Why Do Men…? is a podcast seeking to unpick male mindset and behaviour when it comes to dating and relationships. The show is hosted by Love is Blind UK’s Tom Stroud, who’s gone on to generate a social media audience of over 130,000, where he creates content around relationship dynamics, male behaviour and mindset and modern masculinity. Each episode features a special guest, unpicking a variety of different topics, whether that’s ghosting, communication, or commitment issues, as we try to f ...
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Hey, flirty! With new episodes dropping every week, Flirtations is your go-to resource for getting out of your head and into the flirt! I’m so excited to bring you classic conversations on timeless dating questions around pacing, communication, and confidence ... with a unique Flirt Coach perspective! You can expect thought provoking, inclusive conversations with an array of guests and much, much more. Let’s flirt! You can connect with me on Flirtstagram: https://www.instagram.com/benjaminca ...
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Welcome to Rewire Your Attachment Style with Maya Diamond, where you’ll deepen your self-love, uncover how to be in a secure relationship, & empower yourself to attract emotionally available partners. With interviews from love/sex/relationship professionals, insights & strategies from Maya. Rewire Your Attachment Style is your go-to resource for upleveling your love life, becoming more secure, & magnetizing your dream partner.
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The official home for audio programming from Silver & Black Pride, SB Nation's community for fans of the Las Vegas Raiders.
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120. Beyond the Pods: Flirting, Friendship, and Life After Love is Blind with Tom Stroud
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50:31Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re crossing the pond and getting into it with none other than Tom Stroud! You may know Tom from Season 1 of Love Is Blind UK and his podcast Why Do Men…? and today, we’re going beyond the pods as we talk about what it was really like dating through a wall and how vulnerability, oddly enough, came more ea…
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122. Soulmates, Twin Flames, Karmic Connections, and Timing in Dating with Danny Santos
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1:02:17You know what Flirties, I have a question for you. Have you ever met someone and just knew they were the one? Maybe it was instant chemistry, maybe it was a slow burn, or maybe it was heartbreak that cracked you open in a way nothing else ever had? Well today, we’re diving into the soul-level stuff—those invisible forces that draw us to each other,…
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121. Is Happiness a Choice? Practical Optimism and the Science of Hope with Dr. Sue Varma
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57:58Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking practical optimism and how this grounded, science-backed approach can help guide us toward more fulfilling connections and loving relationships. Joining us for this conversation is Dr. Sue Varma, a board-certified psychiatrist, clinical assistant professor at NYU, and the author of Practical O…
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119. The Breakup Episode! with Lucy Price
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1:09:21Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re joined by breakup recovery and relationship coach Lucy Price, who is here to help us turn heartbreak into healing and a breakup into a breakthrough! If you’ve ever found yourself crying on Facetime with your friend, rereading old texts, stalking your ex’s socials, or wondering how the hell you’re supp…
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Confronting Relationship Misunderstandings - Tom's Tips #10
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10:21In our final short-form episode of Season 1, we reflect on a powerful conversation with LaLaLaLetMeExplain about why men blame women. This episode hit hard - from defensiveness and traditional gender roles to subtle misogyny and emotional growth, we dove into the uncomfortable truths that many men (myself included) are still unlearning. The reflect…
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118. The Enoughness Equation: How Hustle Culture Shapes Our Dating Lives with Israa Nasir
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57:41Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re joined by Israa Nasir, a psychotherapist, speaker, mental health advocate, creator of the digital platform Well Guide, and author of the brilliant new book Toxic Productivity, here today to have a conversation with us about what it means to feel enough in a world that constantly tells us otherwise. In…
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Do Men Expect Sex On The First Date? Best Moment #10
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3:19In this powerful clip from the full episode with lalalaletmeexplain, we dive into the complex dynamics of sex on the first date. From male validation and ego to the hidden power plays behind "the chase." 🎧 Catch the full episode now for the unfiltered conversation SOME OF MY FAVOURITE BITS: 📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → https://www…
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117. Flirting, Chasing, and Choosing: Dating Dynamics Decoded with Mark Rosenfeld
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53:25Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, Flirties, we’re joined by one of Australia’s most sought-after dating coaches — it’s Mark Rosenfeld. He’s one of Australia’s top dating and relationship experts, author of the book Make Him Yours: Beating the Odds of Modern Dating, and over the course of his career, he’s coached more than 50,000 women in lo…
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Why Do Men Blame Women? #10 - Lalalaletmeexplain
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54:36In this episode of Why Do Men, we're joined again by LaLaLaLetMeExplain to talk about why some men blame women for their pain, dating struggles, or dissatisfaction with life. We discuss how these attitudes show up in modern dating, the impact of misogyny, and how ideas around masculinity and feminism are often misunderstood. We also look at the rol…
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116. Queer Crossroads: Navigating Gay Dating and Relationships with Nathan Serrato
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1:01:16Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking all things queer and gay dating with the incredible Nathan Serrato! Nathan is a trauma-informed coach and host of the Queer Conscious podcast, helping LGBTQ+ individuals and couples build thriving, intentional relationships rooted in self-worth, communication, and emotional intimacy. Inside th…
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115. Dating Inside Out: Your Inner Critic and How to Stop Self Sabotage with Britt Frank
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55:29Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re welcoming someone whose work has helped thousands of people move from stuck to aligned, it's the brilliant Britt Frank. A licensed neuropsychotherapist, trauma specialist, speaker, and bestselling author of The Science of Stuck and her brand-new book Align Your Mind, her insights have been featured in…
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The Fear Behind the First Move! - Tom's Tips #9
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10:10In this solo episode, I reflect on my conversation with Lucy Rout from Haystack Dating and unpack one of the biggest questions in modern dating: why aren't men approaching women anymore? From fear of rejection to changing gender dynamics and social media pressure, I share personal stories, real stats, and honest advice on how we can all create more…
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114. Dating Deeper: How to Build Intimacy and Connection in a Swipe Culture with Court Vox
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1:02:33Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re getting intimate—literally—with certified sex and intimacy coach, Court Vox. Court is the founder of The Body Vox , a somatic sex educator and has been featured in Vogue, Men’s Health, Allure, The New York Post, and more. He’s worked with individuals and couples all over the world, helping them build …
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Why Do Men Say They Want To Meet Someone Organically… But Never Approach Anyone? Best Moment #9
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4:46In this 5 minute clip - We tackle one of the most frustrating contradictions in modern dating: men say they want to meet someone “organically” but rarely make a move. From fear of rejection and blurred social cues to the pressure of busy lives and shifting dating norms, we unpack what’s really holding people back - and why both men and women might …
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113. The Evolution of an Icon: Exploring Confidence and Reinvention with Rebecca More
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50:27Coming up on this episode of Flirtations is the iconic Rebecca More! Adult industry legend, one-half of the unforgettable Cock Destroyers, star of Slag Wars, and soon competing in an Ironman, today we’re going beyond fame to talk about reinvention. In this conversation, Rebecca shares her journey of stepping away from porn and adult work, grieving …
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Why Do Men Not Approach Women Anymore?! - Lucy Rout #9
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54:56Why don’t men approach women anymore? Are dating apps ruining real connection? 👀 In this Episode of Why Do Men, we dive deep with Haystack Dating founder Lucy Rout to unpack fear of rejection, ghosting, gender roles, and the chaos of modern dating in 2025. From dating app burnout to IRL nerves - we’re asking the big questions about love, confidence…
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112. Herpes, Honey! HSV, STIs, and Sexual Health with Tricia Wise
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53:52Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re getting real, raw, and radically open with the incredible Tricia Wise. You may know Tricia as the @safe.slut across social media, Tricia is a master aesthetician, reiki practitioner, sexual health advocate, herpes stigma breaker, and meme queen—and today, she’s joining us to talk about something that,…
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111. Exclusivity and Defining the Relationship in Dating with Carleigh Ferrante
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56:08Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re defining the relationship, ya’ll, with Carleigh Ferrante! Carleigh is the creator and voice of @mostlydating on Instagram and host of the Mostly Dating podcast, having built a community of over 200,000 with her honest takes on dating and relationships. Whether you’re feeling things out with someone ne…
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110. Summer Solstice Dating Horoscope with Fernie!
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53:35Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, Fernie is back on the show for our summer solstice dating horoscope! With a brand new season comes new energy for dating, romance, flirting, and cosmic possibility. Joining us today is Flirtations’ in-house astrologer, fortune teller, and magic mystic, Fernie, here to read the stars and pull back the planet…
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109. Stop Forcing, Start Flowing: The Art of Surrender with Dr. Shanté Holley
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55:56Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Dr. Shanté Holley to the show! Dr. Shanté is a certified life coach, writer, professor, and host of the podcast The Whole In Your Heart podcast on YouTube. Specializing in guiding individuals through the complexities of healing, wellness, and personal development, today we have a conversation for…
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108. Columnist Confessions: A Conversation with Jana Hocking
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48:33Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re going to have a cheeky good time with the fabulous Jana Hocking! You might know Jana from her spicy columns in the Daily Mail, her time behind the scenes casting and producing The Bachelor, or her wildly popular 'saucy secrets' series on Instagram, where no confession is too hot to handle. In this epi…
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107. Communication in Early Dating with Erica Turner
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56:12Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Erica Turner to the show, the creator of The Relationship Reset on Instagram and the Secure Dating Playbook, to have a conversation with us about communication in early dating! We open the show with how to reset the relationship we have with ourselves and reframe some common experiences we might …
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Vulnerability, Inadequacy, and Authentic Connections in Relationships - Tom's Tips #8
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9:35Reflection Episode - Revisiting Love Bombing (with Sabrina Zohar) This is a solo reflection on our most popular episode yet - the one with Sabrina Zohar on love bombing! I wanted to go deeper into what came up for me after that chat. From my own experiences with coming on too strong, to what it really means when we mistake intensity for connection.…
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106. Mic Drop! Inside "Love Isn't Blind" and How to Flirt More Fearlessly with Alli Goldberg
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52:37Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Alli Goldberg to the show! Alli is a producer, writer, comedian, and creator of the in real life comedy show Love Isn’t Blind that blends dating, laughter, and matchmaking, here to have a conversation with us about dating, flirting, and how we can have more fun making connections. Questions for A…
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How to Spot and Stop Love Bombing! - Best Moment #8
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4:28In this short clip - Sabrina breaks down how to spot love bombing vs real connection and why setting boundaries early is the fastest way to see someone’s true intentions. If they push back, it was never about you. If they respect it, maybe it’s real. Make sure to check out the full episode of Why Do Men for more honest, unfiltered conversations on …
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105. Dating Advice I Wish I Knew with the Almost 30 Podcast
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56:21Today on Flirtations, we welcome Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the powerhouse due behind the Almost 30 podcast, with over 100M downloads around the world, and authors of the new book Almost 30: A Definitive Guide to a Life You Love for the Next Decade and Beyond, who are here to have a conversation with us today about dating advice I wish I k…
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In today's episode we are joined by dating and relationship coach Sabrina Zohar to unpack the psychology behind love bombing! We run through why some people go all in fast and then vanish just as quickly. We discuss the difference between intensity and intimacy, why chaos is often mistaken for chemistry, and how attachment styles play into our dati…
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104. The Sex and the City Episode! with Scott Spraags
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1:03:40Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re celebrating the premiere of the new season And Just Like That … with a special Sex and the City episode! Take the "Which Character am I" quiz (takes 3 minutes!): Sex and the City Quiz For this conversation, we welcome the multitalented and multifaceted Scott Spraags, a dancer, choreographer, producer,…
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103. Limerence, Longing, and Connection with Amanda McCracken
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1:00:16Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking limerence, longing, and connection with our guest, Amanda McCracken, a journalist, speaker, and host of the insightful The Longing Lab podcast and author of the forthcoming book, When Longing Becomes Your Lover. Inside the episode, we breakdown limerence and the limerence cycle, and how this i…
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102. Ask a Matchmaker! Dating Insights From a Fourth Generation Expert with Maria Avgitidis
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55:17Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re joined by the fabulous Maria Avgitidis— a fourth generation matchmaker, dating extraordinaire, and author of the new book Ask a Matchmaker to have a conversation with us about, well, dating! Maria brings real-world wisdom, generational insight, and just the right dose of tough love to the modern datin…
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101. How to Date Intentionally with Talia Koren
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56:06Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we have the first-ever guest back on the show, it’s Talia Koren! Talia is the host of the Dating Intentionally podcast and creator of the Dating Intentionally Instagram and YouTube pages, who is here to have a conversation with us about dating intentionally. Inside the episode, here’s what you can expect: H…
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Redefining Masculinity: Embracing Vulnerability and Emotional Expression in Men - Tom's Tips #7
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11:51In this 10-minute reflection episode, I unpack my powerful conversation with resilience coach Josh Connolly on why so many men suppress their emotions in relationships. I open up about my own struggles with emotional expression, childhood conditioning, and the pressure to be ‘strong.’ From somatic work to the role of men's groups, I explore how emo…
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100. Emotional Availability and What Matters in Relationships with Jillian Turecki
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45:12Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, I am honored to bring you a conversation with Jillian Turecki, the host of the Jillian On Love podcast and author of the book, It Begins With You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life. The topics: emotional availability and what matters in relationships. To begin, we talk about some good …
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Why Football Is A Place Where Men Feel Safe! Best Moment #7
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2:41In this powerful moment from our full episode with Josh Connolly, we dive into why football matches have become one of the only socially accepted spaces for men to express emotion. Josh breaks down how male friendships often lack the space to truly feel - and why so many men end up crying over football, when really, it’s everything else in their li…
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99. The People Pleasing Episode! with Natalie Lue
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1:00:14Coming up on this episode for Flirtations, we welcome Natalie Lue, the host of the Baggage Reclaim Sessions podcast and the author of five books, including The Joy of Saying No, to have a conversation with us about people pleasing! Natalie is a leading voice on boundaries and people-pleasing, helping people understand how their emotional baggage in…
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Why Do Men Suppress Emotions? Josh Connolly #7
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56:54In this episode, I’m joined by Josh Connolly - resilience coach, breathwork expert, and author of It’s Them, Not You. We chat about emotional suppression, father wounds, addiction, and why opening up still feels so hard for a lot of guys. Josh shares lessons from his own journey and the work he does helping people reconnect with themselves and expr…
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98. Neurodivergence and Dating with Mady Snyder
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56:08Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking about neurodivergence and dating with our guest, Mady Snyder, a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in working with late-diagnosed neurodivergent individuals and couples! Whew, I am so ready! Dating is a complex journey for most, but for those with neurodivergence, it can prese…
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97. The Nervous System and Getting off the Rollercoaster of Emotions in Dating with Jessica Maguire
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56:37Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we're joined by Jessica Maguire, a renowned expert in nervous system regulation and repair, and author of the book The Nervous System Reset, to have a conversation with us about not only healing the nervous system - but healing the connection with ourselves in the process. First, we explore what often gets …
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Navigating Commitment and Connection in Today's World - Tom's Tips #6
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9:45In this solo episode of Why Do Men, we unpack the fear of commitment... Why do so many men struggle with it and where does it really come from? I reflect on how childhood, masculinity, dating culture, and emotional avoidance shape modern relationships. Whether you’re someone who fears commitment or dating someone who does, this episode dives deep i…
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96. Reclaiming Yourself: Healing from Abusive Relationships with Ashley Maland
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54:00Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Ashley Maland, Host of the "This Is Where We Heal" Podcast, to have a conversation with us about the complex journey of surviving an abusive relationship. We'll uncover how to begin healing from abusive and toxic relationships—whether it’s domestic violence, sexual assault, or the emotional scars…
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How to Avoid Casual Dating Pitfalls - Best Moment #6
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4:22In this episode, Tom and guest David explore how modern dating has made men more hesitant to commit. David shares why asking clear, open questions early on is crucial to finding out if someone is serious, and how being intentional about what you want attracts deeper, more meaningful relationships. If you enjoyed this clip, make sure to check out th…
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95. How to Not Settle in Dating with Dr. Brianna Diorio
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55:52Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking about how to not settle in dating with relationship coach, doctor of integrative medicine, and host of the Brianna Approved podcast, it’s Dr. Brianna Diorio! We've got a lot to get to today and here’s what you can expect! First, we'll explore what it really means to “settle” in dating and the …
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Why Do Men Fear Commitment? - David Chambers #6
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55:20So Why Do Men Fear Commitment? In this episode of Why Do Men, we explore why many men fear commitment, with special guest David Chambers, a male relationship and intimacy coach. We unpack the roots of avoidance, societal pressures, childhood dynamics, and the impact of modern dating. It's a powerful, vulnerable, and enlightening conversation for bo…
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94. Dating with Emotional Freedom: Embodiment and Healing the Nervous System with Eliah Prichard
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54:27Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re going on a transformative journey of embodied healing with Eliah Prichard, Founder of the Feel Good Membership and Host of the Self Expression Love Podcast! Today, we explore what it means to truly feel safe in your body. Eliah guides us through the art of self-expression through embodiment as a way t…
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93. Beyond the Chase: Flirting, Masculinity, and Modern Dating with Connell Barrett
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51:41Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Connell Barrett, a men’s dating coach, author, speaker, and host of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, to have a conversation with us about dating as a straight guy, masculinity, and what women are looking for, but not in a mansplainy way, absolutely not! Basically if you’re straight, stick aro…
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Facing the Fear of Rejection! Toms Tips #5
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11:09Why Rejection Hurts (Especially for Men) In this reflection episode, we break down why rejection cuts deep - from childhood wounds to ghosting - and how men often deal with it in silence. With some of the best insights from my episode with the lovely Anna Mathur. Make sure to go check out the full episode with Anna if this resonated with you! If yo…
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92. Empowered Intimacy: Sexual Confidence, Expression and Freedom with Lola Jean
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57:58Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Lola Jean, a multifaceted sex educator, fetish wrestler, and world record holder to the show for a conversation about sexual confidence, empowerment, and freedom! We'll explore whether sexual confidence is an innate gift or a skill that can be developed (hint: if you don’t feel like or aren’t sur…
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Building Confidence and Overcoming Rejection - Best Moment #5
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3:56Dating, Stress & the Power of Being Misunderstood Dating can be an emotional rollercoaster - but what if the key to navigating it is regulating everything else first? In this clip, we explore how managing your baseline stress, building a strong support network, and gently leaning into discomfort can transform the way you respond to dating challenge…
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91. Celebrity Energy and Becoming the Ultimate Attractor with Whitney Uland
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51:43Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, I'm thrilled to kickoff a transformative episode with celebrity coach Whitney Uland about how you can harness the power of celebrity energy to become the ultimate attractor in your dating life! We'll get into what celebrity energy really is, how heart-brain coherence can supercharge your authenticity, and w…
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Why Do Men Struggle With Rejection? Anna Mathur #5
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55:01Why Do Men Fear Rejection? | With Psychotherapist Anna MathurThis week on Why Do Men, we’re diving into one of the most common but least talked about experiences in male behaviour: rejection. Whether it’s in dating, relationships, or friendships, rejection hits hard - and men often don’t talk about it.To unpack this, I'm joined by Anna, who special…
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