In this episode we walk through all the profile settings and the enhancements that FetLife have put in place to make your life easier. With an emphasis on mitigating creepers.

About a 20 minute conversation on how to get your own group started while I focus on rope none of the advice is unique to rope groups.

I want to write a book about cigar play and in this episode I go in to some of the things I would consider and want to include in that book

Talking a little bit about my history with my history with table top role playing games and wanting to get back into running Dungeons & Dragons

Covering the guiding principles for unconference events

Just a little bit of history about where I've lived and why I moved to Baltimore 7 years ago and why I'm moving to Seattle

Talking about the Seattle erotic art festival and all the hoops and stuff I went through for my two roses tied together photo that is in the show

RiggerJay talks about ways you can use VR goggles such as the Oculus Quest to give your partner a third person view into a scene

Fed life has improved over the years and has provided many more tools to control how people contact you I will be covering that as well as some general tips to mitigate the creepers messaging you

Little bit of a way back machine talking about a partner I had in 2015 and how we negotiated sexting and consent before we were able to meet up in person and how that was going to go

I spent last two weeks trying to put the Kinky back in my Kinky and Popular feed..

Sharing a memory from way back at the New England fetish flea

Some thoughts and concepts for building your own suspension frame at home

Of late I have been thinking about history of rope in North America .. defining moments really shaped rope.. here a few that come to mind..I may have some of the dates wrong , but its been a long time and brain is rusty. Hope does not offend anyone and happy to correct. It is definitely not a definitive listing and very much tainted by my own perso…