A new podcast where LA-based stand-up comedians Lara Beitz and Jonathan Giles discuss a variety of topics with new 10-15 minute episodes every week.
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Hi. My name's Lara and I’m a comedian… I’m also a member of numerous 12-step programs for substance addiction, eating disorders, and relationship issues … and money… and family stuff. Now, I'm hosting a new podcast where my comedy friends and I help YOU with your problems. It’s help. But funny. Need Unsound Advice? Send a voice memo or email to: [email protected]
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Join Louie Paoletti and Michael Malone as they embark on a humorous journey of self-discovery while unpacking their weekly therapy sessions. From navigating grief and anxiety to embracing ADHD quirks, Secondhand Therapy is a funny, heartfelt podcast that brings laughter and meaning to life’s toughest challenges. Unlicensed but honest conversations about mental health, masculinity, and modern relationships — hosted by two guys figuring it out in real time. Support us on Patreon! http://www.pa ...
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Welcome to Foster the Podcast, your go-to comedy relationship show. Hosted by stand-up comedian Justin Foster and professional life coach Kristie Marie, we bring in the funniest guests to dive into love, marriage, epic dating disasters, red flags, and everything in between. New episodes every Monday!
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Welcome to our standup listening party! Every week, we will be featuring and discussing some of the greatest stand-up of all time, from classic bits out of Comedy Central’s library to jokes that were written the same week you hear them, hosted by Comedy Central's Tom Thakkar.
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Grief (Part II) / Music Triggers & Healing Over Time When the World Won't Stop | #085
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44:24Louie opens up about how music can unexpectedly trigger waves of grief — and reflects on the strangely beautiful reality that the world keeps moving after someone dies. Michael shares how his own experience of loss has shifted over time, revealing how grief evolves and reshapes our sense of self. Together, they explore the many forms grief can take…
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Episode 13: Chris Mack | Foster the Podcast
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55:49Welcome to Episode 13 of Foster the Podcast, the official podcast of comedian Justin Foster and professional life coach Kristie Marie. This week, we’re joined by Chris Mack. We talk about pretending to like things for a partner, prison dating sites, and play 'Two Truths and a Lie'—plus, Justin shares the crazy raw meat story. This week’s question f…
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Therapy Intake Questions, ADHD Struggles, and Starting with a New Therapist | #084
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57:30Social media boundaries in therapy, ADHD shutdowns, and how productivity shame messes with your self-worth. Starting therapy with someone new can feel… awkward. Louie shares about his first session with a new therapist, and the surprising comment he received on Instagram that sparked a deeper conversation. Should therapists follow you on social med…
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Episode 12: Evan Ayers | Foster the Podcast
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43:07Welcome to Episode 12 of Foster the Podcast, the official podcast of comedian Justin Foster and professional life coach Kristie Marie. This week, we’re joined by Evan Ayers. We talk the perks of dating a sober person, a first date that ended in an arrest, and the worst movies to hook up to. Plus, this week’s question for Kristie: how do couples han…
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Sitting in Discomfort: How Therapy Is Changing Our Relationships | #083
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50:38Louie opens up about a vulnerable conversation with his girlfriend that challenged their relationship — all through the lens of parts work therapy. He shares how sitting with discomfort, rather than avoiding it, is transforming the way he shows up in partnership. Michael reflects on his own experience with parts work, revealing emotional memories c…
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Episode 11: Liza Doll | Foster the Podcast
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50:48Welcome to Episode 11 of Foster the Podcast, the official podcast of comedian Justin Foster and professional life coach Kristie Marie. This week, we’re joined by Liza Doll. We dive into diet situationships, a website where you can review your ex, and how to stop overthinking in relationships. Plus- we play another round of “red flag/ green flag.” W…
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Louie has bronchitis and found his therapists Instagram — and why that might be a red flag. Michael dives deep into his fear of commitment, the emotional tension around flirting in monogamous relationships, and why he struggles with being perceived as “in trouble” for noticing other women. Together, they explore the blurry line between attraction a…
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Episode 10: Zara Mizrahi | Foster the Podcast
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49:27Welcome to Episode 10 of Foster the Podcast, the official podcast of comedian Justin Foster and professional life coach Kristie Marie. This week, we’re joined by Zara Mizrahi. We dive into how to grow with your partner, ignoring deal breakers, and the do's and don'ts of bringing a third into your relationship. Plus, a listener asks: what's the best…
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Replay - Family Dysfunction and EMDR with Lara Beitz
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59:38Support the pod: http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod http://secondhandtherapypod.com Follow us here: http://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod http://tiktok.com/@secondhandtherapypod http://instagram.com/itsloubear http://instagram.com/malonecomedy Contact us: [email protected] 818-850-2448…
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Episode 9: Eric Rocha | Foster the Podcast
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42:41Welcome to Episode 9 of Foster the Podcast, the official podcast of comedian Justin Foster and professional life coach Kristie Marie. This week, we’re joined by Eric Rocha. We discuss dating someone without a sense of humor, straight guys looking for girls at Pride, and the most awkward first dates. Welcome to Foster the Podcast, your go-to comedy …
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This is the recording of our first live show. It was recorded December 19, 2024 in Los Angeles, Ca. Support the pod: http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod http://secondhandtherapypod.com Follow us here: http://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod http://tiktok.com/@secondhandtherapypod http://instagram.com/itsloubear http://instagram.com/malonecome…
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Episode 8: Lara Beitz | Foster the Podcast
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47:59Welcome to Episode 8 of Foster the Podcast, the official podcast of comedian Justin Foster and professional life coach Kristie Marie. This week, we’re joined by Lara Beitz. We discuss double texting a woman, waiting ten dates to sleep together, guys not knowing personal info about their guy friends, and five myths about dating. Plus, this week’s qu…
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You Probably Think This Story’s About You: It Started as a Love Story
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35:18*Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous. When Brittani Ard matches with Kanon on Hingesparks fly. Their first date revealed an instantconnection and chemistry.Kanon is devastatingly handsome with a charm that disarmed even the mostguarded heart—plus he is surprisingly emotionally ava…
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Welcome to episode 7 of Foster the Podcast, the official podcast of comedian Justin Foster and professional life coach Kristie Marie. This week, we're joined by JR Cruz to discuss love addiction, the perks of being a step dad, and the red flags of dating a scorpio. Welcome to Foster the Podcast, your go-to comedy relationship show. Hosted by stand-…
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Louie grapples with the question: When is the right time to return to therapy? After making progress, Louie wonders whether he should open up about his podcast with his new therapist. Alongside Michael, they explore the balance between what to share and what to keep private in therapy. When does context matter in conversations about mental health? …
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Episode 6: Matty Chymbor | Foster the Podcast
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53:36Welcome to episode 6 of Foster the Podcast, the official podcast of comedian Justin Foster and professional life coach Kristie Marie. This week, we're joined by Matty Chymbor to discuss the things women can do that are attractive but men can't, short guys on dating apps, and cooking dinner for your partner in lingerie. Plus, a listener calls in wit…
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Louie and Michael unpack a shocking voice note from a listener who discovered her husband's infidelity while she was 9 months pregnant. The guys dive into the complexities of relationship trust, cheating, and how they might handle betrayal in their own lives. Tune in for a candid conversation on how to cope with infidelity, rebuild trust, and navig…
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Episode 5: McKenna White | Foster the Podcast
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39:40Welcome to episode 5 of Foster the Podcast, the official podcast of comedian Justin Foster and professional life coach Kristie Marie. This week we are joined by McKenna White, who tells us about her throuple experience, dealing with codependency, and guys that act "too cool". Plus the question for Kristie this week- my partner wants kids but I don'…
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Overcoming Anxiety and Understanding Triggers | #079
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47:05Michael returns from his tour and opens up about his struggles with staying grounded in one place. Together with Louie, they unpack the complexities of anxiety, how to recognize it in the moment, and share personal experiences of navigating anxiety triggers. Michael’s hilarious moment of contemplating asking a bus driver for help (LOL) leads to an …
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Episode 4: Mikayla Patti | Foster the Podcast
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1:05:40Welcome to episode 4 of Foster the Podcast, the official podcast of comedian Justin Foster and professional life coach Kristie Marie. This week, we are joined by Mikayla Patti, who tells us about a disastrous first date she just had! Plus, the funniest ways to bail on a date, women reveal the worst things they’ve heard on a first date, and should y…
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Which Dating App is Best for Relationships? Attachment Styles & Political Climate with Jenny Zigrino | #078
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58:16Jenny explores the best dating apps for relationships, including Hinge, Bumble, and Feeld, and gives advice on which platform may be most effective for finding a serious connection. We dive into the psychology of attachment styles as Jenny opens up about her own disorganized attachment style and how it leads to anxious-avoidant behavior in relation…
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Episode 3: Erica Rhodes | Foster the Podcast
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58:29Welcome to episode 3 of Foster the Podcast, the official podcast of comedian Justin Foster and professional life coach Kristie Marie. This week we are joined by comedian Erica Rhodes. We discuss still being friends with your ex, "super fans", dating a comedian, and we play "is this a red flag or green flag?" Plus the question for Kristie this week-…
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Emotional Responsibility, Codependency & Communication Breakdowns | #077
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50:51Louie opens up about a recent fight he had with his girlfriend – no therapy, just real talk. It's a classic relationship argument, and we're diving deep into it. We discuss emotional responsibility, codependency, communication breakdowns, and much more that came up during the fight. Michael pushes Louie to reflect on his actions and how he approach…
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Episode 2: Dustin Ybarra | Foster the Podcast
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39:09Welcome to Episode 2 of Foster the Podcast! This week we are joined by actor and comedian Dustin Ybarra. On this episode we discuss marriage proposals, dating in sobriety, eating food without your girl, and a question for Kristie; "why does my girlfriend not trust me?" Dustin Ybarra can be seen in multiple movie and TV shows, including "We Bought A…
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Episode 1: Nandi Sharma | Foster the Podcast
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43:25We’re back! Welcome to Foster the Podcast, the official podcast of comedian Justin Foster and professional life coach Kristie Marie. This is our first episode since 2019, and we’re kicking it off with a special guest—actor and director Nandi Sharma. In this episode, we dive into topics like dating older women, love addiction, and a wild night invol…
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Trauma, Personal Growth & Normalizing Pain | #076
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54:27Michael shares his personal experience with starting Adderall for ADHD, offering a deep dive into how medication has shaped his mental health journey. He reflects on his hometown and the complexities of reconnecting with old memories, before diving into an uncomfortable conversation he recently had with an old friend. Lou offers a fresh perspective…
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Lou and Michael reflect on a powerful voicemail they received about the aftermath of breakups and the grief that follows. Lou opens up about a past relationship where an ultimatum changed everything for him. The conversation shifts to a meaningful DM asking how women can better support the men in their lives—something Lou and Michael feel strongly …
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There's a 12-Step Program for That | #074
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1:07:33Comedian and all-around good human, Ken Garr, joins the pod today. Ken discusses his history of being a black-out drunk alcoholic, with some stories that will make you think; before sharing his journey to being 8 years sober. He reflects on his addiction to toxic relationships and what he's learned through his 12-step program dealing with codepende…
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I Don't Trust Myself and I Have Anxiety (No I Don't) | #073
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49:30Michael dives deep into his denial about anxiety and the fear of missing something, only to realize he’s been missing more than he thought. He opens up about the emotional impact of losing his mother and how it’s left him without a safety net. Michael also reflects on his tendency to quit things out of frustration and his hesitation to ask for help…
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Asking Permission to go to a Strip Club and Cheating on Vacation | #072
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44:50In an impromptu recording and conversation, Lou and Michael get into relationships. Asking for permission or checking in? Is cheating forgivable? What is cheating? Let's talk hypotheticals. Anxious attachments and building trust... or re-building trust? Support the pod: http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod http://secondhandtherapypod.com Follow …
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I'm Being Honest With Myself and Honestly I'm NOT Selfish | #071
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1:00:22Lou walked out of therapy because he just wasn't feeling it; Michael did EMDR. Lou and Michael recount an uncomfortable conversation they had off-air. Michael has been challenged to take a serious look at himself and his patterns and be honest with himself. Michael reflects on his need to explain his behaviors before getting into shame. Lou and Mic…
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I Had an Emotionally Immature Parent and Now I Can't Be Vulnerable | #070
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51:12Lou still hates a mismatch as he struggles with his desire to be more vulnerable. Lou and Michael discuss what it means to ask for emotional support. Lou's therapist dropped a bombshell on where shame comes from, especially if you had emotionally immature parents or if your parents always fixed your mistakes for you. Lou takes care of everything an…
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One Of Those Long, Intimate Kitchen Conversations | #069
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44:59In a different type of episode, Lou and Michael break down an emotional conversation they had just before sitting down to record the podcast. Support the pod: http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod http://secondhandtherapypod.com Follow us here: http://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod http://tiktok.com/@secondhandtherapypod http://instagram.com/…
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It's a New Year (Again) and We've All Missed the Point (Still) | #068
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47:58It's a new year, and Lou made a shirt. Lou had some difficulty reflecting on 2024, and connects it to his big-picture thinking. Lou had a bit of an existential therapy session and got into how the luxuries of today's society have dulled existence. Lou and Michael discuss what life is supposed to be. Lou is trying to get connected with his body more…
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Let's Talk About Our Dynamic and You Don't Know Us Like That | #067
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51:26Lou and Michael discuss their dynamic, relationship, communication style and everything else. They discuss comments, engagement, and the idea that listeners know them intrinsically. All of this is sparked by a message received on Patreon... Shoutout to Nikki. We love you. Support the pod: http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod http://secondhandthe…
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Lonely Fat Kid With a Neck Tattoo | #066
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1:06:16Lou and Michael hammer out a little misunderstanding. Lou is checking in with his parts in a new way with new intention. Michael is still addicted to validation. Lou is struggling to come to terms with the parts of his father that live within him. Michael opens up about his childhood and his disbelief that he deserves love. Michael looks back on hi…
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A Floating Task List and Struggling To Be | #065
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1:03:38Lou doesn't hate to be needed after all which ties into his main focus of being. Lou feels like he has to catch everything before it happens. Michael's ADHD has his to-do list floating around in the ether. Michael still prioritizes his external appearance over his internal growth. Lou and Michael compare their views on their phones affecting their …
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My Absent Father and Closing the Door (Or Not) | #064
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53:56Lou can't believe what Michael is doing in therapy. Lou saw his dad for the first time in four years... unplanned. Lou recaps his relationship with his father. Michael is coming to terms with loving his family but not necessarily liking them. Lou and Michael debate grief before discussing cutting people out of your life and closing the door on rela…
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Grandiosity and The Inability to Cry | #063
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53:38Lou had a very existential therapy session this week. Why are humans the ones, ya know? Lou reflects on his phone and online shopping and the dopamine hit of a new match before getting into his swan song in therapy. Michael is starting a new exercise tracking points and he is already up ten thousand. Support the pod: http://patreon.com/secondhandth…
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The Election and Logging Your Feelings to Find Your Needs | #062
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46:48We’re talking about the emotional side of the election and Donald Trump’s victory before we get into understanding your needs as a human. Support the pod: http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod http://secondhandtherapypod.com Follow us here: http://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod http://tiktok.com/@secondhandtherapypod http://instagram.com/itsl…
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Lou and Michael pull cards from the game “We’re Not Really Strangers” which lead to conversations about when they’ve surprised themselves, curiosity vs judgement, cause and effect, what parts of themselves they see in each other and much much more. And then Lou shares something that rocks Michael’s world. Support the pod: http://patreon.com/secondh…
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Love, Vulnerability and Boundaries | #060
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49:16It's a deep dive into the complexities of modern relationships. Louie opens up about his struggles with balancing healthy boundaries and offering genuine love, while reflecting on his partner's perceived lack of effort in their shared home life. He explores the challenges of conflict resolution, emotional growth, and the fear of embracing vulnerabl…
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We couldn’t avoid it any longer. We’re talking about grief this week. Support the pod: http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod http://secondhandtherapypod.com Follow us here: http://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod http://tiktok.com/@secondhandtherapypod http://instagram.com/itsloubear http://instagram.com/malonecomedy Contact us: secondhandthera…
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This is a deeper, heavier episode. Lou opens with a quick pickleball story. Feeling a bit down lately, Michael explores the reasons behind his funk, with Lou suggesting it might be for obvious reasons. The conversation delves into Michael's childhood experiences and his relationship with his parents, offering insights into how our past shapes our p…
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Cussing Out Grandma and a Bi-Weekly Shower | #058
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48:50Lou shares his dream with a surprising message for Michael, sparking a discussion about self-reflection and personal growth before cussing out his Grandma. Lou reveals his new habit of mouth-taping during sleep. Lou may have a hygiene problem. Meanwhile, Michael candidly reflects on his professional journey, expressing feelings of backstepping and …
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Neurodivergent Life and Daytime Therapy | #057
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49:00Stay tuned after the episode for a little surprise! A sample of our weekly "After the Pod" only on Patreon! Lou shares his candid thoughts on why he struggles with therapy, particularly due to the scheduling during the day (not really). He reveals exciting news about finally getting scheduled for his autism and ADHD testing, highlighting the import…
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Getting Rejected by a Celebrity and Dissociating During Therapy | #056
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44:04In this insightful episode, Michael opens up about the side effects he's experienced from his ADHD medication. Join him and Lou as they explore their differing views on strangers discussing medication and the impact of mental health on daily life. Lou shares a humorous story about sliding into a celebrity's DMs—only to face rejection. The conversat…
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Michael has noticed that he used to be hot but now he's just cute. Lou doesnt care. Michael talks about the Ask Matrix and how his time with his new therapist is starting out. Support the pod: http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod http://secondhandtherapypod.com Follow us here: http://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod http://tiktok.com/@secondha…
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Missing My Girlfriend and Painting My Toenails | #054
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51:24Michael clears up a few things (a lot of things) from Episode 051 with regards to public perception, Snapchat and other things. Lou made a joke in therapy that didn’t land. Lou painted his toenails. Lou feels weak and embarrassed for missing his partner and had an uncomfortable conversation with her about it. Support the pod: http://patreon.com/sec…
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The Break Up... She Left Out of Nowhere | #053
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43:29We talk about a break-up… Support the pod: http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod http://secondhandtherapypod.com Follow us here: http://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod http://tiktok.com/@secondhandtherapypod http://instagram.com/itsloubear http://instagram.com/malonecomedy Contact us: [email protected] 818-850-2448…
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