Best Swingingrelationships Podcasts (2025)

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Jealousy in Relationships: How to Talk About It 9:56

1d ago9:56

9:56

Jealousy in Relationships: How to Talk About It | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Jealousy isn’t just one emotion—it’s a mix of fear, anger, and vulnerability. In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive into the emotional complexity of jealousy and how couples can navigate it with open, honest communication. They share personal stories an…

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How Single Men Can Succeed in Swingers Clubs 7:03

16d ago7:03

7:03

How Single Men Can Succeed in Swingers Clubs | Tips from John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Filmed during Mardi Gras in New Orleans, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive into what single men need to know before stepping into swingers clubs like Colette. From respectful etiquette to building genuine connections, they offer practical advice for creatin…

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Breaking Myths About Swinging: A Unicorn’s Perspective 35:29

23d ago35:29

35:29

Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Ever thought about what it’s like to embrace intimacy, trust, and communication in new ways? Let’s explore it together! 🌟 In this eye-opening conversation, John and Jackie from OpenLove101 chat with Black Coco, a proud unicorn in the swinging world, as she shares her incredible journey and breaks c…

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Swingers Lifestyle: Working Past Uncomfortable Feelings 8:31

30d ago8:31

8:31

In this candid conversation, John and Jackie from Openlove101 dive into how relationship dynamics evolve over time—especially in open and non-traditional partnerships. They share real-life experiences of how initial excitement around adventurous intimacy (like inviting others into the bedroom) can shift into feelings of jealousy and insecurity as e…

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The Hidden Truth About Partner Jealousy I Finally Discovered 16:51

1M ago16:51

16:51

Discover the hidden truth about partner jealousy in open relationships! Ever struggled with feelings of control when your partner is with someone else? In this raw and honest video, I share my personal journey from experiencing intense anxiety to finding peace and excitement in open relationships. Want to know how I transformed those uncomfortable …

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Visiting Swingers Club as a Single Woman 8:37

1M ago8:37

8:37

In today's throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about visiting a swingers club as a single woman! They discuss expectations, ways to break the ice, and how to make the most of your experience inside of a lifestyle club! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)…

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5 Brutal Myths About Open Relationships DEBUNKED 🔍 17:41

2M ago17:41

17:41

Debunking 5 brutal myths about open relationships! 🔍 Curious about the lifestyle? Let's explore together! Ever thought STDs were inevitable? Or that open relationships always fail? Think again! We're busting common misconceptions and revealing the truth about swinging, intimacy, and trust in non-monogamous partnerships. Discover the secrets of succ…

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Dealing With Fear And Jealousy In Open Relationships 9:10

2M ago9:10

9:10

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about dealing with fear and jealousy in an Open Relationship. Do you throw in the towel and call it quits? Or figure out a game plan on what you can do in the future if it happens again and how to move forward from here. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)…

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The Truth About Non-Monogamy: My 40-Year Journey 23:36

2M ago23:36

23:36

Curious about non-monogamy? Join us for a fascinating journey through 40 years of open relationships! Ever wondered how someone's upbringing shapes their view on sex and love? John shares his eye-opening experiences from Catholic school rebel to swinger club owner. You'll be surprised by his candid stories of threesomes, roller rink hookups, and pe…

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Swinger Relationships and Coming Out To Your Kids 11:23

2M ago11:23

11:23

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about "Coming Out" to your kids. They discuss the intense feelings, navigating having an intimate conversation with you children, and knowing when it is the right time to tell them. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)…

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Our First Lifestyle Experience: Raw and Unfiltered 🔥 22:24

3M ago22:24

22:24

Our First Lifestyle Experience: Raw and Unfiltered 🔥 Ever wondered what it's like to dive into the open lifestyle? Join us for some juicy stories! Curious about threesomes, swinging, or open relationships? We're spilling all the details! From our very first encounters to cringe-worthy moments, we're holding nothing back. You'll hear about unexpecte…

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Overcoming Fear in Open Relationships A Different POV 7:46

3M ago7:46

7:46

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about Overcoming Fear in Open Relationships (A Different POV)! They discuss the early stages of the relationship, how you are taught to feel, when to go ahead, and when to pump the breaks! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)…

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The TRUTH About Swingers Clubs Most People Don't Know 13:17

3M ago13:17

13:17

The TRUTH about swingers clubs? It's not what you think! Ever wondered what really goes on behind those doors? Surprise - it's not just for swingers! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Let's explore it together :) Discover how these clubs offer a safe, respectful space for everyone - even if you're not looking to swap! Tune in to le…

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Swingers Lifestyle - Self Empathy and Giving Yourself a Break 10:09

3M ago10:09

10:09

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about the self care through self empathy and giving yourself a break. They discuss the intense feelings, both positive and negative, that come with being in the lifestyle and how to manage both sides of the coin! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)…

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The Ugly Truth About Open Relationships: Not Cheating 19:18

4M ago19:18

19:18

The ugly truth about open relationships? It's NOT cheating! Join John and Jackie as they tackle the biggest misconception about ethical non-monogamy head-on. Ever wonder why people automatically assume open relationships are about cheating? We're breaking down the real difference between consensual non-monogamy and infidelity. Discover how trust, h…

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Swinging Relationship Issues Defusing Arguments 8:25

4M ago8:25

8:25

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss how to defuse arguments within the lifestyle. They discuss how most arguments are rooted in fear of the unknown and how to find a way to work through that fear in order to communicate with your partner. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)…

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Celebrating 10 Years of OpenLove101: Reflections, Growth, and Gratitude 19:54

4M ago19:54

19:54

John and Jackie commemorate a decade of OpenLove101, reflecting on their journey in the world of consensual non-monogamy advocacy. They share memorable moments, challenges, and triumphs while emphasizing the growth of their community and its impact on relationships worldwide. From their early days blogging to becoming prominent voices in their fiel…

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Swinging Lifestyle Highs and Lows 7:05

4M ago7:05

7:05

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about the Swinging Lifestyle Highs and Lows! They discuss the intense feelings, both positive and negative, that come with being in the lifestyle and how to manage both sides of the coin! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)…

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Hotel Takeover Tips: Everything You Need to Know 22:20

4M ago22:20

22:20

In this episode, John and Jackie dive deep into the fascinating world of hotel takeovers and conventions in the lifestyle community. They share essential tips for preparation, settingboundaries, meeting new people, and maximizing your experience at these unique events. Whether you're a seasoned attendee or considering your first event, this episode…

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Visiting Swinger Clubs and Dealing With Peer Pressure 7:20

5M ago7:20

7:20

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss dealing with the pressure of visiting a Swingers Club. They most common answer for why people do not go to a swingers club is because they feel an overwhelming pressure to either find a play partner or fit in with the crowd. Today, John and Jackie discuss these fears and more! Tune into learn how t…

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Visiting Swingers Club and Embracing Your Bi-Sexuality 9:43

5M ago9:43

9:43

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss feel confident in embracing your bi-sexuality while attending a swingers club! They discuss the change over time with people embracing their sexuality at swinger clubs. Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.…

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This is Why Non Monogamous Relationships Fails 10:00

5M ago10:00

10:00

In this episode, we tackle a difficult but important topic: "What happens when couples in the swinger lifestyle go through a breakup or divorce?" We dive into the unique challenges faced by those who continue to attend the same parties, events, and clubs after their relationship ends. We also discuss the double standards people face in open relatio…

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What is Swinging? The Definition Of Swinging 9:33

6M ago9:33

9:33

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss the definition of Swinging and what is really means! Is Swinging what mainstream media paints it to be or is there something more to it? Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.By John and Jackie Melfi

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What Is Your Relationship Model: 14 Different Varieties of Open Relationships 23:14

6M ago23:14

23:14

Join John and Jackie in this engaging episode as they dive into the diverse world of open relationships. Today they're exploring 14 different varieties of open and swinger relationships. They discuss the nuances and dynamics of each relationship model, shedding light on terms like ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and kitchen table polyamory. Whethe…

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Swinging Lifestyle: Fear of Being Honest 9:41

6M ago9:41

9:41

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss the most common fear they hear from other's in the lifestyle. The Fear of Being Honest Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.By John and Jackie Melfi

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Building Up to the Moment: Navigating Playtime with Ease 7:32

6M ago7:32

7:32

In today’s episode, we're diving into a question from one of our Openlove101+ members: "How do you smoothly transition to playtime with another couple at a club?" This is a scenario many couples face, and we’re here to offer some practical advice and share our personal experiences. Whether it's your first time or you're a seasoned pro, we’ll discus…

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How Different Cultures Embrace the Swinging Lifestyle 7:38

7M ago7:38

7:38

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss how the Swinging Lifestyle is different in different cultures! They discuss the difference and similarities they have experienced first hand on their travels living in the lifestyle. Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.…

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Managing Boundaries in Open Relationships: Communicating and Respecting Limits 9:36

7M ago9:36

9:36

In this episode, John and Jackie are tackling some tough questions from their viewers about navigating boundaries in open relationships. "What do you do when your partner is interested in playing with another couple, but you're not?" And how do you handle shifting boundaries when one partner isn't comfortable with the change? John and Jackie share …

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Swingers Lifestyle And The Subject Of Consent 8:54

7M ago8:54

8:54

In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss how the topic of "consent" has changed over the years. They discuss the importance of both nonverbal and verbal consent, respecting someone's answer if they consent or not, and how everyone should respect consent in any situation. Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and mainta…

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Keeping It Spicy: How New Experiences Can Revitalize Your Relationship 7:56

7M ago7:56

7:56

In this episode, John and Jackie dive into the exciting world of keeping relationships spicy and vibrant. They explore how introducing new experiences, whether it's through food, activities, or even new people, can bring a fresh spark to long-term relationships. They discuss the importance of novelty in maintaining intimacy and connection, sharing …

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Swinging Advice For Non-Swingers 9:48

8M ago9:48

9:48

Join John and Jackie as they discuss how the relationship advice they give for non-monogamy helps their monogamous friends in their relationship! Whether you're new to the lifestyle or a seasoned participant, this episode is packed with enlightening information and plenty of laughs. Tune in and expand your swinger vocabulary with us!…

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Discover Swinger Terms You Won't Believe! 18:04

8M ago18:04

18:04

Join John and Jackie as they dive into the fascinating world of swinger terminology. Ever wondered what terms like "unicorn," "soft swap," or "airtight" mean? Join us as we play a fun game hosted by Courtney, where we define and discuss various terms used in the lifestyle. We share our reactions, insights, and some hilarious moments along the way. …

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When Swinging Doesn't Go As Planned! 8:21

8M ago8:21

8:21

Join John and Jackie in this blast from the past episode as they discuss what to do when you have a bad experience inside a lifestyle club or swinger party! If you have ever had a bad experience, you are not alone! Through out the years, many of our followers have reached out with their own stories and asking for advice when the night does not go a…

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Are You Someone's Fantasy? (Surprising Truth About Body Image In Lifestyle!) 11:01

8M ago11:01

11:01

John and Jackie dive into the important topic of body image within the lifestyle community. They share insights on how everyone, regardless of their appearance, can find a place and feel accepted in lifestyle clubs, parties, and events. John and Jackie discuss common concerns from those new to the lifestyle, emphasizing that attraction is diverse a…

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Swinging As A Solution 9:03

8M ago9:03

9:03

Can swinging be a solution to marriage issues? Today we talk about a married couple who are having some challenges in their relationship and decided to try something different to see if it could help. The husband suggested they open up their relationship and see other people, which is something completely new and different for them. But what about…

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From Playing Solo to Tik Tok Famous with The Swing Nation 53:46

9M ago53:46

53:46

In this episode, we sit down with the dynamic duo from The Swing Nation, Dan and Lacy, to hear about their incredible journey within the lifestyle. We kick things off with a fun chat about how they first met as a unicorn and a bull. Dan and Lacy share the story of their relationship’s evolution from casual encounters to a deep, loving connection, a…

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Different Types of Open Relationships 7:30

9M ago7:30

7:30

In today's blast from the past episode, John and Jackie discuss different types of Open Relationships. From Swinging Relationships to Myths to Emotional Attachments! This short podcast is the perfect introduction to the different types of Open Relationships! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)…

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The New Relationship Energy: Embracing Change in Open Relationships 20:28

9M ago20:28

20:28

In today's episode, we dive into the exhilarating yet sometimes challenging topic of New Relationship Energy (NRE). We discuss the powerful emotions that arise when you meet someone new and how it can impact you and your partner. Whether you're new to open relationships or a seasoned pro, NRE can catch you off guard. We share personal experiences a…

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How We Deal With Discrimination in Our Swingers Lifestyle 9:23

9M ago9:23

9:23

John and Jackie answer a follower submitted question in today's episode! "Have You Ever Faced Discrimination in the Swingers Lifestyle?" In today's episode, they discuss their experience with people judging their relationship and how they deal with the stigma that comes from being in a "non-traditional" relationship. Curious about an open lifestyle…

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Setting Positive Boundaries in Relationships: A New Approach 8:57

10M ago8:57

8:57

John and Jackie explore the transformative power of setting boundaries in relationships from a positive perspective. Instead of focusing on what we don't want, we discuss how emphasizing what we are comfortable with can foster a more supportive and exciting partnership. Join us as we share practical tips and personal experiences on creating positiv…

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Swinging Lifestyle And Playing Alone 9:58

10M ago9:58

9:58

John and Jackie sit down in this blast from the past episode and talk about Swinging in the Lifestyle and a few questions they received regarding swinging alone. They share about their journey navigating through the lifestyle and how they have grown as a couple. Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together :)…

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Single Men At Swingers Clubs (What Not To Do) 8:12

10M ago8:12

8:12

As owners of lifestyle clubs, we hear all the common complaints from members about single guys, so we figured we make a video and share some things NOT to do as a single male at swingers clubs. AVOID these at all costs if you want to connect and play well with others! Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner?…Let’s explore it together …

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Ask John and Jackie: Exploring Dynamics in the Swinging Lifestyle 17:02

11M ago17:02

17:02

In this episode, John and Jackie tackle various aspects of navigating the swinging lifestyle based on questions from their audience. "How do I deal with the emotional challenges in witnessing my partner's satisfaction with someone else outside group scenarios?" Listen in for practical advice on handling attraction dilemmas, emphasizing communicatio…

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Open Relationship Workshop - True Sex and Wild Love (2019) 11:43

11M ago11:43

11:43

We went to an incredible open relationship workshop in Austin, Texas called "True Sex and Wild Love" and here is recap in case you missed it! (And yes we talk about the pink thing.) The event was hosted by Aubrey Marcus, CEO of Onnit, a company that makes and markets nutritional supplements, fitness equipment, and more in the spirit of optimizing h…

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Empowering Women in the Lifestyle 11:57

11M ago11:57

11:57

In this episode, John and Jackie dive into a conversation about the positive impact of the lifestyle on women. Jackie reflects on the acceptance and camaraderie among women in the lifestyle, where competition is replaced by celebration. They explore how consensual non-monogamy can empower women, providing a platform for sexual growth, independence,…

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Poly Relationships and How to Get Your Partner Into It 12:34

11M ago12:34

12:34

Want to have your cake and eat it too? Well, it takes two to tango. But, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. And, that's enough old proverbs (for now) :) Being in a swinging or poly relationship DOES take consent and understanding from all parties involved, but how do you do that? Well, we've got the video for you bec…

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Handling Rejection and Canceled Dates 13:27

11M ago13:27

13:27

In today's episode, John and Jackie discuss the common experience of handling rejection and dealing with canceled dates. They explore the emotional impact of these situations, sharing personal anecdotes and insights on how to navigate the complexities of dating in both single and married life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of not jumping…

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Open Relationship Partner Permission and Consent 16:02

12M ago16:02

16:02

When it comes to consent, what's usually discussed is getting consent from the person with whom you would like to have a physical interaction. What's not talked about as much is giving consent to your partner on what you're comfortable with them doing with others so that they don't cross any boundaries you may have. The tricky part to this whole th…

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Open Relationships and Playing With Couples 12:00

1y ago12:00

12:00

You know what they say, "The only thing constant is change." And that includes playing with couples in our open marriage. How it started is not how it is today. How we go about it. What we do while we're playing. The things we think about. The things we do with our partner. What's ok and what's not. Check it out!…

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The Ups and Downs of the Lifestyle: Cultivating Good Experiences 13:59

1y ago13:59

13:59

In this episode, John and Jackie explore the concept of transforming negative experiences in the lifestyle into valuable learning opportunities. The conversation revolves around handling discomfort, setting boundaries, and fostering positive communication within the swinging community. Reflecting on past experiences, Jackie shares personal insights…

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