Best Queer Men’s Work Podcasts (2025)

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What does it really mean to be Queer and Christian? – Brandan Robertson 48:02

3h ago48:02

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Today the word "Christian" is polarizing. In fact for many it conjures up words like hate, nationalism, evil, fear. WOW...it should not. Then couple that word with Queer, and you might as well be burned at the stake! Let's not do that. Instead, let's invite Queer Christians to the table to embrace their love of goad and faith, and invite others who…

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Rope and Radical Communication: Mr. R on Trust, Consent, and Kink 1:03:35

1d ago1:03:35

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Curious about kink—but unsure where to start? In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim are joined by Mr. R, a rope rigger, dominant, and BDSM educator, to explore how consent, communication, and trust form the bedrock of safe and empowering experiences in BDSM and beyond. Through real stories, thoughtful analogies, and insights from kink…

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The Trouble With Throuples – Jeff Hudson 40:51

7d ago40:51

40:51

Maybe you find yourself bored in your couple. Then you decide playing together with another guy could be fun...and it is. Then you decide that maybe having another guy in the middle (so to speak) on a permanent basis will make your relationship thrive (so to speak). And then it doesn't! Helping us explore this whole concept of the Throuple live, is…

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Unpacking the Prickle: Irritation, Annoyance, and the Needs Beneath the Noise 56:25

8d ago56:25

56:25

Ever found yourself snapping in traffic or spiraling over something small? In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim unpack the deeper truth behind irritation and annoyance—and how these emotions often reveal unmet needs, unconscious beliefs, and moments where we fall out of integrity with ourselves. With personal stories, embodied insigh…

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Navigating Breakups and Toxic Relationships as A Gay Man – Lonay Halloum 42:15

14d ago42:15

42:15

Navigating gay relationships isn't easy, but it can be worth it. Yet, for most gay men, that 1st breakup can be a doozy and waht we often don't realized is where that pain is rooted...it's not where you think. Shedding light on how to overcome trauma, is RTT Therapy specialist, Lonay Halloum, who guides us to explore a powerful therapy technique fo…

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Seeing Ourselves in Others: Gregory Ganymedes on The Power of Projection in Dreams and Life 53:52

15d ago53:52

53:52

Projection is a fundamental yet often unnoticed aspect of human experience. We see in others what we cannot yet recognize in ourselves, whether in moments of conflict, admiration, or even within the mysterious landscapes of our dreams. In this episode of The Circle, Eric Bomyea and Timothy Bish welcome dream worker Gregory Ganymedes to go all in on…

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White Social Workers’ Path to Showing Up for People of Color 58:22

17d ago58:22

58:22

"Any place that you would show up and advocate for your own child, now you show up and you advocate for people and families and children of color, too."By University at Buffalo School of Social Work

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Why Staying In Your Hetero Marriage As A Gay Man Can Work – Wayne Scott 39:44

21d ago39:44

39:44

Relationships are messy - gay or straight! So what happens when you have that candid conversation with your spouse, letting her know that your biseuxal, but you mutually decide that for the betterment of each other, your family, and your future to have a non-monogamous open marriage? What could go wrong? What could go right? Today's guest, and debu…

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Harnessing the Fire Within: Transforming Anger into Empowerment 56:48

22d ago56:48

56:48

Anger is a powerful and often misunderstood emotion, especially among men. While society may encourage its suppression or view it negatively, anger, when acknowledged and channeled appropriately, can serve as a catalyst for personal growth and transformation. In this episode of The Circle, hosts Eric Bomyea and Timothy Bish go all in on the comple…

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How To Make Money Your Gay Best Friend (MGBF) – David Lester 53:22

28d ago53:22

53:22

Financial uncertainty in 2025? Don’t panic—David Lester, TV money expert, coach, and author, is here to help! Known as "Your Money Gay Best Friend" (MGBF), David dishes out tough love, smart money moves, and a little fabulous flair to get your finances in check. Key lessons you'll learn: How to build a rock-solid money mindset Smart strategies for …

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Emotional Alchemy with Alex Lehmann: Transforming the Pain of Otherness into Purpose 59:41

29d ago59:41

59:41

Many men grow up feeling othered—whether due to cultural differences, personal identity, or societal expectations. This sense of disconnection can shape their emotional landscape, leading to shame, isolation, and a struggle to express their true selves. But what if those experiences could be transformed into a source of clarity, strength, and purpo…

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Discovering The Connection to My Inner Erotic Self – Rick Clemons 21:40

1M ago21:40

21:40

Connection. We all yearn for it in different ways - personally, professionally, and erotically. Plus, connection in so many other ways. Yet what happened for me over a 4-day Connect Retreat with Court Vox - Certified Intimacy and Sex coach, was surprising, intriguing, scary, exiting, and led me places I never would have imagined - in all areas of m…

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Rediscovering Joy in Men's Work: Unlocking Personal Growth and Purpose Through the Embodiment of Joy 53:27

1M ago53:27

53:27

In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we go all in on the often-overlooked role of joy in men’s work and embodiment practices. While grief, anger, and fear frequently dominate men’s spaces, joy remains an underdeveloped muscle—one that, when cultivated, can become a profound source of purpose and connection. Eric and Tim unpack why many men strugg…

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How to step into the color of your life - Corey Powell 34:58

1M ago34:58

34:58

COVID changed everything—our priorities, our beliefs, and the way we see ourselves. For celebrity hair colorist Corey Powell, it sparked a deeper calling: to help others in the LGBTQ+ community break free from the stories holding them back. After years of coaching clients from his salon chair, Corey took the leap to become a life coach, guiding the…

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Leading with Heart: Steve Azar on Community, Spirituality, and Transformation 50:35

1M ago50:35

50:35

In this episode, Tim and Eric sit down with real estate entrepreneur and environmental engineer Steve Azar to explore how leading with heart can shape not just businesses, but entire communities. From high-rise developments to Provincetown’s historic Gifford House, Steve’s work is deeply rooted in impact, intention, and connection. We discuss his j…

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Transforming Judgment: A Path to Growth in Men's Work 59:36

2M ago59:36

59:36

Judgment is a natural human response, but how often do we pause to examine its impact on our lives? In this episode, Eric and Tim go all in on the role of judgment in men's work, exploring how it can disrupt presence and hinder personal growth. They discuss the nuances of self-judgment and the fear of being judged by others, particularly within the…

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The Inclusion of Religion and Spirituality in Social Work Supervision 55:14

2M ago55:14

55:14

“Keeping the ‘why’ central — the ‘why’ we talk about religion and spirituality is because we care about the clients. Oftentimes, when we get caught up in our own discomfort, we avoid these conversations.”By University at Buffalo School of Social Work

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The Law of Zero For Gay Men – Chad Michael Hardy 47:38

2M ago47:38

47:38

Life feeling a little too much lately? You’re not alone. But what if you could hit reset and find your calm—no matter what’s happening around you? Even if that means you relinquish your family upbringing, get ex-communicated from your church, and finally start living your truth as a gay man, as you always meant to be. Enter Chad Michael Hardy, auth…

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Safe Ways To Travel and See The Planet as a Gay Man – Lindsey Danis 43:42

2M ago43:42

43:42

We all love a good adventure, but let’s be real—traveling as a gay man isn’t just about picking a destination; it’s about finding places where you can truly feel safe, seen, and celebrated. So, where in the world can you be your fabulous, free self without worry? This week, I’m joined by LGBTQ+ travel expert & Queer Adventurers founder, who’s here …

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Steady Leadership: Julian Cyr on Calmness as a Form of Resistance 58:27

2M ago58:27

58:27

In a world that rewards quick reactions, what happens when we choose calmness as a form of resistance? In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we sit down with Massachusetts State Senator Julian Cyr to explore how steadiness, patience, and emotional regulation shape leadership, activism, and personal growth. Senator Cyr shares his journey from growi…

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The Oneness Of Being Queer and Jewish – Rabbi Steve Greenberg 41:24

2M ago41:24

41:24

How do you balance faith, sexuality, and life—without losing your mind? Finding the just right path to authenticity can feel overwhelming, even chaotic. But here’s the truth: authenticity is a journey, not a destination. And living your most fulfilled life as a gay, Jewish Rabbi (or whoever you are) is exactly the path you’re meant to walk. Joining…

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Embracing Discomfort: Transforming Limiting Beliefs Through Patience and Discipline 1:03:09

2M ago1:03:09

1:03:09

In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we explore the discomfort that comes with breaking free from limiting beliefs and stepping into a more empowered way of being. Transformation isn’t instant—it requires patience, discipline, and a willingness to sit with discomfort rather than avoid it. Eric and Tim unpack why growth often feels unsettling and …

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Embracing the Beauty of Being Gay, Black, and HIV Positive – Jordan J. Edwards 45:24

2M ago45:24

45:24

HIV may be a lifelong journey, but it is not a death sentence. Yet, for Black gay men, that journey often comes with unique challenges—stigma, erasure, and systemic barriers that make living openly and authentically even harder. As we close out Black History Month, we sit down with Jordan J. Edwards - Deputy Director for the Normal Anomaly Initiati…

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Healing the Wounded Boy: How Men's Work Helps Us Step Into Maturity with Soma Miller 54:31

2M ago54:31

54:31

In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we sit down with Soma Miller, founder of The Essential Man, to explore how unresolved wounds shape our lives and how men’s work, brotherhood, and embodiment practices help us step into maturity, integrity, and purpose. Soma shares his personal journey into men’s work, influenced by mentors like Francis Weller …

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Dear Black Gay Men – Jai The Gentleman 52:51

3M ago52:51

52:51

Black gay men don't feel safe talking about this? That includes a lot of territory. But why do they feel this way? It's because of the double margins they experience and then add to it familial socializing and you've got the perfect reason black, gay, men struggle to show themselves fully in society. Visionary leader, host and founder Dear Black Ga…

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Integrating Social Work in Dental Care 1:01:40

3M ago1:01:40

1:01:40

"When we think about oral health, we really silo it rather than thinking of it as we have one body; we have one health. But oral health is really the gateway into someone's whole health.”–Candace Ziglor, DSWBy University at Buffalo School of Social Work

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From Obligation to Choice: Reframing Shoulds & Embracing Intentionality in Men's Work 56:49

3M ago56:49

56:49

In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim explore how men can shift from living in a world of “shoulds” and obligations to consciously choosing their actions with clarity and intention. Drawing from men’s embodiment practices, Marshall Rosenberg’s Nonviolent Communication, and mindfulness techniques, they unpack the subtle but powerful difference…

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The Art & Adventure Open Relationships – Dr. Wade Maggert 43:11

3M ago43:11

43:11

Open relationships for gay men: a recipe for disaster or the key to thriving love? This week, we’re breaking it all down! Join me and Dr. Wade Maggert as we explore: Why monogamy might not be your vibe (and that’s okay!) How to set rules and boundaries that actually work Understanding your attachment style so you can thrive, whether you’re open, po…

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Reclaiming Fitness: Queer Strength, Body Image, and Self-Love | GBTQ+ Wellness with Matt Boyles 1:05:24

3M ago1:05:24

1:05:24

How do queer men reclaim fitness as a space of empowerment rather than exclusion? In this episode of The Circle, we sit down with Matt Boyles, founder of Fitter Confident You, a fitness platform designed specifically for gay, bi, and trans men. Together, we explore the intersection of body image, societal expectations, and movement—unpacking the hy…

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315: Sex, Science, and Solutions For Gay Men – Dr. Joshua Gonzales 36:52

3M ago36:52

36:52

Sex. Sexual Dysfunction. You're junk just ain't working right. Don't panic gay men. But get the right help. Today, Dr. Joshua R. Gonzalez, a board-certified urologist and sexual health specialist based in West Hollywood, dives deep into the world of gay mens sexual health, hormone balance, and of course the overall biggest challenge - erectile dysf…

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Expanding Capacity: Building Real Strength to Move from Burnout to Balance 51:56

3M ago51:56

51:56

In this episode of The Circle, the Podcast for Queer Men's Embodiment, we take a deep dive into the strong man archetype—the societal expectation that men must always have the answers, never ask for help, and handle everything alone. These pressures often lead to overwhelm, isolation, and burnout, especially for queer men navigating mental, emotion…

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314: How Not To Lose Your Sanity As A Gay Man In These Crazy Times - Rick Clemons 15:23

3M ago15:23

15:23

Let's be honest. The planet is a little crazy these days, from politics to divides amongst us as humans on a wide variety of issues - including our rights being stripped away for being LGBTQ+- it is only going to get more challenging for many of us in marginalized communities. Today's podcast is for you gay men, truly for you, to help you find ways…

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Embodying Polarity: Mackenzie on Masculine & Feminine Energies Through Drag 50:18

3M ago50:18

50:18

In this episode of The Circle, Timothy Bish and Eric Bomyea are joined by Mackenzie, a drag entertainer, philanthropist, and artist. Mackenzie shares their journey of navigating the balance between masculine and feminine energies, using drag as a powerful tool for self-expression and transformation. Together, they explore breaking societal norms, n…

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313: How Disco Defined Gay Life Today – Frank DeCaro 47:58

4M ago47:58

47:58

Disco! For most gay men of a certain age - like those of you who listen to 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk - Disco represented so much of our lives then and now. It was the age of freedom, fun, pushing the "extremes" and also the age of loss due the HIV/AIDS epidemic. In his newly released book, Author Frank DeCaro, takes us on a frolicking, entertainin…

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The Complexity of Gratitude: Moving Beyond Obligations and Performative Thank Yous 55:59

4M ago55:59

55:59

In this episode of The Circle, Tim and Eric go all in on the emotional complexities of gratitude, exploring how to move beyond performative expressions and embrace authentic gratitude. Through personal stories and reflections, they unpack the challenges men face in connecting with genuine feelings of gratitude—particularly when societal expectation…

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Social Work in the Post-Dobbs Era 1:00:19

4M ago1:00:19

1:00:19

“Abortion is so stigmatized, controversial and a hot button issue that even social work has been hesitant to make it a primary component of the things we talk about and advocate for, even though reproductive health care affects everything.”By University at Buffalo School of Social Work

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312: Sex, Shame, Boundaries, Tech, and Porn for the Gay Man. – Brandon Simpson 44:51

4M ago44:51

44:51

Some of the deepest challenges we face as gay men, is letting go of shame around virtually everything we do. From sex and relationships, to body image and the overt need to prove ourselves in our careers. Today, along with my guest, Brandon Simpson, we cover a wide variety of topics to help you bring more joy into your life as a gay or bisexual man…

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Queer Confidence in Healthcare: Advocating for Authenticity and Empowerment 1:11:02

4M ago1:11:02

1:11:02

In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim welcome Jeffrey Schaffer, a nurse and LGBTQ+ program manager, to explore how queer men can approach healthcare with confidence and authenticity. They dive into how men’s work provides tools to navigate medical spaces, unpack stigma, and advocate for oneself with courage and clarity. Discover practical adv…

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311: Connecting Deeper with Bodily Pleasure As Gay Men – Court Vox 47:18

4M ago47:18

47:18

Sex, intimacy, and connection—beyond the labels and limits. Society teaches us, as gay men, to define sexuality by where it happens, but what if it’s really about how we connect with ourselves and other gay men? Whether it’s a hookup or a long-term partnership, intimacy and liberation are possible everywhere. It’s all about unlocking your body’s wi…

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Authentic Power: Moving Beyond the ‘Strong Man’ Archetype in Men’s Work 56:57

4M ago56:57

56:57

In this episode of The Circle, Tim and Eric break down the difference between fear-based, control-driven power and a more authentic, heart-centered approach to strength. They challenge the “strong man” stereotype—where force and dominance prevail—and introduce men’s work principles that help men tap into self-awareness, conscious choice-making, and…

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310: Overcoming Trauma with Mindfulness – Dr. Jason Durant 42:31

4M ago42:31

42:31

In this episode, we explore Boy From the North Country, the powerful self-help memoir by Dr. Durant. With the intensity of a car chase, Dr. Durant shares his journey from the volatile backroads of rural Northern New York to the vibrant but challenging world of gay San Francisco. Part memoir, part psychological insight, this story unpacks how trauma…

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From Superheroes to Real-World Heroes: Phil Jimenez on Men’s Work and Authentic Heroism 1:02:08

4M ago1:02:08

1:02:08

In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we dive into the world of superheroes with special guest Phil Jimenez, renowned comic book artist and writer. Together, we explore how the traits that define our favorite heroes—presence, authenticity, vulnerability, and courage—are also the “superpowers” everyday men can cultivate through men’s work. Phil sha…

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309: Mindful Aging For Gay Man – Theresa Skaar 36:47

4M ago36:47

36:47

Mindfulness, meditation, self-mastery - all buzz, buzz, buzz worthy words these days. However, they are more then buzz words. They are are practices that as we ease out of the craziness of the holidays and 2024, can support all of us as gay men to embrace life through a new lens and settle into the daily chaos that can drive us crazy. From dating a…

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Structured vs. Unstructured: Balancing Masculine and Feminine Practices in Men’s Work 59:36

4M ago59:36

59:36

In this episode of The Circle, we explore two core approaches in men’s work: masculine embodiment (clear, structured, linear steps) versus feminine embodiment (open-ended, unstructured, fluid exploration) and discover how each can expand your personal growth. Join us as we explore why perfectionism often emerges in structured, linear practices and …

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308: The Go To Relationship Guide For Gay Men – Tom Bruett 36:23

5M ago36:23

36:23

Let's be honest. Building a meaningful gay relationship doesn’t come with an instruction manual—or does it? I say it does. Enter The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men by Tom Bruett, the ultimate playbook for navigating love, connection, and everything in between. Whether you’re struggling with communication, intimacy, or just figuring out how to…

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Beyond Doing - Exploring Identity Outside of Roles and Accomplishments 53:32

5M ago53:32

53:32

In this episode of The Circle, we challenge the prevailing notion that a man’s worth is measured by what he does, rather than who he truly is. We examine the cultural pressures that drive men to define themselves by their careers, achievements, and external success markers—and how this often leads to disconnection, stress, and a loss of authentic i…

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Supporting the Mental Health Needs of Cis and Transgender Queer Men 57:28

5M ago57:28

57:28

“Having conversations about important issues that affect our lives is how we address the social determinants of our health because it nurtures and cultivates community and a sense of belonging.”By University at Buffalo School of Social Work

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307: How Gay Camping Helps You Overcome Social Anxiety & Embracing Mistakes – Upton Rand 37:28

5M ago37:28

37:28

When life hands you lemons, you go camping, even if you didn't think you liked camping. Inspired by his journey of recovering from divorce and an abusive relationship, Author Upton Rand shares how he found peace and a path forward even when his life was at it's darkest moments. In his books, Upton blends humor with heartfelt experiences as he recou…

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Detoxing Limiting Beliefs and the Narrative of Unworthiness and Shame 50:19

5M ago50:19

50:19

In this episode of The Circle, we tackle the transformative process of letting go of harmful narratives and limiting beliefs that hold us back. Drawing inspiration from a recent embodiment circle, we reflect on common struggles men face—feeling unloved, undeserving of love, or carrying shame, particularly as queer men. What You’ll Learn: * How to i…

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306: Let’s Talk About Enhancing Pleasure for Gay Men – Dr. Israel Martinez 45:17

5M ago45:17

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Sex, pleasure, gay men. How do we find the pathway to enhance our sex and pleasure while letting go of the shame of growing up gay? First and foremost we embrace that we deserve to be gay men and experience pleasure. Helping us unpack the journey to pleasure is Dr. Israel Martinez with his new book Enhancing Pleasure for Gay Men: A Clinical Guide f…

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