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#72. Dating after divorce with Lindsay Robson
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57:32This week’s episode is such a fun one, and honestly, I wish we could've kept it going because I have SO many follow-up questions. I sat down with Lindsay Robson, who you might know from Nickel City Pretty, Copper & Steel, When’s Food? podcast, the Buffalo Blogger Network… and basically every cool creative corner of Buffalo. We talked about all of h…
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#71. "I'll take the blonde", A Love Story, with Gramma and Grampa Marciniak
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52:56Everyone’s in for a real treat with this one — meet my grandparents, Norbert and Rosemarie Marciniak! While visiting them in Las Vegas, I pulled out my mic (much to their surprise) and started asking all the questions: about their childhoods, how they met, what parenting was like in the ’60s and ’70s, and whether hindsight really is 20/20. We even …
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#70. From Wrongfully Accused to Purpose-Driven Entrepreneur with Chad Williams of dooProcess
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53:22In this episode of the Mostly All Figured Out podcast, I sit down with Chad Williams, founder of the clothing brand dooProcess. Chad opens up about his journey from growing up in a large, close-knit family in Brooklyn to moving to Buffalo to attend Buffalo State University. Wrestling played a huge role in his life, and although an injury altered hi…
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#69. Staying accountable: My monthly review strategy
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21:56In this episode, I'm sharing a simple practice that's already made a huge difference in keeping me on track with my goals — a monthly review. Taking about an hour at the end of each month to reflect has helped me stay accountable, identify where I fell short, and create a plan to overcome obstacles in the month ahead. For example, I wasn’t as consi…
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#68. Listen to your inner weirdo and embrace the unknown with Kate Welshofer
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58:00Y'all, today, I’m bringing you an episode that will resonate with anyone who's ever questioned their path, felt stuck in a role that didn’t quite fit, or wondered, What do I actually want my life to look like? I’m joined by the incredible Kate Welshofer—writer, speaker, content creator, and self-proclaimed mischief-maker. You may recognize her from…
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#67. Fix Your Vision Board: Ditch the Fluff and Make It Work for You
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21:57Alright, let’s be real—vision boards can feel a little cringe. Cutting out magazine quotes like “Be Brave” and slapping them on a poster doesn’t magically make you brave (trust me, I’ve tried). But here’s the thing: vision boards can actually work—if you do them right. In this episode, I’m breaking down: ✨ Why your past vision boards might’ve been …
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#66. Happy Valentines Day from your favorite gin-infused sisters - a tomfoolery episode w/ Lizzy
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1:01:43🎙️ Mostly All Figured Out Podcast: Valentine’s Day Special! Brought in the big guns to help you celebrate this completely commercial holiday today. That's right, Elizabeth Grace Marciniak, my sister, is back on the podcast for another slightly tipsy episode of oversharing. Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode is y…
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#65. Helpful tools I picked up from 37 days in a row practicing being thankful
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34:03We've all heard it a million times— "Gratitude is life-changing!" "You need a gratitude practice!" "It’ll shift your mindset, attract abundance, and transform your life!" But… does it really work? For me, the answer has been a resounding yes. What started as a 28-day gratitude journey at the beginning of the year has turned into something I never w…
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#64. Your femininity is defined by you and only you with vocalist, Ellie Banke
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1:30:41I still can't believe this interview actually happened. I fell in love with Ellie's voice before I had the chance to meet her and fall in love with her as a human. In this episode, she shares what it was like being a kid in high school who knew with explicit certainty what she wanted to be when she grew up. She talks about the importance of setting…
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#63. The art and power of reinvention with Sarah Baird
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51:53Hello, hello! This episode was originally recorded in April 2024. And what a year 2024 was! Sadly, not a year with this podcast interview in it. But here it is now! The guest is Sarah Baird, Executive Director or Let There Be Light International, an organization that along with local NGO partners helps people in off-grid Africa to gain access to so…
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#62. Skip on resolutions and go right to the Theme of the Year
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37:26Happy New Year! I'm sure I say this every year but I cannot believe it's 2025. Like... what??? We are five years from 2030 I cannot get over this. Anyway 😅 this episode is a solo update on where I'm at and what the podcast is going to look like this year. I also talk about my favorite New Year's ritual - picking a theme word for the year. I highly …
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#61. We need to talk about mental health in the food industry, with Executive Chef Malik Von Saint
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1:04:08In this episode, I sat down with Executive Chef Malik Von Saint of Harvest Restaurant at Bent's Opera House in Medina. Chef talked about his journey growing up in the industry, and the people and places that had an impact on him. As the leader in his fine dining kitchen now, he uses all the things he's learned along the way to usher the next genera…
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#60. Building a business one block of wood at a time and Step Daddy J's story with Justin Hofschneider
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1:11:19Aaaaaaaaand we're back. I won't bore y'all with what life has been like the last couple of months that led to another podcast hiatus. Well, actually I will, but I'll save it for a solo episode. More importantly, I'm THRILLED to share my conversation with Justin Hofschneider of Wine on Hertel (WOH)! Justin and I met ages ago when he first soft opene…
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#59. How selling cellphones at the mall made him a successful business owner & so much more with Sean Wrafter
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1:18:21Finally, I give you, the long-anticipated, fascinating conversation with the one and only, Sean Wrafter. Sean and I recorded this back in April of this year which honestly feels like another lifetime to me. Sean is the co-owner of Acme Cabinet Company. Before that, he designed and built furniture and commercial fixtures at his furniture store calle…
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#58. Season Three: Divorce, selling the house, and how I manifested my dream apartment (solo episode)
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49:13OMGGGGG I am so happy to be back 😭 Wow I missed this podcast, I missed talking into the mic alone, I missed sharing great conversations with amazing people, wow wow wow. I can't let 4 months go by like that again. But, tbh, I had to. I share more in the episode, but it's been a wild 4 months of pushing to the finish line of this chapter of my life.…
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#57. The audacity of just going for it with Chris Flynn of Bflo Pizza Bistro
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41:40Chris Flynn of Bflo Pizza Bistro is on the podcast today! Y'all, I have been shook over how this podcast has opened doors to meeting new people doing really cool things. I met Chris while with a friend at Free Street Tavern. When he was introduced to me as the owner of Bflo Pizza Bistro, my first thoughts were - wow that is so cool, I need to know …
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#56. Creating your own opportunities with David Gonzalez
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55:51David Gonzalez from Arbol and Arbol Community Fund is on the podcast today! David and I have known each other for a long time, and I have absolutely loved watching his career unfold, transition, and grow... especially from our days serving at Carrabba's Italian Grille. David co-founded Arbol, an online application that empowers college students to …
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#55. Scared and doing it anyway with Lauree Ostrofsky
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1:09:44Lauree Ostrofsky is on the the podcast today! Lauree is a coach and an author, helping A-students & overthinkers leap with more ease and less worry. After deciding to take a step back from corporate life to find her true passion, Lauree found herself facing news no one ever wants to receive - a brain tumor. We talked about how her experiences in th…
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#54. Going for it despite the uncertainty with DJ A
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54:37DJ A is on the pod today! Andrew had a love for music from day one. But he didn't pursue it as a career right away! I learned today that he went to culinary school first, working in various local establishments on the line. I loved talking career pivots, mindsets, and staying positive with this awesome human that I've been working with for years. E…
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#53. Turning personal health issues into a passion to help with Dr. Sam Attard
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56:12Dr. Sam Attard is on the podcast today! Dr. Sam is an Āyurvedic Health Counselor, nutrition PhD, and Yoga Instructor with over 2,500 hours of teaching experience. Through her business Spiro Collective, she helps women find alternatives to artificial hormones and medications for chronic issues using the holistic, soul-nourishing practices from Āyurv…
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#52. Is consistency the key? We'll find out I guess.
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28:22Hey, y'all. It's been a weird week. I've been in a funk for no real reason. For me, when anxiety appears, it takes the form of a tight chest and decision paralysis. Which is why I'm posting this podcast at 10:45PM on the day it should be up. In this episode, I share how imposter syndrome and people-pleasing accosted me the last few days and the thi…
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#51. It's all about confidence baby with John Marciniak of Johnny & The Mankids
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1:05:44My brother is on the podcast today!! I know I say this a lot, but this really was one of my most favorite episodes to record, DEFINITELY my most favorite to edit, and it's such a good listen, too. John Marciniak is Marciniak #6 of the 9 of us, and he has been an entertainer since birth. I have proof weaved into this episode - I inserted a clip from…
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#50. The difference between feeling sexy and embodying sexy with Sarah Sofia Wilde
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1:01:01Oh boy was this a fun one!! Sensual embodiment coach, Sarah Caputi, aka Sarah Sofia Wilde, and I have been friends for 10+ years. We have known so many different versions of each other, but Sarah has been through quite an evolution of self, especially when it comes to her divine femininity. We get into all of it in this episode - what got her here,…
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#49. Processing grief and radiating kindess, with Mike "Shooky" Ciesiulka
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54:51Mike "Shooky" Ciesiulka, co-owner of JJ's Casa Di Pizza and fan-fave bartender at Free Street Tavern joined me in studio today! We got to record in Casa which was awesome (check it out on the YouTube!) so apologies for some of the background noise/music - but I think it adds to the esthetic 🕺🏼 Mike and I talked about where he grew up, teaching CCD …
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#48. You need to have a creative outlet to be a happy human with Paul Fanara
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52:03Paul Fanara of Living in the Buff photography on the podcast today! Paul is a photographer, writer, filmmaker, IT genius, dad, and generally just the nicest guy you'll meet. We talked about how he met his current partner (IRL!), when and why he started his own IT consulting business, and how it felt coming back to photography after a few years with…
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#47. "We've said too much" with my sister, Lizzy (a preview into a series that will live in the Patreon)
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32:52This one is a biiiiiiiiiiit personal, some might argue, a bit too personal? I bring my sister on and consume two bottles of wine while we talk dating in 2024. Definitely not one for the kids, ensure there are no children around that can hear this when you do. Trust and believe the public podcast will not have content like this again 😅 But once I of…
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#46. How to Prove to Yourself You are Worthy of Your Dreams (spoiler: take action)
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45:05This episode went on a lot longer than I thought it would 😂 I've been doing a lot of putting my money where my mouth is over the last year and I have started seeing some really great results from it. So in this episode I share where I've been investing my time, energy and money, in the hopes that it'll inspire you to do the same for yourself. Going…
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Composting, recycling, landfills... oh my! I finally got my episode with sustainability engineer John Atkinson! Recycling has always been such a mystery to me so I was grateful to be able to ask some of the questions that have been swirling around my brain for a while. It turns out that recycling IS in fact important. We actually do make a differen…
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#44. NYE 2024 and the Official YouTube Launch
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32:57We're trying something new this week! YouTube. Can you believe? It's been confirmed from our guru at the Buffalo Public Library, the brilliant Jordan, that we can use camera equipment there! So that means sometimes you will see us recording with guests in the library, and other times you will see me in the studio in my home office. And still, other…
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#43. "The braver I am, the luckier I get", and other faves from Untamed by Glennon Doyle
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26:19Solo episode today, baby. In this episode I discussed 3 passages from the book "Untamed" by Glennon Doyle, a book I now truly feel all women should read, especially women going through a major life transition. I talk about guiding kids through tough times, how there is racism in all of us (did I stutter), and that living a truly magical life takes …
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#42. Raising the collective vibration through work challenges, cold plunges, and dating snafus with Dominic Piacentini
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1:05:02This is a fun one y'all! Dominic Piacentini is a career educator, professional developer, experienced real estate agent, property flipper, and manager. He is also an avid fitness enthusiast, guiding groups through breathwork and cold plunges for enhanced well-being. With a deep commitment to Restorative Practices, Dominic infuses his ventures with …
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#41. The Key is Always Good Communication with Seth Amman
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1:09:58Hey hey! Super pumped to share this episode with Seth Amman! Seth is an award-winning architect with his own firm, Arch & Type. He is also an adjunct professor at University at Buffalo's School of Architecture & Planning, board member of Buffalo is Creative, and iris photographer! We had a great conversation about his role as an advocate for his st…
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#40. Using Breath to Heal After a Break-Up with Yogi Josh
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56:58I had such a great time talking with today's guest, Josh Zimmerman, aka @yogijosh_. We talked a lot about healing in this episode and the importance of truly knowing the sound of your own intuition. I'm so grateful for everything he shared in this episode and for all of his great strategies for moving forward when things feel dark. Follow Get Mello…
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#39. From Serving at Pizza Hut to Owning the Chillest Spot in Town with Josh White
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47:46I'm so happy I am doing this again, y'all. Like you have no idea how much this fills my soul right up. Episode 2 of this season was actually recorded at the tail end of season 1, before I knew that I really had to take a break. Josh White and I had a great convo about the journey that brought him to owning Free Street Tavern, an awesome spot on Nia…
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#38. Season 2 Episode 1: WE'RE BACK BABY.
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22:18Oh my gracious how I have missed this. I am so so so so happy to be kicking off season 2 (FINALLY)!! It's been a fucking ride the last few months, y'all. Each day I'm living somewhere between extreme gratitude and extreme devastation. I share this because it's likely the current season I'm in will guide my conversations with future guests on the sh…
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#37: #LazyGirlHacks part 4: the best app to help you not feel dead inside
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20:30Enjoy this episode with my current favorite iPhone apps that help me feel better every day as well as me mumbling about being busy and shit. Lots of stuff happening with my business at the moment and it's keeping me real busy! Bare with 🥴 Subscribe to the YouTube Channel to watch the episodes! @mostlyallfiguredout Follow us on Instagram: @mostlyall…
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#36. Life lessons with my favorite "hair-apist", Felicia Cardinale
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37:58This week's episode was recorded in the fabulous Mercury Salon in Allentown with salon owner, my hairdresser for years, and most importantly, my friend and fairy godmother, Felicia Cardinale! To know Felicia, is to love Felicia. Unless you've crossed her, then GOD SPEED. She is as real as they come and though she's dealt with some heavy trials in l…
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#35. Updates from Em: Things I'm trying right now
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17:20Hey hey! This is a little snack of an episode with me just sharing some things I'm trying and doing these days. What's something new you've tried in the last week? I bet there's more than you realize! Thanks for supporting and listening! Subscribe to the YouTube Channel to watch the episodes! @mostlyallfiguredout Follow us on Instagram: @mostlyallf…
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#34. The key to a happy life? Say "no" with Dylyn M Harrison
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59:44My guest today is an absolute boss. The first time I ever met her, I was like, who is this Disney princess with sparkling eyes and perfect hair. But wait, she’s also hilarious. Hold on, additionally, she’s wicked smart and most definitely, a cool mom. She is the owner of Handmade by Harrisons, which you can find at local vendor and craft markets ne…
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#33. Therapist by day, Burlesque Troop Leader by night with Melissa DelSorbo
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37:56On today's episode, I sat down with my first college roommate Melissa aka Missy DelSorbo! Missy is a licensed mental health counselor, but also she is the headmistress of the Eye Candy Vixens, a burlesque troop! We talk about how she got started doing burlesque, how it's improved her body confidence, and how prioritizing something she truly enjoys …
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#32. How an MLM Changed (*Saved*) Her Life with Liz Marciniak
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32:34Y'all we FINALLY got my sister officially on the podcast today! We talked about the most pivotal, life altering job she ever had: selling make up for an MLM. To be clear, neither she or I condone working for MLMs and I especially think they are fucking garbage. Sorry not sorry. BUT, I am forever grateful for how this one completely shifted her enti…
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Happy sunshiney day everyone! We're back with another #lazygirlhacks episode, brought to you by the MAJOR BOOST OF ENERGY that this Bulletproof coffee has given me. LOVE YOU ALL 💕✨ Get 20 bonus credits towards local workout classes through ClassPass with my link here! Subscribe to the YouTube Channel to watch the episodes! @mostlyallfiguredout Foll…
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#30. Three lessons from the Selena Gomez + Hailey Bieber Feud
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18:46Y'all. I've been down every rabbit hole where the Selena + Hailey Bieber feud lies. HOURS OF MY LIFE. I'm not proud of it. But I just can't help myself and I have no idea why. So, I tried to make some use of it by giving you my top 3 lessons from the ongoing feud between Hailey Bieber and Selena Gomez. Hope you enjoy! #TeamSelena Subscribe to the Y…
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#29. Breaking free from the victim mentality startingggggg NOW
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26:50Wussssuppppppppp Solo episode today in which I share how I've been bogged down by the ugly victim mentality lately, but then move from that to some ideas I have for how we can all grow together! I am actually suuuuuper excited about this idea because I know it has the potential to be life-changing for us! I know that is a big claim, but I honestly …
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#28. A convo with your gay best friend (aka Alex Hamberger)
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58:04EVERYONE: there is a very special guest on the podcast today. In fact, the most specialist guest, aka my very best friend, Alex Hamberger. Today, Alex gives a 101 on the current climate as it relates to LGTBQ+ rights. Specifically, as it relates to the over 420 pieces of proposed legislation currently working their way through State houses that are…
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Hey y'all! Welp. COVID strikes again. Yes, it's hit our house. We've managed pretty well, and three days in I already feel like I'm passed the worst of it. My brain is kinda mush though, so SINCERE apologies if this episode sounds like an absolute mess. Hopefully at least one of these hacks resonates with you! Let me know if they do, please! Subscr…
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Hey hey! We are BACK. And this week we've got Casi Hall on the pod! Casi is an artist, graphic designer, photographer, vintage seller, and even more than that y'all. We talked all about prioritizing your art and how she does it, even with a full plate as a freelancer. Hope you love this chat as much as we did! Follow Casi and find all her info on I…
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#25. From dancing with Luda to cakes in your kitchen, with Jason Gonzalez
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42:59Y'all. I had no idea how lucky I was about to be with this week's episode. I went to my friend's house to learn how to decorate cakes and ended up meeting one of the coolest people! Jason Gonzalez is on the podcast this week, a Buffalo transplant from New Jersey (most recently), who was a professional dancer for 25 years and then changed careers th…
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Ep #24: Ideas on how to care for yourself through a hard season
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22:27Hello, my friends! Most (if not all) of my solo episodes are truly me processing whatever I might be experiencing or thinking about when I record them, and today's episode is no different. I'm currently in a bit of a tough season, so I thought I would share some ways that I care for my mind and my body when there is no way out but through the hard …
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#23. Choosing yourself and navigating big change with Missy Stolfi
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53:56Missy Stolfi on the podcast today! Oh man, I love this human. Missy and I met working at American Cancer Society in 2014, and we’ve both been on a career journey since then. What a treat it was to talk about some of her journey in the last few years, navigating big career changes, moving to different cities, and choosing herself through it all. Out…
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