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T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years! Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it! We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you g ...
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Are you often doing things where you're influenced by the judgments and decisions of other people? We know what that's like - especially when it comes to everything you're going through and navigating when you're getting divorced. Everyone seems to have an opinion on what you should do. In this episode, T.H. and Jess talk about Mel Robbins' new boo…
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In this episode, Dennis sits down with Lisa Sonni, a certified relationship coach and author, to discuss the challenges of recognizing and recovering from abusive relationships. Lisa shares her personal journey, offers actionable advice for healing and rediscovering self-worth, and explores the importance of self-love and community in the recovery …
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We're starting 2025 by giving ourselves - and you! - what we're calling permission to pivot. Things change, life, kids, relationships, jobs, what makes us happy...and it's important to always listen to yourself and be true to what your guts is saying. What once worked may change, and that's ok! In this episode, T.H. talks to one of our OG exEXPERT …
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There is definitely a lot of change and transition when it comes to divorce, and it's never easy. but there are things you can do to make dealing with the transition days better for everyone, and in this episode we speak to an amazing guest who is a divorce coach, a mediator and a coparenting specialist! She goes through some amazing advice that we…
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Saving yourself stress, time and money will make a big difference in your divorce process, and believe it or not, there are ways to simplify it all. In this episode, we hear all about the mission of the company Your Divorce made Simple, where they can guide you (and your ex) to a workable agreement in as little as six weeks! (Guest: Amy Colton, Fou…
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There's a lot to consider when going through a divorce and the more prepared you are, the better. It's important to have a strategy so you can weigh all of your options with a clear head, and not get caught up in the emotional turmoil. In this episode, Amy Polacko explains how to build a divorce strategy so you can avoid mistakes and claim your ind…
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How many women do you know that pay alimony to their husbands? Suffice it to say, it takes a strong, badass women to be in that situation, and this interview with Hello Mamas founder, Erika Hanafin, is beyond inspiring and uplifting. She is a successful entrepreneur who understands that building community and "girl-gang" support is life changing. E…
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Getting through the holidays whether you're going through or have gone through divorce is something that is always evolving. The first year is very different than years down the road, but there are ways to ensure you aren't lonely (even if you're alone) and steps you can take to keep yourself happy and healthy through it all. In this episode, we ta…
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We parents are in a never-ending cycle of tackling "mom problems" and constantly trying to figure out new ways of solving them. But what better way to do it than including a little humor? Even when going through divorce, being able to lighten the mood is essential in your survival, and you'll hear the best ways to do that with a true expert. (Guest…
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Knowing you are going to court to litigate your divorce is a very scary prospect, but there are ways you can prepare yourself to mitigate the fear and to have a better chance in getting the results you're hoping for, and this episode goes through it all. (Guest: Courtney Gilmartin, NJ Protective Moms) Get access to our private divorce life hacks an…
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It's not easy to get a good night sleep when you're going through divorce, despite all the info out there on sleep hacks, sleep medicine and even gummies. We know this challenge personally, so we brought in Dr. Shelby Harris, board certified in Behavioral Sleep Medicine and a Clinical Associate Professor at Albert Einstein College of Medicine, to o…
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After being in a relationship where your spouse has put you down and made you feel "less than", it can be difficult to reclaim your self-worth. In this episode, we speak to the incomparable Amanda Hanson of Midlife Muse, who has amazing insight and advice on how to get back to you. (Guest: Amanda Hanson, Midlife Muse) Get access to our private divo…
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Not having a partner, a plus one, a significant other to travel with makes planning trips challenging for many after divorce - especially when you have kids to wrangle. Not everyone is bold enough to do it alone, but small group travel with like-minded people who are in similar situations could be a great new choice. And now there's a way to plan t…
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Just because you separate or divorce an abuser, does not mean that the abuse stops. Whether it's emotional, mental, financial, physical or any other kind of toxic treatment, it doesn't always end when you physically separate. This can be extremely difficult and challenging to deal with, but this episode will help break down how you can navigate thr…
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You may think you're going to fight for a specific amount of custody or money, but you really have to know the myths of divorce, because it can be hard to pick the right battles. In this interview you'll hear how to manage your expectations around the cost, how long it'll take, alimony, custody and more. (Guest: Kara Chroback, Family Law Attorney) …
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Divorce is a big change, and it can be a hard adjustment for everyone. But what if you could master how to deal with change by adopting 5 simple mindset hacks? In this episode, we talk to Divorce Coach Jenny Stevens and learn exactly how to accomplish this with tips you can apply right now. (Guest: Jenny Stevens, Divorce Coach) Get access to our pr…
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Everyone always asks what to do with their money to prepare for a divorce, as well as how to protect it when it's over. In this episode, you'll hear from a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst how to deal with those things, as well as how to leverage your resources to make your divorce less expensive and less hostile. (Guest: Nikki Tucker, CFDA) Get…
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Red flags can be different for different people, but there are some universal red flags that we should all be wary of. How is it that we allow ourselves to overlook and ignore red flags, and even continue staying in a relationship when we're feeling unsettled? In this episode, Brianna McCabe spills it all about the red flags we all need to watch ou…
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Getting divorced means splitting up all your stuff, and then having to buy a lot of new things for your new household - kitchenware, bedding and more. All at a time when money is tight and you are probably trying to live on a budget. in this episode, hear why Olivia Howell created the Divorce Registry and how it works. (Guest: Olivia Howell, Founde…
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Coercive control is not something we knew much about, but it turns out it occurs is many marriages - and does not stop after a divorce. It can be scary and mentally and emotionally draining, but there are ways to strategize and make sure that you are able to protect yourself and your children. This is an eye-opening episode. (Guest: Courtney Gilmar…
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We always want you to find the best information you need when you need it, and our mission is to help break it al down easily so that you can. Our website is even color-coded by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the my…
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We always want you to find the best information you need when you need it, and our mission is to help break it al down easily so that you can. Our website is even color-coded by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the my…
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It doesn't have to be confusing to find the information you want and need when it comes to dealing with divorce, We know that making things simple helps, which is why color-coded our website by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we'v…
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We are here to help you through every step of your divorce - and beyond - and we want to make it easy for you to find the best information you need when you need it. We color coded our website so you can easily find what you're looking for, and this podcast episode is a cheat sheet of the Top 5 podcasts in the myWALLET category, which is all the mo…
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Our goal is to always break things down easily so that you can find the best information you need when you need it. We even have our website color-coded by category, to help you find exactly what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the myDIVORCE category - all about lega…
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Aren't you shocked sometimes at the crazy and stupid things people say to you after hearing you're getting divorced? It happens all the time, and it leaves us feeling defensive when it should be the other way around. This episode, with the amazing author of the book "Don't Fucking Say That" will give you the words you need to get around those situa…
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We learn our best tips form hearing others that have gone through it, and Ilyssa Panitz has been writing and reporting on divorce for years, so she's picked up some great tips and advice from interviewing others. Here's what she learned! (Ilyssa Panitz, Divorce Journalist) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…
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In this episode, Dennis and Amber discuss the pressures faced by modern women, especially moms. They explore the unrealistic expectations of perfectionism and introduce Amber’s “Supermom Assessment,” which helps women identify and overcome limiting beliefs. Amber shares personal insights and practical advice on finding self-worth and achieving a ba…
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If you feel like you aren't quite sure how to help your kids navigate the divorce, join the club! There isn't one surefire thing to say or way to navigate, but there are some key things to think about when it comes to helping your kids move forward. Hear what they are. (Guest: Christina McGhee, Divorce Parenting Expert) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠…
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We know, you probably aren't thinking about your taxes right now, but did you know that June is the second estimated prepaid tax payment for 2025, which you have to do to avoid penalties? And you are entitled to half of your spouse's IRA or 401k, but are you calculating the taxes you'll pay on that in your divorce settlement? Taxes can get messy du…
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Mediation is a method that it used is so many divorces (even when you are litigating) but you can waste a LOT of money and time if you don't know how to prepare yourself. In this episode we go through five things you must do before starting mediation that will save you money. (Guest: Rebecca Stern, Pearl Mediation) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…
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Even though we're always giving you two perspectives on everything, we're still both women. In this week's episode, T.H. sits down with one of our favorite good guys, Daren Douglas, to talk about his community Relationships Renewed, and what other good guys are going through as they get divorced. (Guest: Daren Douglas, Certified Divorce Specialist)…
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Fiona Kong is a single mompreneur who turned lemons into lemonade! In 2019, she separated from her son’s dad and was laid off from her job. After deeply processing her own childhood trauma Fiona wanted to parent and show up for her son focusing on his mental health and emotional wellbeing. A $2 dollar store planner led her to create the Home Sweet …
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Abuse is far too common in marriages and chances are you know someone that has been or is struggling in an abusive relationship. Whether it's physical, emotional, mental, financial or some other form, just leaving the marriage does not always put an end to the abuse. In this episode T.H. talks to an expert on the different types of abuse, how to kn…
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If you're interested in dating after divorce, it seems like dating apps are kind of your only option. Have you tried Tawkify? Match? JDate? Hinge? The dating app burnout is a real thing, and the truth is, there are other options for you! In this episode, dating app expert Alyssa Dineen gives us some amazing and creative ways to meet a new partner I…
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If you ever feel like you're living two parallel lives while going through your divorce - you're not alone! It's very hard to separate yourself from everything that's happening in the divorce, but this episode teaches you exactly how to do that, and how to unhook from your divorce story so you can move on! (Guest: Cherie Morris, Dear Divorce Coach)…
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The financial implications of divorce aren't limited to how much the settlement is worth, or how much child support or alimony is being paid. The bigger implications come with how well you understand your own situation and how you prepare yourself - and protect yourself - moving forward. This episode tells you what you should be thinking about in o…
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Alex Beattie, a veteran film and television producer, took her own divorce experience and turned it into a service that helps others navigate marital separation and divorce with financial clarity and confidence. Alex is an experienced Divorce Consultant and Founder of The Divorce Planner. In this episode, Dennis and Alex discuss the ins and outs of…
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Mother's Day can bring up a lot of emotions when you're divorced, but this inspiring episode shows how good it can get. T.H. talks to Michelle Dempsey Multack about how their Mother's Day experiences have improved since they were married, to the first one after they were divorced up until now. It's an uplifting conversation that shows how resilient…
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The ultimate girl gang leaders, Cat & Nat, join us for a lively and laughable episode all about real life, parenting, and being raised by single divorced moms. You'll walk away with both valuable nuggets you can apply to your every day, but also new friends who understand life has its ugly parts, but explain how that doesn't have to stop you from e…
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We've got another round-up of hot topics questions about divorce - this time we cover everything from why you need a QDRO to whether or not you need permission to change your name to common divorce mistakes. Don't forget to send us your questions to [email protected] if you'd like them answered in an upcoming episode! (Guest: Tracy Moore Grant, D…
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From who files first (and why it matters) to how to avoid being bullied by your lawyer, this episode goes through rapid-fire questions on what you'll want to know, for every step of the process. (Guest: Jennifer Lazor, Divorce Attorney, Lazor Rantas) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠…
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It's the oldest question in the book...why did my spouse cheat on me? We think we know the reasons, but there is so much more involved. And since both of us (T.H. and Jess) have been there - both of our husband's had affairs - we want to help you process the feelings you have for your cheating ex and move on with your life. This is a must-hear for …
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How long do you need to take a break in dating after a breakup? A month? 6 months? A year? Is there actually a "right" or "wrong" amount of time? In this episode, we talk to Luke Entrup and Kendra Cunov, both of whom offer courses on either male or female cleansing, aka taking a break from dating. You'll hear both the guy's and girl's perspective o…
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It's one of those situations that sounds shocking and also probably happens more often that you think. How do you get through a situation like this? How do you work through the betrayal or feeling like you never even really knew your spouse - and most importantly, how can you move forward in a way that still allows for a productive relationship and…
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It's easy to get caught up in dealing with the divorce settlement, and oftentimes the lawyers can even rile you up and set you off down a path that you hadn't intended. It's complicated and can get messy and emotional. But there is a different way to divorce, if you aren't planning to litigate, and we find out exactly how in this episode! (Guest: H…
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How do you define fair versus enough? Especially when it comes to a divorce settlement, when emotions are flying high and at least one spouse if likely feeling that the final result of the negotiation should reflect their "worth." In this episode, we dig into that conversation to help people understand the difference, and how to make sure what they…
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On this episode, we’re joined by Jennifer Warren Medwin to discuss the very prominent topic of marital mediation. Jennifer Warren Medwin, MS is a CDC Certified Divorce Coach, Supreme Court of Florida Family Mediator, a Certified Marital Mediator, and a Co-Parenting Instructor. Her private practice in Pinecrest, Miami is called Seeking Empowerment: …
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When getting divorced, the first year is always the hardest. It's the time when you are figuring out what this new life will look like, for you and your kids. And it's a time when you exprience a lot of new firsts, as you learn how to navigate and adjust. In this episode, we speak to Sarah Armstrong, an executive at Google who knows how to get thin…
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It's both exciting and scary to start dating again after divorce, but what are some of the warning signs to look out for? Nowadays, there are a lot of people who say they're divorced when it's not finalized yet, or who aren't totally truthful about their living situation and more. How to know if you're getting the real story? This is a must hear ep…
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