From Lost to the River is the podcast for Spanish learners of English who want to break free from self-doubt, stop hiding behind perfectionism, and start speaking with confidence. If you hesitate, second-guess your words, or worry that your mistakes make you look less capable, this podcast is for you. This show takes a real, unfiltered look at what it means to communicate in a second language. I don’t just talk about this. I’ve lived through it. I know how it feels to stay silent because I’m ...
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Language coach Bianca González and I explore how confidence, mindset, and emotional blocks like frustration & fear shape language learning. We challenge perfectionism and discuss learner-centered coaching vs outdated grammar drills. Follow Mary Costello on LinkedIn to join Bianca’s weekly bilingual coffee chats. A safe space to speak English (& Spa…
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(8 min) Positivity & The Sexiest Accent in the World!
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7:47I discuss how my positive approach to language learning helps people use what they already know. Hear my take on why connecting with the people you're speaking to matters more than speaking perfect English. It’s all about USING English with clarity and feeling great doing it. Follow me on Linkedin for more English confidence tips.…
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(30 min) De “Me da Vergüenza Hablar” a Expresarte con Confianza
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30:20Hoy, me acompaña Nacho Fernández, coach de español. Hablamos sobre bloqueos mentales como el miedo y el perfeccionismo, y exploramos cómo el coaching, la escucha pasiva y hablar desde el primer día pueden ayudarte a ganar verdadera confianza, rápidamente. I speak Spanish on this one too!By Richard Marshall | Pro Coach English
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I reflect on the 'Chicken Story' and how being laughed at by a shop full of strangers impacted me more than I realised. I then share another language mix-up with an Amazon delivery guy. Looking back, I’ve learned these moments are a key part of the learning process. Even if we upset a few Amazon guys along the way! Watch it HERE with subtitles…
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Here is a funny story from my early days in Spain when my basic Spanish skills led to a hilarious mix-up at the butcher's! It’s a lighthearted reminder that making mistakes is a natural part of learning and often leads to the best memories. Watch it with subtitles here on YouTubeBy Richard Marshall | Pro Coach English
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(23 min) Embracing Imperfection (Part 2) Una Charla en Inglés
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23:12Lauren and I continue our conversation about the pressure of perfectionism, particularly in Spain, where the emphasis on flawless grammar creates anxiety and a reluctance to speak up. We explore the importance of self-acceptance & how to celebrate your English progress, instead of comparing your level to that of native speakers. Follow Lauren HERE …
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(27 min) Embracing Imperfection (Part 1) Una Charla en Inglés
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27:28In this first part of a two-part conversation, I’m speaking with Lauren Martin, a multilingual copywriting expert who helps language coaches connect with their clients' needs. We explore the psychology of confidence, the importance of embracing mistakes for growth, and the damaging impact of perfectionism in language learning. Lauren shares some va…
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(6 min) How to Speak English with Confidence | with Alba Guerrero
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5:49Today I'm chatting with English Teacher, Alba Guerrero González about why fluency beats perfection when speaking English. We discuss Spanish learners' biggest struggles, overcoming fear, and why mistakes are your best teachers. Follow Alba on Instagram & Tik Tok and watch her super cool English learning tips & tricks. Mil gracias por tu tiempo Alba…
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(10 min) My Story | Fear, Frustration & Finding My Purpose
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10:29In this deeply personal ‘off-camera’ conversation with Sarah Smit, I share how the pandemic forced me to rethink my path. How my frustrations with Spain brought out a darker, more negative side of my personality. And how transforming this negativity has shaped me, allowing me to ultimately find my purpose: helping others break free from their fears…
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(8 min) Deja de Buscar la Perfección | Una Charla en Inglés
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8:09Here’s an extract from my conversation with Sarah Smit, a polyglot and language expert who knows firsthand what it takes to go from zero to fluent, because she did just that while living in the Netherlands for over a decade. We discuss the mindset shifts that truly build confidence in a second language and how my empathy for my clients’ experiences…
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(20 min) Una Charla en español | The Spanish Mindset
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19:04Today, I’m speaking with my client, Miguel Ángel Carrasco Delgado, COO of PRG (Toys R Us & Prenatal), who has nearly 40 years of experience working with top brands like Sephora. He shares how he overcame the fear of making mistakes and built confidence in using English for business. We explore the key mindset shifts that boosted his confidence, alo…
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(14 min) Fluency Over Perfection | The Key to Speaking English
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14:15Struggling with your accent? You’re not alone. In this episode, we break down why perfection is overrated and how real communication is the main objective. Hear insights from Alberto Rodríguez on the Spanish-English pronunciation clash and why confidence matters more than flawless speech. Follow me on Linkedin for more English confidence tips!…
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In this episode, I talk about how perfectionism can stop us from improving in a new language. I’ll share my personal journey of accepting my accent and occasional mistakes in Spanish, and how this mindset shift can help you embrace your unique voice in English. When you accept your English as it is today, you’ll feel more confident, speak up more, …
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Aqui tienes un extracto del capítulo 3. Here I explore how our fear of making mistakes and worrying about others’ reactions can create false beliefs about our abilities. It’s so common for us to assume that others won’t understand us (before we even try), or that our language skills aren’t "good enough" - but this is just F.E.A.R.: False Evidence A…
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(4 min) "Tú Puedes" Your English Is Better Than You Think
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3:57En este extracto del primer capítulo, abordo la lucha de sentir que "no eres lo suficientemente bueno" ("not good enough") al hablar inglés y por qué es hora de cambiar esa mentalidad. A continuación, algunos puntos claves que aprenderás: Tu nivel de inglés es mejor de lo que piensas. La comunicación es más importante que la perfección. El impacto …
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Listen to why others’ reactions affect our confidence when speaking English and how many communication factors are beyond our control. Learn why mutual effort matters, why fears about mistakes are often false, and how to reset your perspective. Plus, language expert Lauren Martin shares insights on smoother communication. Enjoy practical tips and m…
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In this episode of From Lost to the River, I talk about why perfectionism can block your progress and how embracing your accent and your mistakes can actually help you connect with confidence. You'll hear a Spanish speaker’s perspective on letting go of shame when speaking English. Follow me on LinkedIn for daily confidence tips.…
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(17 min) Bienvenidos al Podcast | "Tú Puedes"
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17:24Welcome to the first episode of From Lost To The River. I'm Richard, and after 14 years of learning Spanish, I understand how frustrating it can feel to speak a second language. I’ve been there, staying quiet out of fear of making mistakes. In this episode, I’ll share how letting go of perfectionism helped me become myself in Spanish and how you ca…
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