Welcome to the Les Chat podcast! Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candle ...
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"In Season Two of 'JoJo's Empowering Journey,' join our fearless protagonist as they delve even deeper into the realms of self-discovery and resilience. Unveiling untold stories of strength, triumph, and personal growth, this podcast explores the transformative power of embracing one's own journey. Each episode is a beacon of inspiration, weaving together narratives of empowerment, resilience, and the unwavering spirit that propels JoJo forward. Get ready for a transformative listening exper ...
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130. Lavender Marriages & "Mixed Orientation Marriages"
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45:51We dive into our weekend celebration for Lilly's birthday (who's been on the podcast twice!) We then quickly chat about the encounter at Boston’s Liberty Hotel where a cisgender woman was asked to prove her gender in a bathroom, shedding light on the ongoing challenges of gender identity and public perception. We also dive into the evolving concept…
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We're catching you up on everything going on the past few weeks, life, drama, healing, and a little oversharing (as usual). We then dive into some truly unhinged lesbian stories that will leave you gasping, laughing, and possibly texting your ex (don’t do it). Let’s get unhinged. Family Meeting "My wife asked for a divorce after 10 years together, …
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In this episode, we reference Dr. Lynda, the Lesbian Couples Coach, and explore how love languages can be uniquely expressed in lesbian relationships. From quality time in nature and playful moments to affirming words and cozy cuddles, we dive into what real connection looks like and how to love each other more intentionally. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOC…
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In this episode, we explore how to go beyond the usual "How's work?" and ask deeper questions like, “What are you learning about yourself right now?” to build more meaningful connections. We also dive into key questions for new relationships, inspired by therapist Jeff Gunther. What counts as cheating? How do we handle privacy, exes, and boundaries…
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126. Baby Gays & Late Bloomers: Queer Drama & Lesbian LOVE
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42:49In today’s episode, we dive into the latest lesbian dating drama (TikTok Reference LINK with Beeca Moore & Shannon B.) and what it's really like navigating relationships in the queer community. We also talk about our Les Chat NYC meetup! Talking Points: Boundaries with Same-Sex vs. Opposite Sex: Why we tolerate different things from women than from…
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125. Dating Red Flags, Doechii Drama & Decision Fatigue
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38:57In this AUDIO only episode of Les Chat, we’re catching up on everything from the progress of our 75 Soft challenge (46 days to go!) to some exciting updates on our upcoming Thailand and Bali trip (don’t forget, it's the last month to sign up for the payment plan). Plus, we’re thinking about NEW merch drop, with a focus on queer pride gear just in t…
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124. Heteroflexible, Queer Choices & WNBA Drama
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38:33In this episode, we talk about the WNBA drama between DiJonai Carrington and NaLyssa Smith, explore what it means to be "heteroflexible," and discuss the complexities of being queer. We dive into why labels matter and how being queer is more than just a choice. LINK TO WNBA PODCAST VIDEO CLIP BEING QUEER IS A CHOICE VIDEO FAMILY MEETING “I’ve been …
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123. Raw Convos: Why Love is Blind is Lowkey Gay
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46:59Is Love is Blind secretly a lesbian reality show for straight people? We break it down and give you our raw, unfiltered thoughts Welcome to Raw Conversations with Les Chat Podcast (the audio version only), your bi-weekly Wednesday deep dive into all things personal growth, relationships, and any random thoughts we have! In this episode, we’re shari…
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In this episode, we dive into some common myths about lesbian identities and relationships. We tackle misconceptions like the idea that being attracted to women means rejecting men, that lesbian relationships are always full of drama, or that all lesbians want kids. FAMILY MEETING “I need advice. I broke up with my ex of 3 years after she chose her…
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121. Raw Convo's: Right Person Wrong Time
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42:10Is it possible to be with the right person at the wrong time when fear of judgment and not being out holds you back from fully embracing the relationship? Family Meeting: "I’ve been dating a girl for the past year and everything has been wonderful but I’m not out yet. I come from a very religious family and I’m also a people pleaser and unfortunate…
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We’re back after an 8 week break! Ahhhhhhh!! There is SO much to catch up on but we can’t fit it all in one episode. Dayra shares insights from her recent NYC LGBTQ+ speech, and we give updates on work and new home life. Finally, we share 23 ideas for celebrating Valentine's Day as a single, from binge-watching your favorite series to planning an o…
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119. Graduations, Holidays & Anniversary Vibes
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51:40In this episode, we’re catching up on everything—JoJo just graduated from her academy (finally a secret revealed!), Dayra shares her experience pledging in college, and we chat about how crazy the holidays can be. We also celebrate our 4-year anniversary by skipping gifts and focusing on experiences. Plus, we answer your questions about the habits …
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In this episode, we reflect on the pressures of marriage, kids, and career milestones. We talk about what we've accomplished so far, and how those societal expectations shape our lives. We also dive into the movie My Old Ass, where an 18-year-old meets her 39-year-old self during a mushroom trip, offering life advice about love, family, and choices…
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In this episode, we talk about the mental health challenges LGBTQ+ Latinas face, including cultural stigma and the pressure of balancing multiple identities. We also discuss the difficulties of finding mental health care that understands both cultural and LGBTQ+ needs, and how we can break the stigma around mental health in these communities. Tune …
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In this episode of our Q&A podcast, we catch up after a brief hiatus—Dayra just returned from her trip to Colombia! Join us as we dive into your questions, share travel stories, and discuss how life has been keeping us on our toes. & DON'T REMEMBER TO VOTE!! Family Meeting Questions “My gf lied to me about having two abortions…” “I’ve been dating t…
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Join us this week as we recap Dayra's unforgettable birthday festivities and celebrate the WNBA's hot season. We’ll also share highlights from our family meeting questions and end with a fun “Who’s Most Likely To” segment. Tune in for laughs, our regular complaints and some insights. FAMILY MEETING “Me and my girlfriend WERE together for almost 6 y…
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Join us in this catch up episode as we talk about what we’ve been up to, we celebrated JoJo’s birthday in style, we share our unforgettable experiences at a WNBA game (where we spotted Ashlyn Harris) and recount our thrilling helicopter ride over the NYC skyline. In honor of Hispanic Heritage Month, we dive into the rich cultural contributions of L…
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In this week’s episode, Jojo and Dayra dive into the nuanced experience of falling for a friend—or having friends express romantic feelings towards them. Through candid personal stories, they explore the emotional rollercoaster of navigating these complex situations. Family Meeting: "My girlfriend and I were dating for a year . She recently found o…
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112. Understanding PDA & LGBTQ+ Challenges
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46:44In this episode, we explore Public Displays of Affection (PDA) from personal and societal perspectives. We start by discussing our own experiences with PDA growing up and how our views have changed over time. Then, we focus on the challenges LGBTQ+ couples face when showing affection in public. A 2021 study reveals that these couples often face dis…
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It is human nature to want love. To find someone you can connect and build with. Learning how to express, give, and receive love is a big part of our journey. However, when is the right time to find or build that love with someone? THAILAND TRIP DETAILS: LINK Family Meeting: 1. "My gf & I are going on 8 months. First 6 months were long distance... …
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Are long-term relationships really the best? This episode explores why some people find short-term relationships more impactful and fulfilling. • Follow @https://www.instagram.com/p/C20DZv6upQy/?igsh=YnZxMThkdTMwdGxz&img_index=2 on Instagram.Family Meeting • "After a yr and half of officially being together, she broke up with me, without a real exp…
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Les Chat family is going to BALI!!!! This week's episode we started of with shout outs to those that book their spot for our group 2025 Bali trip! Then we jump into to some hypothetical couple questions from Therapyjeff's IG page. Would you stay with me if: 1. I changed my political affiliation to the other side? 2. I wanted to be physically intima…
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Bali 2025: Sign up for updates - https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec Class Pass Gym App: Link https://classpass.com/refer/871VN3U08 In this episode, we dive into the nuances of LGBTQ+ terminology and culture. We start by examining the term "Golden Retriever Masc".We explore how "femme" differs from "fem," its significance in various LGBT…
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Pride Festivities & Scandals! In this episode we catch up on NYC Pride Weekend festivities and dive into jaw-dropping internet stories. Brace yourself for a shocking Reddit tale of family drama involving an affair between a mom and her son's wife. Family Meeting “Is it wrong to hate my mother in law? I have been working with my monster in law for o…
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106. "I Kissed A Girl & I Liked It" FT Lilly
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1:00:38This week's episode we welcome a returning guest Lilly! Join us in this fun convo with Lily as she shares her “coming out story” .. In our discussion, we explore the nuances of dating and relationships for Lily, comparing her experiences with men to those with women. We touch upon the challenges and unique aspects of same-sex relationships, sheddin…
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105. Breaking the One-Year Barrier: Lesbian Love
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59:41From the blissful honeymoon phase to the real challenges of long-term commitment, we explore it all. Learn how falling in love can impair critical thinking, why we unconsciously pick partners with familiar flaws, and how attachment issues and milestone pressures can impact your relationship. Discover the importance of tolerating each other's bad ha…
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In this episode 104, we explore the evolving world of queer dating post-pandemic. Technology has made dating easier, yet it comes with challenges, especially for queer women. We review top lesbian dating apps like Zoe, Lex, and Her, highlighting their unique features. We also share 10 essential tips for a secure and successful online dating experie…
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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH LES CHAT FAM!!! We show love and support to our community by sharing small queer own businesses. Also Give details on all pride events taking place in the NJ/NYC area for those looking to attend. For all the first time PRIDE event celebrators we share some tips and tricks on how to make the best of your first time!! Family meeting…
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In ep 102, we dive deep into the experience of coming out at work, whether as gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or any other identity within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. Join us as we explore personal stories of coming out at work, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs. PRIDE NOCHE LATINA NYC TICKETS: https://lasreinas.ticketleap.com/pridenochelatina/…
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EP: 101 - In this episode, we explore the complexities of jealousy within relationships. We go into common signs like lack of trust, possessiveness, and insecurity, highlighting how these emotions can be especially nuanced in LGBTQ+ dynamics. Through personal stories we hope you gain understanding of how jealousy can stem from fear of abandonment, …
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100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups
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1:11:17In EP 100, we delve into the complexities of lesbian breakups, exploring why they often hit harder than others. Drawing from an insightful article by "Amelia on Refinery 29", we examine how women tend to deeply enmesh in relationships, blurring lines between partners, friends, and family. Nicholas Rose, a psychotherapist specializing in queer relat…
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Join us on episode #99 as we explore the various types of attraction that shape our relationships. Have you ever found yourself questioning the nature of your attraction towards someone? Our exploration goes into the blend of emotions, whether it's physical desire, intellectual admiration, or emotional resonance. Sources: https://www.healthline.com…
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Join us on this episode #98 as we reminisce about our unforgettable family trip to Medellin, Colombia. From exploring, eating and dancing to an unexpected event turned our trip into a rollercoaster ride – one of us ended up in the hospital, not once, but twice! As we talk about our highs and lows of our Medellin adventure, we delve into deep questi…
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EP 97: We dive into random questions, confessions, and family meeting topics sent anonymously via Instagram and NGL! Join us as we explore unspoken thoughts and feelings, offering candid insights and humor. From taboo confessions to lesbian drama, we tackle it all, creating a safe space for raw and unfiltered discussions. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL …
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Rejection has always been the hardest pill for us all to swallow. It bears such a negative weight when we feel as though someone you show such interest in just doesn’t share that same interest in return. We then find ourselves questioning what it is about us that could be wrong. But nothing is wrong with you!! Once we accept the fact that we aren’t…
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Curiosity is heavy during our teenage years because we’re trying to find our identity. Those are the years where we are introduced to friendships, relationships, sex, and maybe even questioning our sexuality. As we get older we still learn how to navigate through all those things because no matter how old we are we still find ourselves searching fo…
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What do you consider queer bating? In EP 94 we discuss queer baiting which is when someone uses the possibility of a queer relationship or queer representation to get audiences to watch a show/movie, etc... but they never actually follow through with it. We go into different examples (Karol G, Bad Bunny, Harry Styles, etc) as well as the history on…
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Society has put a lot of pressure on the importance of family. Having loving parents, sharing happy memories with your siblings, feeling safe and protected by the ones you share blood with.. However, that isn’t the version of "family" that everyone gets to experience. What is a chosen family? Why is it important to the community? What to look for w…
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We're back! From what seems to be a long overdue break from the podcast. We talk about how the impact of big life changes in a relationship can be for the best or worse. SORRY FOR THE STATIC SOUND YA'LL :( Unpacking the U-HAUL: What our thoughts were prior to moving. What challenges/stressors we faced in the process. What helped us adapt to the new…
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Episode 13: " Overcoming Mental Health Issues By Changing perspective" With Special Guest Ricardo Zulueta
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37:12Welcome to "Jojo's Empowering Journey," the podcast that delves into inspiring stories of resilience, growth, and positive change. In this episode, join your host Jojo as she sits down with the remarkable Ricardo Zulueta to explore the profound impact of changing perspectives on mental health. Ricardo, driven by a deeply personal experience, shares…
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Episode 12: " Understanding The LGBTQ Community: With CEO of parent with Care Jennifer Boudrye
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19:56Title: "Empowering Love: A Conversation with Jennifer Boudrye, CEO of Parent with Care" Description: In this inspiring episode of "Jojos Empowering Journey" Hosted By Jojo Chanel-Horn join us as we sit down with Jennifer Boudrye, the passionate CEO of "Parent with Care." As a dedicated advocate for parents of LGBTQ children, Jennifer has dedicated …
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Episode 11: "Unveiling Literary Triumphs": with Odelia Elgarat
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26:42**Odelia Elgarat: Crafting Worlds, Empowering Authors** Join us on a riveting episode of "Jojo's Empowering Journey" as we delve into the inspiring narrative of Odelia Elgarat, a literary maestro and the driving force behind the success stories of numerous authors. **About Odelia Elgarat:** Odelia, an accomplished author herself, has journeyed thro…
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Episode 10: "Fear Me Out": Navigating PTSD With Dr. Dana Saperstein
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23:42In this transformative episode of "Jojo's Empowering Journey," host Jojo delves into the profound world of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) alongside esteemed clinical psychologist and host of the "Fear Me Out" podcast, Dr. Dana Superstein. Brace yourselves for an insightful exploration as Dr. Superstein lends his expertise and compassionate p…
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Episode 9: ''Winning the cancer Journey" with Dr. Tiffany Troso- Sandoval
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26:18Title: "JoJo's Empowering Journey: Navigating Cancer with Dr. Tiffany Troso-Sandoval" --- 🎙️ **Episode Overview:** Join us in this heartwarming episode of "JoJo's Empowering Journey," where we delve into the world of compassion, resilience, and empowerment in the face of cancer. In this special interview, JoJo has an interview with the inspiring Dr…
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Episode 8: " Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse'': with Attorney Stephany Ann
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44:50In this episode of "Jojos empowering journey' Podcast where host jojo dives deep into the misunderstood and purvasive issue of Narcissistic abuse. In this enlightening conversation, jojo is joined by the insightful Stephani Ann, a legal professional with a passion for empowering survivors of Narcissistic abuse.…
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Episode 7: ''Jojos Jolly journey: A christmas celebration of Empowerment'' ( special episode)
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8:42In this special holiday episode of jojos empowering journey podcast, join your host jojo as she spreads the festive cheer and shares a heartwarming christmas message. Tis the season for reflection, gratitude and empowerment and jojo has a sleigh of inspirational stories and empowering insights to lift your spirits…
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Episode 6: ''Jojos message on setbacks'': Overcoming minor setback for a major comeback with Jojo Chanel-Horn
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8:43In this episode of ''Jojos Empowering Journey'' season 2 we jojo talks about overcoming the minor setbacks in life to reach your full potential. Episode 6 marks personal growth and staying positive and letting go of the negative.By Jojo Chanel-Horn
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Episode 5: "From Dreams to Screens" with special guest writer and filmmaker David Matthew- Barnes
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21:51In this inspiring episode, join us on JoJo's empowering journey as we delve into the world of filmmaking with the talented David Matthew Barnes. Discover the behind-the-scenes magic, the challenges overcome, and the triumphant moments that shape JoJo's story. From dreams to the screen, this conversation is a testament to resilience, creativity, and…
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91. It's not a goodbye, it's a see you later
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1:07:17As the new year approaches, we reflect on 2023 and set intentions for the new year. We also share some bittersweet news in this episode. EP 91: We discuss our biggest accomplishments in the past year, as well as challenges and obstacles we faced. We dive into personal struggles we had in 2023 and how we plan on achieving personal goals and self imp…
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Episode 4: "Empowering Stardom" With Special Guest and Actress, Marlene Sharp
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29:47In this empowering podcast episode, JoJo takes you on a journey through actress Marlene Sharp's captivating life. Join us as JoJo delves into Marlene's experiences, challenges, and triumphs, providing listeners with insightful perspectives on resilience, success, and the power of storytelling. Don't miss the inspiring conversation that unfolds as J…
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