Best Jonathon Aslay Podcasts (2025)

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Ethical Dating & Relationships with Jonathon Aslay 39:42

23d ago39:42

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After losing his 19-year-old son Connor in 2018, Jonathon Aslay’s grief led him on a soul-searching inner journey, where he became aware of an often-overlooked dimension of the dating conversation. He realized that the relationship process reveals the most common emotional health issue faced by many singles seeking a partner: a distressing lack of …

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Say THIS To a Man To Build Trust | Open His Heart To LOVE

3d ago

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Say THIS To a Man To Build Trust and Open His Heart To LOVE Monogamy and exclusivity are often considered the most important levels of commitment but my guest, Sabrina Rising, believes that leading with trust belongs at the top of that list. Sabrina starts our conversation talking about how trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship – incl…

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THIS Question Will Instantly Change Your Love Life

5d ago

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THIS Question Will Instantly Change Your Love Life Dating hyper-focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection when we really need to just sit back and focus on getting to know the other person. Do they share my values? Do we share the same type of lifestyle? Are we entering into this relationship for the same purpose? Let’s…

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This Crucial Factor is Missing When Dating Men

12d ago

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This Crucial Factor is Missing When Dating Men The “friend zone” has a bad rep. Normally we think of that as the place where all hope is lost for having a romantic relationship. But what if you consider the friend zone as the place where you start off to build a long lasting and meaningful relationship? So much emphasis is placed on attraction, che…

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Secret to Getting Closure When He Ended It (It’s Not What You Think)

15d ago

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Secret to Getting Closure When He Ended It (It’s Not What You Think) Today we’re going to dive deep into the often complex and messy process of getting closure after a breakup, especially when you don’t get the clean ending you hoped for. Listen in as I share a recent, meaningful conversation with my ex and a powerful ritual to help you move forwar…

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THIS BIG Question Is A Sign You Should Keep Trying With Him

19d ago

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THIS BIG Question Is A Sign You Should Keep Trying With Him A common challenge in dating today is the need for accelerated learning. In midlife, the dating process seems sped up because we’ve heard so many times not to waste time with guys who aren’t aligned with our values, lifestyle, and dreams. While that IS true, we will always encounter what I…

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What’s SECRETLY On A Man’s Mind When He Likes You

24d ago

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What’s SECRETLY On A Man’s Mind When He Likes You So many people are in the dating marketplace because they want superficial needs met. You will find those who are looking for a committed relationship but with the easy hookup culture, it’s easier to focus on superficial instead of deep seeded desires. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about identify…

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3 Strong Signs He Wants A Commitment With You

29d ago

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3 Strong Signs He Wants A Commitment With You In today’s dating world there are a LOT of signs that a guy isn’t ready for a relationship. But I dislike focusing on the negative all the time, so let’s turn the tables and talk about the signs that shows he IS ready for a relationship. By the time we reach our midlife years, who has the time to waste …

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The Longer a Man Is Single, The More He’s THIS

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The Longer a Man Is Single, The More He’s THIS So many people are in “situation-ships” because they value the freedom and independence. Without a firm commitment, they can continue living their lives while having a friend with benefits to suit their needs. Those who are co-dependent also jump from one relationship to the next because they don’t lik…

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When A Man Loses Love for You, He’ll First Do THESE Two Things

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When A Man Loses Love for You, He’ll First Do THESE Two Things Many of us have difficulty expressing our feelings, so it makes sense that we’ll notice changes in a partner’s behavior before we hear the words, “I don’t love you anymore.” Being present in your relationship and making time to connect on a daily basis will help you notice when/if there…

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Men Love Women Who Surprisingly Do THIS

1M ago

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Men Love Women Who Surprisingly Do THIS Should midlife men be expected to pay for everything? It’s one thing to talk about courting a woman and paying for the dates but once that period is over and you decide to commit to one another, is this still expected of men? We’re talking finances in this episode and the expectations that midlife men and wom…

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THIS Is Why Men Make Weak Leaders In A Relationship

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THIS Is Why Men Make Weak Leaders In A Relationship Men (and women) of a certain age are very set in their ways. Seldom do they want to veer from what’s comfortable and they fall into the trap of “my way is the only way.” Staying in that comfort zone, however, prohibits growth and will […] The post THIS Is Why Men Make Weak Leaders In A Relationshi…

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He Just Went Silent, How Should I React?

2M ago

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He Just Went Silent, How Should I React? Men go silent for numerous reasons – fear, uncertainty, doubt – and when they go silent, they’re either avoiding or processing their feelings. You have every right to react when you receive the silent treatment but it’s the HOW you react that can make or break a […] The post He Just Went Silent, How Should I…

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What Men Consider AMAZING Sex | The Truth

2M ago

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What Men Consider AMAZING Sex | The Truth We’re going to have a spicier conversation today about sex and the emotional connection we have with our body. A lot of men who approach sex from an ego perspective think they want hot and kinky sex but the reality is, many men simply don’t know what […] The post What Men Consider AMAZING Sex | The Truth ap…

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Strong Signs He’s Serious About You And Is Committed To You

2M ago

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Strong Signs He’s Serious About You And Is Committed To You Commitment looks different when you’re in your midlife years and it’s very different from your 2os and 30s when most people are looking for a spouse and to raise a family. By the time you reach your 40s, 50s and beyond, you have a […] The post Strong Signs He’s Serious About You And Is Com…

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Why You Should NEVER Date a Dismissive-Avoidant (Unless This One Thing Is True)

2M ago

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Why You Should NEVER Date a Dismissive-Avoidant (Unless This One Thing Is True) We’re talking about love attachment styles today to unpack why it’s tough to have a relationship with a dismissive avoidant and how an anxious person is different from a dismissive avoidant person. If you’re new to love attachment styles, listen in to […] The post Why Y…

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Never Date A Man Without This GREEN FLAG

2M ago

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Never Date A Man Without This GREEN FLAG So often we focus on the RED FLAGS to avoid when dating but I feel like then we’re always focusing on the negative. And when you always look for negative energy or behaviors, all of a sudden that’s ALL that you can see, which isn’t healthy for […] The post Never Date A Man Without This GREEN FLAG appeared fi…

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Why Men Shut Down After Loss and Love Feels Impossible For Them

2M ago

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Why Men Shut Down After Loss and Love Feels Impossible For Them Dating seems like an endless merry-go-round where we connect with someone for a short time and then it ends. Then we’re back on the apps before we really dissect what happened and how can we learn from this experience. Ending a relationship is […] The post Why Men Shut Down After Loss …

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Men Fall In Love and Bond When… (#1 SECRET)

3M ago

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Men Fall In Love and Bond When… (#1 SECRET) Falling in love is so much deeper than having great chemistry and hormone rushes. When you let lust or limerence set the tone of a relationship, very often you’ll forget to have the deeper conversations to determine if you’re truly aligned with this person. Lets use […] The post Men Fall In Love and Bond …

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Mid-life Love Drought: Why Men & Women Over 45 Think Single Is Better Than A Bad Relationship

3M ago

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Mid-life Love Drought: Why Men & Women Over 45 Are Like, “Single Is Better Than A Bad Relationship” You’ve heard me say the dating world is a mess and even though there’s not a single cause, let’s focus on why we’re so quick to blame the other person for a date or relationship not working […] The post Mid-life Love Drought: Why Men & Women Over 45 …

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A Man Who Cares About You Will Always DO THIS

3M ago

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A Man Who Cares About You Will Always DO THIS Take a moment and think about your closest friend in the world. The friend that you can tell anything and know they will have your back. You can share your deepest desires and know they won’t judge you. These are signs of genuine friendship. Now […] The post A Man Who Cares About You Will Always DO THIS…

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Ask Men THESE Hard Questions Before Sleeping With Them Guest @LaurelHouse

3M ago

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Ask Men THESE Hard Questions Before Sleeping With Them Guest @LaurelHouse Laurel House is the premier relationship coach at eHarmony and we’re diving into why it’s so important to be upfront with a new guy from the first date. In these midlife years, who wants to waste time getting to know someone only to find […] The post Ask Men THESE Hard Questi…

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He Gave Me The ICK | Should I KEEP TRYING With Him?

3M ago

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He Gave Me The ICK | Should I KEEP TRYING With Him? When you’re exploring a new relationship, it’s natural to talk about the similarities you have. A big part of my teaching is about making sure you’re aligned in many parts of your lives so you can blend lifestyles easily. But when are the […] The post He Gave Me The ICK | Should I KEEP TRYING With…

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How To Communicate Your Needs To A Man Without Him Feeling Attacked

3M ago

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How To Communicate Your Needs To A Man Without Him Feeling Attacked I’m thrilled to have my friend, Sabrina Rising, as my guest so we can dig into how to communicate with our partners effectively. Communication is so nuanced and can quickly turn into arguments when emotions get the better of us. Sabrina says communication […] The post How To Commun…

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9 Reasons Why Men Push Good Women Away

3M ago

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9 Reasons Why Men Push Good Women Away Wouldn’t it be wonderful if relationships developed like they do in the movies, following a predictable formula with a happily ever after ending? In reality, partnership-based relationships are complex and require trust, which can take time to develop. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how complex emotion…

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Men Will Do All of THESE Things If They Really Like You

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Men Will Do All of THESE Things If They Really Like You Today’s hookup culture has us trained to think that sex is the predominant way a man shows that he likes you. But I disagree and we’ll talk about other non-physical ways a man will show that “he’s really into you”. I also share […] The post Men Will Do All of THESE Things If They Really Like Y…

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The Longer a Man Is Without A Relationship, The More He’s THIS

3M ago

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The Longer a Man Is Without A Relationship, The More He’s THIS Being single allows you to figure out what you want in terms of life goals and you also have the independence to schedule your daily life exactly as you want it. You can set up a daily routine or you can be spontaneous. […] The post The Longer a Man Is Without A Relationship, The More H…

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A Man’s Silence Means THIS | Don’t Chase, Do THIS

4M ago

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A Man’s Silence Means THIS | Don’t Chase, Do THIS Think back to when you were younger, like in your 20s or 30s. Did you find dating easier back then? That’s usually the case because younger people generally don’t have the same type of complicated lives that midlife people have. And playing dating games and […] The post A Man’s Silence Means THIS | …

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Ethical Birth with Foster Wilson 52:23

4M ago52:23

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Foster Wilson is a poet, author, and postpartum doula whose work bridges creativity, care, and connection. Her debut poetry collection, Afternoon Abundance: Poetry for Wild Souls, explores identity, spirituality, and the transformative journey of motherhood. With an award-winning career in independent film and a BFA from NYU Tisch School of the Art…

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Can My Casual Relationship Become Serious?

4M ago

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Can My Casual Relationship Become Serious? Many men don’t know how to process their feelings when a treasured relationship ends. As a result, they might be reluctant to “go all in” and they prefer casual relationships because they’ve been hurt before. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the 3 levels of commitment and why conversations […] The po…

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5 Feminine Skills That Turn a Man on Instantly

4M ago

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5 Feminine Skills That Turn a Man on Instantly Socialization, religion, and cultural upbringing all play a part in how we each bond with others. We DO carry those beliefs with us into adulthood – and sometimes the trauma associated with those beliefs – which impacts our relationships. But when we’re intentional and honest about […] The post 5 Femin…

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3 Non Sex Moves That Turn A Man On | Men Crave THIS

4M ago

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3 Non Sex Moves That Turn A Man On | Men Crave THIS Creating intimacy with your partner does not always involve sex. A healthy sex life is certainly important in long term relationships but not everything has to revolve around sex. Emotional connection is where you build trust with each other. This connection also […] The post 3 Non Sex Moves That …

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How Long Should You Wait Until He’s Ready For Commitment

4M ago

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How Long Should You Wait Until He’s Ready For Commitment? As we search for a partner in midlife, we risk wasting a lot of time if we’re not intentional about asking the right questions. Midlife is very different from our 20s, when it felt like we could take out time and play the field before […] The post How Long Should You Wait Until He’s Ready Fo…

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Ethical Astrology with Rachel Varitimos 51:45

4M ago51:45

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Is Mercury in retrograde or are we just having a bad day/week? Do certain starsigns come with an attitude or is that just their personality? Rachel Varitimos answers all the tough questions I have for her when it comes to astrology! Rachel is an Evolutionary Astrologer who guides people to reconnect with their truest selves using the power of Astro…

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Men Over 40 Fall In Love Through THESE 5 Stages

4M ago

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Men Over 40 Fall In Love Through THESE 5 Stages Falling in love takes time, hence the need for dating where we get to know people and figure out if our lives, hopes, and dreams are aligned. But once that threshold is crossed, falling in love ultimately means that your feelings for your partner are […] The post Men Over 40 Fall In Love Through THESE…

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Men Seek Women With THESE Green Flags

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Men Seek Women With THESE Green Flags There ARE good men out in the dating world! And many men often feel the same way, wondering where the good women are. Dating is tricky because by the time we hit midlife, we have many years’ worth of trauma and difficult experiences that skew our outlook on […] The post Men Seek Women With THESE Green Flags app…

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How To Tell If He’s Ready To Commit | Look For THIS!

5M ago

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How To Tell If He’s Ready To Commit | Look For THIS! Today I’m having a conversation with fellow relationship coach, Evan Marc Katz about what has changed in the dating world since he began his coaching business 22 years ago. We both agree that dating apps tend to devalue people who rely on swiping […] The post How To Tell If He’s Ready To Commit |…

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If A Man REALLY Likes You He’ll Do THESE Things

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If A Man REALLY Likes You He’ll Do THESE Things Why is meeting the right person in the dating world so frustrating? That’s an age-old question that women and men ask themselves frequently. Dating is nothing like simply making friends as a child, when all you wanted to know is if you could join whatever […] The post If A Man REALLY Likes You He’ll D…

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Ethical Past Lives with Katische Haberfield 1:12:01

5M ago1:12:01

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Katische Haberfield channels Archangel Zadkiel and is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist Cht, Past Life Regression Therapist, Medium, Ghost Rescue Medium, Author, Poet and Student of understanding the soul. She developed the Happiest Moments of My Soul Sessions after a discussion with Archangel Zadkiel, who instructed her that finding small moment…

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What Does Great Sex Mean To An Avoidant Man?

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What Does Great Sex Mean to an Avoidant Man? Attachment theory delves into how we form emotional bonds with other people and I’m thrilled to have Bev Mitelman as my guest today so we can really dive into this topic. We’ll discuss the different aspects of an avoidant man and how your attachment style combined […] The post What Does Great Sex Mean To…

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Open A Man Up Emotionally Using THIS Technique

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Open A Man Up Emotionally Using THIS Technique Have you ever thought about what your INTENTION is with dating? Why are you looking for a guy? Do you intend to have a loving, long-term marriage or are you looking for a casual situationship? Neither is wrong but in the dating world we spend so much […] The post Open A Man Up Emotionally Using THIS Te…

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A Man’s Capacity To Love Is A Mystery Because of THESE 9 Things

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A Man’s Capacity to Love is a Mystery Because of THESE 9 Things Have you ever thought about what love is? We all have our own definition of love and what it means to fall in love, but it’s really a mystery because it’s intangible. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to demystify love […] The post A Man’s Capacity To Love Is A Mystery Because…

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Men Make Mistakes, But Do They Apologize?

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Men Make Mistakes, But Do They Apologize? As we all know, nobody is perfect and there is no perfect relationship. When you put two imperfect people together, it’s a balancing act to build a relationship while also finding ways to forgive mistakes. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the 4 R’s to an apology and […] The post Men Make Mistakes, But…

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The Right Man Does THIS When He’s Ready For Commitment

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The Right Man Does THIS When He’s Ready For Commitment No matter what your age or how much inner work you’ve done over the years, being scared at the start of a new relationship is completely natural. Whether it’s fear of the unknown or simply that you don’t want to repeat past mistakes, having jitters […] The post The Right Man Does THIS When He’s…

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One Big Sign You Should KEEP TRYING With Him

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One Big Sign You Should KEEP TRYING With Him In today’s world, we’re constantly faced with the need for immediate gratification. We want our mail order packages NOW, not in 10 days. We grab a candy bar if we have a sugar craving, and the list goes on. Even in the dating world, we reach […] The post One Big Sign You Should KEEP TRYING With Him appea…

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Remove This Love Block and Love Will Chase YOU!

6M ago

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Remove This Love Block and Love Will Chase YOU! “What we think about we bring about.” I absolutely love this quote that my guest, Sabrina Rising, mentioned because so many people who reach out to me complain that there are no good men or they’re not attractive enough to get a guy. The list of […] The post Remove This Love Block and Love Will Chase …

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Ethical Sustainability with Laurel Colless 53:49

6M ago53:49

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Australian-New Zealander, Laurel Colless, is a sustainability writer, kids' science fantasy novelist, and founder of the Carbon Busters Club, a climate-science adventure program for children. With over 25 years of experience working in environmental business and journalism across Asia, the US, and Europe, she combines her expertise in sustainabilit…

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Spot THESE 3 Strong Signs He’s Serious About You

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Spot THESE 3 Strong Signs He’s Serious About You Have you ever noticed that there are a lot more signs that a person is NOT ready for a relationship than signs that they ARE ready? Instead of focusing on that negativity, we’re looking at the positive side of human behavior in this episode so you […] The post Spot THESE 3 Strong Signs He’s Serious A…

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Men (over 50) Who Chase Sex Don’t Do THIS

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Men (over 50) Who Chase Sex Don’t Do THIS You alone are in charge of your relationship destiny. How’s that for powerful? This is why it’s so important to be aligned with your partner’s values and life goals. When you allow only one person to steer the relationship, the other person gives up their power […] The post Men (over 50) Who Chase Sex Don’t…

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Be THIS and A Man Will Want To Give You Everything

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Be THIS and A Man Will Want To Give You Everything If you follow me, I’m assuming that you want to find a loving partner who wants to be with you forever. That’s the end goal but there’s a lot of exploring and personal development between the starting point and this loving end goal. And […] The post Be THIS and A Man Will Want To Give You Everythin…

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