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The Family Business with The Alessis

Steve and Mary Alessi - Pastors of Metro Life Church, Miami | Authors | Ministry Family Mentors

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Learn how to build a stronger, happier family from a pastor's family saying things they can't say on Sundays. Hosted by Steve and Mary Alessi, you’ll hear powerful conversations with their family, who all work in the same church, that will show you the keys to a great marriage, healthy families, and a multi-generational legacy. Now with over 50,000 downloads, we invite you to join the Podience and discover why family is everybody’s business!
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In this "Best of TFB" flashback, we're going back in time to revisit one of our most memorable episodes: “Confessions of a Control Freak.” This was one of our most honest, light-hearted, and revealing discussions about what it really means to be labeled a “control freak”—both at home and in business. And since we've welcomed so many new listeners o…
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If there was a test that measured your selfishness ...what would your score be? Most people don't detect their own selfish actions until it's too late - and in a marriage, that can be a death sentence leading to pain and heartbreak. To help you build a healthier relationship, Steve and Mary Alessi get brutally honest about attraction, selfishness, …
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Tired of trying to get your kids off their phones and back into reality? Maybe the answer isn't just taking away our children's devices. Are our children's obsessions with their devices actually a sign of dysfunction or lackluster engagement at home? In this powerful episode, Steve and Mary Alessi share some interesting perspectives on how to re-sh…
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Struggling with miscommunication in your marriage? Wishing that you could work more closely with your spouse and create harmony in your home? In this honest and insightful episode, Chris and Richelle Alessi dive into building a stronger, more aligned relationship by focusing on teamwork and communication. By embracing the concept of being a team, t…
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Is the first year of marriage really the hardest? And if so, what can a couple do to avoid letting a beautiful newlywed season turn into a rollercoaster of disappointments and unmet expectations? Join Steve and Mary Alessi as they dive into the realities newlyweds face when managing expectations post-wedding. Through personal and relatable examples…
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Do you always find yourself in the middle of family conflicts, trying to keep the peace? If so, you might be filling a role that no one asked you to fill - and it might be causing more harm than good. In this super transparent episode, Steve and Mary Alessi get real about the role of the peacemaker in the family, and discuss whether its a role that…
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Is it possible to be TOO focused on your kids? Navigating the journey of parenthood can be challenging, especially when your instinct is to make your children the center of your universe. In this episode, Christopher and Stephanie Muiña dive into this thought-provoking topic, so you can find balance by placing faith and values at the center of your…
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There's one thing we all know about family and marriage - it can get complicated. The response to our Season 3 "Leave and Cleave" episode (S3 E19) has been incredible. We noticed that many of our listeners left comments and shared their real-life issues and concerns about their marriages, dealing with parents and in-laws, and navigating the struggl…
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Are you and your spouse struggling to break unhealthy attachments to your parents? Is your marriage feeling the strain because someone is not respecting boundaries? If so, you're not alone. Our episode from Season 3 on leaving and cleaving as married couples has been one of our most popular ever - it's gotten nearly 10,000 views on YouTube alone! T…
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What would you do if you had to fight for your life and your country, while you were starting your life with your spouse? This isn't a movie plot. It's the real story of a marriage forged in the middle of a war. Hilla and Arik Nehamkin are a Miami couple who started their relationship just before the attack on Israel on October 7th, 2023. Both of t…
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Are you struggling to keep your marriage relationship fresh and healthy despite life's constant challenges? In this powerful episode, Steve and Mary Alessi share a conversation with long-time friends David and Mory Martinez. Drawing on over 70 years of combined experience as married couples, they tackle subjects like embracing change, aligning pers…
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Are you concerned about immigration challenges facing your loved ones? In this powerful and timely episode, we welcome Abe Cardenas, from the Cardenas Law Firm, as we dig into the realities and misconceptions about the raging debate over immigration laws and undocumented immigrants. By shedding light on the rules and procedures often clouded by mis…
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Are there certain topics in your marriage that you're scared to discuss? Does it feel like you're risking a potential blow-up if you even bring it up? In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi share insights into these "No-Go Zones," offering strategies to approach sensitive issues confidently. They discuss the importance of honest communication and p…
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Note to parents: this podcast contains frank and candid discussions about marriage and intimacy. Please listen and consider whether this material is age appropriate for your young children before sharing. Are you currently doing things that could cause your marriage to be DOA? Unfortunately, marriages end every day because of habits and behaviors t…
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Being a grandparent can be joyous and fulfilling - but it's not always simple. Especially when grandkids are being, well, kids. How do well-meaning grandparents maintain the right posture when it comes to setting standards, without overstepping parental boundaries? Dive into a candid conversation with Mary and Steve Alessi as they explore the delic…
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Does speaking the truth in your home feel like lighting a fuse? When your family has to face the inevitable disagreements that happen in every home, you have two choices - you can embrace uncomfortable but healthy conversations, or you can allow unhealthy responses that lead to more pain later on. In this powerful episode, Steve and Mary Alessi dis…
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2024 was a GREAT year for TFB... ..but did you REALLY catch all the best highlights and insights from last year's episodes? If not, this is your chance to catch up on some powerful and funny moments from 2024. This special flashback episodes brings together some of our favorite moments, offering a deeper glimpse into our family dynamics, personal e…
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To kick off 2025, here's a "Best Of" episode of the Family Business from Season 3! Do you want to enjoy a better, healthier, and more fulfilling new year? These areas - your faith, your family and your fitness - form the foundation of a healthy lifestyle that will help you enjoy a better life, no matter what your current situation is. But it takes …
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When it comes to Christmas, are you Buddy the Elf in your family - or the Grinch? Every family has a variety of personalities, and it's no different when it comes to celebrating the holidays. Some people love to spend and dive into the gift giving, while others are more reserved and concerned about the budget. In this fun and enlightening episode, …
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Afraid that your family gatherings will turn into political battles instead of a joyful reunions? In our latest episode, we dive into preserving family unity while political tensions are still running high following the 2024 election. You'll discover why it's crucial to prioritize faith over politics, and how a simple act of grace can mend even the…
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Being a twenty-something isn't easy - and during the Christmas season life can get really interesting. How can you make sure your holidays are joyful when you're in a season of constant transition? In this episode sisters Gaby, Lauren and Stephanie examine the joys and challenges of celebrating the holidays, especially in your twenties. From balanc…
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Are your family vacations are more stressful than restful? Do you cringe at the thought of the time and expense of taking your family out-of-town? Maybe it's time to re-prioritize your holiday getaways. In this special episode, recorded both from the Alessi farmhouse and the podcast studio in Miami, Steve and Chris Alessi dive into the transformati…
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Do you need help turning life's crushing moments into stepping stones? If so, the inspiring story of Steve Alessi's near-fatal heart attack and his journey from survival to strength will help you find hope. Speaking to Fara Sax on The Community Voice podcast, Steve delves into the gripping details of his harrowing experience and the transformative …
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Are you setting the standards for your family - or are you letting other people set them for you? In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi dive deep into why adhering to healthy principles and moral standards is essential for a balanced and fulfilling life for you and your family. You’ll hear about the importance of maintaining consistent standards, …
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Do women really understand how men think? According to our guest, it's not only possible, it's a woman's secret weapon. But women rarely get clarity on this key part of their lives in the ocean of messages from culture and unhealthy past experiences. In this fun and informative episode, Mary Alessi sits down with her lifelong friend Daniele Hage, h…
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Have men been exiled from their place as kings of their castles in the home? And if so, how can strong, Godly men retake their place as responsible leaders in their families? In this episode, we reveal why our society needs strong men to take their leadership role in the family with courage and confidence. Steve and Mary Alessi dive into the evolvi…
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*Warning* Sensitive and graphic information on the topic of sex trafficking is shared in this podcast episode. Parents are advised to use discretion in sharing this with children. In this episode, we share important facts about the dark and dangerous world of human trafficking. You'll learn how parents can protect their kids from criminals and pred…
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What does it take to show your children the RIGHT way to handle money - before they get the chance to waste it? In this enlightening episode, Steve Alessi sits down with his son Chris Alessi to discuss how they are approaching the eternal question of giving kids allowance or making them work / do chores for money in the family budget. You'll see ho…
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In a culture obsessed with looks and image, how do we protect our families from developing dangerous, unhealthy habits with food? Join us as we unpack the complexities of eating disorders and trauma, debunk common misconceptions about self-diagnosing mental health issues, and explore the impact of social media on body image. Lauren Alessi, a licens…
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Ever dreamed of starting your own business? It's a huge decision that could either become an incredible blessing - or a major disappointment. To help all of our Podience members who want to one day have a family business that brings them success and fulfillment, Steve Alessi sits down with his good friend Roger Quesada and shares the keys they've l…
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Moms: Are you constantly second-guessing your choices as a parent? Do you feel a heavy weight of anxiety and concern when it comes to your kids...especially when you see other moms making different decisions? In this honest and practical episode, Stephanie Muiña and her sister-in-law Richelle Alessi share their experiences as young moms and describ…
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Does the dream of home ownership feel out of reach for your family? In this extremely informative episode, Chris Muiña sits down with his father-in-law Steve Alessi to tackle the big question: should you buy a home or rent in today's tough economy? You'll get generational support, financial prep, and biblical insights as you hear shares personal ex…
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Are you facing family issues that are keeping you up at night? We asked our Podience about the family challenges they were facing, and you responded with some really tough questions and situations. We did our best to give you honest answers that would help you deal with these real-life family challenges, including bringing in more help from other m…
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Is trying to be the 'nice parent' turning you into the wrong kind of parent? In this engaging start to Season 7, Steve and Mary Alessi dive into the perils of permissive parenting and show you how to lay a solid foundation for your children. You'll discover the lessons they've learned on their own parenting journey, why they chose their parenting s…
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We're keeping the summer of 2024 going (for as long as we can) with more favorite moments from the Family Business! From unfiltered marriage advice to yawn attacks, medication mixups and more, there have been a lot of unpredictable moments that lead to learning and laughter - and you'll enjoy this look back at our favorite moments! If you've got a …
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What's better than a summer memory? A bunch of them! As we make memories with our family in this mid-season, we're also looking back at the wise words and hilarious situations we've encountered throughout our six current seasons. Thankfully, you've shared some of your favorites and we're telling them in our TFB Summer Shorts series! If you've got a…
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All good things must come to an end...but great things keep going! It's been an amazing season in The Family Business, and this episode is a celebration of our Podience and all you've made possible for us - and what we can look forward to in Season 7! Here, Steve and Mary Alessi discuss the challenges and rewards of podcasting as a family for six s…
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Is there a double standard when it comes to how we see the Jewish community? And how do we educate the younger generation on the dangers of antisemitism? In this powerful episode of The Family Business with The Alessis, Steve Alessi welcomes Rabbi Robyn Fisher, spiritual leader of Beth Or in Miami, Florida, to the podcast to dive into the complexit…
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How does a first-time dad figure out his new role? And has society re-defined what it means to be a dad? Join Chris Alessi and his dad Steve Alessi as they explore the role of fathers in light of Chris' first year of fatherhood and the ongoing debate over gender roles. They dive into the strengths and weaknesses that fatherhood has revealed in thei…
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Summer time is story time in the Family Business...and boy, have we got some stories to tell! As we make memories with our families throughout the summer, we want to remember fun short stories that we tell each other every time we gather. Thankfully, you've shared some of your favorites and we're telling them in our TFB Summer Shorts series! If you…
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Should men and women try to break free from traditional roles in their marriage? And who decides what's right for each gender? The conversation around traditional and non-traditional gender roles burst into a firestorm in 2024, sparked by a commencement speech by a football player, Kansas City Chiefs kicker Harrison Butker. Chris and Richelle Aless…
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It's a take-over episode for the ages - as The Family Business meets Metro Life Worship in a episode with The God and Gigs Show! In late 2023, worship leader Stephanie Muiña was interviewed by our producer / fellow worship musician Allen C. Paul on his podcast, The God and Gigs Show, and it was a perfect example of how we navigate relationships and…
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Have you ever had to take a stand for someone else - someone who needed your support even though you had a very different background? In this powerful interview, Steve Alessi, along with Community Newspapers host Fara Sax and Rabbi Robyn Fisher of Beth Or, shares powerful insights and real-life experiences on the battle against antisemitism. From p…
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What can today's moms learn from the moms who raised them? In this flashback episode from Season 5, Mary Alessi's mother Dr. Faith Fredrick joins the podcast to explore the ‘then and now’ of motherhood. With incredible wisdom, these two women revisit the journey of both being raised by strong moms, and raising their children with intention, faith a…
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Do you think it's important to speak up about one's beliefs, even if they might be controversial? In this episode, Gaby and Chris Alessi tackle the hot topic of dealing with criticism and staying positive when faced with negativity. They share personal experiences and discuss their controversial views on dating, marriage, and relationships, which h…
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Honestly...have you made some unwise choices when you unwind from the stresses of your day? In this hard hitting episode, Mary and Steve Alessi unpack the impact of normalizing what used to be considered bad habits. You'll dive into the realities of the stresses of everyday life and learn how to avoid falling into harmful patterns. Sharing personal…
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Ask yourself...when did being normal become unpopular? In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi take an unapologetic look at the cultural attitudes that are destroying the fabric of our society by accepting abnormal behavior and calling it normal. You'll hear about their personal battles with everyday struggles, which highlight the impact of a positi…
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What does your vote say about what you REALLY believe? We're taking a thought-provoking journey in this episode as we unpack the complexity of intertwining Christian values with today's pressing issues. Today Steve and Mary Alessi dive boldly into the divide between conservative and liberal Christians, and provide insight into the potential consequ…
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Can your story of overcoming obstacles become more powerful with time? Yes, it can! And we're sharing an example of that as we reflect and celebrate the one year anniversary of the release of Steve Alessi's first book, "Forty Two". In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi share the untold stories and personal challenges that led to the release of thi…
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Swipe right, DM, hook up... is THIS what dating has become for young people? Join Steve Alessi and his daughter Gaby Alessi as they take a deep dive into the shifting world of dating and love in modern times - and how the wrong examples are messing up a lot of young people's futures. They lay bare the evolution of relationships from phone-based int…
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