This podcast is for every single, divorced, and widowed woman in her late 30s and beyond who is in the dating scene or considering a comeback. Hear women like you talk all about their first dates and how they’re navigating the changed dating world. Become a wiser, in-the-know dater, as women share their experiences and the lessons they've learned with host Jodi Klein and you. Visit firstdatestories.com to check out tips on self-care and dating in midlife.
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Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love and Dodging Dating Drama
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❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com ☎️Want to be featured on the show? SUBMIT YOUR Qs here: https://queerwomenrising.com/sophia-spallino-podcast ✨Work with me as your matchmaker or coach https://SophiaSpallino.com Don't we all want to dodge the lesbian drama and embrace the peaceful, authentic connections we all deserve? Join me as I phone my lesbian friends to spill the tea on queer love! Together, we’ll celebrate extraordinary little lives and ...
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Navigating your 30s in NYC is a hot mess? You're not alone! Join the Rat Girls on Bad Advice Only– three best friends living chaotic lives in the city, where dating disasters are our specialty, bad decisions are a weekly occurrence, and our advice is...questionable at best. If you're tired of curated perfection and crave some real talk about the struggles of dating in NYC, the horrors of your 30s, and the absurdities of city life, you've found your tribe. We're dissecting everything from the ...
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A gab fest with twenty-somethings Madeline Ford and Maalvika Bhat. They dish on love, almost-love, work, identity, self-talk, anxiety, friendships, and the chaos of figuring it all out. Like girls at a a sleepover who just stole their parents phone to make a video — bringing levity to the heaviness. It’s a space for questions, laughs, and maybe one day, answers. So, can we say something? Yeah, we’ve got a lot to say.
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Our Guide to Self-Care | We're Not Doing It Right
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35:37Welcome back, Rat Pack! On this week's episode, we're getting up close and personal with the ugly side of our self-care habits. First up, "How New York is It?" We're airing all the dirty laundry about city life. From our alcoholic landlord's questionable habits to the unwelcome return of our mice and cockroaches, we're getting real about what it ta…
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A Raw Lesbian Love Story with Raina and Laurie - No Swiping, Just Soulmates - WLW Dating
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57:51❤️Meet Your Future Wife where Raina and Laurie met… inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com 💎Learn more and apply to join us on our next Luxury Single Lesbian Retreat https://queercountryclub.com/luxe-retreat 📲 Follow their love story that Raina shares! www.Instagram.com/Raina_notfit 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner Online Se…
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Welcome back, Rat Pack! The dating app cleanse is over and the hunt is... well, over. But now that you've "won" the man and defined the relationship, WTF are you supposed to do next? First up in our Rat Dropping, we're recapping the latest NYC flash flood that turned our subway system into a scene straight out of the Titanic. Then, we're diving int…
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Our Bodies Are Falling Apart But We're Still Hot (?)
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30:12Welcome back, Rat Pack! This week, we're sharing a full-body breakdown of everything that is physically wrong with us. Join us as we explore the humbling reality that while our thirties may be the prime of our lives, our bodies are not getting the memo. First up we have a Rat Dropping, where we will be diving into Tinder's newest feature. We'll giv…
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2 Lesbians 1 Carrot | Grape Trigger Warning | Lesbian Sex
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25:34❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner https://bit.ly/sophiawisp ✨Work with me as your COACH https://SophiaSpallino.com 💬Slide into my DMs https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspall…
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Dating Apps: Delete Them ALL! (We Did It)
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33:33Are you as absolutely done with the dating app circus as we are? Ready to burn it all down? This week on the Bad Advice Only podcast, your favorite Rat Girls are taking matters into their own chaotic hands and initiating the ultimate dating app cleanse – because sometimes, you just gotta delete them all! Join us as Ali recounts her latest saga: get…
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your ciss cueens discuss madeline's recent modeling fiasco, improv class, and what it means to cultivate true confidence. also, for the first time in cisstory (ciss history), we have bloopers. you'll need your video on for it. JOIN CISSCORD ON DISCORD! https://discord.com/invite/NgT6sPFzs4 follow the pod on instagram: www.instagram.com/cisspod/ fol…
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Why break up with your boyfriend when you can break up with your BFF instead? This week on Bad Advice, Nora, Tara, and Ali are diving deep into the often-unspoken heartache of friend breakups. Get ready for raw confessions, tearful admissions, and laugh-out-loud moments as your favorite chaotic co-hosts navigate the messy world of ending friendship…
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Dating New and Different Women with Jaime Messina - Lesbian Love and Mindset
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1:03:09❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB Skip the initiation fee and join QCC through Jaime: https://queercountryclub.com/wlw-club?am_id=jaime9948 ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner https://bit.ly/sophiawisp ✨Work with me as your COACH http…
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[SPECIAL EPISODE] Get Boned: Unearthing Human Remains with The Bone Museum NYC
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34:27This week, we're cracking open the vault (and a few taboos) with our first-ever guests! Join Tara and Ali as we welcome Jon Pichava Ferry, Managing Director, and Masha Potemkin, Director of Operations, from the one-and-only Bone Museum NYC. Ever wondered what it's really like to work with human remains every day? Get ready for a mind-blowing (and p…
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Q&A: motherhood, books, improv classes, & getting a PhD
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1:06:37your ciss cueens are finally back after the long weekend with the q&a episode you've been asking for! this week, we talk about the vulnerable idea of motherhood – the yearning, the uncertainty, the cultural pressure, and what it means to imagine ourselves as future parents. madeline opens up about her journey through improv, acting, and writing cla…
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NYC Dating | Spine-Tingling Ghosting Stories
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33:33Join Nora, Tara, and Ali for another unfiltered, raunchy, and totally unhinged episode of Bad Advice Only! This week, Ali shares a lighthearted update on her spine tumor diagnosis before we dive headfirst into her latest string of ghosting sagas. You'll hear about the mysterious "3-Timer" who vanished repeatedly, the tall ginger who talked serious …
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Honest Lesbian Age Gap Relationship Pros & Cons
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30:26❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner https://bit.ly/sophiawisp ✨Work with me as your COACH https://SophiaSpallino.com 💬Slide into my DMs https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspall…
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Jizz June | Gay Slang and Our Wildest Gay Hookup Stories
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30:02Welcome back Rat Pack, this week we're pulling back the curtain on the wild, wired, and wonderfully chaotic world of sex, dating, and hookups in New York City's vibrant gay scene! If you're looking for polite pointers, you're in the wrong DM. But if you're ready for unhinged conversations, chaotic confessions, and the raunchiest, most unBElievable …
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Jizz June | Our First Blow Jobs & How to Give Mind-Blowing Head
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32:36This week, we're serving up an episode that's extra spicy. First up, Ali drops a bombshell with her wild new hotdog restaurant idea where the menu isn't the only thing getting raunchy – prepare for some serious dirty talk from your server! Then, things get really personal as we each spill the tea on our very first blow job experiences. Get ready fo…
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happy pride, cissers!!!!!!!! 🏳️🌈 in this very special episode, your ciss cueens chat about hinge's new report on how lgbtqia+ daters are embracing label-fluid dating and prioritizing authentic connection over rigid categories. #hingepartner check out the Hinge LGBTQIA+ 2025 date report here:http://hin.ge/cisspod_DATE join cisscord on discord! http…
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your ciss cueens tell the story of the humiliation that ensued at their first cursed workout class together, unpack sabrina carpenter's controversial album cover, madeline opens up about her ongoing EMDR therapy experience and maal comes out as capital n Neurotic. JOIN CISSCORD ON DISCORD! https://discord.com/invite/NgT6sPFzs4follow the pod on inst…
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From Dating Married People & Medicated to Monogamous & Meditated with Lauren Courtney
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Jizz June | How to Fake It (like you really mean it)
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30:29It's Jizz June, Rat Pack! In this episode of Bad Advice Only, Nora, Tara, and Ali tackle the ultimate bedroom secret: how to fake an orgasm (like you really mean it!). Your New York City rat hosts dive headfirst into the chaotic world of faking pleasure for ego, why some women swear off it (and others still do!), and the wild techniques involved. E…
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couples therapy: dreamers vs. doers, BPD, & toxic attachment styles
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57:21this week your ciss cueens get suuuuper vulnerable and therapize themselves! they discuss attachment styles, madeline explains bpd, and maal has a revelation about dreamers vs. doers JOIN CISSCORD ON DISCORD! https://discord.gg/NgT6sPFzs4 follow the pod on instagram: www.instagram.com/cisspod/follow the pod on tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@cisspodfollow …
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Jizz June | Recipes, Jewelry & The Ultimate Guide to Cum
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29:25Welcome back to Jizz June on the Bad Advice Only podcast! Get ready, Rat Pack, because this episode is going to blow your mind with things you didn't know you could do with human cum. We're diving headfirst into the wild, weird, and utterly fascinating world of jizz recipes, products, and, yes, even cum jewelry! First, join us as Tara gives her exp…
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Get Your Dream Girl to Respond to Your DM: 5 Lesbian Pick-Up Lines That Work
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13:47❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner https://bit.ly/sophiawisp ✨Work with me as your COACH https://SophiaSpallino.com 💬Slide into my DMs https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspall…
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Jizz June | Mastering the Ride: Sex Tips for Being on Top
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31:41Ladies, get ready to ride into Jizz June! This week marks the start of our favorite month here at Bad Advice Only, and your favorite Rat Girls are kicking things off by getting into the saddle to talk all things riding during sex! If you want to own the frogger or reverse cowgirl positions, boost your confidence in bed, and unlock next-level female…
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worrying about being a good person is making you a bad person!
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55:05your ciss cueens return with a silly Q&A episode. this time, they discuss the irony of overthinking and how it can lead us astray. how obsessing over goodness can actually distance us from connection and action, conflict resolution strategies, how maal was called out for being bad at apologizing, and finding your footing when everything feels unsta…
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Did we break Girl Code? Oh, you bet we did! This week on Bad Advice Only , your favorite Rat Girls are getting painfully honest about the sacred Girl Code – and all the chaotic ways we've definitely violated it. Get ready for some wild friendship confessions and unfiltered stories you won't hear anywhere else! Join us as Nora spills the tea on her …
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Dating as a Queer Digital Nomad with Yvonne Wilson
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1:19:05❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner https://bit.ly/sophiawisp ✨Work with me as your COACH https://SophiaSpallino.com 💬Slide into my DMs https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspall…
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Exposed! Hacks to Catch Him Cheating Red-Handed Today
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31:33Is he cheating? That gut feeling is probably right. This week, on the Bad Advice Only podcast, we're ditching the denial and grabbing our magnifying glasses! Your favorite hosts are becoming digital detectives, revealing the sneaky phone tricks and iPhone hacks you NEED to uncover your man's best 'kept' secrets – those dirty little lies and infidel…
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“i regret coming out” & other vulnerable thoughts
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39:49your ciss cueens talk about madeline's recent cancellation, the straight allegations, post big-event depression, & "everywhere i go, i bring myself" :") ating please leave us 5 stars & follow us: podcast instagram: @cisspod podcast youtube: @cisspod madeline's instagram: @madelineaford maalvika's instagram: @maalvikabhat…
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Unhinged Advice: What To Do When You Catch Him Cheating
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30:53So, you caught the scumbag? Congrats! You've unlocked a brand new level of petty. This week, the Rat Girls are your guides through the glorious dumpster fire of what to do when you catch him cheating. Forget crying into your Chardonnay – we're serving up a steaming platter of unhinged revenge ideas so deliciously bad, they just might be genius (don…
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controversial opinions on solo traveling, jojo siwa & cheating
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1:02:54ciss cueens are here in a BONUS eppy (literally right after we said we were going bi-weekly, lol) to tell you one of madeline's funniest stories ever, maal's recent trip to japan, to discuss the controversy around jojo siwa and cheating please leave us 5 stars & follow us: podcast instagram: @cisspod podcast youtube: @cisspod madeline's instag…
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Toxic Moments, Lesbian Love, and Prenups - A Lesbian Love Story With Stacey & Alice
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From Flirt to Squirt: The Rat Girls' Explicit Guide to Female Ejaculation
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31:56Ever wondered how to go from flirt to squirt? This week, the Rat Girls dive deep into the mysteries of female ejaculation! Ali provides an educational exploration of squirting, while Nora shares her, uh, connections for some very "special" massages. And in a truly unforgettable turn of events, Tara recounts a sex story involving an unexpected facia…
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Bloody Orgasms: How to Ride the Crimson Wave
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29:13This week on Bad Advice Only, the Rat Girls are diving deep into the often-misunderstood world of period sex. Get ready for an uncensored, hilarious, and surprisingly informative discussion that busts myths and celebrates sexual pleasure at every point in your cycle. If you've ever wondered about sex on your period, this episode is for you! First u…
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your ciss cueens gab and giggle about struggling with keeping your individuality and creative passions alive while in a relationship, how weird couples prank channels are, career uncertainty, embarassment, and our second favorite ginger: ed sheeran. please leave us 5 stars & follow us: podcast instagram: @cisspod podcast youtube: @cisspod made…
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3 Things I Learned on My First Date After Lesbian Heartbreak
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22:02❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner https://bit.ly/sophiawisp ✨Work with me as your COACH https://SophiaSpallino.com 💬Slide into my DMs https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspall…
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This week on Bad Advice Only, the Rat Girls dive headfirst into one of the most hotly contested relationship questions: Is watching porn cheating? Get ready for an unfiltered, hilarious, and potentially shocking discussion that tackles fidelity, trust, and modern relationships in the digital age. In this must-listen episode, Tara kicks things off b…
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what no one wants to admit about bikini bodies
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54:38your ciss cueens are back after a little spring break discussing maal's recent trip to mexico, body insecurities, & madeline's EMBARASSING date story. please leave us 5 stars & follow us: podcast instagram: @cisspod podcast youtube: @cisspod madeline's instagram: @madelineaford maalvika's instagram: @maalvikabhat…
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The Planning Behind a Double Lesbian Proposal with Haily "Alrighty Alphrodite"
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When Netflix and Chill gets a Performance Review: Defining the Relationship
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33:50This week the Rats discuss bagging a boyfriend in their 30s. Ali begs men to up their hygiene game, Tara debates the point of exclusivity, while Nora dreams of what some would call an arranged marriage. ------------------------------------------ Submit your questions and topics you’d like to hear on the podcast to: [email protected] Sponso…
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Love Isn't Enough - 10 Questions To Ask in the Early Lesbian Dating Talking Phase
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9:55❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino 🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner https://bit.ly/sophiawisp ✨Work with me as your COACH https://SophiaSpallino.com 💬Slide into my DMs https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspall…
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This week the Rats discuss how to win the break up by rebounding HARD. Nora toasts her loser bf with friends, Ali shares her exit strategies by emotionally cheating, and Tara pokes holes in Benny Blanco’s game. ------------------------------------------ Submit your questions and topics you’d like to hear on the podcast to: [email protected]…
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From Lesbian Heartbreak to Wholeness - Having It All with Jasmine Bee
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You’ve heard of Fuck Boys, but what about the rare Cuck Boy? This week Nora debriefs on last night’s horrible date, Tara shares some of her wildest fantasies, and Ali learns all about the world of Cuckolding. ------------------------------------------ Submit your questions and topics you’d like to hear on the podcast to: [email protected] …
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how to know if you're in the right relationship, coming out to your friends, & other advice
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54:15the ciss cueens respond to your DMs about overwhelming feelings of hopelessness, recognizing subtle forms of emotional manipulation like negging in relationships, and madeline shares her personal journey of coming out to her friends after a question about homophobic 'friends'. please leave us 5 stars & follow us: podcast instagram: @cisspod podc…
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"I Saw Her Eyes and Knew..." A Lesbian Love at First Sight Story with Zsuzsi & Ziron
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1:08:34https://queercountryclub.com/wlw-club?am_id=zsuzsiandziron Zsuzsi & Ziron met under mystical circumstances at a retreat in upstate New York, where a simple eye-gazing exercise turned into a soul-shaking realization that they were destined for each other. That one moment set them on a path not only as life partners but as mentors in love and self-di…
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This week, Ali meets a man she dated 10 years ago, Nora sets fire to a dresser during cunnilingus, while Tara drops bombs as to why you hate your boyfriend.By Street Rat Media LLC
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how to avoid the biggest friendship mistakes
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45:01there are rules for dating, but friendship is both special and fragile precisely because no one tells you how to succeed at it. your ciss cueens break down the unspoken codes of female friendship: what works, what hurts, and what no one admits! please leave us 5 stars & follow us: podcast instagram: @cisspod podcast youtube: @cisspod madeline's ins…
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"I am Gay, a God Girly, & Love Money" - Creating an Abundant Lesbian Life with Alison Lowe
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This week we get an update from Ali on "The Dad" and Nora explains her "Hat Trick" method for dating ultra efficiently.By Street Rat Media LLC
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your ciss cueens are back with the most requested episode of all time!!! please leave us 5 stars & follow us: podcast instagram: @cisspod podcast youtube: @cisspod madeline's instagram: @madelineaford maalvika's instagram: @maalvikabhat
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