Hosted by myself (Zahra Hassan, Relationship Coach) and my Husband (AJ)---a regular practicing Muslim couple. Each week, we discuss healthy relationships from an Islamic lens.
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Ep 47 | Dynamics of Age Gap Marriages, and What to Consider during the Talking Stage
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32:58🎁 You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/compatibilityguide ❓ Have a question you want us to answer? Ask us here!👇🏽 https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdHIXXY_6505XPQ2otKgioytpZiUtzqqKyXkPHdBI-lP9YcPA/viewform?usp=header 📻How to R…
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Ep 46 | What should you do if you're married to the wrong person?
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31:42❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymarriagehabits ❤️ Want to make “fights” with your spouse a lot less stressful? Download my 5 Steps of Conflict Resolution here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/dy78fqfb0l ___________________________________…
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Ep 45 | When to Remarry after Divorce, and Red Flags to Watch out For
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35:08In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss how long it takes to recover after divorce, and red flags to watch out for in the next partner. ______________ 🔴Need help with figuring out Compatibility? Download my FREE Compatibility Guide, specifically designed for women! Get yours here right now 👉🏽https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/compatibilityguid…
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Ep 44 | Common Causes of Fighting in Married Couples, and How to Fix This.
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41:48In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss the underlying cause of common fights in married couples, and how to fix this. ______________ 🔴Need help with figuring out Compatibility? Download my FREE Compatibility Guide, specifically designed for women! Get yours here right now 👉🏽https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/compatibilityguide 🔴Want to feel c…
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Ep 43 | "As a Revert, when should I get married?"
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26:14In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss the ONE thing that Reverts to Islam should keep in mind when selecting a spouse. ______________ 🔴Need help with figuring out Compatibility? Download my FREE Compatibility Guide, specifically designed for women! Get yours here right now 👉🏽https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/compatibilityguide 🔴Want to feel…
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Ep 42 | "How much do I compromise with my husband?"
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27:52In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how important it is to choose your spouse carefully given the rights and responsibilities of each of you in marriage. ______________ 🔴Need help with figuring out Compatibility? Download my FREE Compatibility Guide, specifically designed for women! Get yours here right now 👉🏽https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassanc…
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Ep 41 | "My parents are refusing a potential."
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31:27In this week’s episode, AJ and I provide tips and tricks for how to get your parents to accept a potential spouse whom they are refusing for superficial reasons. ______________ 🔴Need help with figuring out Compatibility? Download my FREE Compatibility Guide, specifically designed for women! Get yours here right now 👉🏽https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassanc…
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Ep 40 | "How do I accept never getting married?"
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38:35In this week’s episode, AJ and I provide helpful advice on how to cope with the thought that you may never be married. ______________ 🔴Need help with figuring out Compatibility? Download my FREE Compatibility Guide, specifically designed for women! Get yours here right now ➡️ https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/compatibilityguide 🔴Want to feel c…
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Ep 39 | "My husband wants me to remove my profile picture."
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23:41In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through how to approach autonomy and social media in your marriage. ______________ 🔴Need help with figuring out Compatibility? Download my FREE Compatibility Guide, specifically designed for women! Get yours here right now ➡️ https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/compatibilityguide 🔴Want to feel closer to your H…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through tips on how to recognize whether a potential match is actually interested in you. ______________ 🔴Need help with figuring out Compatibility? Download my FREE Compatibility Guide, specifically designed for women! Get yours here right now ➡️ https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/compatibilityguide 🔴Want to…
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Ep 37 | "How do I get past being cheated on?"
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29:21In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through some strategies for how to start healing after being cheated on. ______________ 🔴Need help with figuring out Compatibility? Download my FREE Compatibility Guide, specifically designed for women! Get yours here right now ➡️ https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/compatibilityguide 🔴Want to feel closer to y…
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Ep 36 | "She doesn't think I will provide."
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27:32In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through how to navigate the tricky topic of financial compatibility during the talking stage. ______________ 🔴Need help with figuring out Compatibility? Download my FREE Compatibility Guide, specifically designed for women! Get yours here right now ➡️ https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/compatibilityguide 🔴Wan…
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Ep 35 | "How long does the spark last in marriage?"
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40:48In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through tips and tricks for keeping the spark in your marriage alive…years after you sign the paper, In Shaa Allah. ______________ 🔴Need help with figuring out Compatibility? Download my FREE Compatibility Guide, specifically designed for women! Get yours here right now ➡️ https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/c…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss tips for avoiding attachment to potential matches during the talking stage. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches. You’ve got ques…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how to manage the very real fear of being cheated on. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches. You’ve got questions about your pe…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how and when you “just know” that the person you’re talking to is the right one for you. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches.…
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Ep 31 | "What do we say during the talking stage?"
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37:07In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about what to talk about during the talking stage, as well as how to gauge connection with a potential match. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front o…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about the impact of masculinity and femineity on healthy relationships. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches. You’ve got questi…
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Ep 29 | "Am I too insecure to find a spouse?"
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27:39In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through some helpful tips on how to manage insecurity when it comes to finding your spouse. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches.…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I answer a question about a man who does not feel appreciated by his wife. We review how to have difficult conversations with your spouse as well as the connection between emotional and physical intimacy in marriage. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my …
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I answer a question about awkwardness during the newlywed stage. Using our own experience, we provide practical tips on how to navigate those early moments and build a stronger bond with your partner. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webi…
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Ep 26 | "I am a different race from my husband.".
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28:39In this week’s episode, AJ and I answer a question about some of the challenges that come up in interracial or intercultural marriages. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right …
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Ep 25 | "I don't know if I'm attracted to him."
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32:13In this week’s episode, AJ and I answer a question about whether or not attraction can develop over time. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches. You’ve got questions …
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through how to start to be open with your spouse and manage hyperindependence. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches. You’ve got q…
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Ep 23 | How to Remarry as a Single Parent
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38:02In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through how to approach looking for a spouse as a single parent. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches. You’ve got questions about…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss why the Muslim marriage process mitigates risk more efficiently than other strategies. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches.…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I review how to know whether a potential gentleman is serious about pursuing marriage with you. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches. …
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Ep 20 | Why are Men Afraid of Commitment?
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1:05:36In this week’s episode, AJ and I unpack common reasons why some men shy away from commitment. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches. You’ve got questions about your p…
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Ep 19 | How to Make Long Distance Work
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1:05:46In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about strategies to help make your long distance courtship or marriage work out, In Shaa Allah. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right ma…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how to use the dating/matrimonial apps strategically to actually find a spouse, Bi’Iznillah. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right…
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Ep 17 | How to Make Your Spouse Happy
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1:06:59In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how to win your husband or wife's heart within your marriage, In Shaa Allah. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches. You’ve…
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Ep 16 | How to Know if She's a Good Woman
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59:12In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how to recognize a good woman based on her characteristics and approach, In Shaa Allah. ____________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matche…
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Ep 15 | How to Know if He's a Good Man
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1:12:49In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how to recognize a good man based on his characteristics and approach, In Shaa Allah. ____________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches.…
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Ep 14 | How to be Manipulation Proof
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1:26:44In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about the perspective and strategies that are helpful for side-stepping manipulators entirely during your search, In Shaa Allah. ____________ If you are already married, and suspect or know that you are experiencing abuse, please reach out to loved ones whom you know and trust for help. We have listed some addi…
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Ep 13 | How to Make a Marriage Work
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1:00:56In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about our best understanding of what are the requirements and skills needed to make a marriage work. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the rig…
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In this week’s episode, I (just me! AJ will be back next week Bi’Iznillah) talk about the right criteria to have in mind when choosing a spouse. ____________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the…
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Ep 11 | How Should Money be Managed in Marriage?
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54:14In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss how to talk about and manage money in a healthy way both during the talking stage and after marriage. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the…
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Ep 10 | How Important is Attraction in Marriage?
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1:04:30In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss how attraction should factor into your talking stage, and how to address loss of attraction during marriage. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front…
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Ep 9 | How to Handle Boredom in Marriage
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1:06:31In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss how to tackle boredom and disconnection in marriage. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches. You’ve got questions about your p…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss the common underlying causes of divorce, our own experiences, and how to start the recovery process. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the …
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss how to recognize red flags associated with possible manipulators early in the talking stage, as well as how relationships with them typically proceed. This information is intended to be an additional resource to help single people find a safe individual to be their spouse. Please understand that I am just a …
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss loyalty and trust in the context of infidelity, social media, and checking each other’s phones. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss how and where to find a spouse. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating apps that gets you in front of the right matches. You’ve got questions about your personal life? Bring t…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I address the gender wars. We discuss opposing views, the reasoning behind them, and how they lead to misunderstandings between the two groups. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact approach on the dating ap…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how to manage and share the mental load of responsibilities that comes with running a household. This issue is likely one of the leading causes of divorce in younger people, and it is vital to have a system in place to make sure everyone’s contributions feel fair. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app s…
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In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about the challenges that come up during the first year of marriage. We discuss how to establish a good foundation of healthy conflict resolution and support to build a happy and thriving relationship, In Sha Allah! ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up f…
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In this episode, AJ and I review the most common questions of clients regarding the Talking Stage from both the women and men's perspectives. Then we discuss our own courtship, including how we met! ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me teach you mine! Sign Up for my Free 1 Hour Webinar where I go through my exact a…
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