"Be curious, not judgemental." – Walt Whitman Sitting down with professionals who are open and honest, giving advice and talking frankly about the challenges faced by victims and survivors of domestic abuse and post-separation abuse. This podcast opens up the discussion and turns it into a conversation. From Cyber Stalking to Domestic Homicide, Lucy leaves no stone unturned. No intimidation…..just conversation! DIP in and out with Lucy Intro and Outro Music Song ➡ Look At Me Words & Music by ...
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Season 5 Episode 9 - Dr Aysha Ahmed, Founder & Director of Aasha Consulting and so much more...
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46:46Dr Aysha has so many roles, I couldn't fit them all in the title! She is Founder & Director, Aasha Consulting, Independent Researcher, UN Women UK, CSW68 & 6, GlobalG100 Panelist, Trainer, Specialist, Domestic Violence & Minority Communities, Researcher at SOAS and Visiting Lecturer. I have waited so long for this conversation! When I started DIP i…
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Season 5 Episode 8 - Ann Lorraine Marshall Author of "What Type Of Man?"
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55:34I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with the wonderful Ann, who shared her own story of abuse. Do we ever stop to consider what domestic abuse looks like and feels like for those living outside the U.K. Well, here's your chance to find out.....Thank you Ann!Intro and Outro Music:Look At Me Words & Music by P.J. DentonPerformed by - Elrose…
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Season 5 Episode 7 - Sandra Reddish, Domestic Abuse author & blogger
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39:43Sandra and I share a passion - we both know the importance of speaking out about the challenges and impact post-separation abuse has on individuals. "Just knowing you're not imagining this, that it's a thing and these are common patterns of behaviour......" Intro and Outro Music: Look At Me Words & Music by P.J. Denton Performed by - Elrose…
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Season 5 Episode 6 - Paul Maskall Behavioural Lead at UK Finance and Professional Speaker
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1:13:47Paul Maskall Strategic Fraud Prevention and Behavioural Lead at UK Finance and Professional Speaker. You may think this seems like an odd pairing for a conversation around domestic abuse....but take a listen and you'll see why this is a conversation you need to hear! Intro and Outro Music: Look At Me Words & Music by P.J. Denton Performed by - Elro…
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Season 5 Episode 5 - Paula Hollstein Barría Demystifying the archetypal victim
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39:17I was so fortunate to sit down with the wonderful Paula Hollstein Barría. She has a phD in law from the University of Warwick and to say that her research is fascinating would be an understatement. This is an episode not to be missed! Intro and Outro Music: Look At Me Words & Music by P.J. Denton Performed by - Elrose…
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Season 5 Episode 4 - Jared Whitaker an open and honest discussion around DA
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39:35Jared is an author who write books around domestic abuse and narcissism. He is an avid campaigner trying to raise awareness around domestic abuse against men, and fight for equality for men and women with regards to these topics.Intro and Outro Music:Look At Me Words & Music by P.J. DentonPerformed by - Elrose…
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Season 5 Episode 3 - Mark Woodland talks Solution Focus Brief Therapy
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1:34:43In this episode I chat to Mark who - among many other things, has 20 years experience in Occupational Welfare. Want to know more about Solution Focus Brief Therapy? Then take a look/have a listen to this episode. Thank you Mark! Intro and Outro Music: Look At Me Words & Music by P.J. Denton Performed by - Elrose…
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Season 5 Episode 2 - Sharon Jackson Founder of SHIELD Derby
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50:05Founder of SHIELD Derby | Safeguarding & Child Protection Specialist | Lived Experience | Trainer | Consultant | Public Speaker | Independent Supervisor | Independent Practice Educator | ASYE Assessor | Guest Lecturer. I was completely blown away by this episode with Sharon. She is the founder and owner of SHIELD Derby, she is also a Safeguarding a…
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Season 5 Episode 1 - Nick Inge from ITrust
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44:26iTrust was formed to allow the voices of those with knowledge of wrongdoing to be heard in a safe, anonymous environment. In this episode, Nick and I talk about the importance of speaking up! Thank you Nick for joining me in this episode! Intro and Outro Music: Look At Me Words & Music by P.J. Denton Performed by - Elrose…
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Season 4 Episode 7 - Sam Billingham, Survivor turned Advocate!
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36:49Sam is one of the most inspiring people I have ever had the good fortune to meet! She is a domestic abuse survivor turned advocate raising awareness of coercive control, domestic abuse and its impact. Lived experience speaker, founder of Stronger Beginnings to break the silence & empower survivors. Sam shares with me the journey she has been on sin…
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Season 4 Episode 6 - "Let the Secret Go." Linda Kirk, Founder/Director for the Just for Women Centre
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41:06I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with the wonderful, Linda Kirk! Linda is Founder/Director for the Just for Women Centre, she's a member of the International Society of Female Professionals - 2018 Member of Worldwide Women's Association - 2019.The work that Linda does in supporting women in her local area is inspiring. And the conversati…
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Season 4 Episode 5 - Rie Pearson, Author of Be Kind. No Excuses
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1:04:49I had the pleasure of sitting down with the fabulous Rie Pearson. Rie is a retired police officer who has written a thought provoking guide to help teenage girls recognise abusive behaviours in intimate relationships. It's a brilliant episode with the odd dash of colourful language thrown in! Intro and Outro Music:Look At Me Words & Music by P.J. D…
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Season 4 Episode 4 - Vanessa White Divorce and Relationship Coach
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46:44I had the pleasure of sitting down with Vanessa White who is an accredited Divorce and Relationship Coach. One of the most important topics we discussed, for me, was around victims and survivors having compassion for themselves. And that we as a society, should also show compassion to those who have experienced domestic abuse. So much blame and sha…
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Season 4 Episode 3 - "You've got a friend in me" with Sarie Taylor, Founder of Worldwide Well-Being
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41:42Sarie is a trained psychotherapist and coach who works with so many people to help them reduce their anxiety in order to live a life they deserve. Sarie and I cover so many topics including anxiety, domestic abuse and the difficulties for those friends who want to help and support someone experiencing domestic abuse but are not sure what the best a…
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Season 4 Episode 2 - Ruth Dodsworth broadcaster, journalist and weather presenter shares her story..
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42:46I had the privilege of sitting down with Ruth to discuss her story which hit the headlines in 2021. Ruth talks about the abuse she experienced during her marriage and so much more...."So many support networks are available and there is no deadline. I almost need the support more now than I did in the very, very beginning."Thank you Ruth for recordi…
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Season 4 Episode 1 - Vickie Deeks, Founder of Sound Training Solutions
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39:28In this episode I sit down with the incredible Vickie Deeks. Back in the days of lockdown, Vickie delivered a session to her teacher colleagues on hearing loss and all the challenges and obstacles that, that entails. Out of this Sound Training Solutions was born! Vickie is one of the most remarkable people I have ever met. Her hearing loss was the …
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Season 3 Episode 7 - Maya Badham, Safeguarding Animal & Human Survivors of Sexual and Domestic Abuse
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40:01Maya is the founder of (SAHSDA) which stands for Safeguarding Animal & Human Survivors of Sexual and Domestic Abuse: www.sahsda.org SAHSDA is an international guest speaking, training, research and consultancy organisation working to raise awareness of the use of companion animals as a tactic of coercive control as well as animal sexual abuse (zoop…
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Season 3 Episode 6 - Nick Gazzard, founder of the Hollie Gazzard Trust and the Hollie Guard App
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32:09Hollie Gazzard was murdered by her former partner, in February 2014. Her father, Nick Gazzard felt strongly that something positive should come out of Hollie’s death and so created the Hollie Gazzard Trust and The Hollie Guard App. The App is a next generation smartphone app that provides enhanced levels of protection. In this episode, Nick and I t…
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Season 3 Episode 5 - with the Author of Little-Mouse Finds a Safe Place, Ann Dix
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48:37Little-Mouse Finds a Safe Place is a children's storybook designed to help professionals support children who have experienced and witnessed domestic violence and abuse, and also contains guidelines on the key issues and how to use the story with individuals and groups. I was so fortunate to talk to Ann in the latest episode of DIP in and out with …
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Season 3 Episode 4 (Part 2) The Family Court with Richard Port MBE
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47:26*This episode was originally, Season 3 episode 3* Navigating the Family Court System can be one of the most difficult and worrying times for victims and survivors of domestic abuse. In this two part episode, I sit down with the incredible Richard Port MBE to discuss the Family Court and all that it entails! This two part episode gives hope and a li…
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Season 3 Episode 4 (Part 1) The Family Court with Richard Port MBE
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44:06*This episode was originally, Season 3 episode 3* Navigating the Family Court System can be one of the most difficult and worrying times for victims and survivors of domestic abuse. In this two part episode, I sit down with the incredible Richard Port MBE to discuss the Family Court and all that it entails! This two part episode gives hope and a li…
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Season 3 Episode 3 with Sue Atkins talking Children, Divorce & Domestic Abuse
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38:40"There's no one size fits all, all these small things that you might listen to here today might just guide you on another little path, add it to your toolkit and over time you might change situations, and your mindset and your thinking, perhaps." Join me and Sue while we navigate the complex world of divorce and children. Add domestic abuse to the …
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Season 3 Episode 2 - Life begins at the end of your comfort zone
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43:33This episode is one the you weren't expecting - but it's a MUST watch. Alec shares his experiences around his mental health and how he turned his fears into the most magnificent gift anyone could receive. This episode is not about domestic abuse. But it does show how whatever the difficult situations we can find ourselves in, there is one thing tha…
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Season 3 Episode 1 "It's about becoming the most YOU version of you." Anna Knight
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50:07I cannot begin to explain how much I admire and respect Anna's philosophy on life. AND her Audacious And! Anna coaches cycle-breakers and change-makers, she's a trauma-informed coach for activists, survivors and supporters who want to create real change AND live a liberated and joyful life. This episode will resonate with so many of you - enjoy! Lo…
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DIP in and Out with Lucy Season 2 Episode 7 - Domestic Abuse and Divorce
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38:57Getting divorced is a tense time for most people. Add domestic abuse and dealing with finances to the divorce and believe me, you need to listen to this podcast! Thank you to the amazingly talented Tamsin Caine for joining me. It was a privilege to record an episode with you! Podcast Intro and Outro Music: Look At Me Words & Music by P.J. Denton Pe…
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DIP in and out with Lucy Season 2 Episode 6 - Children and Young People. Will we ever learn?
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42:22We all worry about our children at the best of times. So when we think of children and young people who have been impacted by domestic abuse, can we even comprehend the challenges they face? In this episode, I sit down with Sam Hallam, Education Mental Health Practitioner to discuss those challenges and learn more about how we can support children …
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DIP in and out with Lucy Season 2 Episode 5 - From Recognition to your Right to Happiness!
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52:27Join me and Caron Kipping, Divorce and Separation Coach while we discuss the importance of recognising the various elements of domestic abuse and how you can live the life you deserve. And much more!By DIP in and out with Lucy
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DIP in and out with Lucy Season 2 Episode 4 - Alcohol and Drug Dependency
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53:26Here, I talk to the wonderful Monika Labich, Alcohol Dependency Specialist and Counsellor about drug and alcohol dependency and some of the similarities in how we view domestic abuse.By DIP in and out with Lucy
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DIP in and out with Lucy Season 2 Episode 3 - Domestic Homicide, assessing risk factors and more!
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1:05:23Tony Blockley is Professor of policing at Leeds Trinity University, and is responsible for the leadership of School of Criminology, Investigation and Policing.He is involved in research projects including the evaluation of risk in domestic violence. A former senior police officer and Head of Crime; nationally accredited Senior Investigator focused …
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DIP in and out with Lucy Season 2 Episode 2 - System Threat!
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53:30A profound DIP in and out with Lucy talking about domestic abuse with the exceedingly eloquent, Alice Smith!By DIP in and out with Lucy
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Season 2 Episode 1 - Tracy Bradford Senior Lecturer in Policing
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1:11:33Tracy worked for many years as a police officer. She is now a senior lecturer in Policing at the University of Derby. Her insights into the issues that surround domestic abuse are invaluable. And she is helping to shape the police officers of tomorrow!By DIP in and out with Lucy
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Season 1 Episode 7 - Cyber Stalking and The Cyber Helpline
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27:32When we think of Domestic Abuse and Stalking, we tend to think of this as something that occurs in person. But due to an increase in our use of online technology, cyber stalking is also on the rise. In the latest episode of DIP in and out with Lucy, I chatted to Charlotte Hooper, Helpline Manager & USA Pilot Lead at The Cyber Helpline, Cybercrime a…
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Season 1 Episode 6 - Telling it like it is
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1:09:06This is such an important conversation with Rachael, sharing her own experience of domestic abuse. Thank you Rachael for sitting down with me and sharing such a powerful story. And thank you for your valuable insights along the way.By DIP in and out with Lucy
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Season 1 Episode 5 - Financial Abuse and Economic Abuse
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31:35A fantastic DIP in and out with Lucy podcast with the wonderful Rosie Lyon, Vulnerability and Financial Abuse Specialist. From financial and economic abuse to what banks can do to support victims and survivors. And much more!By DIP in and out with Lucy
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Season 1 Episode 4 - Mark Brooks OBE ManKind Initiative
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47:35Male victims and survivors of domestic abuse are often overlooked. I had the pleasure of sitting down with Mark Brooks OBE to talk about male victims and survivors of domestic abuse. The more we open up the discussion around domestic abuse, the more chance we stand of victims and survivors accessing the help and support they so vitally need!…
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Season 1 Episode 3 - Carrie Bower, Age UK National
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45:50What an absolute pleasure is was to sit down with Carrie Bower, VictimFocus Accredited Trainer, Domestic Abuse Lead & Safeguarding Manager at Age UK National and Trustee at Age UK Cheshire to talk about domestic abuse and older people. This is a subject that is not discussed nearly enough! Validating the experience of an older person who has been i…
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Season 1 Episode 2 - A discussion around Unpaid Carers
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29:20I was fortunate enough to sit down with the amazing Amanda Warburton-Wynn. Amanda is a domestic abuse & sexual violence specialist in older people learning & physical disability.By DIP in and out with Lucy
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Season 1 Episode 1 - Can you have your cake and eat it?
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31:08Who says you can't talk about domestic abuse and cake in the same sentence! You can have your cake and eat it! I had the privilege of sitting down with the incredible Sam Fisher, CEO at TDAS (Trafford Domestic Abuse Services) Talking about domestic abuse can be very difficult, but it doesn't have to be...…
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