Childhood and the Enneagram: Stories That Shape Us is a podcast for parents, educators, therapists, and anyone ready to heal their story and help others do the same. Hosted by licensed therapist, Enneagram practitioner, and author Susan Parker Jones, this series explores how our earliest experiences shape the way we see ourselves, relate to others, and show up for the next generation. Grounded in attachment theory, trauma-informed care, and the Harmony Model of the Enneagram, each episode un ...
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Welcome to the podcast hosted by certified coaches Teresa McCloy and Erica Vinson. Join us for authentic conversations, practical coaching tools including our signature REALIFE Process™ tools and business development skills to help you maintain a life giving and sustainable coaching practice. Together we'll develop ways to stay connected to your realself, engage in your realife, and live out your realwork through the amazing and wonderful world of coaching.
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EP 334: Raising Kind, Confident, and Connected Kids, with Susan Parker Jones
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35:30In this episode of the 'Doing What Matters' podcast, Teresa and Erica welcome Susan Parker Jones, a licensed counselor and author, to discuss her new book 'The Wholehearted Child'. Susan shares her insights on holistic parenting, the importance of nurturing both children and parents, and the transformative power of understanding the Enneagram throu…
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Ep 336: A New Podcast Name, A Clearer Vision
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26:28In this episode, Teresa introduces the NEW direction for the podcast, now titled “REALIFE Conversations for Christian Coaches.” Teresa outlines the shift to focus on supporting Christian coaches in growing their businesses while staying grounded in their faith. She revisits significant milestones, including her sabbatical and its impact on regainin…
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Healing the Hard Places: Attachment, the ICN, and the Enneagram
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11:14From the moment we’re born, we’re wired for connection — but what happens when our early experiences disrupt that connection? In this episode of Childhood and the Enneagram, licensed therapist and author Susan Parker Jones unpacks how attachment theory and the Inner Childhood Narrative (ICN) intertwine, shaping how we view ourselves, others, and th…
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EP 335: Embracing the Coach Approach: Holistic Leadership with Brian Bennett
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36:20On this episode of the Doing What Matters Podcast, host Teresa McCloy and co-host Erica Vinson explore the holistic, faith-based approach to life and leadership with guest Brian Bennett, President of Christian Coaches Network International. Brian discusses his journey from ministry to marketplace, the impact of coaching leaders, and integrating fai…
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The ICN and the Enneagram: Understanding Your Childhood Filters
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11:58What if your strongest emotional reactions, your relationship patterns, and even your inner voice weren’t random — but rooted in childhood? In this episode of Childhood and the Enneagram, Susan Parker Jones guides us into a deeper understanding of the Inner Childhood Narrative (ICN) — the unconscious story we write in childhood about who we are, ho…
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For Every Parent Who’s Ever Wondered If They’re Enough
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13:14In honor of Mother’s Day, I’m sharing a heartfelt reading of the Introduction to my book, The Wholehearted Child — a celebration of all who nurture, guide, and help heal the next generation. Whether you are parenting children, nurturing students, supporting clients, or tending to the younger parts of yourself, this episode is a reminder that your p…
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EP 333: A REALIFE Coach Approach: Earning ICF CCE Credits with the REALIFE Process®
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32:15In this episode of the 'Doing What Matters' podcast, hosts Teresa McCloy and Erica Vinson celebrate a significant milestone. The approval from the International Coach Federation (ICF) to provide continuing education credits for the REALIFE Process Coach certification program and our ongoing RLP Coaches Network. We will explain the importance of ICF…
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Do I Matter? How Our Inner Story is Shaped in Childhood
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13:11Every child is asking: Do I matter? Am I safe? Do you see me? In this episode of Childhood and the Enneagram, licensed therapist and author Susan Parker Jones invites you to look beneath your words — and discover the powerful role they play in shaping a child’s inner world. You’ll learn how a child’s Inner Childhood Narrative (ICN) is formed throug…
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EP 332: Routines on the Road: Making Travel Joyful
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20:27In this solo episode of the Doing What Matters Podcast, host Teresa McCloy shares her practical advice for simplifying travel and maintaining routines on the road. She discusses her recent travel experiences, the essential items she packs, and how she stays organized. Teresa also emphasizes the importance of finding joy in the little moments of tra…
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EP 331:The Power of Local Networking - A Conversation with Rhonda Peterson
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31:12In this episode of the Doing What Matters Podcast, We welcome guest Rhonda Peterson, a coach, speaker, and workshop leader. They discuss the importance of growing your business through the power of your local community involvement. Rhonda shares her journey and insights on how focusing on local networks can offer unique opportunities for growth and…
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EP 330: The Intersection of Faith and Friendship: A Conversation with Mary Valloni and Mike Kim
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47:42On this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, Teresa has the joy of sitting down with special guests Mary Valloni and Mike Kim, who discuss their new book aimed at helping Christian missionaries with fundraising. They delve into the origins of their partnership, the challenges they faced, and the meaningful journey that led to the book's creat…
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EP 329: Growing through connecting your Talents, Gifts and Abilities
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31:24In this episode of the Doing What Matters we dive into the importance of understanding our real selves by exploring our talents, gifts, and abilities. They discuss the holistic approach of living life rooted in 'rest, not rush,' and how to connect with our true selves, lives, and work. They define talents as natural inclinations, gifts as unique ab…
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In this episode of the Doing What Matters Podcast, we explore holistic living and leadership with guest Brian Miller, a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) and co-founder of P3 Leaders. Brian shares his journey from engineering to coaching, discusses the significance of presence, partnership, and purpose in leadership, and highlights the transformat…
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EP 327 Relational Spirituality with Dr. Todd Hall
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44:58In this episode of the Doing What Matters we chat with Dr. Todd Hall to discuss the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and attachment theory. Hall, an award-winning author and professor at Rosemead School of Psychology, shares insights from his books, 'Relational Spirituality' and 'The Connected Life.' We delve into how early attachment rela…
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EP 326 - Component Four - The Glue that Holds it Together with Erica Vinson
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17:57In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, host Teresa McCloy and co-host Erica Benson, a master coach, delve into the final component of the REALIFE Process® —Real Life Living. They discuss the 'Three R's' (Rest, Renew, Review) that serve as the glue holding the life management tools together. Erica shares her personal experiences and prac…
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EP 325 - Component Three - Stewarding Time for What Matters with Erica Vinson
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20:42In this episode of the Doing What Matters Podcast, host Teresa McCloy is joined by co-host Erica Vinson to dive into the third component of the REALIFE Process: Realife Time. They discuss the importance of creating a calendar that transforms each day into an extraordinary one and addresses common pain points related to time management. The conversa…
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EP 324 - Component Two - Navigating Intentional Movement with Erica Vinson
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6:27In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, Teresa and Erica continue their series on the four components of the Realife Process® framework. They delve into the second component: REALIFE Action. Focusing on how clients can engage in intentional movement and avoid merely spinning plates, they discuss strategies to translate projects into Acti…
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EP 323 - Component One - Uncovering Your Real Self with Erica Vinson
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14:49In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, host Teresa McCloy introduces a four-part series exploring the signature Real Life Process framework. Joined by co-host Erica Vinson, they dive into the first component, Real Life Being, which focuses on understanding your REALSELF including needs, values, talents, gifts and abilities, and your Are…
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EP 322 - It's Not too Late to Plan for 2025!
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11:08In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, host Teresa McCloy sets the stage for an exciting upcoming four-week series focused on the Real Life Process. Teresa discusses the importance of living from a place of rest rather than rush and introduces the Real Life Process, which dives into four essential components: Realife Being, Realife Acti…
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EP 321 - Culture Is Taught, Not Caught: Creating Meaningful Environments both at Home and Work
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35:06In this episode of the 'Doing What Matters' podcast, we discuss the importance of creating and sustaining culture in various settings. The conversation was inspired by an email Teresa received about the intentional development of workplace culture. They emphasize that culture is not absorbed by osmosis but is taught and cultivated through language …
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EP 320 - A Very Personal Conversation with Beth & Jeff McCord
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57:36In this episode of the 'Doing What Matters' podcast, Teresa & Erica welcome best-selling authors Beth and Jeff McCord, founders of 'Your Enneagram Coach.' The conversation delves deep into life-changing experiences, such as navigating personal trauma, health crises, and the joys and challenges of business. The McCords share insights about embracing…
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In this episode of the Doing What Matters Podcast, hosts Teresa McCloy and Erica Vinson discuss the importance of recognizing those who have paved the way in various fields.We share insights from Teresa’s recent experience at Podfest, where she learned the significance of those who have made lasting impacts. We also reflect on the influence of ment…
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EP 318 - “What if I assumed I was capable?” An Interview with James Harringtion
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31:43In this episode of Doing What Matters, hosts Teresa McCloy and Erica Vinson welcome James Harrington, the CEO and founder of the Ugandan Water Project. James shares his journey from a curious conversation at a barbecue to leading a global initiative to provide safe and sustainable water in Uganda. His story inspires us to ask, “What if I assumed I …
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EP 317 - Writing Your Eulogy: A Life-Changing Practice for Intentional Living
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24:16We’re back! 🎉 After a refreshing two-month sabbatical, Teresa and Erica are stepping into 2025 with renewed energy and a focus on what truly matters. In this episode, we’re getting personal about how to live a life rooted in rest, not rush, while embracing intentionality in every area of life. Teresa opens up about a deeply reflective process she d…
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EP 316 - Best of Series: A New Year's Prayer
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22:07In this special episode of the 'Doing What Matters' podcast, co-host Erica Vinson introduces a series featuring the best episodes during Teresa McCloy's sabbatical. Teresa McCloy returns to share her personal reflection and New Year's prayer for 2024. Teresa opens up about her challenging holiday season, the loss of a dear friend, and dealing with …
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EP 315 - Best of Series: Four Big Questions for 2025
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16:00In this special series of the Doing What Matters podcast, co-host Erica Vinson guides listeners through a reflective process using four essential questions to evaluate the past year. With Teresa on sabbatical until January 2025, Erica shares the best conversations from previous episodes, focusing on life, business, and what truly matters. She also …
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EP 314 - Best of Series: Merry Christmas from the Doing What Matters Podcast
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12:19In this special Christmas Day episode of the 'Doing What Matters' podcast series, co-host Erica Vinson introduces a heartfelt episode originally from the 'Enneagram In Your Real Life' podcast. Host Teresa McCloy shares a personal Christmas song she wrote about Mary and Joseph, reflecting on her journey and creativity as an Enneagram Type 3 with a s…
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EP 313 - Best of Series: Three Gifts this Season
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12:41In this special episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, co-host Erica Vinson introduces a collection of favorite episodes while Teresa McCloy is on sabbatical. Teresa shares her personal experiences from December, including recovering from COVID-19 and pneumonia, which led to reflections on three significant gifts: slowing down, valuing communit…
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EP 312 - Best of Series: How to Use the Enneagram as a Coach
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19:58In this special episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, co-host Erica Vinson fills in while Teresa McCloy is on sabbatical. Erica welcomes listeners to a series of highlights from past episodes, focusing on impactful conversations about life, business, and meaningful elements. In this episode, Teresa and Erica dive into the Enneagram as a tool f…
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EP 311 - Best of Series: How oneLife Maps™ Align with our Values
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13:52In this special episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, co-host Erica Vinson announces Teresa's sabbatical and introduces a curated series of past favorite episodes. Additionally, the Podcast welcomes listeners with exciting updates: the integration of One Life Maps into their business. Host Erica discusses the April 1st announcement on expandin…
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EP 310 - Best of Series: How to Change Your Inner Narrative
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20:27In this special episode of the 'Doing What Matters' podcast, co-host Erica Vinson introduces a series of best episodes during Teresa McCloy's sabbatical until January 2025. Teresa dives into the Enneagram, a tool used personally and within the real life process, exploring how the three centers of intelligence—head, heart, and body—shape our narrati…
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EP 309 - Best of Series: The Seven P’s of Business
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18:17In this special edition of the Doing What Matters podcast, co-host Erica Vinson introduces a series of best episodes while Teresa McCloy is on sabbatical. Teresa outlines an impactful new series focusing on the 'REALIIFE Seven Ps of Business,' essential strategies for entrepreneurs. The seven Ps include Purpose, Plan, Product, People, Processes, Pa…
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EP 308 - Leaving on Sabbatical and Embracing the Pause
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20:39In this episode, co-hosts Teresa McCloy and Erica Vinson discuss the upcoming launch of the Real Life Practice Membership in January 2025. Teresa shares her feelings and preparations as she approaches a long-anticipated sabbatical, reflecting on personal and professional accomplishments and goals. They talk about embracing a holistic approach to li…
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EP 307 - Living from Grace Not Grind with Dr. Richelle
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37:59In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, host Teresa McCoy welcomes Dr. Richelle to discuss her journey from a successful career in higher education to becoming a REALIFE Process Certified Coach. Dr. Richelle shares her struggles with transitioning into her coaching business in 2017, her experiences with burnout, and how the concept of mo…
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Ep 306 - Preparing for Sabbatical: Insights from the REALIFE Process® Team
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26:12In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, we discuss the holistically important concepts of rest, renewal, and growth as Teresa prepares for an upcoming sabbatical. Joined by team members Erica Vinson, Lindsay Sterchi and Nancy Bouwens, the team shares their strategic preparations including planning for 2025, launching a new membership pro…
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EP 305 - Unlocking Your Speaking Potential
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22:31In this episode of the Doing What Matters Podcast, we delve into the intricacies of speaking. They cover various aspects from delivering powerful keynote speeches to enhancing overall speaking skills through training and practice. Essential points include understanding your audience, maintaining stage presence, and incorporating personal stories. T…
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EP 304 - Sabbath Soup and Simplicity: Recipes for Rest
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34:13In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, we discuss the importance of intentional living and embracing rest through a Sabbath approach with author Kathi Lipp. Kathi shares her journey from the bustling Silicon Valley to a serene life in Northern California's mountains and how this change inspired her new book, "Sabbath Soup." The conversa…
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EP 303 -Changing Behaviors One Step at a Time
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23:39Holistic Approaches to Behavioral Changes: From Routines to Spiritual Rhythms In this episode of the 'Doing What Matters' podcast, we explore the concept of behavioral change, emphasizing the importance of creating routines that can develop into rhythms and eventually become spiritual practices. The discussion includes personal anecdotes such as Te…
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EP 302 - The Power of Words: How Language Shapes Our Lives
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20:47In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, we discuss the profound impact words have on our lives. We explore how language influences our self-perception, emotions, and actions. The conversation delves into the significance of reframing negative thoughts and using specific language to create meaningful and actionable steps in various life a…
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Ep 301 - The Power of Group Coaching with Jordan Mercedes
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28:09In this episode of the 'Doing What Matters' podcast, hosts Teresa McCloy and Erica Vinson delve into the essence of transformational group coaching with guest Jordan Mercedes. Jordan, a Master Certified Coach with the International Coaching Federation introduces her new book 'Professional Group Coaching for Growth and Transformation.' She shares in…
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EP 300 - Celebrating 300 Episodes Together
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11:14In this milestone 300th episode of the 'Doing What Matters' podcast, host Teresa McCloy celebrates six years of podcasting. Reflecting on her journey, Teresa shares the evolution of the podcast through three different titles and the invaluable lessons learned from consistency. She discusses memorable guests, impactful conversations, and the persona…
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In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, hosts Teresa McCloy and Erica Vinson explore the concept of taking sabbaticals for entrepreneurs. Teresa shares her journey and preparations for an upcoming 10-week sabbatical, discussing the fears she faced and the steps she took to ensure her business continues to thrive in her absence. Topics in…
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EP - 298 The Purpose and Power of Team Retreats
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20:51In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, hosts Teresa McCloy and Erica Vinson discuss the importance of team retreats, sharing insights from their own experiences with the REALIFE Process community. They highlight the benefits of setting regular retreats, the value of switching to a different environment, and practical tips for planning a…
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EP - 297 Discovering True Success in Life
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25:58In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, hosts Teresa McCoy and Erica Vinson discuss the concept of success and how it is often defined by societal standards such as financial achievement, education, and professional status. They propose a holistic approach to success that includes creating a 'rule of life' or 'rhythm of life' that aligns…
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In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, hosts Teresa McCloy and Erika Vinson discuss the importance of recognizing and combating periods of overwhelm and 'slump' in both personal and professional life. Teresa shares her experiences over the past few months, highlighting the effects of stress and the steps she took, such as taking a sabba…
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295 - Prioritizing Deep Friendships and Rest in a Busy World
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33:11SHOW NOTES: Welcome to another enriching episode of "The REALIFE Process" podcast! I'm your host, Erica Vinson, joined by my wonderful co-host, Teresa McCloy. Today, we dive deep into the vital themes of trust, transformation, and the intricate balance between rest and work. We'll explore my journey from ministry to coaching and how it shaped my ap…
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294 - You Won't Believe Who's Joining the Podcast
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13:54Hey there, podcast fans! Get ready for some big changes coming to the "Doing What Matters" podcast. In this episode, Teresa's got an exciting announcement: she's bringing on a co-host! Starting with episode 295, My long-time friend and colleague, Erica Vinson, will be joining me to dish out some real talk about balancing life as entrepreneurs and i…
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293 - Five Proven Strategies for Professional Development
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22:35Hello and welcome to the REALIFE Process podcast! I'm your host, Teresa McCloy. In today's episode, we're diving into five key ways to continually develop your skills and grow as a professional in whatever industry you're in. We'll explore the importance of embracing a growth mindset over a fixed one. I'll share tips for setting specific learning g…
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292 - Pre-Decision Magic: Reducing Stress and Boosting Your Summer
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14:24In this episode of the REALIFE Process, I reflect on my recent vacation to the North Georgia mountains and share insights on how we can reset and make the most of our summer. I introduce the concept of "pre-decision" and how making choices in advance can guide our future actions, reduce stress, and increase effectiveness. Whether it's setting aside…
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291 - Sabbaticals for Entrepreneurs: My Personal Journey towards Sabbatical
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26:42In this heartfelt episode, I open up about a deeply personal journey—my decision to take a sabbatical from my business later this year. Join me as I share why I've chosen to step away, how I've been preparing both spiritually and logistically, and the challenges that come with such a bold move. You'll hear about my reflections around turning 63, th…
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