Best Howtogetgirls Podcasts (2025)

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Ep. 544 The Smart Penis Ring & The Future of Men’s Sexual Health 47:54

7d ago47:54

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When it comes to men’s health, your penis might be saying more than you think. On this episode of How to Get the Girl, we sit down with Dr. Elliot Justin — physician, innovator, and creator of the world’s first smart penis ring — to talk about not erectile dysfunction, but erectile fitness. Dr. Justin shares why sexual health is more than performan…

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Ep. 543 Building Connection and Chemistry Through Communication 54:30

14d ago54:30

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Communication is the foundation of every great relationship, but for so many people, it’s also the biggest struggle. In this episode, we’re joined by Suzanne Tabachnick, founder of Social Foundations, a supportive community dedicated to helping people build social awareness, abilities, and confidence. While Social Foundations focuses on individuals…

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Ep. 542 The Pursuit Playbook and Decoding Her Signals 56:23

21d ago56:23

56:23

How do you know when to pursue, when to pull back, and when to stop altogether? In this throwback episode, we sit down with Emmy-nominated producer and casting director Tanya Bershadsly to break down the art of pursuit. We dive into the signals women give that tell you she’s interested, HOW TO SPOT when you’re pushing too far, and the difference be…

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Ep. 540 Online Dating Mistakes Every Man Makes (and How to Fix Them) 56:44

26d ago56:44

56:44

This week, is a serious DON'T MISS. We sit down with Erin Keating, creator of the brand and podcast Hotter Than Ever, dedicated to dating over 50, to reveal the unfiltered truths men need to hear. While Erin’s show focuses on dating later in life, the insights she shares apply to any man looking to attract and connect with women. Erin is no-holds-b…

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Ep. 539 How to Be Vulnerable Without Looking Weak (Throwback Ep!) 52:57

1M ago52:57

52:57

This one’s from the vault back when the show was called Ask Women—so don’t be confused by the old name drop! The advice still holds up (and then some). In this episode, we’re joined by Adam Wayne, Marni’s personal coach, to talk about one of the trickiest topics for men: how to share your vulnerabilities without coming off as self-deprecating, weak…

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Ep. 538 How to Bounce Back from a Bad 1st Impression 59:11

1M ago59:11

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In this throwback episode, we get all too relatable talking about making a bad first impression. Made a weird joke? Came on too strong? Forgot how to speak English the second she looked at you? We’ve all been there—and this week, we’re talking about how to come back from a cringey first impression without losing the girl (or your dignity). Comedian…

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Ep. 537 Confidence Isn’t a Mystery, It’s a Skill (with Alpha M) 37:59

2M ago37:59

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We’re throwing it back to one of our most downloaded episodes with none other than Alpha M, the #1 men’s lifestyle influencer, Aaron Marino. In this conversation, we unpack the truth about confidence: where it actually comes from, why most guys fake it wrong, and how to build the kind of self-assurance that women feel before you even say a word. We…

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Ep. 536 Emotional Intelligence: A Trait Women CRAVE 52:34

2M ago52:34

52:34

If you struggle to read women, constantly misinterpret signals, or feel like there’s a disconnect no matter how hard you try, this episode is for you. We’re joined by Empathetic Leadership Coach Jevon Wooden to unpack the power of Emotional Intelligence (EQ) and why it’s the missing link for so many men when it comes to connection, attraction, and …

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Ep. 535 Sexual Shame No More! 1:01:15

2M ago1:01:15

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In this episode of How to Get the Girl (formerly known as Ask Women), Kristen and Marni are joined by certified sex therapist Dr. Tina Shermer to tackle one of the biggest silent confidence-killers for men: sexual shame. Whether it’s shame around performance, desire, past experiences, or just not knowing what’s “normal,” this shame often goes unspo…

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Ep. 534 How to Turn Jealousy Into Sexual Chemistry 52:37

2M ago52:37

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🎙️ Heads up! We’re playing around with new titles for the show! Right now, we’re rolling with "How to Get the Girl" by Ask Women, but stay tuned for another possible rebrand 👀 This week, we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood emotions in dating: jealousy. And no, it’s not always toxic. In fact, if you know how to use it, it can be one of t…

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Ep. 533 How to Ask for What You Want AND Actually Get It 38:30

3M ago38:30

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It’s time to STOP sabotaging yourself—and start asking for what you actually want. This week, we’re joined by Brad DeMint, host of the How to Win podcast and a powerhouse salesman who knows how to close deals and create clarity. Brad breaks down the exact mindset shift that will help you stop playing small, speak up, and go after what you truly wan…

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Ep. 532 Let’s Talk About the Penis: Performance, ED, and What Women Really Think 36:18

3M ago36:18

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This week, Marni is joined by the one and only Susan Bratton, intimacy expert to millions, for a no-holds-barred conversation all about the penis. From performance anxiety to erectile dysfunction, we’re breaking down the most common issues men face in the bedroom—and why it’s not just “in your head.” Susan shares expert insights on what actually ca…

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Ep. 531 Style That Makes Women DROOL 24:34

3M ago24:34

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This week, Marni and Kristen break down the jaw-dropping style moments from a men's networking event — where the men weren’t just dressed well... they were dressed like MEN. Smart. Sophisticated. And undeniably sexy. The ladies dive into: HOW to dress in a way that makes her stop mid-sentence WHY certain looks make women feel giddy and drawn in WHA…

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Ep. 530 Unlocking Confidence and Why Women Do and Don't Date Older Men 45:56

3M ago45:56

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Kristen and Marni are joined by special guest Kelly Tao, one of Marne’s original wing girls, for a powerful conversation on confidence—how to access the confidence already within you, how to keep it consistent, and how to let it multiply. They also get real about age gaps in dating—and share their personal preferences about WHY dating older men can…

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Ep. 529 Crush Approach Anxiety with the Power of Precise Language 42:50

3M ago42:50

42:50

What if changing just a few words could completely shift your confidence and attraction levels? In this powerful episode, we welcome back language and mindset expert Spencer Burnett to dive deep into the concept of precise language—how the words you think and say directly impact your ability to connect, attract, and show up as your most magnetic se…

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Ep. 528 Break Free: How Hidden Trauma Is Running Your Life (And How to Stop It) 53:03

4M ago53:03

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Trauma - we all have it. Whether it’s loud and obvious or quiet and buried, your past experiences are shaping your present more than you might realize. In this powerful episode, we’re joined by trauma expert Tori Helf (Janae), who breaks down exactly how to uncover the hidden traumas holding you back — and more importantly, how to release them so t…

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Ep. 527 Be a Detective in the Bedroom: How to Read Her and Please Her 36:39

4M ago36:39

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In this episode, we’re joined by Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method and co-founder of the Somatica Institute. Celeste is a somatic sex coach who specializes in helping men and women create deeper, more connected, and more satisfying intimate experiences. We dive into how you can become a detective in the bedroom—not by overanalyz…

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Ep. 526 Unlocking Your Dark Side to Attract Women 55:11

4M ago55:11

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What if your “dark side” was the key to unlocking deeper confidence, attraction, and connection in your relationships? In this episode, Adam Skoda — host of The Masculine Mindset Show, author of 77 Ways to Develop a Masculine Mindset, and creator of the Alpha Body Bootcamp Training Program — joins the show to explore the real power behind what psyc…

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Ep. 525 The Secret Weapon You’re Ignoring: Your Imperfections 44:58

4M ago44:58

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This week, we’re flipping the script on what you think women want. Yes, your so-called "shortcomings" (the things you’re not proud of) can actually attract women when you know how to use them the right way. And our amazing guest - fiery redhead Yoann Bohbot, Founder of dotsspace.com - is here to explain exactly how to do it. We also dive into: How …

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Ep. 524 Rewire Your Mind, Win her Attraction: The Hypnosis Hack 47:11

5M ago47:11

47:11

We’re joined by charisma and hypnosis coach Wendy Packer, who shares how you can literally rewire your subconscious to become more confident, magnetic, and successful with women. Wendy dives into practical, powerful tools to help you erase limiting beliefs and replace them with the mindset and identity of the man you want to be. (Yes - 'fake it til…

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Ep. 523 Unlocking Arousal: The Many Pathways to Pleasure 56:26

5M ago56:26

56:26

In this juicy and eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the many ways women experience arousal - with a refreshingly honest look at the full spectrum of desire. Joined by sex and intimacy expert Melissa Louise, we explore the concept of arousal maps for both women and men, and how most of us have only scratched the surface of what's possible. Whet…

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Ep. 522 Dating Women in Their 50's - They've Still Got It 58:36

5M ago58:36

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In this episode, we're joined by a bold, sexy woman in her 50s who’s single, self-aware, and not afraid to speak the truth about dating at this stage of life. We dive deep into what’s actually going on for women in their 50s—physically, emotionally, and romantically. She shares what men are doing that works, what’s turning women off faster than you…

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Ep. 521 Getting What You Want and Owning Who You Are 42:04

5M ago42:04

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Dating is challenging enough, so why make it harder by hiding your true self and not asking for what you want? This week, we’re joined by Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, coach and therapist at GrowingSelf.com, who shares powerful insights on building self-confidence and showing up authentically in your love life. She also breaks down attachment styles - how …

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Ep. 520 Finding Love Through Music w/ Rachel Van Nortwick of Vinylly 48:29

6M ago48:29

48:29

Can your taste in music lead you to love? In this episode, we’re joined by Rachel Van Nortwick, creator of the dating app Vinylly, to dive into the power of music in romantic connections. We explore why sharing playlists might be more telling than answering dating profile prompts and how musical chemistry can spark real-life attraction. Plus, we br…

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Ep. 519 The Secret to Showing Confidence Women Can’t Ignore 58:04

6M ago58:04

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Confidence isn’t just about what you say - it’s about how you say it. This week, we're joined by speaking empowerment coach Linda Ugelow, who reveals the subtle yet powerful ways you can show confidence to women through your voice, tonality, and presence while eliminating anxiety. Learn how to make women lean in, listen, and think, Wow, that guy is…

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Ep. 518 How to Meet Women and Desirable Masculinity 51:16

6M ago51:16

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This week's episode with Dave Stultz from LimitlessBrave.com goes DEEP into what steps to take to EXPAND your world so you can meet more women. We also talk about HOW to meet them as well as masculinity - what's the perfect balance of it, how do you express it and why do women love it so much? >>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and p…

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Ep. 517 Finding the Right Women 57:47

6M ago57:47

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Show Update! We will now be releasing episodes every Tuesdays! In this throwback episode, we have dating coach and matchmaker Laurel House host of Famously Single. We talk about pre-qualifying, what does it mean, how do you do it and what questions to ask so you don't waste your time and money on the wrong girls. >>>To become the most witty, charmi…

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Ep. 516 How to Date Women in their 40s 37:53

6M ago37:53

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Women in their 40's are a HUGE category of women! Some are single moms, some are ball buster alpha females in the business world, some are wounded from past experiences with men. So how do you navigate these muddy waters? Our guest Heidi who works in the finance industry is going to tell you her experience as a single mom, kick ass business woman d…

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Ep. 515 How to Handle Rejection 56:56

7M ago56:56

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In this throwback episode, we have actress Catherine Urbanek with us to discuss how to handle heartbreak and rejection as Kristen got her heart a bit broken when reentering the world of dating after ending an 8 year relationship years ago. We all go through it at one point or another, so knowing that it's normal but moving forward and showing yours…

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Ep. 514 Decoding Women 49:41

7M ago49:41

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Figuring women out can be so hard, BUT IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE because you always have us. But, today you ALSO have sought-after dating coach for women, Kelsey Wonderlin on to give us EVEN MORE insights into women: what they say they want versus what they really want, how to be yourself AND the guy they want and on and on and on. This show covers it …

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Ep. 513 How to Become Undeniably Desirable 32:32

7M ago32:32

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This week, coach and fitness trainer, Martel Metellus shares with us his journey of becoming epically fit and seeing the behavior of women around him change in the process. And, no, it's not just because women drool over muscles, it's because they drool over someone who commands and earns respect. Yes, looking good plays a part, but in this episode…

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Ep. 512 How and When to Ask Her Out 1:02:04

7M ago1:02:04

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What is the best time and best way to ask a woman out so that she is guaranteed to say YES??? Adam Gilad joins us to tell us how & when to ask a woman out and how to do it boldly. We also have sex therapist Aimee in studio and together we all discuss: 1. The #1 biggest mistake men make with women that has them losing out on countless opportunities …

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Ep. 511 Top 5 Traits "Nice Guys" NEED to Have 48:41

8M ago48:41

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Today we're throwing back to an episode with dating coach, Bobby Rio, whose speciality is turning "nice guys" into desirable guys. He shoots you straight with the top 5 MOST ATTRACTIVE traits you NEED to have as a man and how to get them. >>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, schedule a free call with K…

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Ep. 510 How to Date Younger Women 51:57

8M ago51:57

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This week we talk all about dating different aged women with our guest, licensed couples therapist and host of the podcast Insights from the Couch - Mental Health at Midlife, Colette Fehr. We dive deep into HOW to date younger women, IF you should date younger women, what age might be right for you and how to win her over. >>>To become MAGNETIC, wi…

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Ep. 509 Male Isolation 45:22

8M ago45:22

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This week we talk about the after effects of COVID still vibrating through culture in the the form of isolation and how it's hurting you and your dating life. We talk about how to get more social and meet more people so we can get back to the healthy way of living life - with people. >>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a free call w…

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Ep. 508 How to Change Your Attachment Style 55:46

8M ago55:46

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This week, we have a show packed with information that will help you understand your attachment style and if it's unhealthy so you can learn to change it so you can start attract healthier partners. The Attachment Expert, Adam Lane Smith has so much incredible knowledge and wisdom to impart on why we find ourselves dating people who aren't right fo…

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Online Dating - The GOOD, the BAD and the UGLY 35:16

9M ago35:16

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In this throwback episode, we have a listener join us who has a TON of experience with online dating. He shares with us the ups and the downs and the highs and the lows so you can avoid the mistakes he's made and get closer to dating online like a pro. his episode is brought to you by Better Help. >>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule…

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Ep. 507 What Happened to Romance? 32:38

9M ago32:38

32:38

This week we have Professor Sabrina Strings, the author of the Book "The End of Love" on the show to explores the collective collapse of traditional romantic love. We talk about what "romance" means today and why it may not actually be what we want and how to have the romance that you DO want. This episode is brought to you by Better Help. >>>To be…

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Ep. 506 Dating Terms You NEED to Know and How to Not Let Them Affect You 49:20

9M ago49:20

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This week, we take a deep dive into negative dating terms with Mason Farmani who is an intuitive personal coach, specializing in relationship and emotional healing. We talk about what these terms are, why they're being used so much and how to not let them effect you and your dating success. This episode is brought to you by Better Help. >>>To becom…

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Social Confidence for the STEM and Introverted Brain 41:57

10M ago41:57

41:57

In this throwback episode, we have Myke Macapinlac joining us. Myke is the founder of Social Confidence Mastery, an incredible resource for those in the STEM industries or men who consider themselves introverted. If that's you, he's going to talk directly to YOU about how to step outside of your brain and become a master at confidence, flirting, es…

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Ep. 505 Tantric Sex 38:59

10M ago38:59

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Have you ever wondered what Tantra is really about? Have you ever heard about it? If you haven't, you should. That's where we come in. This week we have Alicia Davon from The Davon Method on the show. Alicia and her husband have been teaching this sexual yoga practice for 15 years and she's here to tell us all about why you NEED tantra in your life…

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How to be a LEADER with Women 59:37

10M ago59:37

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We have Dr. Joshua Spodek on with us who is also a dating coach. He's here to teach you how to be a LEADER with the ladies, one of the foremost traits women are looking for in a man. He's going give you the in's on how to get her to open up, be more comfortable around you, express her passions , all *without* being an interviewer or pick up artist.…

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Ep. 504 How to Handle "Bitchy" Women 44:49

11M ago44:49

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This week, we talk about something you will most likely encounter at one point in life or another, and that is when a woman isn't feeling so "friendly" (our politically correct way of saying "bitchy"). Why do some women become bitchy? We'll tell you. But more importantly, our guest, Gianna Rackham, a female dating coaching, will tell you how to cur…

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Ep. 503 Become a Master Flirt 40:56

11M ago40:56

40:56

Kristen and Marni are really excited to share this week’s episode because it is jam packed with top-notch info from top-of-the-line dating experts and instructors, Darren and Nikki from BecomeSharp.com Darren and Nikki are going to clearly define flirting so it’s no longer a practice you "kind of" understand, then they're going to go step-by-step a…

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Pursue Her Like a Pro 59:32

11M ago59:32

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To pursue or not to pursue? That is not the question. The question is HOW to pursue. This week we go deep into the topic of pursuing women and how to do it right so you don't come across as needy, but instead, a man after what he wants. >>>THIS EPISODE IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY FLURE - AN APP THAT CONNECTS YOU WITH OTHERS LOOKING TO EXPLORE THEIR DESIRE…

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Ep. 502 Igniting CHEMISTRY with Dr. Laura Berman 41:58

12M ago41:58

41:58

Laura Berman is an renowned American relationship therapist and television host. She is the host of In the Bedroom with Dr. Laura Berman on the Oprah Winfrey Network and she is here to talk to us about that mysterious and magical thing we're always looking to create but never quite sure how: CHEMISTRY. She's going to tell us all about the science b…

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Ep. 501 Start Bantering TODAY 31:15

12M ago31:15

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The Banter Queen herself and the co-host and co-creator of Ask Women, Kristen Carney, is today’s “guest” of honor. Kristen has turned Banter and Playful Communication into a science and she, herself, a mad (banter) scientist - think Doc from "Back to the Future" - only not a dude and has never been atop a clock tower. However, she undoubtedly will …

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Ep. 500 How to Get RESPECT 46:01

12M ago46:01

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When a woman respects you, she is MUCH more likely to be attracted to you. This concept is often overlooked or forgotten about. Well, not this week! This week we dive DEEP into how to get respect from women. And, no it’s not by complimenting them or giving into their every need. It’s quite the opposite, actually. And, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, an In…

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Ep. 499 Going Out BY YOURSELF 40:56

1y ago40:56

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Friends aren’t always available to go out and hit the town with, especially as you get into the years where lots of friends start getting married or have long been married. So, this week, Rob from Sex Party Podcast joins the show to talk about HOW to go out by yourself doing it successfully so you can make the most out of your time alone. He gives …

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Being Bold - Asking Her Out 58:48

1y ago58:48

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Adam Gilad, author of "The Bold Life Tribe – a mastermind for bold living, graces us with his presence in this week's throwback episode. He's here to talk to us about how to be the confident guy who makes bold choices and asks women out. He's here schooling us on HOW to get her to say yes and WHEN to get her to say yes. **** We have finished our su…

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