If you are or plan to be living in San Diego California than this is the Podcast you need! I will tell you what it is like to live in San Diego and do podcasts about every neighborhood here! I share everything about the many neighborhoods to live in, the many hiking options available, the best restaurants to try, the best places for happy hour... I cover it all. I work with clients from all over the world that are relocating, moving within, and out of this beautiful city and I ABSOLUTELY LOV ...
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A pop culture comedy podcast hosted by Erin Gibson and Bryan Safi who cover LGBTQ+ and gender issues of the moment with both hilarity and healthy doses of absurdity. Sales and Distribution by Lemonada Media https://lemonadamedia.com/
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For Women Scotland, Alabama Anti-LGBTQ+ Bills, Whistler and iMessage Hearts
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58:08Recorded pre-Easter and pre-Pope dying, Erin is on her way to Whistler in Canada for a long weekend and Bryan is worried about whether his iMessage reaction to a straight man was sending the wrong signal. Erin shares news out of the UK where the TERF organization For Women Scotland won a court ruling defining a woman by biological sex. Bryan tells …
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Air Force Defies Trump, The SAVE Act, Sally Jesse Raphael and 700th Surprise!
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1:00:41We've joined The 700 Club! Who'd have thought when we started in 2011 that we'd be in this dystopian nightmare 14 years later?! For this momentous occasion we take a virtual tour of icon Sally Jesse Raphael's $6.5 million dollar mansion that's up for sale, and get surprised with well wishes from our friends and past guests! Bryan shares how the Uni…
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Georgia Woman Arrested After Miscarriage, California Rejects Trans Athlete Ban, Aunt Selfies and Slinkies
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56:14This week we're sharing our airline hacks for all you Southwest Early Birds! Bryan is back from El Paso with stories about his silent gym experience and helping an aunt take selfies. Erin discusses Selina Maria Chandler-Scott's arrest after suffering a miscarriage in Georgia, plus how state reps are using the incident to make a case against abortio…
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Buying vs. Renting in San Diego What Makes More Sense in 2025
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11:01Is buying still better than renting in San Diego in 2025? In this video, we break down the real costs of buying a $1M condo vs. renting a similar property for $5,200/month in Pacific Beach. From mortgage payments and tax breaks to investment growth and rent increases, we crunch the numbers, side by side, over a 5-year period to see which choice cou…
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Utah Bans Pride Flags, Exploding Voter Gender Gap, Pill Nightmares and Thomas Kinkade
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1:01:20This week Erin is taking advantage of Canada's socialized medicine with pills that are going to give her nightmares, and is pulled over by the VPD AGAIN! We go on a deep dive on Thomas Kinkade, Painter of Light, and Bryan recalls the making of his album Heels. Bryan advises us about which states are passing legislation against displaying Pride flag…
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7 Projects That Will Massively Change San Diego in 2025
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8:44San Diego is changing fast, and not all of it is good—or is it? In this video, we break down seven massive projects that will reshape the city, from the long-awaited $3.4 billion airport upgrade to the controversial Seaport Village overhaul and the Midway Rising redevelopment, which could finally bring an NHL or NBA team to town (or just another ov…
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New Jersey Reproductive Rights Bills, El Cerrito, Gay Quads, and Pulled Over in Vancouver
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58:51Happy Birthday Erin! Our feminasty celebrated another trip around the sun with a French dinner and an encounter with the VPD. Bryan educates us on polyamorous gay quad sleeping arrangements and shares an interesting expeience at Julius' in NYC. Erin briefs us on the pro-reproductive rights bills that look like they're headed to pass in New Jersey, …
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Montana Anti-LGBTQ Bills, Transphobe Congressman, Squirt and SmilePik
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1:07:38This week Erin is back in Jigsaw's basement (Vancouver). Bryan has a memorable dining experience in NYC, plus he has a birthday surprise (and demonstration!) of Erin's birthday gift from Madison Avenue. Bryan informs us of Republicans changing their vote in the Montana legislature after both HB 675 and HB 754 targeting drag and trans children were …
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Billionaire Women Doing Good, Love Is Blind, Scottsdale and Cruella Breville
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56:47Erin has some tales from her Scottsdale pit stop on the way home to New Mexico, and Bryan is having issues troubleshooting his new espresso machine. Erin breaks down how Reaganomics led to the rise in billionaires in this country, and how the widowed and divorced women of these tech company founders are using their immense wealth to help those in n…
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Iowa Removes Trans Civil Rights Protections, Military Female Firings, Oscars and Special Guest Jeffery Self!
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1:02:36This week we're excited to have Jeffery Self to chat about his book Self Sabotage and Other Ways I've Spent My Time coming out March 11th! Bryan regales us with what happened at The Academy Awards IRL including a bathroom emergency and the snack situation inside the Dolby Theater. Bryan then discusses the unfortunate news out of Iowa where for the …
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Conservative Push to Raise Birth Rate, Increasing Number of LGBTQ+ Americans, Devil in a Blue Dress and Gatorade
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1:03:45Bryan is fresh from an NYC haircut giving him Elizabeth Taylor spider bangs. Erin missed LA’s Frieze Art Fair, but rediscovered the 1995 Denzel Washington film Devil in a Blue Dress. Erin discusses the GOP obsession with increasing the U.S. birth rate. Bryan reviews the data showing the number of Americans identifying as LGBTQ+ has risen to 9.3%, t…
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Erasing T and Q from LGB, Diem, Post-Valentine's and Sheryl Crow
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46:11We're soaking up the sun with the Lady Attorneys to discuss our romantic Valentine's Day outings (with husband and client), plus a deep dive into Sheryl Crow and her Tennessee Mansion. Bryan covers the Compton's Cafeteria site at 101-102 Taylor St. in San Francisco receiving a historic landmark designation, while the Trump Administration concurrent…
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Contraception Begins at Erection Act, Liberal State Hospitals Ending Gender-Affirming Care, Grandma Gibson and Diet Coke
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1:01:40Get ready for our new opening segment Grandma Gibson where Erin pleads for us all to get off social media and tells us about her lymphatic massage experience. We share our distraction television recs like Great British Bake-Off, Traitors and 90 Day Fiancé: The Last Resort and try and figure out which diet soda is okay to drink now. Erin shares prop…
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Queer Erasure, Deleting Reproductive Rights Information, Grammys and Tinctures
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59:10Bryan is back in Texas for his dad's birthday and full of Oregonal and Erin pulls out some good ol' gym floor xanax for her flight anxiety. Bryan gives an unfortunate update on President Musk's attempts to erase LGBTQ+ informaiton from federal websites, including years of scientific research from the CDC website necessary for doctors practicing med…
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European Court of Human Rights, Target DEI, Neil Young and Bryan's Series of Unfortunate Events
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56:30Today we present Bryan Safi’s Series of Unfortunate Events as he attempts to fix his broken MacBook at the Apple Genius Bar, deals with a car breakdown, and realizes multiple financial mistakes from the last few years. We also share some straight culture with a B-side Neil Young song that should never existed. Erin tells us about a woman who took h…
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LGBTQ+ Progress Around the World, Beauty Influencers Profiting from Wildfires, Kohl’s and Martin Luther King Jr.
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55:58We spent Inauguration Day distracting ourselves learning about the history of Kohl’s and interspersing some Martin Luther King Jr. quotes for good measure. Bryan updates us on LGBTQ+ momentum around the world including Germany’s Self-Determination Act, Denmark and Czechia allowing gay and bisexual men to donate blood and conversion therapy being ba…
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Challenging the South Carolina Abortion Ban, Costco DEI, El Paso Dillard's, and Leaving LA
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1:03:31We left LA due to the fires, and our thoughts are with everyone affected. Erin's back in Santa Fe having home cooked meals with the ones she loves, Bryan is going crazy with his parents in Texas. Erin shares details of five South Carolina doctors challenging the state's 6 week abortion ban. Bryan praises Costco's unwavering support for their DEI pr…
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National Defense Authorization Act, TikTok Fitspiration, Italy and New Year Stomach Problems
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1:07:37Bryan is back with tales from his holiday trip to Italy involving Coke Zero and Christmas poems. Erin hiked, journaled, and ended up with stomach problems from grocery store sushi. Bryan gets heated about Democrat concessions in the National Defense Authorization Act which will block healthcare to trans children of military service members. Erin re…
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Happy New Year! We'll be back next week. In the meantime enjoy Bryan's recap of Dateline: Season 23, Episode 4. Carrollton, Texas - where there are more churches than Starbucks. The perfect "Leave It To Beaver" family, bags of Taco Bueno, crafting, scrapbooking and a murder for hire plot that breaks up a family in the strangest way. For more Dateli…
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A post-Christmas miracle - the final Columbo from 2003! The boomer writers of the OG Columbo series asked themselves, "What's popular with the kids these days?" and the answer they came up with? RAVES. This episode has a young Matthew Rhys, murder by glass table, Columbo flirting with a girl at a warehouse party, racist maid tropes, and an excuse t…
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This PODCAST will take you through the hidden pitfalls that could turn your dream condo into a nightmare. From unexpected HOA rules and skyrocketing fees to poorly managed associations and even structural risks, this video uncovers the top things you must investigate before buying. Whether you're a first-time buyer or a seasoned investor, these ins…
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We're off for the Holidays, but we wanted to gift you something from behind the paywall! One of the most recommended stores in our DMs and emails. Named to Fortune's Best Companies to Work For, the 107 year old Rochester NY-based, family-owned Wegman's Food Market. For the rest of Season 4 of Groceries and the back catalog visit www.patreon.com/att…
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Zombie Laws, CPR Dummies, Apartment Fire and Murphy's Oil Soap
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57:38Bryan takes us on his 36 hour NYC Pig Bitch Tour which includes an apartment fire, "Birdboxing" himself, a coffee tour and Bergdorfs. At her convent, Sister Mary Gibson triggers some scent memory by using some Murphy Oil Soap to clean her hardwood floors. Bryan tells us about Michigan Democrats trying to gather support to end "zombie laws" which co…
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Pastor Joel Webbon, Walmart's DEI Programs, Thanksgiving and Fresco by Scotto
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59:49We're back from Thanksgiving and Erin is never cooking again, meanwhile Bryan had a celebrity encounter at one of New York's hottest restaurants. Erin tells us about Pastor Joel Webbon's riling up of his supporters against the 19th Amendment. Bryan is annoyed by former music video director Robby Starbuck's return - this time targeting Walmart and t…
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Texas Decriminalizing Gay Sex, Georgia Maternal Mortality Committee, Camping Mattresses and Broadway Movie Musicals
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59:28Happy Thanksgiving! The discussion about our 2025 queer white water rafting trip continues with worries about whether or not we can bring full mattresses to camp on. Bryan discusses the latest attempts by the Texas Legislature to decriminalize gay sex. Erin tells us about Georgia's Maternal Mortality Committee being disbanded after findings about p…
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For the Love of DILFS, Gendered Drug Testing, Queer White Water Rafting and Poki Roni
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49:17We're back from the wayOUT Gala where we honored Harper Steele and Bryan spent a lot of money on a joke (for a good cause). Erin shares some disturbing gender disparity details regarding drug testing in this country and how changes could improve medicine and the economy. Bryan stumbles upon Stormy Daniels' OutTV show For The Love of DILFS, and shar…
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Disengaging with Trump-Voting Family, The 4B Movement, Carol Channing and Breaking Up with Scherzinger
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54:45After praising her performance in Sunset Blvd. Bryan is upset with the lead Pussycat Doll's recent Instagram likes and comments of conservative content, and Erin is introduced to the 1985 Alice in Wonderland with Carol Channing. Bryan teaches us how to disengage and set boundaries with our Trump-loving family members this holiday season. Erin tells…
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Well, that happened. Erin and Bryan have a raw morning-after discussion about the Election Day results, what is going on in America, and the small victories that will help guide us into the hell that will be Trump's second term. For this week’s bonus This New Thing We're Doing! visit www.patreon.com/attitudes Join us on Discord for episode discussi…
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Can Husbands Find Out Who You Voted For? LGBTQ+ GOP Platform, Bate Boards and Guilty Pleasures
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49:57Happy Halloqueen! This year Bryan dressed as the skeleton of Vincent Price and Erin is a woman who can never get warm. Erin describes her gym's trainer "bate board" of guilty pleasures, and Bryan recounts a neighbor's on-the-nose costume party. Erin tells us about Olivia Dreizen Howell's viral tweet answering the question "Can my husband find out w…
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Reproductive and LGBTQ Rights on Your Ballots, Sunset Blvd. and LA Workout Classes
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1:19:22Bryan's back from New York where he witnessed Nicole Scherzinger's star turn in Sunset Blvd. on Broadway. Erin is back in LA and describes the generational gap between herself and the others in her workout class. Erin covers the reproductive rights propositions and ballot measures up for a vote in Florida, Maryland, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nev…
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Grindr AI, Texas Supreme Court, It's Just Lunch, and C3P0
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58:59We open this week with a discussion about the matchmaking service It's Just Lunch and, following the news of Elon's upcoming Optimus humanoid army, why we'd rather have a twinkish C3PO-style robot. Bryan tells us about Grindr's newest AI "wingman" development to help users improve interactions on the app, suggest conversation starters, and even mak…
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Judge Robert McBurney, Gage Klipper, Dog Psychic and MyWay
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57:34Bryan is starting his own private insurance company (with many prerequisites before joining), and Erin shares details about her recent pet psychic call, and a neighbor who brings horses over to eat grass and a dog food eating child. Erin discusses Judge Robert McBurney who struck down the Georgia's six week abortion ban under HB 481, and Bryan is c…
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San Diego vs. LA, Rebecca Reynolds, Plus Guest Co-Host Drew Droege!
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1:04:27This week Erin is joined by star of stage and screen Drew Droege, who is currently starring in Dracula, A Comedy of Terrors at The Old Globe in San Diego! We discuss the differences in San Diego and LA culture, make modern movie references to Backdraft and Terminator, and figure out who the hell Hailey Bieber is. Plus, Erin discusses the $1.5 milli…
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Amber Nicole Thurman, HRC Election Poll, Dutch Test, Derm Talk
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1:00:26Erin's doctor is having her take a 30 day Dutch Test, and Bryan's neck skin is turning red from an Instagram dermatologist's product recommendations. Erin takes us through the horrific events and GOP decisions in Georgia that led up to Amber Nicole Thurman's preventable death. Bryan shares details of the recent HRC poll which shows how many LGBTQ+ …
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Sarah McBride, Missouri's Amendment 3, The Perfect Couple, Jelly Roll
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56:02This week Bryan's fresh from visiting Texas and watching The Perfect Couple with his mom. We also discuss the Emmys and Jelly Roll's face tattoos. Bryan introduces us to Sarah McBride, the history-making legislator from Delaware who is on track to be the first openly trans person in Congress. Erin shares details about Missouri's Amendment 3 to ensh…
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We couldn't record a regular episode this week, but have put together another compilation of some of the best bits from the Vault for you to enjoy! In this ep you get the story of how Erin and Bryan met, Erin's German Date who made her eat charcuterie while watching Girls Gone Wild, plus interviews with Guy Branum and Jeffery Self! Check out Erin's…
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Ford Abandons Support for LGBTQ+ Employees, Dearica Hamby, Pig Pencil Case and The Jellicle Ball
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58:20Bryan is back from seeing the incredible Jellicle Ball revival of CATS in New York which somehow takes the original concept of wibble wormble and jingle jangle, but has it make sense. Erin buys a pencil case that is pig in the front and party in the back. Bryan discusses Ford Motor Company's abandoning of the HRC Corporate Equality Index essentiall…
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Sall Grover, Robby Starbuck Strikes Again, Steak Dabney Coleman and The Pleasant Peasant
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56:46This week's Columbo guest star Dabney Coleman spawns a discussion of fine dining and celebrity-inspired dishes at Dan Tana's in LA. Erin takes us through the lawsuit between Australia-based company Giggle (created by TERF Sall Grover) and trans woman Roxanne Tickle who was manually kicked off the app. Bryan tells us how Robby Starbucks now has his …
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Ep 666 - DoxyPEP, Allie Beth Stuckey, Cold Brew and Turo Life Hacks
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1:00:56This episode is the devil's number!!! This week Bryan and Erin share important life hacks (going to the grocery store, car rentals). Bryan gives us the rundown on DoxyPEP, which is one of the most significant medical advancements in STI prevention in decades. Erin rips into conservative podcaster Allie Beth Stuckey's "Relatable" Christian perspecti…
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Gendered Ageism in the Workplace, Utah Book Bans, Tim Walz's Hotdish, Free Willy
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1:01:31This week Erin has the FLiRT and is converting Fahrenheit to Celsius. Bryan reminisces about the 90s while reading through the Free Willy wikipedia page. Plus, we give you Tim Walz's award-winning Turkey Trot Tater Tot Hotdish recipe! Erin shares the details of a Harvard Business Review study about age bias among women in the workplace. Bryan cover…
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Moving to San Diego? AVOID These Neighborhoods!
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12:36In this PODCAST, we explore the seven major regions of San Diego County, each offering unique living experiences. From the upscale, oceanfront communities of the Central Coast, with its lively attractions and high median home prices, to the more suburban and family-friendly North Coast and North Inland regions, you'll find a range of housing option…
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Valentina Gomez's Gay Brother, Imane Khelif, George Michaels' Lasagna and Consumer Reports
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1:02:50Erin has been released from the Saw basement so Bryan gives her his review of Longlegs, presents George Michael's long-lost Lasagna Recipe, plus some tips from old issues of Consumer Reports. Bryan briefs us on Valentina Gomez's gay brother who was fired from his position at the Mayor's office in Jersey City for refusing to denounce her horrific ca…
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We’re taking this week off, so enjoy a best-of-the-Vault compilation! It has phone calls to Jan Brewer, Victoria Jackson, Swedish Guy Time at Ikea, Tales from the Madonna Inn and more! For additional hours of bonus content visit www.patreon.com/attitudes Join us on Discord for episode discussions and Wednesday Night Watch Parties! https://discord.g…
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San Diego Real Estate Market is FINALLY Shifting...
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6:08In this podcast, I cover the latest trends and insights in the San Diego real estate market! Is now the perfect time to buy, or should you wait? Join me as I delve into mortgage rates, new pending sales, and housing supply dynamics and everything else San Diego housing related. With a slight dip in mortgage rates, we're seeing an uptick in home sal…
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Project 2025, John Deere Backtracks, Kamala and Embarassing Crushes
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52:09After a historic weekend Bryan is back in LA signing autographs on the way home from the airport, and Erin is filling in her eyebrows as we discuss the change in the presidential ticket and the embarassing crushes of our youth. Bryan discusses John Deere backtracking on their diversity and inclusion campaigns after Robby Starbucks' "attack on woke …
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Toxic Metals in Tampons, Robby Starbuck, Island Artists and Overalls
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44:52We start this week trying to convince Bryan he's not too old to wear overalls. Erin describes what kind of art she discovered on Salt Spring Island. Bryan tells us about Robby Starbuck's complaints about John Deere and Tractor Supply's participation in Pride Month and their diversity and inclusion initiatives. Erin tells us exactly what toxic metal…
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Valentina Gomez, Women Trail Running, Ginger Snaps and The Littlest Hobo
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47:36Bryan is sweating through his wool panties in NYC, Erin's back from paddle boarding and kayaking in Vancouver, and we dive into fantastic Canadian film and television classics like Ginger Snaps and The Littlest Hobo. Bryan does a deep dive on Valentina Gomez, the Missouri Republican running for Secretary of State. Erin discusses the recently publis…
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In today's intro Erin is white water river rafting for Canada Day and Bryan's celebrating the 4th in NYC with his coffee colostomy bag. No new episode for today, but we're releasing one of our favorite Datelines from behind the paywall! We hope you enjoy the brand shoutouts and this introduction to the Christian rock band Skillet. Dateline Season 3…
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Pornhub Searches, Tina Smith, Justin Timberlake and The Good Doctor
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50:29Come to Umami mommy as Erin is under lock and key by Jigsaw, and we learn the difference between epsom salts and regular salts. Bryan takes us on a journey through Pornhub's relative searches by state and we discuss what "vintage cowboys" and "hard pigs" might be. Plus, Erin tells us about Minnesota Senator Tina Smith's plan to repeal the Comstock …
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Seven Mountain Mandate, Frociaggine, APC and Canadian Phrases
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55:50This week the mere mention of APC triggers Bryan's memory of having to buy a reusable bag at their store in London. Erin "sends it" and teaches us some Canadian phrases. Bryan talks about the Pope's use of some homophobic slurs. Erin tells us about the Southern Baptist Convention voting against IVF and the Seven Mountain Mandate which dictates how …
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