Welcome to the Hiubert & Xio Podcast! Dedicated to exploring the depths of relationships from a Christian perspective. Where we have Real, Honest, Vulnerable, Heartfelt conversations on all things Faith, Relationships and Marriage connection. Dive into the insightful journey of the struggles we face, the tools we've discovered and the practical ways we can overcome challenges through Faith and Resilience. We offer a compassionate and relatable space in the world of relational living: providi ...
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65."¡No Hables MAL de MÍ!" Cuando Tu Silencio Te Está Matando
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1:05:44Send us a text Te está matando lentamente tu silencio? ¿Estás reprimiendo tus emociones, el dolor, los traumas, las ofensas y las experiencias difíciles, todo en nombre de «no quiero hablar mal»? Pero, ¿qué es realmente malo? ¿Quién te dijo que compartir tu verdad era deshonroso? ¿Que ser honesto sobre tu historia sería un chisme? ¿Que solo las par…
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64. "Don't Talk BAD About Me!" When Your Silence is Killing You
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1:04:10Send us a text Is Your Silence Killing You Slowly? Are you holding in your emotions, suppressing pain, trauma, offense, and hard experiences all in the name of “I don’t want to talk bad”? But what is bad, really? Who told you that sharing your truth meant dishonor? That being honest about your story would be gossip? That only the good parts of your…
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63. Las MENTIRAS Sobre la "Cobertura" Espiritual y La Herencia Espiritual, y la Verdad en la Palabra de Dios
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1:38:57Send us a text Hay tantas mentiras y tradiciones modernas de los hombres etiquetadas como "cobertura" y "herencia espiritual" que se están utilizando en todo el mundo para controlar, manipular, esclavizar, amenazar e incluso abusar de la confianza de tantos creyentes. Recibimos mensajes en nuestro buzón de correo electrónico de creyentes de todo el…
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62. The LIES about Spiritual "Covering" and Spiritual Inheritance and the Truth in God's Word
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1:24:52Send us a text There are so many lies and modern day traditions of men labeled as "covering" and "spiritual inheritance" that is being used all around the world to control, manipulate, enslave, threaten and even abuse the trust of so many believers. Our inbox receives messages from all over the world from believers in the same condition that are af…
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60. 4 Communication Styles-Which One is Running or Ruining Your Life?
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50:00Send us a text In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the 4 core communication styles and exposing the hidden patterns behind them—especially the ones that seem “godly” or “kind” but actually block real connection and authenticity. You’ll learn: •Why being “nice” isn’t always the same as being healthy •The sneaky ways passive-aggressive communicat…
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61. 4 Estilos de Comunicación-¿Cuál Está Dirigiendo o Arruinando Tu Vida?
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44:25Send us a text En el episodio de hoy, vamos a exponer los 4 principales estilos de comunicación y los patrones escondidos detrás de ellos-especialmente los que parecen «piadosos» o «amables» pero que en realidad bloquean la conexión real y la autenticidad. Aprenderás: - Por qué ser «amable» no siempre es lo mismo que ser saludable - Las formas astu…
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58. For the Woman Who Can't Anymore- This One is For You!
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35:48Send us a text You've been holding it together, but inside you're exhausted, anxious, and disconnected. This episode is for the woman who's done patching things up and is ready to finally feel whole again.. or even for this FIRST time. Save Your Spot at Xio's Live Workshop: The Confidence Experience. April 22 at 4 PM PST (for English speakers): htt…
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59. Para La Mujer Que Ya No Puede Más- ¡Ésta es Para TI!
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33:53Send us a text Has estado aguantando, pero por dentro estas agotada, ansiosa y desconectada. Este episodio es para la mujer que ya no quiere poner más parches y está lista para sanar de verdad. Reserva tu lugar en el taller en vivo de Xio: The Confidence Experience. 22 de abril a las 5:30 PM PST (para las personas de habla hispana): https://www.hiu…
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56. When God Feels Distant.. Facing Disconnection with Confidence
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58:04Send us a text What do you do when you know God is real, but He feels far away? In today’s episode, we talk about the silent struggle of spiritual disconnection—and why it’s more common than we think. From emotional overwhelm to distorted views of God, we’ll unpack what causes the distance and how to reconnect through grace, not striving. If you’ve…
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57. Cuando Sientes a Dios- Distante.. Enfrentando la Desconexión con Confianza
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52:36Send us a text ¿Qué haces cuando sabes que Dios es real, pero lo sientes lejano? En el episodio de hoy, hablaremos sobre la lucha silenciosa de la desconexión espiritual y por qué es más común de lo que pensamos. Desde el agobio emocional hasta una visión distorsionada de Dios, descifraremos las causas de la distancia y cómo reconectarnos a través …
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54. You Don't Think Its FEAR, But Its Controlling Your Life
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1:13:46Send us a text You might not call it fear, but it’s been shaping how you live, speak, and show up. In this episode, we talk about the kind of fear that hides behind control, pressure, silence, and performance. We share how it showed up in both of our lives—one of us trying to fight it spiritually, the other not realizing it was fear at all. We also…
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55. No Crees que es MIEDO-TEMOR, Pero Está Controlando Tu Vida
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1:10:51Send us a text Puede que no lo llames miedo, pero ha ido moldeando tu forma de vivir, hablar y aparentar. En este episodio, hablamos del tipo de miedo que se esconde detrás del control, la presión, el silencio y el desempeño. Compartimos cómo se manifestó en nuestras vidas: una de nosotras intentó luchar contra ella espiritualmente, el otro no se d…
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53. Escapando un Liderazgo Manipulador entrevista con Abraham & Irma Hernandez
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1:32:11Send us a text En este episodio tuvimos el privilegio de entrevistar a una increíble pareja de la Ciudad de México, quienes son pastores y empresarios. Recientemente tuvimos la bendición de conocerlos junto a su familia, y su historia nos dejó impactados. Tras más de 20 años dentro de un ministerio con una estructura piramidal, de manipulación y el…
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52. ¿Realmente Entiendes La Salvación Bíblica?
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27:25Send us a text Hoy estoy al aire libre para esta grabación caminando por un camino de naturaleza cerca de unas montañas. El concepto y la enseñanza de la Salvación pueden ser vistos en TODAS las escrituras. En este Podcast comparto lo básico que te dará un entendimiento general y resaltando lo que más importa acerca del Evangelio que es la obra Ter…
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51. Do You Truly Understand Biblical Salvation?
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24:59Send us a text I am outdoors today for this recording walking on a nature trail. The concept and teaching of Salvation can be seen ALL throughout the scriptures. In this Podcast I share the basics that will give you an overall understanding and highlighting what matters most about the Gospel which is the Finished work of Jesus Christ at the Cross a…
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49. FE Fatigada: Quien Eres Fuera De la Iglesia?
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1:05:07Send us a text Piensa en esto: ¿Qué pasaría si no hubiera más iglesia, ni más ministerios, ni más títulos... ¿Quién eres ahora? ¿En qué se basa tu identidad? ¿Dónde recibes validación, identidad, valor y aprecio? ¿Sientes que nunca es suficiente lo que haces, o lo que sientes que necesitas hacer para ser aceptado por Dios? Hablemos de esto. Únete a…
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50. Faith Fatigue: Who Are You Outside of Church?
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57:34Send us a text Think about this: What if there was no more church, no more ministries, no more titles.. Who Are You Now? What is your identity based on? Where do you receive validation, identity, value, and worth? Do you feel like it is never enough, what you do, or what you feel you need to do to be accepted by God? Let's talk about this. Join us …
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47. Christian Cults 2- the Truth about the Manipulation Leadership Structure
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1:04:24Send us a text As ex- associate cult leaders we know exactly how a christian- cult system works. In this episode we speak on some of the tactics used by cult leaders to continue to manipulate their members into a life long pattern of performance and never ending fear based culture that feeds the desire of their members to be validated, accepted and…
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48. Sectas Cristianas 2- La Verdad Sobre la Estructura de Liderazgo Manipuladora
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1:13:16Send us a text Como ex-líderes asociados a una secta, sabemos exactamente cómo funciona el sistema de una secta cristiana. En este episodio hablamos de algunas de las tácticas utilizadas por los líderes de sectas para continuar manipulando a sus miembros en un patrón de desempeño de por vida y una cultura basada en el miedo interminable que aliment…
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46. The Danger of Christian Cults: How to Know if You Are in One?
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1:15:31Send us a text Is it possible that you are in a cult without knowing it? Most cult members don't know they are in a cult because the system is designed to keep them from questioning it. Many former cult members say they didn't realize they were in a cult until they escaped from it and can now see the manipulation from a distance. While on the insid…
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45. El Peligro de las Sectas Cristianas: ¿Como Saber Si Estás en Una?
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1:14:42Send us a text ¿Es posible que estés en una secta sin saberlo? La mayoría de los miembros de una secta no saben que están en una secta porque el sistema está diseñado para que no lo cuestionen. Muchos ex-miembros de sectas dicen que no se dieron cuenta de que estaban en una secta hasta que se escaparon de ella y ahora pueden ver la manipulación des…
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43. Deal-Breakers! Lines You Don't Cross that Protect Your Values
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54:50Send us a text Everybody has deal-breakers—but not everyone takes the time to define them. Without clarity, you can find yourself facing unnecessary problems and challenges in your relationships, career, workplace, or even your church. So, what are your deal-breakers? In this episode, we dive deep into the importance of identifying your non-negotia…
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44. ¡Deal-Breakers/ Asuntos Innegociables ! Líneas Que No Debes Cruzar Para Proteger Tus Valores
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59:32Send us a text Todos tenemos asuntos innegociables, pero no todo el mundo se toma el tiempo necesario para definirlos. Sin claridad, puedes encontrarte con problemas y desafíos innecesarios en tus relaciones, tu carrera, tu lugar de trabajo o incluso tu iglesia. Entonces, ¿cuáles son tus Deal-Breakers/ Innegociables? En este episodio, profundizamos…
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Send us a text I was so Arrogant! What is the difference between Authentic Confidence vs Arrogance. In this episode we discuss this topic and give insight on the experiences in life that helped us become self aware and led us to graciously embrace Authenticity and vulnerability. Support the show Contact Us at: [email protected]…
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Send us a text ¡Yo era tan arrogante! ¿Cuál es la diferencia entre la confianza auténtica y la arrogancia? En este episodio hablamos de este tema y contamos las experiencias de la vida que nos ayudaron a ser conscientes de nosotros mismos y nos llevó a abrazar con gracia la autenticidad y la vulnerabilidad. Support the show Contact Us at: hiubertxi…
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39. Being Powerful This Year- Powerless vs Powerful People
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58:33Send us a text We’ve experienced what it feels like to be powerless—controlled by others while controlling others, suppressing our true selves, giving away our power, and living disconnected, dishonest, and inauthentic lives. But everything changed when we learned to embrace what it means to be truly powerful. In this episode, we’re diving deep int…
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40. Ser Poderoso Este Año: Gente Impotente vs. Gente Poderosa
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59:07Send us a text Hemos experimentado lo que se siente al carecer de poder: controlados por otros mientras controlamos a otros, suprimiendo nuestro verdadero ser, cediendo nuestro poder y viviendo vidas desconectadas, deshonestas e inauténticas. Pero todo cambió cuando aprendimos a aceptar lo que significa ser verdaderamente poderoso. En este episodio…
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37. Afraid To Admit It- The Truth About Works-Based Faith
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57:27Send us a text Have you ever felt like you're doing all the "right" things, but something feels off in your relationship with God? Do you constantly feel like you need to EARN God's Love, Approval, Acceptance, Favor, Blessing, Attention, and even Salvation? Do you feel like it is never enough, and then that same way of thinking applies in your ever…
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38. Miedo a Admitirlo: La Verdad Sobre La Fe Basada en Obras
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56:58Send us a text ¿Alguna vez te has sentido como si estuvieras haciendo todas las cosas «correctas», pero algo se siente mal en tu relación con Dios? ¿Sientes que constantemente necesitas GANAR el amor, la aprobación, la aceptación, el favor, la bendición, la atención e incluso la salvación de Dios? ¿Sientes que nunca es suficiente, y luego esa misma…
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35. How To Argue Well- Communication and Connection in Disagreements
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49:37Send us a text Arguments, disagreements, conflicts, differing opinions, and offenses are inevitable in any relationship. None of us can claim to have perfected the art of responding or communicating when emotions run high. However, there are practical ways to approach these moments that build connection rather than disconnection. In this episode, w…
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36. Cómo Discutir/Argumentar Bien- Comunicación y Conexión En Los Desacuerdos
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52:47Send us a text Discusiones, argumentos, desacuerdos, conflictos, opiniones diferentes y las ofensas son inevitables en cualquier relación. Ninguno de nosotros puede pretender haber perfeccionado el arte de responder o comunicarse cuando las emociones están en su punto más alto. Sin embargo, hay formas prácticas de manejar estos momentos que crean c…
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33. You Need Help! Trusting Others and Building Relationships
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1:02:03Send us a text It takes a lot of courage to ask for help, and even more to invest in it. There is so many obstacles and ways of thinking that prevent us from seeking out the help we need. We all need help! Who do I trust? I can't just tell my mess to anyone!? We know, we know... We had all those thoughts and struggles, yet going to get help was the…
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34. ¡Necesitas Ayuda! Confiando en Otros y Desarrollando Relaciones
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58:56Send us a text Hay que tener mucho coraje para pedir ayuda, y aún más para invertir en ello. Hay tantos obstáculos y formas de pensar que nos impiden buscar la ayuda que necesitamos. ¡Todos necesitamos ayuda! ¿En quién confío? ¿¡No puedo contarle mis problemas a cualquiera!? Lo sabemos, lo sabemos... Tuvimos todos esos pensamientos y batallas y, si…
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31. Prosperity Gospel Part 3- Twisting Scriptures out of Context
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1:10:15Send us a text We conclude this 3 part series talking about how the word of God is twisted and used out of context to manipulate and deceive for ungodly gain and we discuss genuine generosity. The call is to run back to the Word of God and the purity of the ONLY Gospel of Jesus Christ. Support the show Contact Us at: [email protected]…
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32. Evangelio de la Prosperidad Parte 3 - Torciendo las Escrituras Fuera de Contexto
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1:20:31Send us a text Concluimos esta serie de 3 partes hablando de como la palabra de Dios es torcida y usada fuera de contexto para manipular y engañar para ganancias injustas y también discutimos la generosidad genuina. El llamado es a correr de regreso a la Palabra de Dios y a la pureza del UNICO Evangelio de Jesucristo. Support the show Contact Us at…
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29. Presidential Elections Post Emotions- Our Reaction
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59:51Send us a text After presidential elections there can be so many emotions of joy and also worry, sadness, fear and confusion among so many. What can we do? Who should we trust? How should we treat others? We talk about all of this on this episode during a vital time in our Nation. Support the show Contact Us at: [email protected]…
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30. Elecciones Presidenciales Post-Emociones - Nuestra Reacción
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1:03:18Send us a text Tras las elecciones presidenciales puede haber tantas emociones de alegría y también de preocupación, tristeza, miedo y confusión entre tantos. ¿Qué podemos hacer? ¿En quién debemos confiar? ¿Cómo debemos tratar a los demás? De todo esto hablamos en este episodio en un momento vital para nuestra nación. Support the show Contact Us at…
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27. Prosperity Gospel: Negative Effects Manipulation Part 2
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1:10:56Send us a text If you missed Part 1 please listen to it first. On this episode we continue talking about the negative effects of this type of teaching. From Identity to Prayer to Manipulation in Giving; we openly speak about real experiences and the damage that it does to a believer. The call is to run back to the Word of God and the purity of the …
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28. Evangelio de la Prosperidad: Efectos Negativos Manipulación Parte 2
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1:10:52Send us a text Si te perdiste la Parte 1 por favor escúchala primero. En este episodio continuamos hablando de los efectos negativos de este tipo de enseñanza. Desde la Identidad a la Oracion a la Manipulacion en el Dar; hablamos abiertamente de experiencias reales y el daño que hace a un creyente. El llamado es a correr de regreso a la Palabra de …
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25. Prosperity Gospel: Manipulation Part 1
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1:06:23Send us a text This Episode was inevitable! We have had many questions sent to us and we have to talk about this. This is not hearsay, this is from personal experience. Join us for this spicy topic, where we uncover many tactics that are used to deceive so many people. The call is to run back to the Word of God and the purity of the ONLY Gospel- of…
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26. Evangelio de la Prosperidad: Manipulación Parte 1
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1:11:19Send us a text Este episodio era inevitable! Nos han enviado muchas preguntas y tenemos que hablar de este tema. Esto no es un cuento que oimos, esto es por experiencia personal. Acompáñenos en este tema picante, donde desenmascaramos muchas tácticas que son usadas para engañar a tanta gente. El llamado es a correr de regreso a la Palabra de Dios y…
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Send us a text I (Hiubert) am starting this Episode with a Monkey Wrench! I got a Question for You! :) After that, let's get into the topic at hand: Forgiveness. Let's address some false aspects of forgiving but let's also highlight the crucial importance of this vital Decision. Dive in with us! Support the show Contact Us at: hiubertxiomara@gmail.…
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24. La Importancia de PERDONAR en la Sanidad
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58:40Send us a text ¡Yo (Hiubert) empiezo este Episodio con una curva de pelota de béisbol! ¡Tengo una pregunta para ti! :) Después de eso, vamos a entrar en el tema que traemos: El Perdón. Vamos a tratar algunos aspectos falsos de perdonar pero también vamos a resaltar la importancia crucial de esta Decisión tan vital. ¡Únete a la conversación! Support…
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21. Trusting GOD in Seasons of Transition
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59:31Send us a text Are you facing a time of Transition? Are you dealing with the fear, loss, guilt, anguish and different kinds of traumas and battles that have left you thinking how will you Trust God in the midst of all this? We can relate! Join us as we navigate this topic and get vulnerable during our process. It was all worth it! Support the show …
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22. Confiando en DIOS en Tiempos de Transición
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56:48Send us a text ¿Estás enfrentando un tiempo de Transición? ¿Estás enfrentándote con el miedo, la pérdida, la culpabilidad, la angustia y diferentes tipos de traumas y batallas que te han dejado pensando cómo vas a Confiar en Dios en medio de todo esto? ¡Nos identificamos contigo! Únete a nosotros mientras navegamos este tema y nos volvemos vulnerab…
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19. How Theology Affects Your Daily Living
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54:46Send us a text Are you aware of how much your Theology affects your daily living and your emotional state? In this episode we reflect on the before and after of erroneous theological concepts that affected our lives along with some solutions that completely changed our lives. We believe this can benefit you as well, join us for this episode that wi…
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20. Cómo la Teología Afecta Tu Vida Diaria
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56:48Send us a text ¿ Sabes que tu teología afecta tu vida diaria y tu estado emocional? En este episodio reflexionamos sobre el antes y el después de conceptos teológicos erróneos que afectaron nuestras vidas junto con algunas soluciones que cambiaron completamente nuestras vidas. Creemos que esto puede beneficiarte a ti también, acompáñanos en este ep…
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18. AGOTAMIENTO- Causas, Consequências, & Recuperación
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52:39Send us a text Esta usted quemado? Te encuentras en un estado de agotamiento constante y ya no te deleitas y disfrutas haciendo lo que antes disfrutabas? Puede ser que estés sufriendo agotamiento sin ni siquiera saberlo. En este episodio hablamos de que es el agotamiento, que lo provoca y como recuperarse, sanarte o incluso escapar de sus garras. D…
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17. BURNOUT- Causes, Consequences & Recovery
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56:14Send us a text Are you Burned out? Are you in a constant state of exhaustion and you no longer enjoy doing what you once enjoyed and delighted in doing? You might be experiencing burnout without even knowing it. In this episode we talk about what burnout is, what causes it and how to to recover, heal or even escape the grasp of it. Enjoy and share …
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15. Fear of Death and the Faith that Remains
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1:07:16Send us a text Are you afraid of dying? On this episode we speak about how we have dealt with this topic in our day to day conversations. What have we been taught about death and life after death? What does the Bible say? What is our spiritual inheritance? We answer these questions and more as we get vulnerable on this topic that affects so many pe…
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