You're Never The Only One is weekly chat-show hosted by Cat Sims & Emma Nicolet. Here to make you see that You're Never The Only One, it's a cross between a coffee with your mate, a fairly average stand up comedy show & a drunken conversation with a stranger in the loo. WARNING: Significant audience participation. Cat Sims is an author and content creator and can be found at @notsosmugnow on Instagram & TikTok Emma Nicolet is a radio host and content creator and can be found at @emma_nicolet ...
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We Listen + We Don't Judge...You're Never The Only One
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49:00Welcome to the last episode in Season 2 ofYou're Never The Only One. We are gutted to be bringing it to a close but we want to come back bigger and better for Season 3. As it's the last episode we wanted to make YOU guys the main event so we are sharing your biggest and baddest confessions and, in the style of the social media trend,we listen and w…
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Vasectomies + Sex Cycles...You're Never The Only One
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1:00:56In the penultimate episode of Season 2, Cat and Emma get into the complicated issues surrounding vasectomies and why men are so reluctant to get them. Emma also discusses the Affection vs Sex vicious cycle and what it's like when you get jizz in your eye. As ever we love to hear from YOU - our amazing listeners. If you've got any stories about vase…
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Mum Bullies + Doing Too Much For Your Kids ... You're Never The Only One
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1:17:28Welcome back! You’re Never The Only One rolls on through January—yes, it’s still January—with the frenetic energy of two women attempting to juggle the gym, ditch the biscuits, and squeeze ‘new year, new me’ goals onto an already overloaded plate. This week, Cat takes on the world of mum bullies—because yes, they exist, and yes, they can be serious…
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Baby Brain + Pretty Privilege...You're Never The Only One
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1:00:03We’re back! You’re Never The Only One hits 2025 with all the energy of a couple of women in their forties, managing the peri-menopause, two children and a mental load the size of a small island, can muster. Which, surprisingly is quite a lot. This week Cat discusses the very real thing that is baby brain - she shares her own stories of post-natal d…
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BONUS: Emma reflects on going make-up free
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11:39This week we are sharing a bonus episode that we recorded a few weeks after our 'make up free episode'. Cat talks to Emma in depth about her feelings around going make up free on camera and whether it's affected the way she thinks about make up and her own self-image going forward. As ever, we would love to hear what you think. Drop a comment below…
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Man Keeping + Addiction....You're Never the Only One
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58:33Warning: This episode contains discussions around alcohol and drug abuse and addiction more generally. Cat and Emma are back, doing all they can to bring a little sunshine to your January. This week, Emma discusses all things ‘man keeping’. Do you feel like you’re the only one who your male partner can talk to about his feelings? Are men experienci…
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Time Blindness and Embarrassing Sex Moments...You're Never The Only ONe
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1:01:35Happy New Year! If you're struggling a little bit today after the New Year festivities, we can guarantee that listening to this episode will make you feel better. Emma discusses all things time blindness - is it real or is she just disrespectful? - and Cat collates some of the funniest listener stories ever to grace the You're Never The Only One Wh…
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The (Late) Christmas Day Special...You're Never The Only One
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43:31Welcome to the Christmas Day episode of You’re Never The Only One. Yes, we know it’s late and we can only blame the dodgy wifi in the deepest, darkest depths of Devon for that but as they say, better late than never! We deep dive into the worst Christmas gifts of all time and discuss all things festive f*ckery. As ever, we’d love to hear from you. …
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Nipple Hairs + Farts on the Red Carpet? You're Never The Only One
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1:04:03In this episode of You’re Never The Only One, Cat and Emma get festive. Emma rates Cat’s hospitality as if she didn’t just get a room in London for free and Cat gets excited about her new microwave. As ever they deep-dive into the topics of their own choice - family estrangement and feeling invisible after 40. Also, you heard it here first…but the …
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Bare-Faced-Fear + Shit With Money? You're Never The Only One
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1:03:13Episode 4 of You’re Never The Only One is the most emotional one yet. Inspired by Pamela Anderson and Drew Barrymore, we decided to do this one make-up free. For Cat, it was a bit uncomfortable but for Emma it was borderline traumatic. This episode dives into her feelings behind the dread of being seen without her make-up and yes…there are tears. C…
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Hate Thelma & Louise and Christmas Jammies? You're Never The Only One
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52:35In this episode of You’re Never The Only One, Cat and Emma get controversial. Cat thinks that Thelma & Louise is the worst film in the world and Emma gets grumpy about people who take pictures of their kids with vegetables (it’ll make sense when you listen to it), Christmas pyjamas and Boo-Boxes. They may not get you on side with all their idea, bu…
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Body Wobbles & Low Sex Drives? You're Never The Only One
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59:40In episode two of You’re Never The Only One, Emma and I deep dive into body confidence and discuss how honest we’re all being when it comes to the relationship with our bodies. Are we, as a generation, just too broken by social expectations and too old to overcome them? We also discuss how much sex every one is having and how much sex we think ever…
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You're Never The Only One Who...feels like a lazy, sell-out
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52:12Welcome to the brand new season of You’re Never The Only One hosted by me, Cat Sims and the wonderful Emma Nicolet. In episode one we discuss the saga of secondary school admissions, what happens when you upset the other school mums, why we seem to always confuse laziness and rest and whether or not Emma and I are sell-outs. We are also looking for…
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In this final episode of Season 1 Cat compiles tales of the very worst gifts people have received. She shares your emails, stories from the streets of London and anecdotes from her own friends. She also takes a moment to express her opinion on that Harry & Meghan documentary and shouts out all the parents out there who are shouldering the weight of…
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In this episode Cat shares hilarious stories from listeners about the times their kids shouted obscenities in public and WARNING: the c-word features heavily. Cat also discusses the best contraceptive known to humankind, if anyone were ever to talk openly about it, and that is the ninth circle of hell that is swimming lessons. Finally, Cat gets pol…
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You're All Petty Bitches + Tories That I Hate
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47:11In this episode Cat recognises what an ungrateful so-and-so she is when she discusses how her and Jimmy transition when he gets back from touring. There was no way she wasn't going to chat about Matt Hancock heading into the jungle, Gavin Williamson and his annoying voice that he's been using to bully people and Elon Musk buying Twitter. She also s…
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The Things Kids Say & My Half Term Sh*tshow
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51:25In this episode Cat shares the things kids say to other adults that leave us reeling in embarrassment and tells us about the time she had to explain to her kids' headteacher that she wasn't on Only Fans (yet!). There's deep discussions on failure and how to stop it paralysing us by learning to reframe it - inspired by Dr. Julie Smith's wonderful bo…
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The Kid That Won't Get Dressed & 62 Symptoms
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44:28In this episode Cat shares stories from two listeners who deliver stories that will all make us feel seen as parents. She introduces the relatability klaxon and calls on listeners to send high fives, compassion and advice to parents on the edge for different reasons. Cat also discusses the 62 symptoms of menopause, her controversial take on Hallowe…
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Noise Cancelling the World & The Guilt Discrepancy
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41:30In this episode Cat shares stories from a reader caught with her knickers down on a train and shares her own humiliating experience with her midwife. Plus, Cat admits she's addicted to noise cancelling the world, discusses why women are obsessed with True Crime and asks the question, 'Are women guilty of feeling too guilty or do men not feel guilty…
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In this episode Cat shares hilarious stories from two listeners who got themselves into a pickle with sexy texting and empty threats. She explains why sexting didn't happen in her day - the days of playing snake on a Nokia - and when her decision to follow through on a threat backfired spectacularly. Also, she spills the beans on what was going on …
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Someone Steals a Granny & I Save The World
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35:02In this week's episode a reader shares her particular brand of fuckup on the petrol station forecourt and Cat offers some heartfelt (and brutally honest) advice to a reader struggling with the relationship to her own parents. Cat also manages to save the planet so you really don't want to sleep on this one....... To get new episodes as soon as they…
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Introducing You're Never The Only One with Cat Sims
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4:36Welcome to the real life experiences of me, a 41-year old woman with far more responsibility (and anxiety) than I can handle and 1,445 unread emails in my inbox. Every Monday I'll share my everyday fails, flaws and ,where applicable, my wins too. If you need a friendly reminder that, no matter your particular brand of shitshow, You Are Never The On…
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