Welcome back to the Redeemed Marriage Podcast! In their ongoing "Marriage Killers" series, Rusty and Heather Bryant tackle a surprisingly common yet devastating issue: the slow fade of fun and laughter from a relationship. What happens when the joy, playfulness, and shared enjoyment that once defined your connection start to dwindle? Boredom can se…

What happens when "me first" becomes the default setting in a relationship? Selfishness, often disguised as legitimate needs or expectations, can quietly creep in and destroy a marriage from the inside out. Join Rusty and Heather Bryant on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast for the latest episode in their "Marriage Killers" series as they tackle this co…

Are secrets silently eroding the foundation of your marriage? In this installment of the "Marriage Killers" series, Rusty and Heather Bryant tackle the destructive power of secrecy in relationships. Discover why keeping secrets from your spouse, even seemingly small ones about finances, thoughts, or daily activities, can create distance, break trus…

Subtle habits can slowly destroy your marriage. The biggest threats are usually a quiet drift away from what matters most. Continuing with the "Marriage Killers" series, Rusty and Heather Bryant discuss the crucial role that God plays in marital health and the dangers of letting Him slip from the center. Discover practical warning signs that you mi…

Are you unknowingly drifting away from your spouse? This week on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant discuss the subtle ways marriages can deteriorate due to neglect. Discover how this "marriage killer" can slowly erode emotional connection, intimacy, and trust. They'll explore how "doing nothing" can be one of the biggest threa…

What do you do when you feel like you're the only one fighting for your marriage? This week, Rusty and Heather Bryant share a deeply personal interview with a friend who is courageously navigating the aftermath of infidelity and searching for hope when her spouse isn't ready to join the journey. Hear her candid testimony about finding strength in J…

Silence isn't necessarily golden when it comes to your relationships. This week on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant take a look at the tough topic of speaking truth and having the courage to address questionable actions or patterns we see in those closest to us. Drawing from the biblical story of Judas, they explore how subtl…

Are you struggling to establish healthy boundaries in your marriage? In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant explore the crucial role of boundaries in building a stronger, more trusting, and fulfilling marriage. Learn practical tips for setting and maintaining boundaries to protect your relationship and prevent fu…

Join Rusty and Heather Bryant on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast as they take a fun, nostalgic trip down memory lane, exploring the evolution of dating terms from the courting days of the 1920s to today's modern "situation-ships." They'll discuss everything from "going steady" to "talking," and examine how these shifting labels impact marriage, commi…

Are you and your spouse feeling disconnected or stuck in a marriage that has lost its spark and purpose? Or are you trying to recover from betrayal and rebuild trust in your relationship? In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather share what it means to "burn your ships"—committing to a radical transformation in your marria…

Are you tired of hearing you can't fix your spouse, but wondering what it actually means to work on yourself? Rusty and Heather get real about the practical steps it takes to continually chase after God as individuals and as a couple, even in the craziness of everyday life. Discover practical tips and insights on how to become the spouse God has ca…

This week on The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather tackle a frequently asked question: How do they continually share the story of their past infidelity and the journey of their redeemed marriage—the pain, the shame, the ultimate transformation—without being consumed by it? How do they avoid being constantly triggered, returning to that v…

Does your marriage feel like it's just "getting by"? Is it struggling to move forward, burdened by past hurts and unmet expectations? Rusty and Heather Bryant from The Redeemed Marriage podcast invite you to explore a path toward healing and restoration in this powerful episode. If you're tired of simply "coping" and long to experience a vibrant, t…

In a raw and revealing episode, Rusty and Heather confront a topic they've never fully addressed: divorce. After experiencing the devastating impact of infidelity, did they ever consider calling it quits? Hear intimate confessions about their darkest days, the initial shock, and the defensive postures they adopted as the crisis unfolded. Listen as …

In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss heart transformation in the journey of marriage restoration. They share how true healing isn't just about fixing the marriage, but about personal and spiritual changes that must happen within each spouse. Are you only focused on the details of your story, and not what God i…

Has your marriage felt different lately? Maybe the needs you and your spouse had when you first said "I do" have changed. In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, join Rusty and Heather Bryant as they explore how individual needs shift due to time, the changing seasons of life, and the impact of betrayal and trauma. Your initial expectatio…

Are you struggling with lingering pain in your marriage, even after you've done "the work?" In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant discuss the difficult topic of recurring pain in relationships, especially after experiences of betrayal, infidelity, or broken trust. They explore the reality that while healing can …

Is your marriage in a place where it feels like only a miracle can save it? In this powerful episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the topic of needing a divine intervention in your relationship. Drawing from their own miracle marriage story and from the hundreds of prayer requests they have already received for their …

Start the year strong by exploring all the ways The Redeemed Marriage can help you invest in your relationship in 2025. From our weekly podcast and marriage coaching to retreats, intensives, and monthly mentoring, we’ve designed resources to support every stage of your journey. Learn about our conferences, February Prayer Challenge, free resources,…

The holidays are often called the most wonderful time of the year, but for many, this season can bring pain to the surface. Whether you're dealing with betrayal, the loss of a loved one, or unmet expectations, the Christmas season can feel anything but joyful. Rusty and Heather share from their own experience of navigating infidelity during the hol…

This week, Rusty and Heather continue their conversation with Casey and Meygan Caston from Marriage365. In Part 2, hear what Casey and Meygan wish they could go back and tell their newlywed selves and uncover the number one issue couples bring to Marriage365 for help. Plus, things heat up as the conversation shifts to the bedroom! Don't miss this l…

This week Rusty and Heather are joined by Casey and Meygan Caston, founders of Marriage365. They share the powerful story of a rocky start to their marriage, nearly leading to divorce within the first three years. After reaching out for help, they found healing and now encourage couples worldwide. Tune in to hear their inspiring journey, learn abou…

We're revisiting one of our most impactful episodes on the topic of triggers. Anyone who has experienced deep hurt knows how easily certain moments, places, or conversations can stir up painful memories. In the aftermath of infidelity, these triggers can be especially frequent and intense. While time can soften their grip, they have a way of resurf…

In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the topic of control in marriage. Who should hold the reins in a healthy relationship? What happens when betrayal tips the balance? Using the backdrop of their own story of infidelity, they explore whether a temporary shift in control is necessary, how long it should last, …

In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss what it means to be a safe space for your spouse. Emotional safety is essential in marriage, allowing both partners to be vulnerable and open without fear. But what does this look like in practice? Listen in as they explore common barriers to safety; such as criticism, dism…

Does your marriage feel hopeless? Rusty and Heather use their journey through the darkest days of their marriage to share a miraculous story of healing and restoration after infidelity. Speaking directly to couples feeling hopeless, they offer insight and encouragement for those wondering if it’s possible to find hope again. Whether you're navigati…

Disappointment can become a part of even the strongest marriages, usually rooted in unmet or unrealistic expectations. In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather explore how expectations can unintentionally turn into rigid responsibilities, creating tension and resentment between spouses. Listen as they unpack the importanc…

Every couple faces differences, but how do you navigate those challenges in a way that strengthens rather than weakens your relationship? Drawing from their own incompatibilities, Rusty and Heather share insights on how couples can embrace their differences, communicate better, and use their unique strengths to grow together. Whether you're feeling…

Feeling alone in marriage is something many couples experience, and betrayal only deepens that sense of isolation. In this episode, Rusty and Heather open up about their journey through infidelity and how it caused them to feel alone both individually and as a couple. They discuss some practical steps they took to break free from feeling alone, inc…

What drives someone to risk everything—marriage, family, and self-worth—for an affair? Whether you are the betrayed, the betrayer, or supporting someone who’s been affected, you likely have unanswered questions. In this powerful episode, Heather bravely opens up about her early thoughts and emotions that led her down the dangerous path to infidelit…

Join Rusty and Heather in this special reprisal episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast. Discover the compelling narrative of their relationship—from high school sweethearts, through the devastating challenges of infidelity, to the transformative redemption that birthed a marriage ministry. Their candid storytelling offers hope and practical insig…

In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather offer encouragement and wisdom for those who feel like they're the only ones working on their marriage. The discussion reminds us that while we cannot fix our spouse, we can focus on becoming the person God wants us to be. Through serving, praying, and trusting that God is for your…

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather share their incredible journey from a marriage in crisis to a ministry to other marriages. They reflect on their first experience at WinShape Marriage nearly 20 years ago, back it was still under construction and part of a dream to help broken marriages. Fast forward to 2011…

In this week’s episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the challenging topic of conflict, arguing, and fighting within marriage. Drawing from their own experiences with unhealthy conflict resolution, Heather opens up about the dangers of always needing to be right, while Rusty shares how damaging it can be to accept blam…

Rusty and Heather Bryant expose the enemy's relentless pursuit of marriages. Drawing from their personal experience with Heather's infidelity and the restoration that followed, they shine a light on the common lies the enemy uses to destroy marriages. Join them as they uncover the enemy's deception and share practical ways to safeguard your marriag…

Rusty and Heather open up about their journey in the 13 years since Heather's confession of unfaithfulness on August 23, 2011. Having recently passed another anniversary, they reflect on the reasons they initially chose to stay together and how God has honored their decision over the years. With their second and last child now off to college, they …

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss a new chapter of their marriage—empty nesting, or as they affectionately call it, their "second honeymoon." As their youngest son heads to college this week, Rusty and Heather share the intentional steps they've taken to prepare for this season, including staying con…

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather address a question from a listener struggling with triggers while in a church setting related to past infidelity. Despite years of healing, the listener and her husband find themselves reliving painful memories whenever their pastor preaches on adultery. Rusty and Heather dr…

In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant answer a Summer Shorts question from a listener in Oklahoma. They discuss practical ways couples can grow closer to God individually and together. Their candid conversation reveals how their individual and collective spiritual lives have changed post infidelity. Drawing from…

This week a listener from Kansas asks about the complexities of celebrating a big anniversary milestone after their marriage has been marred by infidelity. Having just celebrated 28 years of marriage, Rusty and Heather discuss the importance of celebrating restoration and redemption. They share personal stories of anniversaries following their own …

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss a listener's question from the United Kingdom regarding the impact of Heather's cancer diagnosis on their journey of reconciliation. Heather was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2016, just five years after their marriage crisis. This episode explores how the health cr…

In this week's Summer Shorts episode, Rusty and Heather tackle two interconnected listener questions about post-affair communication challenges. They discuss the balance between healing from betrayal and moving forward in your marriage after infidelity. They address a betrayed spouse's anxiety about discussing the affair, fearing it may cause guilt…

This week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast continues the Summer Shorts series, addressing a question from a listener in Mississippi about the potential impact of married couples sleeping in separate beds. Rusty and Heather discuss the potential risks associated with sleeping separately, while also providing practical tips for couples to m…

On this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather tackle a challenging question from a listener in Pennsylvania: How to handle a situation where one spouse believes the marriage has significant problems and is unhappy, while the other spouse feels everything is fine. Drawing from their personal experiences and insights, Rus…

Rusty and Heather sit down with their sons, Luke and Logan, for a deeply moving and personal conversation. For the first time, Luke and Logan open up publicly about their understanding of their parents' journey through infidelity and how it impacted them as they were growing up. Hear their honest and heartfelt reflections on learning of their paren…

A listener from Georgia asks, "How can I best encourage and help my friend as she rebuilds her marriage after an affair?" Rusty and Heather offer practical advice and emotional support strategies for anyone walking alongside a friend in the wake of infidelity. Rusty and Heather share emotional stories of the support they received during their journ…

On this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather tackle a sensitive topic submitted by a listener - how to handle situations where one spouse's touchy-feely behavior with the opposite sex makes the other spouse uncomfortable. The listener's scenario involves a husband who admits to touching women in a way he wouldn't touch…

A listener from Mississippi asked how to stay connected to their spouse when they have young children. Maintaining an emotional and physical connection with your spouse can be challenging as your marriage goes through various seasons and transitions. In this episode, Rusty and Heather provide insightful tips and strategies to help couples maintain …

All couples have fights, but do you know how to fight fair? The Redeemed Marriage Podcast's Summer Shorts series continues with Rusty and Heather addressing a listener's question from Kentucky on how to stop an argument that is spiraling out of control. In this episode, Rusty and Heather share practical strategies and insights from their own experi…

Rusty and Heather tackle a common challenge many couples face - differing levels of sexual desire within the marriage. A listener from North Carolina writes in asking for advice on how to handle the situation when one spouse has a higher libido than the other. Giving insight from their own journey toward sexual fulfillment, Rusty and Heather provid…