Get your coffee ready (because this convo gets real) as we dive into the sometimes messy world of personal hygiene dealbreakers. From questionable habits to must-have routines, we’re talking about the little things that can make a big difference in attraction and respect. What’s non-negotiable when it comes to cleanliness? And when is it okay to gi…

Join Us for Coffee & Conversation: Let’s Talk About Breakups Whether you're healing from a recent split, supporting a friend, or simply curious about the emotional side of relationships, you're invited to join us for an open, honest conversation over a comforting cup of coffee. Let’s talk about the messy, meaningful, and sometimes even liberating p…

Pull up a chair, pour yourself a cup of coffee, and join us for a cozy conversation about all things romantic comedy. From timeless classics like When Harry Met Sally to modern gems like Wedding Crashers, we’re spilling the tea (and maybe a little coffee) on our favorite rom-coms, the most iconic on-screen couples, and the moments that made us beli…

Join us for a laid-back chat as we sip on rich hazelnut coffee all the way from Hawaii (a sweet gift from a sweet friend—mahalo!). Hopefully, you don’t mind a few satisfying sips, because we’re bringing the cozy café vibes straight to your ears. This episode, we’re diving into First Impressions—the good, the awkward, and the unforgettable—in the wo…

Welcome to Free-for-All Podcasting Days, where Shelli & Steph spill the coffee and the conversation! ☕️ No script, no rules—just real talk over a fresh brew. Today’s sweet (and slightly chaotic) lineup includes: Favorite childhood candies and those nostalgic treats we still love Unpopular candy opinions—we’re looking at you, black licorice 👀 Plus, …

Grab your favorite mug and join us for a cozy conversation about first dates—the good, the bad, and the ones you pretend never happened. We’re sipping on hazelnut coffee and spilling the details on where we love to go for a first date, whether flowers are a thoughtful gesture or a little too much, and what subtle signs say “green flag!” or “run for…

Come hang out with us over a cup of coffee and a side of maple bacon donuts from WOW Donuts (not an ad, just pure appreciation 🍩). In this episode, we’re diving into the world of dating apps—the profiles, the pics, and the green/red flags that stop us in our tracks. What do you actually put on your dating app profile? What makes you swipe right—or …

Join us for a cup of Kopi Luwak coffee (huge thanks to our thoughtful friend for the gift!) as we dive into a heartfelt conversation about growing up on the move—whether as a military brat or just someone who’s had to pack up and start over more than once. We’re sharing stories of childhood goodbyes, new schools, quick friendships, and what it’s li…

Welcome to Free-for-All Podcasting Days, where Shelli & Steph spill the coffee and the conversation! ☕️ No script, no rules—just real talk over a fresh brew. Today, we’re diving into childhood joy and toybox treasures: What were our favorite toys growing up? Would we still play with them today—kids or no kids? From Barbies and Legos to Nintendo and…

Grab a cup of coffee and settle in for a real, unfiltered conversation about living together before marriage or engagement—no religious debates, just personal perspectives. Do you believe in cohabiting before committing for life, or do you prefer to wait? We’re talking through the pros, the cons, and everything in between: learning each other’s hab…

Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join us for a deep, heartfelt conversation about what truly builds a strong relationship—whether it’s romantic or platonic. We’re breaking down the building blocks of a solid foundation: trust, communication, respect, and emotional safety. Why is trust so essential? What does it really look like in everyday moments…

Grab your favorite mug and join us as we dive into the mysterious world of dreams and nightmares over a steaming cup of coffee. Have you ever had a recurring dream that feels like it’s trying to tell you something? Or a nightmare that wakes you up in a cold sweat? We’re sharing stories, exploring what our dreams might mean, and chatting about how t…

Pour yourself a cup of coffee and get ready for some real talk about those little things that drive us nuts—not just in relationships, but out in the wild world of everyday life. We’re tackling the classic and controversial pet peeves: leaving the grocery cart in the middle of the parking lot, littering, people who don’t use turn signals, texting w…

Grab a fresh cup of coffee and hop right in as we chat about everything Easter! From childhood egg hunts and candy overload to favorite traditions and the quirks of holiday family gatherings, this episode is packed with sweet memories and fun stories. We’ll talk about: Classic Easter treats (chocolate bunnies, jelly beans, and those colorful eggs) …

Grab your favorite mug and join us for a candid chat about the lines we draw around sharing intimate parts of our relationships with friends. Are you the type to swap fun, spicy stories about your sex life with your close friends—or do you keep those moments hush hush? When problems arise, do you turn to friends for advice and support, or prefer to…

Pour yourself a cup of coffee and join us for an honest conversation about prenups—love, trust, and legal agreements all stirred into one hot topic. If your fiancé or fiancée wanted a prenup, would you say yay or nay? We’re unpacking the reasons people choose prenups, the fears and misconceptions surrounding them, and how they can actually be a too…

Grab your favorite cup of coffee and join us for a candid conversation about one of those tricky questions: Do you want to know how many sexual partners your girlfriend or boyfriend has had before you? Is it a yay—important for honesty and understanding? Or a nay—something better left in the past? We’ll unpack why this question matters (or doesn’t)…

Welcome to Free-for-All Podcasting Days, where Shelli & Steph spill the coffee and the conversation! ☕️ No script, no rules—just real talk over a fresh brew. In today’s episode, we cover a little bit of everything: Shelli’s maybe-missed Meet-Cute moment (Was it fate… or just a caffeine-fueled daydream?) Steph’s ongoing gym crush saga (Should he sho…

Pour yourself a cup of delicious coffee and settle in as we chat about the rituals and routines that help us wind down—or not—when it’s time to sleep. Are you the type who needs a slow, calming routine to drift off, or can you knock out the second your head hits the pillow? Do you prefer your bedroom warm and cozy or cool and crisp? We’re sharing b…

Grab a cup of coffee and join us for a heartfelt conversation about what to do with gifts and mementos from past relationships. Do you hold onto those special items as memories, or do you prefer to clear the slate and dispose of them after a breakup? What do you expect from your new partner—do you hope they’ve moved on completely, or are you comfor…

Back by popular demand—and still uncensored. ☕️ Join us for Part Two of our deep dive into the red and green flags of modern dating. This time, we’re getting even more personal: What are your red and green flags? What behavior instantly raises alarm bells, and what signs tell you someone’s worth your time? From clingy texts and inconsistent communi…

Communication is everything—especially when it comes to building (or maintaining) a connection. So grab your favorite cup of coffee and join us as we dive into the way we really like to communicate. Are you a text-all-day kind of person? Do you prefer deep phone convos, spontaneous FaceTimes, or nothing beats quality time in person? And what happen…

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Uncensored. Unscripted. Unapologetically honest. Join us over a strong cup of coffee as we dive into the wild world of dating—spotting red flags, embracing green flags, and calling out everything in between. From love bombers to poor communicators, to those rare gems who actually text back and respect boundaries, we’re laying it all out. This episo…