Best Rachael Aylmer Podcasts (2025)

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NVR Podcast - Parents - NVR principles to support Sarah with her nonverbal autistic grandson 45:57

4M ago45:57

45:57

Hello and welcome to PartnershipProject's first Parent Podcast. This year we are focusing on Parental Presence in the form of monthly podcasts and blog posts. These voices will be from current or past parents who have been referred to PartnershipProjects via a local authority or agency to work with our accredited NVR practitioners. Here, they are p…

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NVR Podcast Season 4, Episode #1 - Special New Year Edition: NVR and Neurodivergence 39:48

1+ y ago39:48

39:48

A special edition by Peter Jakob and Joanne Buchmüller, writer and Specialist Family and Systemic Psychotherapist in which they discuss the dilemmas in how NVR can be used to support parents and their children with Neurodivergence. They highlight how the exploration of parental erasure and not mattering are the starting points and that resistance m…

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NVR Podcast Season 3, Episode #9 - The Need for Justice in Child Focused Practice - How to engage with clarity? 33:26

1+ y ago33:26

33:26

Shila Desai and Peter Jakob discuss some additions to Child focused Practices in NVR . Unmet needs were categorised in four ways which included the need to belong, to feel safe and secure, the need for autonomy with a sense of accomplishment and fourth the need for a coherent and benign narrative of worth and being loved. This podcast throws up a f…

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NVR Podcast Season 3, Episode # 8 - New Developments in NVR 30:20

1+ y ago30:20

30:20

In this episode Jill Lubienski and Dr Peter Jakob discuss the wider applications of NVR, focusing on areas of practice not originally considered within the NVR family approach developed by Haim Omer. Discussion includes how NVR could be used for example in situations where a young person refuses to comply with diabetic medication; in communities wh…

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NVR Podcast Season 3, Episode # 7 - "Can't think about anything but war!" 32:55

1+ y ago32:55

32:55

In light of recent events (war) taking our focus, we felt strongly to reflect on what builds peace. This is an emotional piece that we were compelled to speak about. With Shila Desai & Peter Jakob. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts …

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NVR Podcast Season 3, Episode # 6 'A Gentle Kind of Resistance'- NVR and Mental Health 29:47

2y ago29:47

29:47

In this episode Shila Desai speaks to Vasiliki Loumpa- a Family and Systemic Psychotherapist/ NVR Accredited Practitioner about how she uses NVR and its adaptations in working with young people's mental health. We explore how de-escalation in symptoms is possible and how practitioners create space to re-connect with for parents unheard needs. Don't…

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NVR Podcast season 3, episode #5 - How can NVR be adapted for Situational Mutism 36:44

2y ago36:44

36:44

In this podcast, Shila Desai and Peter Jakob explore the difficult impact of situational mutism, social withdrawal and shutdown faced by parents and carers when young people are no longer engaging with the world. The conversation explores the needs of young people and their withdrawal being situated within an attempt to find a solution. Peter and S…

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NVR Podcast season 3, episode #4 - NVR and Women 27:47

2y ago27:47

27:47

In this podcast, Jill Lubienski and Peter Jakob consider the position of women and NVR. Many of our clients are women in situations of distress, who are left alone to cope in often dangerous family situations and then frequently blamed by agencies and others for not being 'good enough' parents. Peter and Jill explore NVR's lack of consideration as …

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NVR Podcast season 3, episode #3 - Overcoming Resistance Fatigue 28:58

2y ago28:58

28:58

In this episode, Jill Lubienski and Peter Jakob discuss possibilities for how to keep going in tough times. Peter and Jill elaborate on a metaphor of climbing a mountain - how our work in NVR and within the systems in which we are located, can be akin to such an experience, where we have to find ways of coping in unfamiliar locations and in incleme…

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NVR Podcast season 3, episode #2 - Stillness in the Chaos 31:58

2y ago31:58

31:58

Peter Jakob introduces Shila Desai and together they discuss the idea of how to cultivate stillness in the demands and uncertainties that families and practitioners face. The idea of a First Aid Still Box is explored and how both physical supplies and mentalising practices can be included in such a box to create a halt before taking action. Partner…

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NVR Podcast season 3 episode #1 - 'What's Love Got To Do With It'? 30:33

2y ago30:33

30:33

Peter Jakob and Jill Lubienski take inspiration from Martin Luther King Jr. in exploring the theme of connecting heart and mind and taking action in an NVR frame. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trai…

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NVR Podcast season 2 episode #23 "when cases are tough" 21:55

2+ y ago21:55

21:55

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer have discussions about practitioners working on cases that are tough. It is farewell from me (Rachael) as I hand over to my colleagues Shila Desai and Jill Lubienski for season 3. Thank you for listening to my ramblings. Please check out the PP website for info on: Eli Lebowitz who is coming to the UK to deliver the f…

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NVR Podcast season 2 episode #22 - "The Struggle" 38:51

2+ y ago38:51

38:51

Peter Jakob & Rachael Aylmer talk about "The Struggle" between caregivers in NVR and practitioners in NVR. Note * this is a 50-minute podcast We ask the listeners in this podcast to consider a question: What helps generate "hope" ?? From a parental position..... how do you as a parent/caregiver grow a sense of hope in the NVR work/process? From a p…

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NVR Podcast Season 2 episode #21 "Languages of love" 27:19

2+ y ago27:19

27:19

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk on this week's podcast about the "Language of Love". reference: Carl Rogers - https://counsellingtutor.com/biography-of-carl-rogers/ Unconditional positive regard (UPR) PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Po…

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NVR podcast Season 2 Episode #20 - "Resisting what adults do"!!! 29:10

2+ y ago29:10

29:10

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about resistance in our practice. How do NVR practitioners challenge other professionals with different scripts and narratives in our family work which may cause distress and /or harm to parents? PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent co…

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NVR Podcast season 2 episode #18 - "Is it her" - or "Is it the autism"???? 22:18

3y ago22:18

22:18

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discuss how a diagnosis in a young person can affect how parents and caregivers utilise NVR. Referenced: The National Autistic Society - https://www.autism.org.uk/ Haim Omer - https://www.haimomer-nvr.com/ PartnershipProjects: - www.partnershipprojectsuk.com PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Res…

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NVR Podcast Season 2 Episode #17 - "Clarity" 21:35

3y ago21:35

21:35

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about "Clarity" on this week's podcast. A short and sweet conversation about how practitioners gain a sense of clarity in their work with parents/caregivers. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are …

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NVR Podcast season 2 episode #16 - The Vulnerability of Parents 29:40

3y ago29:40

29:40

The vulnerability of parents was today's discussion between Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter…

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NVR podcast - Diagnosis and Aggression - Series 2 episode #15 26:03

3y ago26:03

26:03

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about young people's disabilities and diagnoses and how aggression can be normalised. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila D…

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The NVR Association (NVRA) Community PODCAST series 1 episode #01 SPACE Model 35:51

3y ago35:51

35:51

Welcome to the first NVRA community podcast. This month: Rachael Aylmer talks to Warren Matofsky Clinical and Community Psychologist from West Sussex CAMHS who has developed the S.P.A.C.E model in his service using the New Authority Model NVR with children and young people suffering from severe anxiety problems. PartnershipProjects is the UK's lead…

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NVR Podcast Season 2 episode #14 - "Inequality and fear of Social Control" 25:59

3y ago25:59

25:59

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about Inequality and the fear of Social Control and how NVR practitioners' roles can be portrayed ad misunderstood within parent groups. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qual…

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NVR Podcast season 2 episode #13 "Blaming Interaction - how to interrupt it" 27:50

3y ago27:50

27:50

Peter Jakob talks in detail about the interaction between parent and child and parent to parent. How mutual blaming can make life difficult. How can parents interrupt this? PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qual…

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NVR Podcast season 2 Episode #12 Hero - Role model - NVR 29:13

3y ago29:13

29:13

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer muse over the understanding of heroes and role models in today's society and our history. Please contact us on: [email protected] PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qua…

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NVR Podcast season 2 episode #11 - NVR in Schools and education 31:29

3y ago31:29

31:29

Tony Meehan and Rachael Aylmer talk more about NVR in schools and education settings. Please see Haim Omers Book Courageous Teachers: Courageous teachers: Developing a new authority to cope with violence and chaos Should a listener want more information about how to start NVR in a school setting please email: [email protected] Should a…

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NVR Podcast season 2 Episode #10 "To nag or not to nag" - that is the question. 25:25

3y ago25:25

25:25

Peter Jakob deconstructing the term "nag". PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rachael Aylmer, and influential guests. L…

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NVR Podcast Season 2 Episode #09 "New Authority in Schools" 29:34

3y ago29:34

29:34

Tony Meehan and Rachael Aylmer discuss how staff within all educational settings might differ by using NVR and how staff can unite their approaches to challenging behaviours. NVR Association Conference (Face to face) 14th May at Eastbourne Tennis Club Free event - sign up to become a member which entitles you to a ticket to the event. Order of the …

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NVR Podcast season 2 episode #08 "Vigilant Care in Schools" 36:55

3y ago36:55

36:55

Tony Meehan and Rachael Aylmer talk about how schools can adopt a new approach to behaviours in school, using New Authority. We referenced a book by Paul Dix - When the Adults Change Everything Changes We referenced a YouTube clip - Dads Patrol (in the US) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdPaqt6RY_Q We referenced Toby Newton - Headteacher in a Ho…

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NVR Podcast season 2 episode #07 "The Nature of Non Violence" 34:25

3y ago34:25

34:25

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about the current war on Ukraine and how this sits with this week's topic The Nature of Non-Violence, acts of resistance and solidarity. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qual…

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NVR Podcast season 2 episode #6 NVR in young peoples mental health 30:13

3+ y ago30:13

30:13

Rachael Aylmer talks to Vasiliki Loumpa about her work as an NVR accredited practitioner in the NHS inpatients unit using NVR as an intervention to support parents and staff who are supporting young people with their mental health illnesses. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and…

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NVR Podcast season 2 episode #05 Taking a Stand 30:00

3+ y ago30:00

30:00

Shila Desai and Rachael Aylmer talk about "Taking a stand" ..... how might parents find the strength to do this. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jil…

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NVR Podcast season 2 Episode #04 "NVR in Schools"???? 33:17

3+ y ago33:17

33:17

Rachael Aylmer and Tony Meehan talk about how NVR can influence school systems and behaviour policies. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdPaqt6RY_Q This is the YouTube link referencing the Dad Patrol we discuss in the podcast. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching…

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NVR Podcast Season 2 Episode #03 Overcoming Parental Trauma 31:34

3+ y ago31:34

31:34

In this episode, Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer are following on from the last podcast #2 Parent trauma talking more about Overcoming Parental Trauma in NVR. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers …

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NVR Podcast Season 2 epiosode #2 The Parents Trauma 30:32

3+ y ago30:32

30:32

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing all things related to parents trauma. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rach…

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NVR Podcast Season 2 Episode #01 Normalising and De-normalising Controlling Behaviour 34:49

3+ y ago34:49

34:49

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about ways in which parents/caregivers can normalise and de-normalise controlling behaviours by a young person. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practi…

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NVR Podcast # 25 - Sending a signal??????? 25:14

3+ y ago25:14

25:14

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discuss the messages caregivers can offer a young person in need and after an aggressive/violent incident. Apologies for the lack of routine in the podcast recordings .... we aim for a fortnightly recording but we are so busy lately. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provide…

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NVR Podcast # 24 From contructive struggle to child focus 26:51

3+ y ago26:51

26:51

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing all things NVR. In this episode, we talk about the shifts that parents/caregivers can make when moving from being nonviolent to resistance. From constructive struggle to child focus perspectives. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and par…

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NVR Podcast #23 "When a parent feels like they don't matter" 28:04

3+ y ago28:04

28:04

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discuss the topic of "mattering". PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rachael Aylmer, and…

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NVR Podcast # 22 Parents Knowledge 29:24

4y ago29:24

29:24

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing all things NVR. This episode is about parents knowledge of their child/adolescent/young person. Please check out PartnershipProjects website for future training/workshops/events. www.partnershipprojectsuk.com Many thanks PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider …

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NVR Podcast # 21 Impulse and Intent 25:31

4y ago25:31

25:31

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer Podcast #21 Impulse and Intent This is the link to the Ted Talk peter mentions: https://www.ted.com/talks/chimamanda_ngozi_adichie_the_danger_of_a_single_story?language=en Novelist Chimamanda Adichie tells the story of how she found her authentic cultural voice -- and warns that if we hear only a single story about an…

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NVR Podcast # 20 NVR in Early Childhood and the Parental Alliance 33:13

4y ago33:13

33:13

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing all things related to NVR. (Apologies for my sniffing - hay fever-related!) PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai…

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NVR Podcast # 19 "When love is not enough" 31:47

4y ago31:47

31:47

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer - talking about thoughts and reflection on the topic "when love is not enough" PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill L…

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NVR Podcast # 18 - "Don't talk about violence"!!!! (Part A) 17:26

4y ago17:26

17:26

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about 'not' talking about violence!!! This podcast is in two parts - apologies for any confusing - accidental break in the recording. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualifi…

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NVR podcast # 18 - "Don't talk about violence" !!!! (Part B) 13:31

4y ago13:31

13:31

Part B - Here is the remaining part of the podcast - I hope this makes easy listening and hasn't disrupted the flow!! Many thanks for listening. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitio…

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NVR Podcast #17 - We are Peaceful! 27:36

4y ago27:36

27:36

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer - discussing being peaceful. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rachael Aylmer, and infl…

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NVR Podcast #16 Imagination! 25:00

4y ago25:00

25:00

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing Imaginative Practice. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rachael Aylmer, and …

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NVR Podcast #15 - No Support???? 29:20

4+ y ago29:20

29:20

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer - discussing support, supporters, and the challenges we face. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Pete…

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Podcast #14 Practitioner Embodying NVR 29:04

4+ y ago29:04

29:04

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussions PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rachael Aylmer, and influential guests. L…

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NVR Podcast # 13 - Shame 28:54

4+ y ago28:54

28:54

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing SHAME PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rachael Aylmer, and influential gues…

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NVR Podcast # 12 Being the Boundary 30:36

4+ y ago30:36

30:36

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discuss the ideas around parental boundaries. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rachael…

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NVR Podcast # 11 - Sit In's 34:11

4+ y ago34:11

34:11

Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing thoughts about the Sit-In. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and parent coaching. Our professional Podcasts are hosted by highly qualified trainers and practitioners, including Shila Desai, Jill Lubienski, Dr Peter Jakob, Rachael Aylmer,…

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