Best Licky Podcasts (2025)

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Episode 37 | Are Red-Heads Black? 1:40:16

3d ago1:40:16

1:40:16

In this episode of Hey White Women, Daniella Mestyanek Young and Rebecca dive into the layered and surprising discourse around a viral TikTok trend that claimed “all redheads are Black.” What starts as a joke becomes a powerful lens for unpacking themes of othering, cultural belonging, and the danger of conformity in white-dominant spaces. The host…

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Episode 36 | Growth Before Activism 54:04

17d ago54:04

54:04

In this episode, Daniella and Rebecca engage in a deep conversation about the complexities of white supremacy, the importance of listening to Black voices, and the need for white women to confront their own roles in social justice movements. They explore hypothetical scenarios regarding protests, the significance of community, and the dangers of ig…

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Episode 35 | Colors for Community 1:22:28

24d ago1:22:28

1:22:28

In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella explore the intersections of fashion, identity, and race, discussing how personal expression through clothing can challenge societal norms. They delve into the complexities of navigating whiteness in diverse spaces, the cultural disconnect evident in social interactions, and the significance of color as a …

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Episode 34 | Boom Boom Beige 1:47:29

1M ago1:47:29

1:47:29

In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the complexities of platform building, the evolution of ideas, and the impact of cultural narratives on personal identity. They discuss the importance of vulnerability in leadership, the tenets of white supremacy, and the challenges of navigating capitalism and professionalism. The dialogue emphasi…

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Episode 33 | Protest or Parade? 1:38:26

1M ago1:38:26

1:38:26

In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the complexities of race, activism, and the impact of online criticism, particularly on black women. They discuss the intersection of political identity and extremism, the role of white women in social movements, and the importance of listening to marginalized voices. The conversation delves into t…

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Episode 32 | "Lickies and Chewies?" 1:38:38

2M ago1:38:38

1:38:38

This conversation delves into the complexities of race, privilege, and activism, particularly focusing on the experiences of black women and the reactions of white women in the context of social justice. The speakers discuss the historical and current realities of systemic oppression, the implications of language, and the importance of listening an…

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Episode 30 | Speaking equitably with confidence 1:22:38

2M ago1:22:38

1:22:38

In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca delve into the complexities of cult dynamics, particularly focusing on the Nation of Islam. They explore personal experiences with cults, the intersection of race and cults, and the societal responses to these groups. The discussion highlights the role of white women in these conversations, the importance …

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Episode 29 | Faces on mountains and people in streets 1:33:22

3M ago1:33:22

1:33:22

In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore various themes including creativity during the COVID pandemic, the rehumanization of historical figures, the dynamics of cults and community, the complexities of whiteness and feminism, parenting approaches, and the military's cult-like nature. They also discuss cultural perspectives on purity, tra…

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Episode 28 | Appropriation or Appropriate 1:30:28

3M ago1:30:28

1:30:28

This conversation explores the intersections of capitalism, cultural identity, and the dynamics of power in relationships. The speakers discuss the gig economy as a potential alternative to traditional capitalism, the complexities of cultural appropriation, and the challenges of navigating identity as white individuals in diverse cultural spaces. T…

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Episode 27 | The "Making" Money Myth 1:27:04

3M ago1:27:04

1:27:04

In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the intersection of music, cult experiences, and cultural identity. They discuss how growing up in a cult influenced their music preferences, particularly the emotional suppression associated with it. The conversation delves into the complexities of cultural appropriation in the music industry, the…

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Episode 26 | You Don't Have to "Get" Kendrick Lamar 1:29:21

3M ago1:29:21

1:29:21

This conversation explores the cultural significance of Kendrick Lamar's Super Bowl performance, delving into themes of resistance, identity, and the complexities of race and gender in America. The speakers discuss the symbolism in music and dance as forms of cultural expression and resistance, the role of white women in social change, and the impo…

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Episode 25 | Quit Playing Monopoly 1:27:02

4M ago1:27:02

1:27:02

In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella explore themes of empowerment, self-expression, and the societal narratives that shape our identities. They discuss the impact of fashion on self-perception, the dangers of conspiracy theories, and the importance of community and networking. The conversation also delves into the dynamics of motherhood, par…

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Exploring the Uniqueverse (part 2) 13:05

4M ago13:05

13:05

Exploring the Uniqueverse (part 2)By Drew

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Episode 24 | Grindset is Gross 1:25:49

4M ago1:25:49

1:25:49

In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the complexities of living in a society influenced by Donald Trump, the rise of online cultures, and the misogyny that permeates social interactions. They discuss the role of white women in society, the importance of community and self-care, and the impact of societal expectations on individual ide…

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Dance Life, Blame, and the Zombie Nod 10:53

4M ago10:53

10:53

Dance Life, Blame, and the Zombie Nod Check out this episode on YouTube!By Drew

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Evolution of the Pod, and the Moth 11:18

4M ago11:18

11:18

Evolution of the Pod, and the Moth Check out this episode on YouTube!By Drew

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Episode 23 | Hillmantok University 1:24:27

4M ago1:24:27

1:24:27

This conversation delves into the complexities of therapy, race, and community dynamics, particularly focusing on the experiences of individuals navigating these spaces. The speakers discuss the challenges of finding appropriate therapeutic support, the importance of community in healing, and the role of white women in social movements. They also e…

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Episode 22 | Treat Yourself 1:26:26

4M ago1:26:26

1:26:26

This conversation explores the themes of adulthood, personal choices, loyalty, community, and the complexities of societal structures. The speakers discuss the importance of treating oneself, the challenges of loyalty in organizations, the individuality within the military, and the role of nonprofits in addressing societal issues. They also delve i…

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Episode 21 | Cult Baby Musical Concept 1:20:27

5M ago1:20:27

1:20:27

In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella explore the intersection of creativity, personal identity, and societal structures. They discuss the emotional connections formed through creative projects, the development of Daniella's musical 'Uncultured', and the themes of gender and power dynamics within it. The conversation also delves into the impor…

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Episode 20 | Deconstructing Phrases and Idioms 1:12:14

5M ago1:12:14

1:12:14

In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the complexities of race, privilege, and the language we use to discuss these topics. They delve into the implications of comfort and consent in conversations about race, the military's perspective on colorblindness, and the concept of privilege through the lens of games like Monopoly. The discussi…

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Exploring the Uniqueverse to Find Our Superpowers 22:03

6M ago22:03

22:03

Exploring the Uniqueverse to Find Our SuperpowersBy Drew

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Episode 19 | Wicked takes on Wicked 1:15:39

6M ago1:15:39

1:15:39

In this conversation, the speakers explore the themes of race, identity, and representation through the lens of the musical Wicked. They discuss the implications of casting choices, the critique of whiteness, and the importance of diverse narratives in art and media. The conversation emphasizes the need for allyship and understanding different pers…

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Episode 18 | Black Privilege? 1:17:01

6M ago1:17:01

1:17:01

In this conversation, the speakers explore the complexities of privilege, race, and social justice. They discuss how children perceive privilege, the importance of redefining terms like 'white privilege', and the role of community in addressing racism. The conversation also touches on the intersection of feminism and race, the challenges of critiqu…

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Episode 17 | Weaponized Literacy 1:30:12

6M ago1:30:12

1:30:12

This conversation explores the evolution of reading from a joyful activity to an obligation, the impact of recommended reading lists, and the cultural narratives that shape our understanding of literature. It delves into the role of education in shaping perspectives, the struggle for authenticity in reading, and the arbitrary nature of degrees and …

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Episode 16 | What do we do now? 1:25:49

6M ago1:25:49

1:25:49

In this episode of 'Hey White Women', the first recorded after the 2024 election, hosts Daniella and Rebecca engage in a deep conversation about the role of white women in dismantling white supremacy. They discuss the importance of acknowledging discomfort, the need for collective action, and the power of community in creating change. The conversat…

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Episode 15 | Human Rights vs Pet Rocks 1:31:10

7M ago1:31:10

1:31:10

This unplanned conversation delves into the complexities of anti-racism, personal growth, and the impact of societal norms on individual experiences. The speakers discuss the importance of language, the challenges of navigating discomfort, and the role of community in healing. They also explore the intersection of mental health and racism, emphasiz…

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Episode 14 | Discomfort Isn’t Danger: Rehumanizing Conflict 1:13:41

7M ago1:13:41

1:13:41

In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the complexities of human nature, the oversimplification of good and evil narratives, and the importance of rehumanization in social discourse. They discuss the role of white women in social justice, the impact of capitalism on group dynamics, and the necessity of discomfort for personal growth. Th…

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Episode 13 | There Are No Easy Answers 1:18:55

7M ago1:18:55

1:18:55

In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the intersections of entertainment, identity, and societal structures. They discuss the role of whiteness in shaping experiences, the burdens of perfectionism and productivity, and the implications of the cult of entrepreneurship. The conversation delves into the dynamics of social media, the weapo…

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Episode 12 | Education and Total Institutions (Surprise producer appearance) 1:23:20

8M ago1:23:20

1:23:20

In this suprise guest episode, the speakers explore the challenges of traditional education, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. They discuss the concept of total institutions and how societal norms can impact personal identity and acceptance. The dialogue shifts to the importance of navigating life beyond conventional paths, embracing cha…

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Episode 11 | The Popular Girls Aren't Happy 1:13:04

8M ago1:13:04

1:13:04

This conversation explores the complexities of ageism, objectivity, and bias, particularly in relation to race and gender. The speakers discuss the societal perceptions of age, the historical context of bias, and the reinterpretation of myths through feminist lenses. They delve into the impact of gender in combat and leadership roles, the illusion …

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Unraveling a Rubber Chain and Talking about 3rd Grade 11:06

8M ago11:06

11:06

Unraveling a Rubber Chain and Talking about 3rd Grade

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Asking Questions 7:34

8M ago7:34

7:34

Drew and daughter Audrey share their childhoods with each other.By Drew

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Episode 10 | Sunk Cost Fallacy 1:24:28

8M ago1:24:28

1:24:28

In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella explore the complexities of content creation, the importance of flexibility, and the challenges of navigating societal expectations. They discuss the value of redefining success, the impact of branding on perception, and the role of secrecy in both corporate and cult environments. The conversation also del…

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Episode 9 | Language of White Supremacy 1:18:12

9M ago1:18:12

1:18:12

In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the intersections of cult dynamics, whiteness, and gender, discussing how personal experiences shape broader societal issues. They delve into the importance of language, the exit costs of leaving cults, and the power of storytelling. The discussion emphasizes the need for community support, the rol…

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Episode 8 | White Supremacy in the Cult of Corporate America 1:17:21

9M ago1:17:21

1:17:21

The conversation explores the themes of color, PowerPoint culture, repetitiveness of work, cult-like aspects of organizations, the need for individuality, the impact of white supremacy, and the power of democratized knowledge. In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella discuss the loaded language around the word 'racist' and the fragility and volat…

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Episode 7 | The Undergarments of Control 1:31:18

9M ago1:31:18

1:31:18

The conversation explores the topic of underwear and its role in control and oppression. It delves into the societal expectations and policing of women's bodies, the arbitrary nature of professionalism, and the intersection of underwear with race and gender. The discussion also touches on the history of underwear, the influence of capitalism and co…

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Episode 6 | Body Coverage 1:16:20

9M ago1:16:20

1:16:20

In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella discuss the concept of body coverage as a form of appearance control in cults and white supremacy. They explore the loaded language and thought-stopping cliches used to enforce modesty and control women's bodies. They also touch on the intersection of race and body coverage, highlighting the policing of bl…

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Episode 5 | Kamala Harris and The Glass Cliff 1:27:38

10M ago1:27:38

1:27:38

In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca discuss the representation of women and people of color in politics, particularly focusing on Kamala Harris. They explore the excitement and hope that Harris's candidacy brings, while also acknowledging the challenges and limitations that come with being a Black woman in a position of power. They emphasize…

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Bob, Steve, Alex, and Mike, the Voles in our Neighborhood 9:04

10M ago9:04

9:04

Drew and his six-year-old daughter Audrey share their childhoods with each other.By Drew

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Episode 4 | Body Size Control 1:05:23

10M ago1:05:23

1:05:23

In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca discuss the concept of deconstruction and how it relates to body size and white supremacy. They share personal stories and insights about the control and manipulation of appearance in cults and society. They explore the impact of body size on self-worth and the harmful effects of societal beauty standards.…

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Episode 3 | Oops, I Married a White Supremacist 1:11:36

10M ago1:11:36

1:11:36

In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca discuss the impact of white supremacy and cult-like behavior on their lives. Daniella shares her personal experience of being married to a white supremacist and how it made her reflect on her own identity and choices. They explore the pressure to conform to societal expectations and the importance of embra…

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Episode 2 | White Women and Black Hair: Bridging the Gap 1:17:09

10M ago1:17:09

1:17:09

The conversation explores the significance of hair in relation to coercive control, dehumanization, and racism. The hosts discuss the experience of having their hair touched without consent and the emotional journey of embracing natural hair. They highlight the lack of consent and respect in interactions between white women and black women regardin…

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The Myth of White Supremacy and the Process of Deprogramming 1:01:48

10M ago1:01:48

1:01:48

In this conversation, Daniella Mestyanek Young and Rebecca discuss their experiences with cults and the deconstruction of white supremacy. They explore the stages of leaving a cult and the process of deprogramming from the myth of white supremacy. They also touch on topics such as privilege, racism, and the impact of cult dynamics on society. The c…

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310: Lou Barlow (Dinosaur Jr., Sebadoh, Folk Implosion, Raw Impressions) 1:26:18

11M ago1:26:18

1:26:18

Over the past 40 years, Lou Barlow's body of work--with bands like Dinosaur Jr., Sebadoh, and as a solo artist--has immensely impacted Joe's life. Lou tells Joe about growing up in the chaotic 1970s; his early love of pop radio; the enormous influence the Ramones had on his life; hearing his early songs on college radio; sleep hygiene; and his incl…

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Start of Summer with Elfin and Licky Jr. 8:05

12M ago8:05

8:05

Start of Summer with Elfin and Licky Jr.

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BNS: Dave Elitch 2: Self Awareness Boogaloo 28:10

12M ago28:10

28:10

Dave Elitch returns for a bonus episode to discuss his new course, Staying Out of Your Own Way. At its best, learning to play an instrument can be the catalyst for self exploration. Joe and Dave share a curiosity about the nature of learning, and Dave--who has taught many of the best working drummers--talks about the impetus to create his new cours…

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RIP: Steve Albini (Roland) 49:03

1y ago49:03

49:03

Steve Albini died yesterday, May 7, at the age of 61. Here's Joe's conversation with Steve from 2017. Originally intended to be a gag episode featuring Roland (the drum machine used in Steve's band, Big Black), this turned into an earnest conversation documenting Steve's evolution from sharp-witted provocateur to sharp-witted empath. With thousands…

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309: King Coffey (Butthole Surfers) 1:05:54

1y ago1:05:54

1:05:54

King Coffey tells Joe about: growing up in a single-parent, Christian household; his 40+ year tenure with Butthole Surfers; his interest in Buddhism; and caring for his husband, who suffered from dementia.

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308: Guy Picciotto (Fugazi, Rites of Spring, Happy Go Licky, etc.) 1:15:23

1y ago1:15:23

1:15:23

Guy Picciotto's work in Fugazi and Rites of Spring had an immeasurable impact on Joe's life. As a producer, Guy has helped artists such as Blonde Redhead, Vic Chestnut, and The Blood Brothers reach new heights. In an uncharacterisically candid conversation, Guy tells Joe about his childhood, his artistic trajectory, and his most recent project as a…

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307: Jim White (Dirty Three, Xylouris White, etc.) 1:03:31

1y ago1:03:31

1:03:31

For over thirty years, Jim White has been the drummer of choice for many of the most compelling songwriters working. Now, with assitance from producer Guy Picciotto, he's created his first solo album, All Hits: Memories.

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