Have you ever wondered why some conversations are better spoken in private, with your BFFs, with your boys, or your spouse? Do you wish you could get others opinions on such issues? Well, welcome home. Ceejay's Take is that platform where we tell it all. Issues no one wants to talk about, yet everyone's got an opinion about. I throw light on those topics and spark up a conversation. This is a safe platform where opinions are respected. We will say like it is basically, respectably. So, What' ...
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Narcissism isn't always loud and obvious. Sometimes, it's silent manipulation, guilt-tripping, or constant need for control. In this episode, I dive deep into what makes someone a narcissist, the everyday signs we often ignore, and why it's important to know that narcissism is not gender-based. Tune in and protect your peace. 🎙 Listen now on Ceejay…
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Blocked Today, Unblocked Tomorrow - Is It Healing or Hurting?
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16:33You block them on Monday... You unblock them on Thursday... And by Saturday night, you're deep - stalking their insta like it's a research project. This episode dives deep into the emotional rollercoaster of blocking and unblocking your ex - what it really means, why it's a sign of deeper desperation, and how it quietly erodes your self-esteem. Fro…
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Dating Daddy: The Psychological Price of Older Men & Younger Women.
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17:51What really happens when young women date men old enough to be their fathers? In this raw and necessary episode, we dive deep into the truth behind these age-gap relationships - the hidden manipulation, the psychological damage, and the illusion of love. 🎙 This is a wake-up call to every young woman caught in the charm of older men... and a reality…
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She's Not Your Lover, She's Your Mother...Kinda
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16:00Is it love... or a life leason waitinf to happen? In this powerful episode of Ceejay's Take Podcast, I dive into the reality behind relationships where older women date much younger men - sometimes young enough to be their sons. We explore: 🔸️Why these relationships happen 🔸️The hidden emotional and psychological impact on young men 🔸️Real-life sto…
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TMI kills the vibe: Why Oversharing on a First Date is a Red Flag
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10:56Ever been on a first date that felt more like a therapy session? 🤔 Let's talk about the danger of saying too much, too soon - and whybprotectijg your peace (and your story) matters. This episode dives into the art of pacing, emotional balance, and how a little mystery can go a long way in building real connection. 🎧 Tap in now and find out why some…
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What Are We? Escaping the Situationship Trap
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11:23Are you stuck in a "talking stage" that never graduates? Constantly asking yourself, "What are we?" while theybkeep dodging the question? This episode is for everyone tired of the emotional limbo of a situationship. It's time to stop settling for "almost" when your heart craves real love. We're getting real, a little funny, and very honest about wh…
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You Are Not Your Past: The Power of Self-Forgiveness.
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20:17Forgive Yourself - Letting Go of the Past to Embrace Your Future How long will you keep punishing yourself for decisions you made when you didn't know better? In this powerful episode, I'm diving deep into the 'silent weight' so many of us carry - the guilt, the shame, the regret from past relationships and mistakes. 💔 Yes, you made mistakes. ✨️ Bu…
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Red Flags in Relationships. Don't Wait for the Crash.
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15:43Red Flags aren't just warnings - They're your relationship SOS! 🆘️ Ever ignored that little voice telling you, "Something's off?" Those red flags? They start small but can quickly turn into relationship landmines if you don't pay attention. In this episode, I'm sharing real-life stories that show how red flags escalate - and trust me, you'll want t…
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Nice Guys Finish Last, When They Forget...
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22:34"Nice Guys Finish Last... When They Forget They're the Prize" ❌️ Being a "nice guy" isn't the problem. ✅️ Being passive, approval-hungry, and afraid to lead is. In this episode, we're breaking down the truth behind "Nice guys finish last" - and how to flip the script. Fellas... it's time to stop chasing validation and start acting like the prize yo…
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5 Truth Bombs Cheaters Don't Want You to Know.
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18:20Ever been gaslit so hard you started apologizing for asking why there was an extra toothbrush in your bathroom? Yeah. Same. This epiaode is a 15-minute roast, reality check, and therapy session wrapped in one. We're talkimg: 🔥 Why cheatera call you crazy 🔥 The Jedi mind trick of blaming YOU for their lies 🔥 And the reason they fear the truth more t…
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💡 "Your sex life isn't dead. It's just on autopilot."If the bedroom's been feeling more "meh" than magic lately, this episode is your wake-up call. 💥Let's talk about why sex actually gets boring (hint: it's not because you've lost the spark) - and how to bring back curiosity, confidence, and chemistry... without needing to turn into a pornstar or b…
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Boundaries, Respect, and the Courage to Let Go.
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19:18Are you tired of walking on eggshells just to be "respected?"Do you feel drained after certain conversations - even with people you love?In this episode, we're talking about the power of protecting your peace, setting unapologetic boundaries, and letting go of the need to earn respect that should've been given freely.🪴 Real stories.🔧 Practical tool…
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"The Peace in Surrender: Why Acceptance is True Freedom"What if the freedom you've been chasing isn't found in control, success, or perfection - but in radical Acceptance?In this episode of Ceejay's Take Podcast, we unpack why accepting yourself, your pain, your present moment - just as it is - might be the most liberating thing you ever do.No more…
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Rejected, Not Defeated. Ceejay's Take on Fear.
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15:34We've all been there - ghosted, passed over, or flar-out told NO! But what if rejection isn't a dead end... but a redirection?In this episode of Ceejay's Take Podcast, I'm breaking down the fear of rejection - where it comes from, how it messes with your mind, and most importantly, how to rise above it.💡 Real talk.🔥 Practical tips.💪 A mindset shift…
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Happiness isn't a big event - it's the small, quiet things we do everyday. In this episode of The Ceejay's Take Podcast, I'm sharing 5 simple habits that can bring more joy, calm, and connection into your life - starting today. 🌟 No fluff. Just real-life examples.🌟 Quotes that make you think.🌟 15 mins of calm + clarity.Press Play. Your Happiness ro…
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We all have been victim of this directly or indirectly. Maybe you've done it, maybe you're currently doing it, or maybe you are aware of people who do this. Listen NOW! You're guaranteed to have opinions about this one... Happy New Year 2025.
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Are You waiting for McDonald's to become a Healthy Establishment?
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7:50Waiting for someone to change is like waiting for McDonald's to become a Healthy Establishment. Is that reality, or just a fantasy? Listen to this podcast, then you decide.
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Thinking of giving love another chance..? How do You Reopen your Heart?
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29:05Christmas is a time for forgiveness. Time to reconnect, a time for love. It is the perfect time to Reopen your Heart again, and give love another chance. But before you do that....listen to this podcast!!
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Letting go of toxic people does not mean you hate them. It simply means you care about your own wellbeing as well. And that's OKAY!!!
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"Relationships take work!" You've heard this from your parents, friends, couples counsellors and dating gurus. But what if this isn't true? What if this is the biggest lie you've ever been told? What if....the complete opposite of this is true?
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If you're literally telling yourself that the person who broke up with you is the love of your life..then you better start changing your definition of 'Love of my life.' The love of your life is actually in your life.
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Why is is that the 'nice guy' finishes last? Why is it that if you're respectful and nice, a woman is not interested? If you are one of the guys who finds himself saying or thinking this on a regular basis, then you need a fresh perspective on this. Ceejay's here to help...listen!
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Falling in love can be the most euphoric feeling in the world. You feel like you could move heaven and earth and split the sea down in middle just to be with them. However, learning to spot the signs of Fake Love before it's too late can ultimately save you from a lot of heartbreak.
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Emotionally Intelligent people do not say....
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14:02Emotional Intelligence: "The ability to create a balance between knowing what you don't know and that what you do know can be improved."
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Biggest "douchebag" "jerk" "loser" Dating Moves.
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16:05If a person agrees to go on a date with you, they're not signing a contract that they're gonna keep dating you. This is a risk you take in dating.
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Should you keep in contact with your partner when on a break?
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14:18When people often take a break, it's because that relationship is often on its last leg. You're not gonna take a break if things are amazing, right? But once you are ok this break, is it healthy to keep in contact with your partner?
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How much time should pass before giving an Ex another chance?
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12:54If you've ever been in a relationship and you're being honest with yourself, then you'll admit this question has crossed your mind atleast once before. Listen to know what I think about this..
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If you wanna change the world...start off by making your bed every morning. - Discipline!
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One of the most confusing aspects of dating or being interested in someone is knowing how they feel about you; if they're really interested in you. Because alot of times their words can say one thing, and their behaviour can do somethings else.
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Just remember....sometimes the way you think about things, isn't actually the way things are. In today's episode, I want to attempt to answer the question "What is Mindfulness?"
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Stay away from these ones..they're 8 of them!
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10:39Do not get upset with people or situations. Both are powerless without your reaction.
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Micro Cheating in Relationships...is a thing!
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18:37Micro Cheating falls under the umbrella of Emotional Infidelity. It basically refers to things that a person does that is not full on physical Cheating, but still has Infidelity vibes to it.
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The worse thing you can do is marry someone or have kids with someone just because they're the person around you at a particular age.
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Today, let's talk about the "Dreaded C-Word" - CHEATING!
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Stop making Excuses for them...Pep Talk - Part 2
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14:02This never ends well. You're are way better off single than to be in some crappy situation just to be with someone. Okay!
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When people break up, things can really get messy. It's never an easy time for anyone. But staying stuck in the toxic situation, and worst still, making excuses for people treating you bad...is wrong.
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For a Happier Life, STOP doing these things.
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10:50Figure out what makes you happy and do more. Today, let's talk about the things you MUST stop doing immediately if you want to have a happy life.
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Intelligence is the ability to adapt and change. But just how do you increase your Intelligence?
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You don't have to perfect to be amazing. Being Amazing in life, starts with simply being yourself.
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It's important to remember that missing something and wanting it back is not thesame thing. Today, let's talk about how to get over a breakup...FAST!
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Don't ask why someone keeps hurting you. Ask why you keep letting them.
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Fake Friends are no different than shadows; they stick around during your brightest moments, then disappear during your darkest hours.
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Today, let's talk about how to Stop those Negative thinking patterns that we, most often unconsciously, create for ourselves.
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The worst guilt, is to accept an unearned guilt. Today, let's talk about how to deal with Guilt.
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How to Stop feeling Tired in the Morning.
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11:17The best bridge between despair and hope, is a good night's sleep. A good laugh and a long sleep are the best cures in the doctor's book. Happiness consists of getting enough sleep. How much sleep do you get each day?🤔
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Grow your Confidence; Walk away from Negativity!
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9:30Do not stay where you are tolerated. Go to where you are celebrated.
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Respect Yourself, and people will Respect you. Sounds like cliché right? Best believe, its true.
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Give the gift of your absence, to those who do not appreciate your presence.
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Today, let's talk about staying strong when facing adversity.
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Winners Focus on Winning; Losers Focus on Winners.
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8:32Word to a wise: Ignore your haters, and remove your takers.
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