Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle. Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey. Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra promotes sex education, healt ...
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A safe space podcast hosted by Newsiebaby, who attempts to talk about news and niches in the kink community, all while keeping his pants dry (sometimes 😉). This podcast contains content only suitable for ages 18+.
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For people who see through the veil of the civilized paradigm.
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Hosted by sex therapists Casey Tanner and Kamil Lewis, Safeword is sex therapy, unhinged! Because instead of being a blankslate that’s just here to support you, we are telling you the details on our own sex lives, relationships, identities and more. Each week we tackle a theme related to sex, gender, and relationships. Safeword is produced by The Expansive Group and launched following the success of @queersextherapy on Instagram and TikTok.
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Soft Doms Are In—What Gentle Domination Looks Like
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14:24#084 Is it still dominance if it’s gentle? 🎁 Grab the free quick-start guide to become a better Dom: https://domsubliving.com/dominant Turns out, soft domination isn’t weakness—it’s an intentional, emotionally intelligent way to lead and surrender. In this episode, we're exploring what gentle domination really looks like, why it’s trending in the B…
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Aussie Invasion! SydneyboyDL & JakRabbit Take Over the Nook
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40:10While Newsie is on holiday, SydneyboyDL & JakRabbit take over the Nook to talk about the Aussie ABDL scene plus an upcoming event! Make sure to stick around after for a fun story time!! 🍼 Follow SydneyboyDL 🍼 Follow JakRabbit 🍼 More Info about Diapered Land of Oz 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty Nook…
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From porn to non ejaculatory orgasms with Taylor Johnson
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51:59If you’re a man who has sex, or know one who does, this episode is for you. Taylor Johnson used to be addicted to porn. Heavily. And like so many men, it destroyed his sex life. It led to erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, depression and anxiety. Sounds great doesn’t it?After putting himself through a series of abstinence experiments his …
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Live Loud, Wear Proud: Kidd Monstar Gets Real in the Nook
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46:13This week Newsie joins Kid Monstar in his Nook to talk about living loud and wearing proud! 🍼 Follow Kidd Monstar 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty NookBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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Why BDSM Works Better Than Therapy (For Some People)
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23:53#083 What if therapy isn't the only way to heal — and sometimes, it's not even the best way? 👉 Grab free resources at https://domsubliving.com/free. In this episode, we're sharing why BDSM can offer healing in ways traditional therapy sometimes can't. We cover surprising insights even therapists are exploring, the hidden harm of for-profit therapy,…
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Five things you need to know in a breakup or divorce — with Traver Boehm
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12:44In this episode I’ll talk about five of the most important factors for you to consider if you’re in a breakup or divorce. My writing career kicked off with a book about how to use the pain of your breakup or divorce to transform your life, so this is my bread and butter! Since that book I’ve worked with thousands of people who are now on the other …
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This week Newsie is joined by Little Mason to talk about his new event, Padded in the Pines. This 21+ event is on a private campground in Southern Oregon!! 🍼 Register for Padded in the Pines 🍼 More Information on ABDL Events 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty NookBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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5 BDSM Scene Ideas You’ll Want To Try Tonight
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32:03#082 Who says you need a dungeon or hours of planning for a night you’ll never forget? 🎁 Want step-by-step worksheets and real scene examples to put these ideas into action? Check out our “Scene Creation Mastery” (only $9!) at https://domsubliving.com/scene-creation-mastery/ In this episode we're sharing 5 simple and powerful BDSM scene ideas you c…
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The deep psychology of BDSM & Kink with Dr. Douglas Thomas
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1:00:38In this episode I speak with renowned author Dr. Douglas Thomas on what makes people tick in the bedroom and beyond it. After reading Dr. Thomas’s book, The Deep Psychology of BDSM & Kink while in Costa Rica, I reached out to Dr. Thomas to see if he’d come on the podcast with me. He agreed and magic was made. We talk archetypes, the power of our se…
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Switchy & Bitchy Vol 9 feat. Noah Gold and Fancy
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1:01:22This week Newsie's friends Noah Gold and Fancy take over the Nook to host their segment, 'Switchy & Bitchy'! 🍼 Follow Noah Gold 🍼 Follow Fancy 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty NookBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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BDSM & Polyamory: Master Multiple Power Dynamics Without Drama
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12:10#081 Poly and kinky? It’s not as easy as people think. ❤️ Download the free BDSM Relationship Structure Guide at https://domsubliving.com/guide We're sharing 5 essential rules for making BDSM and polyamory work—without the drama. Learn how to define power structures, avoid jealousy, handle communication across partners, and balance multiple D/s rol…
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The price you pay for being uncommon — with Traver Boehm
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8:46In this episode I’ll talk about how and why you need to get past the idea that people who don’t live like you do or even want to, are supposed to understand you. If there’s one thing that needs to be navigated in order to live a life outside of the box — it’s being misunderstood. This comes from family, friends, and of course, perfect strangers who…
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This week Newsie is joined by SydneyBoyDL to flex their muscles and goon out in their diapers in the Nook! 🍼 Follow SydneyBoyDL 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naught NookBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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AI in BDSM: Can a Robot Really Be Your Sub?
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15:15#080 Would you ever take orders from an AI Dom or command an AI sub? 🎯 Want to build real D/s dynamics instead of relying on AI? Grab my free BDSM Scene Template at domsubliving.com/scene! It might sound wild, but AI is creeping into BDSM faster than you'd think. We're breaking down how people are using AI for training, control, and even aftercare—…
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The truth about a 24 hour Dom/sub relationship with Andrew from Infinite Devotion
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58:47If you’re curious how to build more trust, devotion, and polarity in your relationship, this episode is for you. Ever wonder what really happens in a relationship dynamic where both parties have agreed to a complete Dom/sub relationship? Ever wonder how that dynamic could help you be a better partner in your own relationship, no matter how it’s put…
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This week, Newsie sits down with friend of the show to reminisce and celebrate a decade of Diaperactive! 🍼 Follow Don 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty NookBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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Dominants vs. Submissives: Who Really Has It Harder?
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17:27#079 Who's got it tougher in a D/s dynamic, Dominants or submissives? 🔥 Ready to level up your Dom/sub game? Check out https://domsubtraining.com We're tackling this hot topic, and it might just surprise you. We're getting into the nitty-gritty, highlighting the weight on a Dom's shoulders—like planning and managing emotions—and the trust and menta…
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Stuck? You’re not afraid of failure or success — w/ Traver Boehm
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12:55Every time I have a client say their stuck because they’re afraid of either failure or success I roll my eyes and say — OH LORD. No you’re not. You’re afraid of the unknown. The deep unknown. The things you can’t even conceptualize right now. And — you need to start anyway. Anyone and everyone you know who’s done something outside of their comfort …
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We have a few guests in the Nook this week, Seadlite gives us a review of the new XXL Goodnites, Knox gives us a review of Diaper Up in Chicago, and Donkey Dope joins us to talk about braying like a donkey! 🍼 Check out Seadlite's Review 🍼 Follow Knox 🍼 Follow Donkey Dope 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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#078 If you don’t trust your own Dominance, your submissive won’t either. 🚀 Get your free How to Be a Good Dom Quick Start Guide at https://domsubliving.com/dom Confidence isn’t about being loud or forceful—it’s about presence, control, and certainty. In this episode, you’ll learn how to command attention without overcompensating, use body language…
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Now more than ever, people are craving a deeper experience of their lives. I bet you can relate. In this episode I speak with Boulder Outdoor Survival School graduate, Men’s Work Facilitator, and BJJ enthusiast Evan Meyer on his own path towards living a soul based life, the pain and turmoil he’s had to go through to get where he’s at, and of cours…
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Switchy & Bitchy Vol 8 feat. Noah Gold and Fancy
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1:03:21This week Newsie's friends Noah Gold and Fancy take over the Nook to host their segment, 'Switchy & Bitchy'! 🍼 More Information on NYC Takeover! 🍼 Follow Noah Gold 🍼 Follow Fancy 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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#077 After 10 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle—teaching, coaching, and living it 24/7—here are 50 game-changing BDSM tips in just 15 minutes! Want to go deeper with me on BDSM and D/s dynamics? Check out my free resources to enhance your journey: https://domsubliving.com/free Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned kinkster, these in…
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The way of the satisfied woman with Dr. Alanna Kaivalya
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1:00:58Myth. Sex. Pleasure. Oh my. In this conversation with author and Depth Psychologist Dr. Alanna Kaivalya we jam on several aspects of relationship and female pleasure. And this podcast isn’t just for our female listeners, guys you will glean much from this episode as well. Dr. Kaivalya has a unique lens on the relationship world as both a psychologi…
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It's an Aussie Takeover feat. DaddyG & Boykie
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54:21While Newsie is on vacation, DaddyG and Boykie hold down the Nook! 🍼 Follow DaddyG 🍼 Follow Boykie 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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Bondage for Beginners & Beyond: Ideas, Tips & Mistakes
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16:13#076 Is your bondage routine feeling a bit stale? By the end of this episode, you'll be itching to try something new. 👉 Snag a free ticket to the next summit at https://domsubdynamics.com/ Alesandra and Jay dive into the world of bondage from last year's Dom/Sub Dynamics Summit. They chat about everything from ropes and cuffs to the psychological s…
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Jiujitsu, Breathwork, and following your own path — with Pat Divilly.
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1:07:05Today I bring you another Irishman and a fascinating one at that. Pat is a good friend of the Uncivilized world and has been leading a life worthy of the title of Uncivilized since before we were born. In this episode we follow Pat’s career going from fitness success and lack of satisfaction into the world of Breathwork and how that has radically c…
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This week Newsie becomes a bad influence after a sweet conversation with Cato and Moon becomes a huffy hold! 🍼 More Information from ABU on Pricing Update 🍼 More Information from Pretend Again Pricing Update 🍼 Follow Cato 🍼 Follow Moon 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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10 Most Popular Kinks (Are Yours on the List?)
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28:06#075 Think your kink is too weird or too basic? Spoiler: It's probably more common than you think! ✅ Download your free checklist of over 50 different kinks at https://domsubliving.com/checklist today! We're uncovering the top 10 kinks that captivate and connect people worldwide. From sensation play to intense power exchanges, we dive deep into wha…
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All things men’s sexual health — with Dr. Kelly Casperson M.D.
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58:14Considering the fact that it’s reason the species perpetuates, the difference between friendships and romantic relationships, as well as a MASSIVE source of both life’s pleasures and pain — it’s shocking that we don’t have more open and honest conversations about sex. In this episode I get to ask Dr. Kelly all the questions you men ask me, covering…
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This week Newsie returns to Zesty Cheese Ranch with Nacho to talk about this year's Camp Crinkle! 🍼 More Information on Camp Crinkle (Password: diapers) 🍼 More Information on ABDL Events 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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5 Sensation Play Tips for an Unforgettable Experience
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21:21#074 Discover game-changing sensation play techniques! 🔥 Read a real-life sensation play scene in action: https://domsubliving.com/scene Ever wondered how to make your BDSM scenes 10 times more intense? Spoiler: it's not about hitting harder or using fancier toys. Dive into this episode where we reveal how sensation play can transform your experien…
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The primal and divine aspects in our bodies — with Michael Gay
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53:10Michael Gay is Uncivilized royalty, having been there from the beginning and is one of our co-leaders in our workshops. He’s also a licensed therapist and would probably be happiest living in the woods. In this episode we explore the ways men and women both can create a deeper relationship with your intuition and the parts of your body and knowings…
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Switchy & Bitchy Vol 7 feat. Noah Gold and Fancy
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1:12:01This week Noah Gold and Fancy take over for another "Switchy & Bitchy"!! 🍼 Follow Noah Gold 🍼 Follow Fancy 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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3 BDSM Mistakes I Made (That Almost Ruined My Journey!)
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17:29#073 Are you guilty of these biggest BDSM blunders? You're not alone! 💪 Master the Dom/sub lifesyle: https://domsubliving.com/free We're revealing the surprises and challenges we encountered when we thought we had it all figured out. Worried you might mess up on your BDSM journey? Tune in now to avoid these common missteps and navigate your dynamic…
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Numb is not a powerful way to live — with Chris Bale
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58:54Chris is an old friend of The Uncivilized Podcast and in his third appearance with us speaks to the ways that we all numb and disconnect from our bodies, and the truth we’re so afraid to acknowledge. In this potent exercise we speak of potent ways to be in your body, to live more powerfully, and experience who we are underneath lives shackled with …
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The Muckle Stoater to the left of me, Newsie to the right, stuck in the middle with you
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55:57This week, Newsie talks to his favorite clown the Muckle Stoater to talk about hosting his first event and when the next one will be. 🍼 Follow Stuck in the Middle 🍼 Follow The Muckle Stoater 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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Kink Beyond the Bedroom: What No One Tells You
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45:15#072 Can you balance a power exchange with everyday life? What about raising kids in a D/s relationship? 🔥 Grab our free BDSM resources at https://domsubliving.com/free In this episode, listen in as Alesandra sits down with Auntie Vice on Fat Chicks on Top to talk about BDSM beyond the bedroom. We cover behavior modification, the psychology of kink…
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Why BDSM Turns You On: The Psychology of Kink
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22:30#071 Why do forbidden things turn us on so much? It's not just about pleasure—it's psychology. ✅ Get your FREE BDSM checklist with 50+ kinks: https://domsubliving.com/checklist We're unravelling the psychology behind BDSM, exploring misconceptions about trauma, the science of endorphins and dopamine, and the vital role of trust and control. Delve i…
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NAME YOUR YEAR—START YOURS NOW It’s February. Too late. (No it's not.) For years, men and women around the world have kicked off their journeys with my powerful ritual—Naming Your Year. It’s not a resolution. Not a wish list. Not another empty promise. It’s a stake in the ground. A declaration. A call to something greater. In this recorded call, Tr…
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Good Soldiers, Follow Orders feat. TheLilTrooper
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27:00This week in the Nook, Newsie nerds out with TheLilTrooper for some fun role play! 🍼 Follow TheLilTrooper 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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Our 24/7 Total Power Exchange Relationship: How We Built It
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26:12#070 Total power exchange sounds intense, right? But it's not just about control; it's about trust, intention, and freedom. 📝 Download your free customizable contract at https://domsubliving.com/contract Join us as we debunk myths surrounding 24/7 total power exchange (TPE) and share our journey into this fulfilling dynamic. Explore the foundationa…
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Adayemi Adayosoye — Truth is the fire that purifies a man’s heart.
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1:01:05Let’s talk tantric sex, full body non ejaculatory orgasms, psychedelics, and the dark masculine… In this episode with renowned Men’s Leader Adayemi Adayosoye we get into all of it. We cover the conditioning and patterning that leads men to live lives of drudgery and quiet misery rather than truth and ecstatic joy. This is a powerful episode for men…
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This week Newsie introduces his baby bro Squiddles in a casual conversation in the Nook! 🍼 Follow Squiddles 🍼 Follow BroSitter 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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Wearing a Collar 24/7 in My D/s Marriage: What It’s Really Like
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20:03#069 "When my Dom secured the collar around my neck, it gave me a huge sense of belonging and trust like never before." ❤️ Visit https://domsubliving.com/eternity to get $20 off your own collar with code DOMSUBLIVING In this episode, we explore the deep meaning of collars in a D/s dynamic, the practical aspects of wearing them 24/7, and the emotion…
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Live Nice Guy coaching session — embracing responsibility with Traver Boehm.
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34:36In this episode you get to peak behind the coaching curtain and watch me work one-on-one with a man who’s struggling bringing structure into his life. This is showing up in his challenge around meal planning and workout programming, as well as the deeper issue at hand:— This is a protection mechanism keeping him from getting what he really wants. W…
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Switchy & Bitchy Vol 6 feat. Noah Gold and Fancy
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40:44This week Noah and Fancy take over the Nook, and they have a big announcement! 🍼 Register for NYC Take Over 🍼 Follow Noah Gold 🍼 Follow Fancy 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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How to Reignite the Fire in Your Dom/sub Relationship
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13:17#068 Feeling like the passion in your D/s dynamic has faded? You’re not alone—but you can bring it back! 👉 Ready to reconnect and thrive in your dynamic? Explore more at https://domsubliving.com/allaccess We're sharing why losing the spark is so common and the key reasons it happens—like routine overload, lack of communication, and external stress.…
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I’m a True Crime dork, and if you are too, then this episode is for you. Hell, even if you’re not this episode will show the path of a man who was deep in a music career, had a hiccup, then on a whim after a single conversation decided to try something new. Millions and millions of downloads later with popular shows such as In The Red Clay, Drownin…
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The Huffy Adventures of Ian River and his Dad Orion
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45:29This week Ian River and his dad Orion join Newsie in the Nook to share how they met and all their huffy adventures! 🍼 Follow Ian River 🍼 Follow Dark Dad Orion 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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