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Welcome to a podcast unlike any other, in which I bring my unique intersectional identity as a gay Igbo man from Nigeria to the forefront. This is a space where personal stories meet cultural insights, and where meaningful discussions about LGBTQIA+ issues, representation, and empowerment take centre stage. Each episode is a journey into the intricacies of being queer and African, examining themes of identity, perseverance, and visibility. As I amplify queer voices, spill some palm wine, sla ...
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This is about the experience queer people have when those who raised them, prayed for them, or told them they loved them also make them feel unsafe. We are taught that family is vital, even if it means we have to shrink to fit in. If you've ever had to make emotional exits, rethink what home means, or remember that love should never need you to be …
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Being truly present, whether at work or in a creative setting, often means doing emotional work, choosing to be quiet, and always balancing the need to be safe and the need to be seen. This conversation is about survival, yes, but also about reclaiming joy, setting boundaries, and showing up with intention, even when it’s complicated. This episode …
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This episode explores what it's like to be a queer African in a world that always asks you to choose between visibility and safety. Being out comes with risks, both emotional and cultural, and sometimes physical. But hiding also comes with a cost. Queerness is still valid, no matter how you live. This is a reminder that pride can be loud and soft a…
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This is a conversation about what it means to love, be wanted, and connect as a queer African who has survived shame, silence, and secrecy. Anyone who is learning to love without apologies or guilt will benefit from this episode. #QueerAndUnfiltered #LovingOutLoud #QueerIntimacy #DesireWithoutShame #QueerHealing #LGBTQIANigeria #AfroQueerVoices #Un…
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This episode is about how softness, rest, and care are radical acts for queer Nigerians, Africans, and members of the diaspora. Many of us were taught to be strong, quiet, and cautious just to survive. This is for anyone who wants to get rid of their shame, guilt, and fear about caring for themselves. It is a reminder that you deserve softness beca…
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This episode is a love letter to the people who chose us and became our family when our biological family rejected us. When our biological families fail us, we find home in those who love us as we are without conditions, and we talk about what a chosen family means. This episode is for anyone who is building their own version of a family. It’s for …
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Faith, Fear & Freedom Ft. Lucifer Haywood
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This episode talks about the complicated relationship between queerness and faith. Many of us were taught that our queerness was something to hide, fear, or pray away. But what happens when we start to regain our spirituality outside of shame, silence, and survival? We look at how religion has hurt people, how colonial interpretations of faith were…
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Code switching & Surviving As A Queer Person
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This episode explores the daily reality of code switching as a queer person in unsafe, unfriendly, or judgmental spaces. Many of us are constantly changing how we talk, dress, and show up to feel safe or accepted. Code switching may be rooted in survival, but it can often leave us feeling broken and exhausted. This episode is for anyone who has eve…
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Unlearning Internalized Homophobia and Accepting Oneself
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This episode elaborates on the process of learning to accept one's queer identity with confidence and pride. Homophobia can keep us from loving ourselves fully because of self-doubt and the heavy influence of culture, religion, and society. We look at what it looks like to let go of shame, change negative stories, and step into our truth without ap…
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This episode discusses the importance of financial independence for LGBTQIA+ individuals, especially in societies where queer people face job discrimination, family rejection, and limited opportunities. This episode also shares steps queer people can take to build financial stability, security, and safety. Money is not just about wealth, it is abou…
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Thriving, Healing, and Finding Inner Peace
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Mental health is already a struggle for many, but the weight of societal rejection, discrimination, and cultural expectations makes it even harder for queer people. In this episode, I share the unique mental health challenges LGBTQIA+ individuals face, from internalized homophobia and family pressure to the emotional toll of navigating a world that…
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In this episode, I elaborate on the realities of queer love in societies where LGBTQIA+ relationships are not accepted. I look at what it means to be in a relationship while balancing visibility, safety, and cultural expectations. Queer love is powerful, valid, and deserving of celebration. This episode is a deep dive into what it means to love fre…
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Queer Joy, Finding Happiness, and Celebrating Victories -Feat A Convo With My Man
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This episode focuses more on happiness, resilience, and the power of recognizing queer happiness. We deserve to thrive, love, and experience happiness, just like anyone else.I discuss the importance of finding joy in self-expression, relationships, friendships, and personal milestones, even in environments that try to suppress queer existence. I al…
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Family, Culture, and Coming Out as a Gay Igbo Man
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This episode elaborates on the relationship between family, culture, and coming out as a gay Igbo man. In a society that often resists change, I dive into what it means to embrace your truth.I share personal stories, reflecting on the fear, rejection, and emotional hurdles that come with coming out, as well as moments of resilience and self-accepta…
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Living Authentically and Accepting Your Truth In A Judgemental Society- FT. A Brief Convo With My Man
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In this episode, we explore the journey of living authentically in a society that often demands conformity. I discuss the emotional and psychological challenges of embracing your truth.I share my experiences of navigating self-acceptance, overcoming internalized fears, and setting boundaries with those who refuse to respect our identity. I also str…
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Common Misconceptions and Stereotypes Regarding Homosexuality
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This episode tackles the widespread stereotypes and misconceptions about being gay, from the belief that homosexuality is "un-African" to the dangerous myth that queerness is a "Western influence."I also address harmful assumptions, such as the notion that homosexuality is a choice, that LGBTQIA+ individuals are promiscuous, or that queer individua…
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In this episode, I am sharing a deeply personal and honest conversation about what it means to navigate life as a gay man from Nigeria. I am introducing myself and setting the tone for this journey, a space where I can amplify queer voices, celebrate Igbo culture, and have unfiltered conversations. My story is about the challenges of growing up in …
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Say hello To Igbo, Queer, and Unfiltered Podcast
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I would like to introduce you to Igbo, Queer, and Unfiltered, a space where identity, culture, and authenticity collide. This podcast serves as a celebration of what it means to be proudly Igbo, unapologetically queer, and completely unfiltered.I will take you on a journey that explores the complexities of living at the intersection of being queer …
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