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Welcome to the F the ”Nice Guy” Podcast where we unload all our stories about the ”nice guy”. You know... the guys who tricked us into believing they were nice... until they didn’t get what they wanted and proved how not nice they really were. There will be sharing sessions, interviews, and viewer submitted stories! If you have a ”nice guy” story to share that is trauma lite (no crimes or violence) send it to [email protected].
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With all of the documentaries that recently came out about the implosion of the Titan Submersible, we've learned a lot of information. However, many questions still remain. The main question being... How did this happen? The answers lie with the Founder of Oceangate Stockton Rush. Some say he's a genius, others say he's just a privileged narcissist…
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When I heard that hot air balloon companies were landing in my friend's backyard without her permission, I decided to make a TikTok about it to get some answers. I wanted to know who was doing it and how we could get them to stop. Little did I know that my video would get millions of views, unearth the unethical practices of hot air balloon compani…
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NOTE: This week's episode may not be easy to listen to, and it may make people uncomfortable. But it's important. If we want to unpack our misogyny, we must also unpack our racism. Please listen with an open mind and heart. Recently, a creator called the White Woman Whisperer made a video about how white women are often the "nice guys" of women. Wh…
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Joe Goldberg (from the Netflix series YOU) is an admitted stalker, serial killer, and all-around psychopath. So why is that so many women are in love with him... or worse yet, defend him and attack his victims? Eleni Sagredos is back to break down Joe's troubling psyche and horrific behaviors. Because Joe may be fictional, but men like him are very…
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What do trad wives, "girlie" magazines, and bath bomb ads all have in common? They are all tools to make the patriarchy more palatable. Therese Lee is back, and she's here to tell us about this long-standing tradition of rebranding misogyny. We'll discuss what it looks like, why it's happening, and what we can do to make sure we don't fall for thes…
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Hopefully, everyone has had time to finish the series The White Lotus because we HAVE to talk about it. Today our guest is Lisa aka Yv_edit, someone who also has a lot to say about the series. We'll be breaking down the 3 main groups who are guilty of centering men - the lifelong bickering besties, the Ratliffs, and of course Rick and Chelsea. Buck…
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TW: This episode contains descriptions of grooming behaviors Recently, the cast of the Impractical Jokers has come under fire after MULTIPLE jokers have been accused of grooming and s/a. The evidence is overwhelming with multiple victims, screenshots, voicemails, money exchanged, and still... these girls aren't being believed. But why? Why are peop…
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Have you ever had a man make a "dark joke" that made you uncomfortable? Well, you're in good company. Today my cohost is the musical artist Fae. She's got quite the story about a man who kept saying he was going to abduct her. But that's just the start of all her terrible tales with men... F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNice…
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If there's one thing "Nice Guys" love, it's benefiting off the behavior of bad men. But, they don't always keep them at a distance. Regan and Payton are back to share their stories of the "nice guys" who only seemed "good" by their proximity to bad men. But if you choose to spend all your time with men who are bad... then how good can you really be…
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Over 10,000 miles and a 14-hour time difference couldn't stop us from sharing this unbelievable story from down under. We are joined by Jordan Tan, an incredible feminist, woman of color, and content creator from Perth, Australia. This whole mess started when Jordan got a voice note from two men with a podcast who wanted to "meet up" and "have a ch…
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Have you ever wondered what it's like to be a woman in Hollywood? What it takes and just as importantly... what it takes from you. For Jennifer Esposito, the men in Hollywood have never made it easy. Just as they do with so many women, they put her in a box and all but demanded she stay there. But Jennifer is not one to stay silent. So she decides …
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Have you ever had a man tell you he's going to die, you go on a roller coaster of emotions as you're told he will be saved, then he won't, on and on until he ultimately fades into the darkness... only to have him return 14 hours later like nothing happened? Well, we haven't either. But we HAVE had that happen with an app. Today we're talking about …
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With the lawsuits between Justin Baldoni and Blake Lively being all over the news, it's time to talk about a specific type of "Nice Guy". The Spiritual, Reformed, Enlightened Nice Guy. We're not saying Justin IS that guy, but he has admitted to several behaviors that lean that way. Pushing boundaries isn't okay, even if it's for the sake of "openne…
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It's the last episode of the year so we're giving you a very special gift... stories about men who give the WORST gifts for Christmas. And when the wives aren't pleased with said "gifts" they aren't upset with themselves, they are furious at their wives. How DARE they be so selfish! By the end of this episode, you'll see why these men deserve a one…
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Nothing brings out the "Naughty" side of a "Nice Guy" like the holiday season. On this week's episode we've brought Payton back to talk about all the things that men do around the holiday season that earns them a permanent spot on the naughty list. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube…
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Let's be real... mom-fluencers are everywhere. And while Kate and Regan always have issues with the way these moms care more about monetizing their children than protecting their privacy, some moms have taken it even farther. Actively putting their kids in harm's way to grift for gifts and rage bait for views. And if you haven't guessed already, we…
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What happens when an ex-football player turned podcaster "Girl Dad" gets critiqued online? Well, apparently a lot and none of it is good. Just ask Paige Connell aka @Sheisapaigeturner. Paige dared to use a video from this "girl dad" to critique some common issues we see with moms vs. dads. It's amazing how quickly men who "love women" change their …
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Lately, one question has been on a lot of people's minds. How can they support this man when they know the horrible things he has said and done? So we've brought back Eleni to talk about the people who stand by abusers, why they do it, how it makes us feel, and what to do about it. Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense Eleni's AMAZING book!…
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On this week's very special HALLOWEEN episode, we're swapping truly haunting tales from our past in the traditional spooky story style! Due to the somewhat silly nature of our storytelling, all of these stories are extremely trauma-lite but are sure to spook you (at least a little). F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtub…
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Spotting a manipulative "Nice Guy" in the early days isn't easy, but it's not impossible. We've brought back covert abuse expert Eleni Sagredos to talk about some of the red flags to look out for with a covert "nice guy" narcissist. And yes... we do talk about the "Jonah Hill" manipulation tactic. Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense Eleni…
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This week is an extra long episode, but what would you expect when Kate and Regan are breaking down this season of Love is Blind?!? And might we just say... this season may be the worst yet. The damage isn't being done by blatant assholes. It's being done by "nice", "feminist", "god-loving" gentlemen". Grab a drink, grab a snack, and buckle up beca…
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This week Regan's joined by the amazing Jamila aka Tiktok's Bright Black Honey. Jamila recently had a run-in with a "nice guy" self-proclaimed patriarchy deconstructor. He made a video about how women need to stop taking it out on men, let go of the "I hate men" mantra, and heal the trauma they "let" men give them so that they can be in community w…
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We're back baby! On this week's episode, we're appealing Reddit's verdict on whether or not a mom who was disappointed in her 40th birthday is the asshole. We've got the facts, the anecdotal evidence, and all the opinions. In the end, you get to be the judge! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the N…
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Recently a woman online did the unthinkable... she asked men on Tiktok "Why are you all seemingly resistant to evolving the definition of manhood you simultaneously hate to live by?" Of course, many men had many things to say. But one man in particular caught our attention. He presents himself as a "nice guy", a "reasonable guy", and seemingly a "g…
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We're back with Part 2 of our discussion about the "nice guys" that did us dirtier than we remembered. And this week we're talking about two stories that we unpacked recently - meaning our conversation is a little more raw than normal. Oh and ... Fun Fact - Regan has some horrible virus this week so apologies for the scary intro. F THE NICE GUY LIN…
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Have you ever had the unfortunate displeasure of realizing that the "Nice Guy" from your past was even worse than you remember? This week Kate and Regan are taking a journey down memory lane to unpack the "nice guy" situations that they now realized they were seeing through rose-colored glasses. In part one, we talk about the guy who stalked Regan …
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We're back with Eleni to finish off our conversation on narcissism. Picking up right where we left off, we're talking about the discard, hoovering, reverse hoovering, and our final thoughts on the narcissism cycle and red flags. Oh and lucky for you... the audio is better! Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense Eleni's AMAZING book! F THE NI…
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We talk a lot about Narcissism on this podcast, but this week we're taking it back to basics. So I've brought back my favorite "Nice Guy" Narcissist expert Eleni Sagredos. We're breaking down the basics, sharing stories, and giving you some red flags to look out for. And shocker... we had a lot to say so this will be a two part episode. Eleni's Lin…
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For this week's episode, we're sharing a super interesting conversation from my other podcast - the Mr. Pick Me and Manhater Podcast that you all are going to love... or hate? Hate to love? It's the story of a man who cheats on his pregnant wife - told by the woman he betrayed. But this isn't a tragic tale. No, no, no. According to them, this is an…
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When it comes to Trad Wives, we can all agree that they're looking to take us back to olden times. Little did they know, the Times would be the one to deliver the biggest blow to the facade they attempt to project. And by Times, we mean the New York Times. On today's episode we are talking about Ballerina Farms and more specifically Hannah Neeleman…
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Buckle up friends, this one is the dooziest of doozies. Our guest today is Lisa aka Tiktok's _Stronger_than_before. She's a relationship coach who specializes in abusive relationships... and the perfect co-host to talk about an extremely popular "nice guy" Tiktok therapist that has some truly terrible takes. Oh you want an example? How about him ma…
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Did anyone have tightening jar lids on their manipulation bingo card? Us either. But this week we're talking about a man who tightened jar lids right into a divorce. At first this story seems silly, but as we dig deeper into the details we realized it was never about the lids and always about control. And we wan't to hear from you! What do you thin…
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Buckle up friends because this is one of the craziest stories yet. We're talking about the absolutely insane story of Brooke Schofield, Clinton Kane, and one of the most unhinged PR strategies of all time - using a woman you traumatized for Tiktok clout to market your new song. And that's not even the craziest part... This episode has everything...…
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Kate is back and ready to talk about a topic that gets both hosts thoroughly heated.... THE IMAGINARY FRIEND ZONE. If you're on the internet then you've undoubtedly heard men complain at some point about being "friend zoned" because apparently the worst thing in the world is to be... a woman's friend. But what doesn't get talked about enough is the…
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Chesko (The Speech Prof) is back and we're talking about the Ashley Madison (the cheater's only dating website) documentary but more specifically - the Viral "Christian Family Vlogger" with an Ashley Madison account. Because if "Nice Guy"s love anything, it's being absolute hypocrites. Buckle up my friends because this episode is an absolute DOOZY …
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Buckle up friends because today we are spilling some very personal, piping hot tea. Recently we had to speak out against a predator in our community and let's just say.... it didn't go as planned. We were askedan organization to share our experiences with a predator, they did the right thing and chose not to use him, but their other choices.... you…
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When you're a woman making content on the internet, one thing is certain. Men are going to say some CRAZY shit to you. And we're not talking your average mean troll comments, we're talking absolutely unhinged. On this week's episode, we're breaking down some of our craziest comments and as always my friends... BUCKLE UP! This episode has. everythin…
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You all are in for a special treat this week. We're brought Payton back on to tell one of our family's favorite "nice guy" stories. It is truly a classic and something that could only ever happen to Payton - the queen of the 90's rom-com shenanigans. This episode has everything... brocollini, bunk beds, break up marathons, and so much more! F THE N…
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In a world where so many horrible men have podcasts, it's refreshing to hear a self proclaimed "neutral" podcaster who kindly and calmly discusses "important" issues. But often these "nice guys" are just wolves in sheep's clothing pushing the same misogynistic BS in prettier packaging. This week we've brought on one of my favorite creators Therese …
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When a "feminist" brand made for women by women puts up billboards with taglines like "Thou Shalt Not Give Up On Dating and Become A Nun"... you know you've got a problem. But this advertising choice is not as off brand for Bumble as you may think. Follow us down the rabbit hole.. or rather take this hike down the hive as we breakdown the Bumble fu…
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Kendrick Lamar and Drake are in the midst of an epic rap beef with Kendrick bringing up one particularly damning and disturbing topic... Drake's inappropriate behavior with underage girls. But for those of us who've been paying attention, this is not new information. He's been creepy. He's just had no push back. And he's not the only one. On this w…
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We're back to finish our conversation on grooming... so buckle up because this conversation is a rough ride. As we jump back in, we're diving into why people stay, why they go back, and all of the other "questionable" things people in "groomed" relationships do that actually make perfect sense once you understand the dynamics. This is not an easy l…
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This may be our most important episode yet. Inspired by Baby Reindeer and our own experiences, Kate and I are discussing grooming. We get into what it is, what tactics they us, how common it is with teenage girls and mid 20's men, and really dig deep into our own experiences to make sense of the things that happened to us. TW: Grooming and mentions…
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So a few weeks ago we talked about the terrible things our ex's did and we STILL stayed. Then someone asked us a question. WHY? Why would we stay with men who were doing unquestionably awful things. Victim blaming aside, the answer to that is complicated... but we're breaking it down. Hopefully some of you can relate. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: …
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This week's episode is a little different because it's actually a story Chesko and I shared on our other podcast - Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater (a name so lovingly given to us by an internet troll despite the fact that I don't hate men and Chesko has been picked). It's an AITA from reddit and honestly it's just too good not to share here so buckle…
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There's a trend going around on Tiktok of people saying the worst things their exs did and they STILL stayed. Well, this trend is right up our alley. Kate's back and we sharing our 100% true and 100% embarrassing stories that include being abandoned at a golf course, being told asthma is all in our head, peeing on clean laundry, texting other girls…
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If you're on the Feminist side of Tiktok, a certain "alpha" "dom" "dating coach" may have been dominating your feeds lately. And yes, all of those quotes are necessary. But if you think you know how bad he is, you've only seen the tip of the douche-berg... because we've found his "podcast pilot". So buckle up as Regan and Abby Rosmarin do a deep di…
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When I say "Nice Guy", you say "Covert Narcissist"! Well, at least the internet does. That's why I've brought on Eleni Sagredos, the author of But They're So Nice: Unmasking Covert Abuse & Narcissistic People. We're talking about the "Nice Guys" who take so far that they're giving... a personality disorder. Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcs…
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Buckle all the way up friends because this "nice guy" horror story is almost to messed up to believe... if we didn't have all the receipts. My guest Catherine's life was turned into a Jerry Springer-esque nightmare when her "nice guy" husband was caught cheating. But not with just anyone... WITH HER OWN MOTHER. We're breaking down what led up to th…
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