Best Desire Discrepancy Podcasts (2025)

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The PGspot: Self-Love Season: Celebrating Masturbation May 18:43

1d ago18:43

18:43

In this special Masturbation May episode, we journey through the rich (and often misunderstood) history of self-pleasure. From historical attitudes toward erotic autonomy to the invention of the first vibrator, we explore how solo sex has evolved - and how it's been shaped by science, stigma, and shifting societal norms. We'll examine the lasting i…

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Ep. 44 Unmarried, Satisfied & LOVING IT 1:18:50

9d ago1:18:50

1:18:50

On this episode of Sex Talk With Khrys, we’re breaking down the myth that marriage is the only path to satisfaction. Our guest is single, sexually liberated, emotionally whole, and deeply fulfilled—without a ring in sight! We talk: • Reclaiming your body and pleasure on your own terms • Emotional peace vs. relationship pressure • Dating for fun, no…

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The PGspot - The Pleasure Alphabet: It's Not Just About the "G" 19:47

12d ago19:47

19:47

For most vulva owners, sexual pleasure isn't just about penis in vagina sex. In this episode, we will discuss the multitude of erogenous zones and how they were discovered. So, whether you’re looking to level up your solo game, spark new things with a partner, or just get to know your body better, it’s time to unlock the whole pleasure spectrum -on…

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The PGspot - Personal Introduction 19:24

12d ago19:24

19:24

In this episode, I would like to introduce myself and explain how I got where I am in both my career and my journey in sexual health. Join me as I discuss my background, experience and what inspired me to specialize in female sexual dysfunction. I would love to hear your feedback about today's episode, as well as any questions or topics that you wo…

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Ep. 43 Unapologetically Him: A Deep Dive Into Gay Male Sexuality 1:13:48

16d ago1:13:48

1:13:48

In this candid and unfiltered episode of Sex Talk with Khrys, we sit down with a proud gay man who takes us on a raw and intimate journey through his sexuality. From early awakenings to navigating desire, pleasure, shame, and freedom—no topic was off limits. We unpack stereotypes, celebrate liberation, and explore what it means to truly own your er…

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Ep. 42 Healed and Ready 54:26

23d ago54:26

54:26

In “Healed and Ready,” we dive into the vibrant journey of life after divorce for women in their 30s. This empowering episode explores how shedding the weight of an old relationship can spark a personal rebirth – from rediscovering your sensual self to rebuilding unshakable self-worth. You’re not alone in this transformation: nearly 70% of divorces…

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Ep. 41: From Order my Shots to Order my Steps... 1:21:23

30d ago1:21:23

1:21:23

In this raw, reflective, and real conversation, Khrys sits down with the vibrant and unapologetic Isoke—whose journey has taken her from the wild nights of “order my shots” to the deeply intentional path of “order my steps.” We dive into her transformation from living for the moment to living with purpose, pleasure, and power. Isoke opens up about …

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Ep. 40: Postpartum and Still Drippin 59:57

1M ago59:57

59:57

Postpartum is still dripping… Let’s be real—postpartum isn’t just about bouncing back. It’s the leaking, the losing yourself, the silent cries in the shower, and trying to find the woman you were before your body, your mind, and your life changed forever. In this episode, we get into the thick of it with one woman’s raw, unfiltered postpartum journ…

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Welcome to the PGspot 1:47

1M ago1:47

1:47

I would love to hear your feedback about today's episode, as well as any questions or topics that you would like addressed in future episodes. Although "Fanmail" doesn't allow for me to respond back directly, I am happy to address any questions in upcoming episodes. Thank you for listening and taking the time to message The PGspot through Fanmail! …

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Ep. 39: Under the Sheets with Two Sex Coaches: What We Wish Everyone Knew 1:15:29

2M ago1:15:29

1:15:29

In this raw and revealing episode, two powerhouse sex coaches crawl under the sheets — not just with each other, but with you, the listener — to share the truths we wish everyone knew about sex, intimacy, desire, and real connection. Join Sex Coach Aspen and Khrystal Jones as they break down: • What keeps people stuck in unsatisfying sex lives • Wh…

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Ep. 38: Beyond the Orgasm 24:25

2M ago24:25

24:25

Hey, sexy souls! Welcome back to Sex Talk with Khrys, where we dive deep into all things pleasure, intimacy, and connection. Today, we’re exploring something that can completely transform your sex life—mindful sex. This is about slowing down, being fully present, and experiencing pleasure beyond just chasing the orgasm. If you’ve ever felt disconne…

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Ep. 37: From Not Tonight To I Can’t Wait…Desire Discrepancy and What The Hell To Do 39:15

2M ago39:15

39:15

Desire discrepancy is one of the most common challenges in relationships. It happens when one partner has a higher or lower sex drive than the other, leading to frustration, miscommunication, and emotional distance. Sexual desire isn’t static—it changes based on life phases and relationship shifts. • Instead of seeing it as a “problem,” view it as …

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Ep. 36: Sex, Scars & Shocking Truths: A Man’s Story 54:32

2M ago54:32

54:32

In this raw and unfiltered episode of Sexx Talk With Khrys, I sit down with Todd Windham as he lays it all out—the scars, the lessons, and the wild truths of his post-divorce journey. From heartbreak to healing, from redefining manhood to navigating the dating world, Todd gets real about what most men won’t say out loud. We dive into: The emotional…

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Ep. 35: Pleasure Power: How to Speak Up & Get What You Need 24:49

3M ago24:49

24:49

Are you truly getting the pleasure you deserve in the bedroom? In this episode of Sex Talk With Khrys, we’re diving deep into the power of advocating for your pleasure and communicating your needs with confidence. I break down: Why speaking up about what you like (and don’t like) is essential for a satisfying sex life How to express your desires wi…

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Ep. 34: The Unspoken Gospel: Women, Desire, and the Lessons We Were Denied 30:34

3M ago30:34

30:34

In this episode of, Sex Talk with Khrys, we dive deep into the ways religious teachings—especially in the Seventh-day Adventist Church—have shaped women’s understanding of pleasure, desire, and personal empowerment. From the silence around women’s sexual fulfillment to the lack of education on pleasure and desire, we explore the unintended conseque…

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Ep 33: F*ck the Limits: Living Your Best Sexual Life 23:20

3M ago23:20

23:20

In this episode of Sex Talk With Khrys, we’re diving deep into a powerful truth: your sexuality is YOURS, and no one else’s limited thinking or outdated rules should dictate how you experience pleasure. Too often, we allow societal norms, cultural expectations, or other people’s opinions to hold us back from fully embracing our desires. Well, it’s …

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Now what? Sexual desire discrepancy paths forward 32:14

5M ago32:14

32:14

Dr. Hughes tells the listener the two most vital things related to sexuality for the higher desire partner. The first is that their soul is in separately sexual. The second is an action step of being present so that the higher desire partner‘s soul feels accepted, valued, desired, cared for,and seen. Dr. Hughes provides the insight to the question …

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The Sexual Playground for Issues of Sexual Desire Discrepancy 26:36

6M ago26:36

26:36

This episode creates the understanding, language, and “way out” for couples stuck in issues of sexual desire discrepancy. Dr. Hughes is the first to put forward clear and concrete words, understanding, and ways to move forward for couples plagued by these discrepancies. Dr. Hughes has created a sexual playground analogy that enables couples to do t…

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Ep 32: Fantasies on Halloween 34:22

7M ago34:22

34:22

Fantasies are a natural and powerful part of human sexuality. However, they’re often misunderstood or stigmatized. On this episode we’ll discuss why fantasizing is essential for a fulfilling sex life, how it can enhance intimacy, and tips for sharing fantasies in a healthy, positive way.

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Somatic in Session 1:09:13

12M ago1:09:13

1:09:13

Our guest today is Kim Bevans LMHC, BC-DMT; Kim is a licensed mental health counselor and a board certified dance movement therapist. She is also an EMDR trained therapist that has been in private practice for over 10 years. Kim enjoys integrating somatic and embodied work into individual, couples, and group counseling. In this episode, Kim not onl…

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Step 3-Working Through Sexual Desire Differences in Marriage 22:25

1y ago22:25

22:25

Dr. Hughes provides the roadmap for couples that are struggling to resolve sexual desire differences in marriage. The high desire spouse is really saying “Come and get to know my soul. My very being. Not my entire soul, but a main part of it.” Couples can get the stars to align when their soul communes with their spouses. Dr. Hughes talks about how…

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Step 2.5-Working Through Sexual Desire Differences in Marriage 25:30

1y ago25:30

25:30

In this episode of Dr. Hughes talks about the impact of sexual neglect and abandonment for the partner that enjoys bonding and connecting through sexual intimacy. Understanding where the partner that has experienced sexual neglect and abandonment is coming from sets the stage for the 3rd and final step that couples must take to resolve their sexual…

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True Warrior Program for Sexual Addiction 15:58

1y ago15:58

15:58

This podcast discusses the process of transformation for people that struggle with sexual addiction or out-of-control sexual behavior, also known as problematic sexual behavior. Dr. Hughes has created a program that is built off of 24 ways to transform and live for those struggling with problematic sexual behavior.…

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Step 2-Working Through Sexual Desire Differences in Marriage 18:58

1+ y ago18:58

18:58

LDS (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints) couples dealing with a sexual desire discrepancy within their relationship are provided the second fundamental change required for these couples to resolve their sexual frequency and quality issue within their marriage. This second fundamental change is “ensuring that bids for connection are wit…

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Step 1-Working Through Sexual Desire Differences in Marriage 26:08

1+ y ago26:08

26:08

The first of three steps for couples struggling with different sexual desires is provided and expounded upon. 1-ensuring each partner differences in sexual desire are accurately seen and respected.

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High Sexual Desire/Low Sexual Desire Problem And Avenues for Change 8:29

1+ y ago8:29

8:29

In this podcast Dr. Hughes talks about the high sexual desire/low sexual desire problem and avenues for change. Most couples fall into the gap of fighting for their spouse to be more like them. This may be the case for some couples where there is an unhealthy relationship with sexuality that gives rise to either a high or low sexual desire, but for…

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4 Low Desire Partner Types 16:27

1+ y ago16:27

16:27

The 4 low desire partner types are discussed. These include Inaccessible/Cold; Accommodating/Disengaged; Misguided/Wanderer; and Engaged/Open types. How the low desire partner and their high desire partner experience this type is also highlighted.

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How to Make a High Desire/Low Desire Marriage Work 21:56

1+ y ago21:56

21:56

The broad overview of what doesn’t work and what does work in high desire/low desire marriages is explained. The listener will be able to see why their high desire type doesn’t work and which one does work. You will quickly see what fundamental characteristics are requisite for a happy sex life for high/low desire marriages…

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4 High Desire Partner Types 27:22

1+ y ago27:22

27:22

Dr. Hughes goes over the 4 different kinds of high desire partners, what high desire partners that aren’t jerks are really looking for, and the impact of rejection.

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All Things Coaching for Therapists 38:07

1+ y ago38:07

38:07

Are you a therapist that's interested in adding coaching to your practice? Maybe you want to make a course, or are you ready to scale up your business and add a passive income stream? Well, this episode is for you! Business coach Carly Hill is my guest, and she shares how she took her practice from 1 to 1 sessions to group coaching and courses. She…

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Sexual Play -Part 2 8:55

1+ y ago8:55

8:55

Dr. Hughes talks about what sexual play is and how vital it is in marriage. It is correlated to being “in love” or “falling out of love”. Sexual play is one of the three indicators of strong romantic loving relationships, along with meaningful time and vulnerability and connection. Part two is brief

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Sexual Play -Part 1 23:31

1+ y ago23:31

23:31

Dr. Hughes talks about what sexual play is and how vital it is in marriage. It is correlated to being “in love” or “falling out of love”. Sexual play is one of the three indicators of strong romantic loving relationships, along with meaningful time and vulnerability and connection. This is part 1. Part two is brief…

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Targeted Marketing for Therapists 26:21

1+ y ago26:21

26:21

In this episode, I provide an in depth discussion of how I target market via social media, including selecting platforms, hashtags, and the best times to post. I also share my unique way of target marketing in the community. It may sound strange, but a hobby of mine is reading about business growth strategies. Ever since I started my practice, I sc…

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Desire Discrepancy in Couples with Sex Therapist Jess 1:06:58

1+ y ago1:06:58

1:06:58

Our guest today is Jessica VerBout, LMFT-S, CST, and she comes to us from Minnesota. Jessica is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Supervisor and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. If you work with couples, this episode is for you! Have you ever worked with a couple that struggles with getting on the same page with sex and intimacy? Maybe one…

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So Much to Say About The Vulva…and Vagina 37:04

2y ago37:04

37:04

Dr. Hughes talks about little known facts and research about the vulva and vagina and what arouses them

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Not Boring Clitoris Research 20:23

2y ago20:23

20:23

Dr. Hughes talks about some new research related to the clitoris. This stuff is exciting and is certain to draw your attention

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Dissociation and Childhood Trauma Part 1 56:36

2y ago56:36

56:36

Today’s guest is Dr. Jessica Endres, Ph.D, and we are talking about dissociation, Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), and childhood trauma. Not only do we discuss DID, but we also look at how dissociation can show up in other diagnoses, such as ADHD, OCD, and even eating disorders. We also take an in depth look at the treatment process, assessmen…

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Dissociation and Childhood Trauma Part 2 46:13

2y ago46:13

46:13

Today’s guest is Dr. Jessica Endres, Ph.D, and we are talking about dissociation, Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), and childhood trauma. Not only do we discuss DID, but we also look at how dissociation can show up in other diagnoses, such as ADHD, OCD, and even eating disorders. We also take an in depth look at the treatment process, assessmen…

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Sexual Transformation 47:41

2y ago47:41

47:41

Dr. Hughes talks about what is required for members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to transform into sexual beings/couples that have healthy sexual relationships. Specific examples of how people transform are provided and related to the sexual journey individuals and couples are on as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Lat…

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The Private Practice Roundtable 59:28

2y ago59:28

59:28

Want to learn the ins and outs of private practice ownership? Maybe you are teetering on the edge of going out on your own and need a little help with decision making. In this episode, five therapists sit down together to discuss private practice ownership. From practice scaling to marketing and side hustles to expanding, we cover it all. Joining u…

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Climate Change and Mental Health 1:04:08

2y ago1:04:08

1:04:08

The Beachfront Therapist welcomes the new owner and host Lisa Savinon! Lisa talks about her fully telehealth private practice and her doctoral studies, also sharing that this podcast will continue to offer NBCC-approved continuing education courses! In this week’s episode, Lauren Hawkins, MA, LPC, NCC is our guest. Lauren talks us through the relat…

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Sexual Goals 17:25

2+ y ago17:25

17:25

In this episode Dr. Hughes talks about how our Soul yearns for improvement in various ways. He goes into some detail concerning tools for achieving these sexual goals. Dr. Hughes also provides information to a group he will be running for female sexual desire issues

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Culture and Assertiveness In the Therapy Space 1:08:06

2+ y ago1:08:06

1:08:06

We know our childhood and family culture play an important role in who we become as adults. Dr. Abby Hamilton, Ph.D, two-time TEDx speaker, Filipino-American industrial/organizational psychologist, and author of Amazon Bestseller Speak Up, Anak, dives deep into the intersection between culture and assertiveness. Dr. Abby helps others find their voi…

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Divorce: How Therapists Can Help 1:04:15

2+ y ago1:04:15

1:04:15

In this episode, we explore divorce and all the things that you did not want to know, according to Colleen Pellegrino. Colleen is a Licensed Clinical Social Worked out of Allentown, PA. Through this show, we give our listeners deeper insight into how therapists can better support clients going through a divorce and maybe even inspire you to create …

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Self-Compassion in Parenthood 1:04:56

2+ y ago1:04:56

1:04:56

If you are a parent (or work with them), you have undoubtedly experienced the challenges of raising little (or big) ones. We've all reacted in ways we wish we hadn't with our kids, then berate ourselves for not measuring up and parenting perfectly. Dr. Carla Naumburg, Ph.D gets it. She has been there AND wants to show us how to go about parenting d…

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Quality Sex 18:08

2+ y ago18:08

18:08

In this episode, Dr. Hughes talks about the quality of sex that satisfied marital partners have. He discusses what the research says about how frequently they have hanging from the chandelier sex or great sex, vs good sex, okay sex, or mediocre/dysfunctional sex.

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Sexual SSTANCE 29:43

2+ y ago29:43

29:43

In this episode Dr. Hughes discussed the work that he is doing with members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He talks about how members develop their relationship with sexuality through a new viewpoint called SSTANCE. SSTANCE explains how we as sons and daughters of God develop sexually.…

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The Millennial Toolbox 1:01:49

2+ y ago1:01:49

1:01:49

Millennials are currently the largest generation in our country as well as more than half of the current workforce, so undoubtedly, you will encounter millennials in your therapy practice. You may even specialize in working with millennials already. Dr. Goali Saedi Bocci is a clinical psychologist and author of the Millennial Media Blog. She began …

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Ep. 31: Sloppy Toppy Timeframes 19:26

2+ y ago19:26

19:26

Oral sex is a very intimate interaction. When is the perfect time to perform this yummy act? On this episode we really break down what that really is and what really takes place. Oral sex is a beautiful thing however it should approaches with knowledge and caution. Happy listening.

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Ep. 30: Bihhh You're Worth It! 27:16

3y ago27:16

27:16

Women are supposed to be strong. We’re supposed to work, have and raise kids, clean the house, and our build careers. When we choose ourselves it looks ugly to others. It’s OK to stand up for yourself and desire more at all cost. In this episode we discuss some really good examples on what that looks like in real time.…

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