 We went to BALI: We catch you all up on our trip to Indonesia and all events that happened on our trip! 📱Is it okay for your partner to go through your phone? We dive deep into the pros and cons when in a relationship with someone. Are you hiding some…
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Blake Lively's SCANDAL & Molly Mae's BREAKUP: What YOU Need to Know! BONUS EPISODE
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13:41Hey hey hey anxious bunnies! In this episode, we dive into some hot topics and personal updates: ✨ Blake Lively’s Scandal: We dive into the controversy surrounding Blake Lively and her role in the 'It Ends With Us' adaptation. What’s the real story behind the backlash? 💔 Molly Mae & Tommy Fury’s Breakup: We dissect the shocking split between Molly …
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My future HUSBAND will be so much HOTTER than you!!!
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55:28Hey hey hey anxious bunnies! In this episode, we dive into some hot topics and personal updates: ✨ Embracing True Selves: We discuss the misconception that people "change" when they come out. Spoiler: They're just becoming more comfortable with who they truly are! 💔 The Gay Best Friend Dilemma: Let's talk about the frustrating trend of girl mates s…
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KAMALA HARRIS: BEYONCÉ’s ‘FREEDOM' Makes History!
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36:05Hey hey hey anxious bunnies! In this week's episode, we discuss Kamala Harris's and the impact it has made by using Beyoncé ICONIC song FREEDOM. We also delve into the 2024 Olympics with Beyoncé opening for TEAM USA. We explore the hidden homophobia used against James from the Shxts n Gigs podcast and how straight people have to act in a particular…
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Gender EXPRESSION and SEXUALITY are different: Luke Seraphin
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1:01:19In Episode 4 of "Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend," we're joined by Luke Seraphin, Head of Inclusion at Sky. Luke shares their personal journey with autism, experiences as non-binary, and insights into fostering inclusivity amidst the challenges of cancel culture. Josh and Faris engage in an open and enlightening discussion, asking probing …
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“If that didn't happen, HE wouldn't be GAY!"
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1:05:01Join us for Episode 3 of "Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend" as we spill the beans on our entire relationship journey. From how we first met to travel misadventures, including the eye-opening truth about New Zealand (spoiler: it's not all as friendly as it seems), and Faris' colourful thoughts on people 'finding themselves' in Australia. Bra…
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Did the HARROD'S guy just call me FAT?!
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1:02:43Join us, Faris and Josh, as we dive into our London escapades in second episode of "Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend". Get ready for Harrods sales associated calling out Faris’ ‘round face’, Ivy Asia almost showing us the door before we got in, and encountering some seriously quirky road men. Oh, and did we almost buy a £200 cup? Stay until…
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He PRAYED after S*X: Introduction to our NEW podcast!
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45:47Welcome to the hilariously chaotic pilot of "Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend"! A BRAND NEW LGTBQ+ podcast. The first visual and audio LGBTQ+ podcast hosted by a mixed heritage couple! Get to know Faris (anxiously attached), who's always seeking reassurance, and Josh (Avoidant attached), who self-sabotaged every relationship, until this one…
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