Best LGBTQ Podcast by Jojo & Dayra Podcasts (2025)

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131. What Does "Making Gay Your Personality" Mean? 46:05

3d ago46:05

46:05

We’re catching up on all things Pride, from Philly to DC! Join us June 6–7 as we host Havana Nights with TASTE Takeover, celebrate queer Latina joy, and ride the DC Pride float to see Cynthia Erivo headlining! Then we dig into the hot topic: What does it mean to “make being gay your personality”? We unpack why it’s celebrated, why it’s judged, and …

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130. Lavender Marriages & "Mixed Orientation Marriages" 45:51

17d ago45:51

45:51

We dive into our weekend celebration for Lilly's birthday (who's been on the podcast twice!) We then quickly chat about the encounter at Boston’s Liberty Hotel where a cisgender woman was asked to prove her gender in a bathroom, shedding light on the ongoing challenges of gender identity and public perception. We also dive into the evolving concept…

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129. Unhinged Dating Stories 58:54

24d ago58:54

58:54

We're catching you up on everything going on the past few weeks, life, drama, healing, and a little oversharing (as usual). We then dive into some truly unhinged lesbian stories that will leave you gasping, laughing, and possibly texting your ex (don’t do it). Let’s get unhinged. Family Meeting "My wife asked for a divorce after 10 years together, …

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128. Lesbian Love Languages 49:35

1M ago49:35

49:35

In this episode, we reference Dr. Lynda, the Lesbian Couples Coach, and explore how love languages can be uniquely expressed in lesbian relationships. From quality time in nature and playful moments to affirming words and cozy cuddles, we dive into what real connection looks like and how to love each other more intentionally. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOC…

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127. Raw Convos: Beyond Small Talk 55:24

2M ago55:24

55:24

In this episode, we explore how to go beyond the usual "How's work?" and ask deeper questions like, “What are you learning about yourself right now?” to build more meaningful connections. We also dive into key questions for new relationships, inspired by therapist Jeff Gunther. What counts as cheating? How do we handle privacy, exes, and boundaries…

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126. Baby Gays & Late Bloomers: Queer Drama & Lesbian LOVE 42:49

2M ago42:49

42:49

In today’s episode, we dive into the latest lesbian dating drama (TikTok Reference LINK with Beeca Moore & Shannon B.) and what it's really like navigating relationships in the queer community. We also talk about our Les Chat NYC meetup! Talking Points: Boundaries with Same-Sex vs. Opposite Sex: Why we tolerate different things from women than from…

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125. Dating Red Flags, Doechii Drama & Decision Fatigue 38:57

2M ago38:57

38:57

In this AUDIO only episode of Les Chat, we’re catching up on everything from the progress of our 75 Soft challenge (46 days to go!) to some exciting updates on our upcoming Thailand and Bali trip (don’t forget, it's the last month to sign up for the payment plan). Plus, we’re thinking about NEW merch drop, with a focus on queer pride gear just in t…

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124. Heteroflexible, Queer Choices & WNBA Drama 38:33

3M ago38:33

38:33

In this episode, we talk about the WNBA drama between DiJonai Carrington and NaLyssa Smith, explore what it means to be "heteroflexible," and discuss the complexities of being queer. We dive into why labels matter and how being queer is more than just a choice. LINK TO WNBA PODCAST VIDEO CLIP BEING QUEER IS A CHOICE VIDEO FAMILY MEETING “I’ve been …

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123. Raw Convos: Why Love is Blind is Lowkey Gay 46:59

3M ago46:59

46:59

Is Love is Blind secretly a lesbian reality show for straight people? We break it down and give you our raw, unfiltered thoughts Welcome to Raw Conversations with Les Chat Podcast (the audio version only), your bi-weekly Wednesday deep dive into all things personal growth, relationships, and any random thoughts we have! In this episode, we’re shari…

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122. Lesbian Dating Myths & Realities 39:20

3M ago39:20

39:20

In this episode, we dive into some common myths about lesbian identities and relationships. We tackle misconceptions like the idea that being attracted to women means rejecting men, that lesbian relationships are always full of drama, or that all lesbians want kids. FAMILY MEETING “I need advice. I broke up with my ex of 3 years after she chose her…

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121. Raw Convo's: Right Person Wrong Time 42:10

3M ago42:10

42:10

Is it possible to be with the right person at the wrong time when fear of judgment and not being out holds you back from fully embracing the relationship? Family Meeting: "I’ve been dating a girl for the past year and everything has been wonderful but I’m not out yet. I come from a very religious family and I’m also a people pleaser and unfortunate…

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120. Welcome Back 51:27

4M ago51:27

51:27

We’re back after an 8 week break! Ahhhhhhh!! There is SO much to catch up on but we can’t fit it all in one episode. Dayra shares insights from her recent NYC LGBTQ+ speech, and we give updates on work and new home life. Finally, we share 23 ideas for celebrating Valentine's Day as a single, from binge-watching your favorite series to planning an o…

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119. Graduations, Holidays & Anniversary Vibes 51:40

6M ago51:40

51:40

In this episode, we’re catching up on everything—JoJo just graduated from her academy (finally a secret revealed!), Dayra shares her experience pledging in college, and we chat about how crazy the holidays can be. We also celebrate our 4-year anniversary by skipping gifts and focusing on experiences. Plus, we answer your questions about the habits …

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118. Dear Younger Self 55:01

6M ago55:01

55:01

In this episode, we reflect on the pressures of marriage, kids, and career milestones. We talk about what we've accomplished so far, and how those societal expectations shape our lives. We also dive into the movie My Old Ass, where an 18-year-old meets her 39-year-old self during a mushroom trip, offering life advice about love, family, and choices…

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117. Mental Health Challenges 1:03:44

6M ago1:03:44

1:03:44

In this episode, we talk about the mental health challenges LGBTQ+ Latinas face, including cultural stigma and the pressure of balancing multiple identities. We also discuss the difficulties of finding mental health care that understands both cultural and LGBTQ+ needs, and how we can break the stigma around mental health in these communities. Tune …

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116. Les Chat Q&A 48:26

7M ago48:26

48:26

In this episode of our Q&A podcast, we catch up after a brief hiatus—Dayra just returned from her trip to Colombia! Join us as we dive into your questions, share travel stories, and discuss how life has been keeping us on our toes. & DON'T REMEMBER TO VOTE!! Family Meeting Questions “My gf lied to me about having two abortions…” “I’ve been dating t…

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115. Ex Girlfriend Drama 45:18

8M ago45:18

45:18

Join us this week as we recap Dayra's unforgettable birthday festivities and celebrate the WNBA's hot season. We’ll also share highlights from our family meeting questions and end with a fun “Who’s Most Likely To” segment. Tune in for laughs, our regular complaints and some insights. FAMILY MEETING “Me and my girlfriend WERE together for almost 6 y…

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114. September Recap 40:56

8M ago40:56

40:56

Join us in this catch up episode as we talk about what we’ve been up to, we celebrated JoJo’s birthday in style, we share our unforgettable experiences at a WNBA game (where we spotted Ashlyn Harris) and recount our thrilling helicopter ride over the NYC skyline. In honor of Hispanic Heritage Month, we dive into the rich cultural contributions of L…

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113. Falling For Your Friends 47:35

9M ago47:35

47:35

In this week’s episode, Jojo and Dayra dive into the nuanced experience of falling for a friend—or having friends express romantic feelings towards them. Through candid personal stories, they explore the emotional rollercoaster of navigating these complex situations. Family Meeting: "My girlfriend and I were dating for a year . She recently found o…

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112. Understanding PDA & LGBTQ+ Challenges 46:44

9M ago46:44

46:44

In this episode, we explore Public Displays of Affection (PDA) from personal and societal perspectives. We start by discussing our own experiences with PDA growing up and how our views have changed over time. Then, we focus on the challenges LGBTQ+ couples face when showing affection in public. A 2021 study reveals that these couples often face dis…

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111. Single Vs. Relationship You 55:30

10M ago55:30

55:30

It is human nature to want love. To find someone you can connect and build with. Learning how to express, give, and receive love is a big part of our journey. However, when is the right time to find or build that love with someone? THAILAND TRIP DETAILS: LINK Family Meeting: 1. "My gf & I are going on 8 months. First 6 months were long distance... …

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110. Long vs. Short Term Relationships 45:43

10M ago45:43

45:43

Are long-term relationships really the best? This episode explores why some people find short-term relationships more impactful and fulfilling. • Follow @https://www.instagram.com/p/C20DZv6upQy/?igsh=YnZxMThkdTMwdGxz&img_index=2 on Instagram.Family Meeting • "After a yr and half of officially being together, she broke up with me, without a real exp…

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109. Would You Stay With Me?? 42:11

10M ago42:11

42:11

Les Chat family is going to BALI!!!! This week's episode we started of with shout outs to those that book their spot for our group 2025 Bali trip! Then we jump into to some hypothetical couple questions from Therapyjeff's IG page. Would you stay with me if: 1. I changed my political affiliation to the other side? 2. I wanted to be physically intima…

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108. Fem VS Femme 42:06

11M ago42:06

42:06

Bali 2025: Sign up for updates - https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec Class Pass Gym App: Link https://classpass.com/refer/871VN3U08 In this episode, we dive into the nuances of LGBTQ+ terminology and culture. We start by examining the term "Golden Retriever Masc".We explore how "femme" differs from "fem," its significance in various LGBT…

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107. Post Pride Month 42:35

11M ago42:35

42:35

Pride Festivities & Scandals! In this episode we catch up on NYC Pride Weekend festivities and dive into jaw-dropping internet stories. Brace yourself for a shocking Reddit tale of family drama involving an affair between a mom and her son's wife. Family Meeting “Is it wrong to hate my mother in law? I have been working with my monster in law for o…

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106. "I Kissed A Girl & I Liked It" FT Lilly 1:00:38

11M ago1:00:38

1:00:38

This week's episode we welcome a returning guest Lilly! Join us in this fun convo with Lily as she shares her “coming out story” .. In our discussion, we explore the nuances of dating and relationships for Lily, comparing her experiences with men to those with women. We touch upon the challenges and unique aspects of same-sex relationships, sheddin…

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105. Breaking the One-Year Barrier: Lesbian Love 59:41

12M ago59:41

59:41

From the blissful honeymoon phase to the real challenges of long-term commitment, we explore it all. Learn how falling in love can impair critical thinking, why we unconsciously pick partners with familiar flaws, and how attachment issues and milestone pressures can impact your relationship. Discover the importance of tolerating each other's bad ha…

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104. Navigating Queer Dating Apps 1:00:19

12M ago1:00:19

1:00:19

In this episode 104, we explore the evolving world of queer dating post-pandemic. Technology has made dating easier, yet it comes with challenges, especially for queer women. We review top lesbian dating apps like Zoe, Lex, and Her, highlighting their unique features. We also share 10 essential tips for a secure and successful online dating experie…

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103. Coming Out With PRIDE 57:14

12M ago57:14

57:14

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH LES CHAT FAM!!! We show love and support to our community by sharing small queer own businesses. Also Give details on all pride events taking place in the NJ/NYC area for those looking to attend. For all the first time PRIDE event celebrators we share some tips and tricks on how to make the best of your first time!! Family meeting…

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102. Coming Out At Work 44:36

1y ago44:36

44:36

In ep 102, we dive deep into the experience of coming out at work, whether as gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or any other identity within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. Join us as we explore personal stories of coming out at work, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs. PRIDE NOCHE LATINA NYC TICKETS: https://lasreinas.ticketleap.com/pridenochelatina/…

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101. Unraveling Jealousy 1:07:38

1y ago1:07:38

1:07:38

EP: 101 - In this episode, we explore the complexities of jealousy within relationships. We go into common signs like lack of trust, possessiveness, and insecurity, highlighting how these emotions can be especially nuanced in LGBTQ+ dynamics. Through personal stories we hope you gain understanding of how jealousy can stem from fear of abandonment, …

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100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups 1:11:17

1y ago1:11:17

1:11:17

In EP 100, we delve into the complexities of lesbian breakups, exploring why they often hit harder than others. Drawing from an insightful article by "Amelia on Refinery 29", we examine how women tend to deeply enmesh in relationships, blurring lines between partners, friends, and family. Nicholas Rose, a psychotherapist specializing in queer relat…

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99. Six Different Types of Attraction 35:55

1y ago35:55

35:55

Join us on episode #99 as we explore the various types of attraction that shape our relationships. Have you ever found yourself questioning the nature of your attraction towards someone? Our exploration goes into the blend of emotions, whether it's physical desire, intellectual admiration, or emotional resonance. Sources: https://www.healthline.com…

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98. Deep Convos & Medellin Adventures 56:43

1y ago56:43

56:43

Join us on this episode #98 as we reminisce about our unforgettable family trip to Medellin, Colombia. From exploring, eating and dancing to an unexpected event turned our trip into a rollercoaster ride – one of us ended up in the hospital, not once, but twice! As we talk about our highs and lows of our Medellin adventure, we delve into deep questi…

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97. Confessions 55:29

1y ago55:29

55:29

EP 97: We dive into random questions, confessions, and family meeting topics sent anonymously via Instagram and NGL! Join us as we explore unspoken thoughts and feelings, offering candid insights and humor. From taboo confessions to lesbian drama, we tackle it all, creating a safe space for raw and unfiltered discussions. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL …

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96. Facing Rejection 1:16:43

1y ago1:16:43

1:16:43

Rejection has always been the hardest pill for us all to swallow. It bears such a negative weight when we feel as though someone you show such interest in just doesn’t share that same interest in return. We then find ourselves questioning what it is about us that could be wrong. But nothing is wrong with you!! Once we accept the fact that we aren’t…

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95. Questioning My Sexuality 1:06:20

1y ago1:06:20

1:06:20

Curiosity is heavy during our teenage years because we’re trying to find our identity. Those are the years where we are introduced to friendships, relationships, sex, and maybe even questioning our sexuality. As we get older we still learn how to navigate through all those things because no matter how old we are we still find ourselves searching fo…

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94. Queer Baiting 1:09:23

1y ago1:09:23

1:09:23

What do you consider queer bating? In EP 94 we discuss queer baiting which is when someone uses the possibility of a queer relationship or queer representation to get audiences to watch a show/movie, etc... but they never actually follow through with it. We go into different examples (Karol G, Bad Bunny, Harry Styles, etc) as well as the history on…

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93. Chosen Family 53:23

1+ y ago53:23

53:23

Society has put a lot of pressure on the importance of family. Having loving parents, sharing happy memories with your siblings, feeling safe and protected by the ones you share blood with.. However, that isn’t the version of "family" that everyone gets to experience. What is a chosen family? Why is it important to the community? What to look for w…

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92. Major Life Changes 54:28

1+ y ago54:28

54:28

We're back! From what seems to be a long overdue break from the podcast. We talk about how the impact of big life changes in a relationship can be for the best or worse. SORRY FOR THE STATIC SOUND YA'LL :( Unpacking the U-HAUL: What our thoughts were prior to moving. What challenges/stressors we faced in the process. What helped us adapt to the new…

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91. It's not a goodbye, it's a see you later 1:07:17

1+ y ago1:07:17

1:07:17

As the new year approaches, we reflect on 2023 and set intentions for the new year. We also share some bittersweet news in this episode. EP 91: We discuss our biggest accomplishments in the past year, as well as challenges and obstacles we faced. We dive into personal struggles we had in 2023 and how we plan on achieving personal goals and self imp…

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90. Queer Dating Icks FT Brennah 1:14:23

1+ y ago1:14:23

1:14:23

In this week's episode we welcome our friend Brennah back to Les Chat to deep dive into the tragedies of lesbian dating. Brennah shares some details about how her dating journey has been going and we run through a list of dating icks. The best advice Brennah wanted to leave with us is that letting go of expectations could make dating less tragic. Y…

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89. Coming Out To Your Child FT Jynette 57:54

1+ y ago57:54

57:54

Coming out to your kids as “LGBTQ+” can be a hard conversation. In today’s episode we invite our dearest friend/momma to talk about her experience! We dive into Can you date someone who’s in the closet? How to prepare yourself to come out to your kids.Advice for parents who want to come out to their kids but don’t know how. Do parents need to come …

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88. From Girlfriend To Wife 55:50

1+ y ago55:50

55:50

Marriage! A popular topic we love to talk about. Same sex marriage became legal in 2015, only 8 years ago. In this episode we dive into our idea of marriage growing up and our point of view on marriage now. We dive into "What are the main reasons for same sex couples divorcing"? "Why do you think marriage is so “valued” by society?" Lastly, we dive…

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87. Queer Holiday Survival Guide 1:09:12

1+ y ago1:09:12

1:09:12

The holidays can be a little intimidating, especially for queer people who may or may NOT feel safe in places or with people (family) they are going to visit. We’re gonna chat about how you can make the most out of this holiday season to keep your sanity! 1. "Lesbian relationships and being friends with an ex. I feel this is more common among lesbi…

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86. Being An Ally 1:05:59

1+ y ago1:05:59

1:05:59

The coming out process isn’t always a positive experience for a lot of LGBTQ+ people. Not only do they struggle with the process of figuring themselves out but they also bear the weight of all the negativity they may face when sharing their truth with family and friends. So as an ally, how do you provide a safe space for those to disclose to you th…

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84. Should We Take A Break? 1:04:50

1+ y ago1:04:50

1:04:50

Relationship breaks are perceived as a negative and selfish act. How can you claim to love your partner but want a break from your relationship? Most times one partner wants to take a break while the other partner doesn’t because it is viewed as one foot out the door to a break up. Taking a break in a relationship has a negative stigma because thei…

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83. Six Relationship Check-In Questions To Ask Your Partner 55:34

1+ y ago55:34

55:34

We say that communication is the key to a successful relationship but what does that look like in practice? Dayra shares some questions that help practice monthly check-ins with your partner. Dayra also mentions the new found research behind lab grown babies and how IVG could transform reproduction. Questions to ask your partner: What is something …

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82. Emotional Safety 47:32

1+ y ago47:32

47:32

What is emotional safety? It basically means being able to be vulnerable with your partner. Jojo goes into 7 ways to create emotional safety in a relationship. Jojo & Dayra both discuss what it means to feel “emotionally safe” and they talk about a previous “discussion” they had where Dayra didn’t feel safe at the moment.Read Article for more on em…

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81. TV Lesbianships 54:38

1+ y ago54:38

54:38

We love to see LOVE on the big screen, especially WLW relationships. In this episode, Jojo shares some of her favorite TV lesbian relationships that she just can’t get enough of, as well as a list of other queer related TV shows for you to check out. To end on a juicy note, Dayra brings out the new couples question card game called pillow talk and …

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