Best The Butch And The Bi Podcasts (2025)

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Is Black Masculinity Feared in Queer Spaces? ft. Haviah Mighty And DJ Blackcat 1:17:41

3d ago1:17:41

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Queer Poverty Project: https://smuniversity.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3ZO1JLxkZZC5E46 Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Betterhelp: https://www.betterhelp.com/collective Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Black masculinity is feared, fetishized, and fiercely policed; so what happens when queerness enters the…

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No Fats, No Femmes, No Asians: The Grindr Industrial Complex ft. Humza and Darynel 1:13:05

17d ago1:13:05

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Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Gay dating can be messy. From hookup culture and emotional avoidance to Grindr’s racial hierarchy, we’re diving into the chaos with guests Darynel Weekly and Mango Lassi. We’re unpacking the trauma, the body standards, the “no fats no femme…

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The Lesbian Identity Crisis: Trans And Non-Binary?! ft. Jay-Marie and Eirene 1:45:59

1M ago1:45:59

1:45:59

Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 15% off Aisle: https://periodaisle.com/ Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Think all lesbians are women? Think again. We're queering the label with trans and non-binary lesbians who are redefining what it means to love, resist, and rebel. From ge…

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Asian Fetishization And Hyper-Sexualization ft. Ky and Charlotte 1:20:58

2M ago1:20:58

1:20:58

If you've ever been called “exotic,” or told you're one of the “good minorities” this one’s for you. We’re unpacking the fetishization of Asian bodies, the myth of the model minority, and the tension between queerness and cultural belonging. With personal stories from two badass artists, Charlotte and Ky, we explore femme fetish tropes, family pres…

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Born Intersex And Surgically Erased ft. Bailey Archer and Noise 57:42

2M ago57:42

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You were told sex is binary, XX or XY, case closed. But what if we told you that’s just redhead math? We’re unpacking the intersex experience with two brilliant guests: Noise (the intersex karaoke witch) and Bailey (trans, intersex, and hot). We’re diving into the science, the history, the surgeries, the shame and why “normal” is a scam. Expect gay…

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Do Queer Muslim Women Exist?! ft. Urvah Khan 49:29

2M ago49:29

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Betterhelp: betterhelp.com/COLLECTIVE Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Queer. Muslim. Rockstar. Activist. Urvah Khan is all of the above, and she’s here to spill the tea on holding identities the world says don’t mix. We’re talking queerness, faith, feminism, and the fight for liberation, plus why the West needs to stop act…

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The Secret to Sapphic Sex and Dating ft. Zhané and Eva Bloom 1:10:42

3M ago1:10:42

1:10:42

Use code QUEERCOLLECTIVE for 15% off https://splashblanket.com/en-ca Aisle: https://periodaisle.com/ Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Losing your sapphic v-card? Terrified you’ll fumble the bag? We got you. This episode is your survival guide to sapphic sex, confidence, flirting, and ahem hands-on skills included. We’re joi…

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How to Open Your Relationship (and Actually Make It Work) ft. The Polyamory Therapy Collective 1:03:54

3M ago1:03:54

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So, you wanna open up your relationship but don’t wanna crash and burn in a fiery mess of jealousy and regret? We got you. We’re joined by three queer, non-monogamous therapists from the Polyamory Therapy Collective to give you the ultimate survival guide to ENM—how to start the convo, avoid rookie mistakes, and actually enjoy the ride. We’re unpac…

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The Great Lesbian Divide: Butch vs Femme ft. Pkat and Haviah Mighty 1:35:17

4M ago1:35:17

1:35:17

What does it really mean to be a lesbian? Is it a vibe? A gender? A political stance? We’re diving headfirst into the evolution of lesbian identity—breaking down butch and femme history, masculinity, queerness, and what it truly means to de-center men (spoiler: it’s liberating). With three wildly different lesbians at the table - Haviah, Pkat, and …

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Biohack Your Menstrual Cycle And Stop Suffering! Ft. Miranda of The Period Lab 1:01:11

4M ago1:01:11

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What if we told you that your period pain isn’t just a fact of life — and that your 9-5 job might actually be making it worse? We’re hacking the menstrual cycle with Miranda Popen, hormone expert and founder of The Period Lab. We’re talking PMS myths, biohacking for better energy, and why the system was not built for menstruators (or trans folks on…

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Intro To BDSM: Creating A Dom Persona ft. Yaz 1:16:57

5M ago1:16:57

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What if embracing dominance could unlock parts of yourself you never knew existed? We’re diving into the art (and magic) of crafting a Dom persona with our friend Yaz - the non-binary, bisexual, Middle Eastern powerhouse you may remember from our polyamory episodes. We're talking confidence, embodiment, and the kinky intersections of BDSM and gende…

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Navigating Conflict in Polyamorous Relationships ft. Decolonizing Love 1:31:00

5M ago1:31:00

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Polyamory with a sprinkle of chaos, a dash of queer magic, and a whole lot of deep questions? We’re tackling the juicy challenges of ethical non-monogamy—from jealousy to ADHD-induced impulsivity—and answering real audience dilemmas with expert guests Millie & Nick from Decolonizing Love. Plus, we explore the BIPOC experience in poly spaces, unpack…

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The Butch and The Bi's Top 10 Things in 2024 40:14

6M ago40:14

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Sends us a comment or question! And you thought we forgot about you! 2024 sure was one of the years, but we still each had 10 things that we were grateful for throughout the year! So from us to you happy holidays and we'll see you next year (with hopefully more episodes). Featuring: Bob Rudenborg, Jon Marek Editing: Jon Marek Theme: Brian Adams - F…

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Why Is Queer Mental Health Worse Than Our Straight Counterparts? ft. June Lam of CAMH 1:19:27

6M ago1:19:27

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Friend, foe, or messy ex, what’s psychiatry’s role in queer lives? This week, we sit down with Dr. June Lam, psychiatrist and trans healthcare expert, to tackle mental health disparities, navigating family drama, unpacking shame, and surviving the holidays. Plus, we dive into the politics of medical transitions, debunk “fast-tracking” myths, and co…

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Why Are There More Bisexual Women Than Men?! ft. Brock Boyne 54:08

7M ago54:08

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Why are bisexual men the invisible icons of the LGBTQ+ community? In this episode, we’re joined by the fabulous Brock Boyne (they/he), a horticulturist-turned-bisexual icon, as we dig into the stigma, stereotypes, and societal pressures keeping bi men in the shadows. From first queer flirts to the intersection of masculinity, race, and fluidity, we…

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What Does It Mean to Be Asexual and Aromantic? ft. Cody Daigle-Orians 1:16:32

7M ago1:16:32

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What if love and attraction aren't the same thing at all? In this episode, we’re joined by Cody Daigle-Orians, aka Ace Dad Advice, an asexuality educator, influencer, and author who’s here to help us break down asexual and aromantic identities with humor and heart. From discovering your ace identity to navigating relationships outside society's rom…

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Surrogacy: Everything You Need To Know But Were Too Afraid To Ask ft. Nici of Hive Surrogacy 1:11:58

8M ago1:11:58

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The nitty-gritty of surrogacy—how it works, why it matters, and what the queer community needs to know. We’re joined by Nici, co-founder of Hive Surrogacy, who’s here to speak on queer birthing, the dark side of the global surrogacy industry, and what it’s like to be a surrogate herself. Is surrogacy empowering, exploitative, or a little bit of bot…

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Frustrating Video Game Patents and Bob's Many Indecisive Topics | S7 E3 35:40

8M ago35:40

35:40

Sends us a comment or question! Bob had many thoughts running around their head. Jon had one specific topic consuming almost all brain power. We dig into frustrating video game patents from companies like Nintendo and Warner Brothers and break down why storytellers (including Bob) often revisit themes or arcs. While we're shooting for more weeks on…

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What Does It Mean to Be Indigenous & Queer? ft. Chelazon Leroux & Haley Robinson 1:11:12

9M ago1:11:12

1:11:12

Humanity’s oldest, most suppressed queer identities, 2-Spirit. Tiktok star Chelazon Leroux and actor/model Haley Robinson tear open the wounds of colonial erasure and reclaim the beauty of being both Indigenous and Queer. From navigating intergenerational trauma to confronting settler microaggressions, they expose the raw truth about what it means …

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Organizing Our Thoughts: Home Organization Wants and Entitled Gamers | S7 E2 39:37

9M ago39:37

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Sends us a comment or question! The two most common never ending battles: home organization and entitled and out of touch gamers. With Bob's new job, our home may actually start looking like nearly thirty year old's live here. On the other hand gamers, which Jon arguably is one, are the worst, but in some incredibly nebulous ways. While we're shoot…

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The DARK History Of Women's Sports ft. Tyra Blizzard 1:15:02

9M ago1:15:02

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Transvestigation conspiracy theories are targeting women athletes. Are trans athletes really threatening fairness in sports, or is this just another excuse for exclusion? We’re joined by pro-athlete and gender nerd Tyra Blizzard to break down the myths, misinformation, and the shady politics behind it all. From Olympic scandals to TERFs being TERFs…

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What We've Been Up To: Dead Rising and Web Comics | S7 E1 34:31

9M ago34:31

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Sends us a comment or question! We've been busy and burnt out little bees over the last year, but we missed out little chats that we shared with you all so we're going back to basics and talking about what's got us excited and what we're excited for. This week we're talking about Capcom's masterful Dead Rising Deluxe Remaster and Jon's obsession wi…

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I Was Forced to ‘Prove’ I’m Queer To The Government ft. Latoya Nugent of Rainbow Railroad 54:51

9M ago54:51

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What happens when your home turns hostile? We dive deep into the raw realities of LGBTQI+ refugees with activist Latoya Nugent, who fled Jamaica with the help of Rainbow Railroad. From persecution to queer liberation, learn about the global trends in anti-LGBTQI+ violence, how resettlement systems are failing refugees, and what it’s like to ‘prove’…

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Polyamory: The History You Never Thought to Ask 1:17:19

10M ago1:17:19

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Was it agriculture, capitalism, or the patriarchy that pushed us into "pair bonding"? Are humans actually wired to stay faithful, or is cheating in our genes? We'll dissect scientific theories, challenge old-school narratives, and maybe even giggle a little about group sex and jealousy. Whether you’re team monogamy or polyamory curious, this episod…

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Dating Someone With HIV ft. Myles Sexton 1:03:09

10M ago1:03:09

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The AIDS epidemic. There's a fierce stigma that still lingers, and the raw, real-life experiences of those living with HIV are often portrayed negatively. Our fabulous guest, Myles Sexton—a queer fashion nomad and HIV activist—shares their powerful journey, slaying myths and spreading love. From dating advice to radical vulnerability, this episode …

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What Does It Mean To Be Non-Binary? Ft. Halal Bae & Gay Jesus 52:09

11M ago52:09

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Society loves boxes, but what if they don’t fit? Dive into the fabulous world of non-binary identities! Featuring Heath V. Salazar, aka "Gay Jesus," and Halal Bae from Canada’s Drag Race, we explore gender beyond the binary, tackle misconceptions, and celebrate the joy of being non-binary. Whether you're new to the concept or living it, this episod…

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What Laws Do Sex Workers REALLY Want? ft. Jenna of Maggies 38:11

11M ago38:11

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From indoor vs. outdoor work to the Nordic model’s pitfalls, we deep dive into the real sex worker experience. Discover why sex work is a queer issue and how allyship can transform lives. We explore what sex workers truly need from the law and society. Tune in for an enlightening, candid, and a bit cheeky conversation that shatters myths and celebr…

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Are You Straight Or Is It Compulsory Heterosexuality? ft. Tyra Blizzard 1:00:08

12M ago1:00:08

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Are we seeking male validation or is it all just comp-het? Unpack compulsory heterosexuality with Tyra Blizzard, the dynamic author and pro basketball player. We’ll explore queering relationships, smashing societal expectations, and Tyra’s own journey beyond the binary. Tune in and start deprogramming your comphet through an insightful talk into th…

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Is It Too Late To Come Out? ft. Ralph & Eva Bloom 50:21

1y ago50:21

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Coming out later in life can be both nerve-wracking and exhilarating. We dive into this journey with our fabulous guests, queer sex educator Eva Bloom and Toronto’s own sapphic pop diva, Ralph! From battling imposter syndrome to navigating intense first loves, we'll cover it all. Whether you're a "late bloomer" or simply queer-curious, this episode…

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Can Men get Periods?! ft. Elgin And The Period Purse 38:33

1y ago38:33

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We're diving headfirst into the question: Are periods solely a “women's issue”? Join the conversation as we explore the often overlooked world of trans menstruation. From unraveling the mysterious history of menstruation to empowering you with ways to degender your menstrual vocabulary, we're covering it all. Plus, we'll be sharing personal insight…

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What It’s Like To Be A Trans Woman In A Men’s Prison Ft. Moka Dawkins 34:37

1y ago34:37

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The data is clear: LGBTQ2S+ people are overrepresented at every stage of the criminal justice system and this is especially true for trans people, who are subject to particularly inhumane conditions and treatment while incarcerated. Today we’re taking a deep dive into the experience of being trans behind bars. We’re using the Canadian correctional …

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Trans Fetishization & Dating. Lover or chaser? ft. Ms. Myles & King 49:17

1y ago49:17

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We're getting vulnerable as we delve into the complex experience of dating as a trans person. Throughout this episode you’ll hear from King, a trans man and Ms. Myles, a trans woman, about their personal journeys and realizations. From navigating positives and negatives, to addressing issues of disclosure, fetishization and violence, we’re going to…

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The Psychology of Kink ft. Pat 56:38

1y ago56:38

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The world of kink. What is the psychology behind our deepest desires and fetishes? We are joined by academic Pat, an advocate for sex positivity and consent. From overcoming shame to exploring play parties, get ready for an eye-opening conversation. Discover the art of embracing taboo desires and forging connections in this exhilarating journey thr…

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Are You Bisexual Or Heteroflexible? ft. Maceo of FEELD 35:56

1y ago35:56

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What the heck is heteroflexible? we are joined by Maceo Paisley on a journey of self-discovery and celebration. We'll define this sparkly term, explore its roots in sexual exploration and debate its place in the LGBTQ2S+ community. From personal anecdotes to societal perceptions, discover the allure and complexities of identifying as heteroflexible…

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Are Your Fav Celebrities Queer Baiting?! ft. Shannon Burns 47:00

1y ago47:00

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Shannon Burns, the vibrant host of Virgin Radio's midday show, joins us dive deep into the world of pop culture. From queer awakenings, to dissecting queer baiting, Taylor Swift and Sam Smith, we explore how pop culture shapes identities and ignites social change. Get ready for a dose of wit, wisdom, and a splash of rainbow as we navigate the fabul…

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Polyamory: The Details You Never Thought To Ask ft. Yaz 1:23:43

1+ y ago1:23:43

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Another tantalizing dive into the world of polyamory with the fabulous Yaz (@yazthehuman). From navigating differing desires to drafting those infamous relationship contracts, we uncover the pros and cons of polyamory with a dash of wit and wisdom. Get ready to swipe right on poly dating, find your inner compersion, and laugh your way through jealo…

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Is Drag Transphobic?! ft. Yovska & Anne Alien 32:35

1+ y ago32:35

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The colorful world of alternative drag! 🌈 we chat with Toronto's drag creatures Anne Alien and Yovska about being trans in drag, pushing boundaries, living outside the norm, and shaking up the drag scene. From shocking performances to inclusive language debates, this episode is a wild ride you won't want to miss! Get your wigs ready and join us for…

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The PROBLEM With Being Mixed-Race ft. Kelcy Timmons Chan 30:11

1+ y ago30:11

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The vibrant mosaic of the mixed-race journey with Kelcy Timmons Chan, the whimsical queer pop artist and mural painter. Discussing the sense of belonging and family dynamics, we explore the intersection of identity and artistry. From managing stereotypes to embracing authentic selves, Kelcy's kaleidoscopic perspective illuminates pathways to inclus…

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Is Queerness NATURAL?! ft. Sebastian 35:26

1+ y ago35:26

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Is Queerness Natural? 🦓 From dismantling heteronormative biases in science to spotlighting our fabulous gay fish ancestors, we are joined by Seb, a trans-masc/non-binary powerhouse with an animal science background, leads us on a journey through the animal kingdom's LGBTQ+ spectrum. Unmasking the arguments against queerness, revealing the rainbow o…

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The ENTIRE History Of Trans People 51:09

1+ y ago51:09

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Unearth the roots of transness in ancient cultures, from the gender fluidity of mythological gods to India's resilient Hijra community. Explore the Islamic Golden Age and Christian conflicts in the medieval period. Travel through the cross-dressing culture of the early modern era and discover forgotten trans stories from the American Wild West. Del…

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The Butch and The Bi's Top 10 Things in 2023 42:59

1+ y ago42:59

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Sends us a comment or question! Hey friends, While we aren't picking THIS show back up any time soon, we couldn't not do our annual "Top Ten Things" episode. This year started off a little rockier than the last few. While we loved producing this show regularly we have an exciting project in the works to use all of the skills we learned on this one …

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Embracing Your True Identity with Brandi Leifso 32:59

1+ y ago32:59

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Embrace your own authenticity through external expression and the transformative power of makeup. Our special guest, Brandi Leifso, shares her inspiring journey from a domestic violence shelter to founding EVIO Beauty at just 21, a brand committed to making a positive impact. Having collaborated closely with EVIO on our project Turning Heads Vol. I…

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Is The Tradition of Marriage "Too Straight"? ft. Kaleb Robertson 28:37

1+ y ago28:37

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We're smashing heteronormative traditions with queer, trans, and body-positive activist turned wedding officiant, Kaleb Robertson. We tackle mental barriers to marriage, navigate the collision of queer and family worlds, and defy the historical shackles of misogynistic traditions. From ditching the 'giving away the bride' drama to garter toss criti…

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The Queer Palestinian experience ft. Moody 54:05

1+ y ago54:05

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Today we are joined by Mahmoud Shabeeb, also known as Moody. Moody is with us today to speak on the queer Palestinian and greater Palestinian experience. Please note that this episode was recorded on October 20th, since then the situation in Gaza has escalated greatly and we recommend watching closely via sources like Democracy Now. Big thank you t…

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Rebuilding Relationships After Coming Out ft. Taha 26:34

1+ y ago26:34

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Can a negative coming-out experience coexist with familial, cultural, and religious ties? We are joined by Taha, a trailblazing content creator exploring the intersection of queerness and the South Asian immigrant experience. Taha shares his story of navigating stigmatization in South Asian culture, the complexities of setting boundaries, committin…

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A Message Of Solidarity 1:06

1+ y ago1:06

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When we say Queer Collective is for the entire queer community we say that with our full chestBy Queer Collective

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Should Drag Story Time Be BANNED?! ft. Kaleb Robertson 37:26

1+ y ago37:26

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In today's episode we’re joined by local queer & trans advocate Kaleb Robertson, who is also known in Drag as Fluffy Soufflé. Fluffy is one half of the magical storytelling duo, Fay & Fluffy. Together we leave no stone unturned when chatting about recent anti-trans protests across Canada & the issues surrounding drag story times, parental consent &…

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Can You Be Muslim AND Queer?! ft. Bilal Ahmed 36:27

2y ago36:27

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The Queer Muslim Experience. What does that look like? Can the two co-exist? Bilal Ahmed, a queer Muslim and refugee from Dubai now residing in Canada, challenges stereotypes with their profound connection to both queerness and Allah. Discover the intricacies of navigating queerness in predominantly Muslim countries, family dynamics, and Bilal's pe…

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Is Bisexuality Queer Enough? With Megan, Victoria & Kris of 'Something' 49:38

2y ago49:38

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We’re talking bisexuality! In this week's episode we’re joined by three of Toronto’s hottest bisexuals to explore everything from coming out to affirming your identity as a bisexual. Thank you to Megan, Kristine, & Victoria from Something for joining us on this week's episode. SONTACT SOMETHING https://www.instagram.com/somethingcreative.co/ CONTAC…

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LISTEN UP! 1:29

2y ago1:29

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Hello Queer Collective Family! We have a little announcement for you. Please consider supporting this channel by giving us a 5 star review, it helps us sooo much.By Queer Collective

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