We discuss how to use strategy in Family Court to get the results you want. A family law professional with twenty years of experience in the field will share with you what really matters in Family Court. Whether you are going through divorce or custody, if you are representing yourself you need to know the tactics that will end the torment you have been enduring up until this point. We will share tips, tricks, techniques, and everything else that your lawyer will never divulge. If you have b ...
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Season 2 - Episode 18: Using Mediation Strategically in Family Court
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28:23862.800.7850 In this insightful episode your host, Tracey Bee, founder of The Divorce Solutionist, former family law attorney, and your go-to pro se strategist — pulls back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood tools in the family court system: mediation. Though often seen as a peaceful alternative to litigation, mediation is not a guarantee…
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Season 2 - Episode 17: Workarounds for When You Can't Afford to Work with Divorce Professionals
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32:04862.800.7850 The family court battlefield can feel overwhelming, but in this episode, Tracey Bee is arming you with a secret weapon: workarounds. Designed for pro se litigants and anyone looking to take charge of their case, we’re unpacking clever, strategic alternatives to navigate the system without breaking the bank or losing your sanity. Fresh …
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862.800.7850 In this compelling episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, host Tracey Bee —the only pro se family court strategist — dives into a transformative topic: Artificial Intelligence and its potential in the hands of self-represented litigants. Tracey breaks down how AI is being used across legal professions, but more importantly, how y…
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Season 2 - Episode 15: You've Just Been Served? Key Things to Look for to Check the Legal Document Validity
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24:50862.800.7850 If you've just been served, don’t panic—know what to look for. In this episode, Tracey B breaks down the essential elements to examine when you receive a legal document, motion, or petition in a family court case. Whether you're the petitioner or respondent, it's critical to understand the procedural, factual, and substantive grounds o…
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Season 2 - Episode 14: The Self Employed, Business Owner or 1099 Pro
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34:15862.800.7850 Are you a business owner, freelancer, or 1099 contractor navigating divorce without a lawyer? In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey B. dives into the unique challenges—and real opportunities—for self-employed individuals handling their own divorce or custody cases. Whether you're running an LLC, consulting on the …
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Season 2- Episode 12: The Changing Landscape of Divorce: What You Need to Know
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43:21862.800.7850 The way divorce services are delivered is evolving, and in this episode, we’re diving into the major shifts happening in the industry. From legal professionals and paralegals to divorce coaches and financial organizers, we explore the different types of support available and how they can help you navigate your divorce more effectively.…
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Season 2- Episode 11: When to (or Not) Self-Represent in Family Court
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34:26862.800.7850 Have you ever wondered if representing yourself in family court is the right move for you, your family or your goals ? In this episode, I dive into the complexities of self-representation in family court cases. Using my experience as a former family law attorney and mediator, I’ll share my insights on when it makes sense to handle your…
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Season 2 - Episode 10: Ethical or Unethical Practices of Lawyers in Family Court
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38:41862.800.7850 Is Your Lawyer Crossing the Line? Ethical or Unethical Practices in Family Court Do you trust your lawyer's motivations and methods? It's time to take a deeper look. In today’s episode, we dissect the fine line between ethical and unethical practices by lawyers in family courts, especially when emotions and tensions run high. This epis…
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Season 2 - Episode 9: Having Support Systems during Your Family Court Experience: A Strategic Approach
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26:04862.800.7850 In this episode of Self Represented in Family Court, I’m diving deep into the power of strategy in family court proceedings. Whether you're representing yourself or working with legal counsel, having a solid strategy—and the right support—is key to navigating this complex system successfully. Family court isn't something you should go …
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Season 2 Episode 8: The Legal Costs & Fees in Family Law-An In-Depth Look
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48:05862.800.7850 Navigating family court can deplete you of every ounce of energy, every sense of sanity and every dime you have, especially when you're representing yourself. In my latest episode of Self Represented in Family Court, I spend time going into details about the realities of managing legal costs and share practical workaround tactics to mi…
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Season 2 Episode 7: Navigating Family Court as a Pro Se Litigant
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47:23862.800.7850 Do you think representing yourself in family court is an uphill battle or a strategic advantage? Well, it's both—and more. In this episode, I’m going to uncover the nuances of navigating family court as a pro se or self-represented litigant. I’ll dive deep into the concept of pro se representation, sharing the difference between those …
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Season 2 - Episode 6: The "Real" of Coercive Control & Its Application in Family Court
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32:56862.800.7850 In this episode, we confront a critical yet often overlooked aspect of domestic violence: coercive control. As a form of abuse that manipulates an individual's freedom and decision-making, coercive control includes behaviors like monitoring spending, isolating victims from social interactions, and controlling personal movements. Origin…
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Season 2 - Episode 5: October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month
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27:30862.800.7850 This week, in recognition of October as Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we're dedicating the next few episodes to all the brave survivors of domestic violence. We take a look into the challenges of presenting domestic violence cases in family court and their impact on the overall outcome in custody, visitation, and divorce proceedin…
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Season 2 Episode 4: Ten Things to Avoid Wasting Your Life Savings on Legal Fees
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36:05862.800.7850 Today we're exploring a crucial topic: how to avoid wasting your life savings on legal fees. We'll discuss strategic approaches to settling disputes independently, performing cost-benefit analyses, and leveraging tools to make informed decisions. We'll also discuss alternative legal resolutions like negotiations and mediation, the impo…
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Season 2 Episode 3: Being Strategic with Parenting Plans
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43:23862.800.7850 Do you think creating a parenting plan is an easy, straightforward process? Or that even having one is an absolute MUST? Well, think again. Discover how overly lengthy and generic parenting plans can do more harm than good, especially in high-conflict situations, in this week's discussion. This episode dives into the saturated and ofte…
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S2E2: Choosing to File Contempt in Family Court
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36:47862.800.7850 Think you know how Family Courts operate when it comes to enforcing, punishing or even taking action when there is uncooperation between the parties? Think again. In this eye-opening episode, I pull back the curtain to reveal the strategic nuances and intricate challenges that litigants face when navigating family court, especially whe…
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Season 2 - Episode 1: Perjury in Family Court - An Honest Look at its Impact & Use
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26:39862.800.7850 Welcome back, listeners! Did you miss your favorite family court strategist? Well, season two kicks off with a bang as we dive into an often misunderstood but critically important topic: perjury in family court. In this enlightening episode, I pull back the curtain to uncover the strategic implications and often underwhelming enforceme…
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Family Court Strategy for Dads (Father's Day Edition)
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51:49862.800.7850 **Think Family Court is Simple? Think Again. A Reality Check for Dads Navigating Custody Battles.** Welcome back to another eye-opening episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, with your host Family Court Strategist™ Tracey Bee. If you've ever thought family court was straightforward or designed with the kids' best interests at hea…
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Parent Visitation or Access in High Conflict Cases
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26:56862.800.7850 Do you think Family Court can simply restrict the non-custodial parent's access to their child under any circumstances? Think again. Discover the real nuances behind parental visitation or access and what courts consider before making those tough decisions. In this episode, Tracey Bee provides a crucial look into Family Court cases inv…
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Family Court Strategy for the Stay-at-Home Parent
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40:41862.800.7850 Navigating the murky waters of Family Court can be daunting, especially for stay-at-home parents. This episode Tracey brings you right into the thick of it, demystifying the complex and sometimes unsettling realities of family court, particularly for those who’ve spent years out of the workforce. Whether you are considering divorce, ar…
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Episode 22 - Our NEW A.D.V.O.C.A.T.E.™ Method
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13:50862.800.7850 Today, I've got something truly groundbreaking to share with you—my newly launched, proprietary A.D.V.O.C.A.T.E.™ Method. This meticulously crafted process is your comprehensive guide to navigating the intricate and often daunting world of family court, especially if you're a self-represented litigant. In this special edition episode, …
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Episode 21 - Being Strategic with Biased Judges
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29:27862.800.7850 Today we delve into the complex world of family court and tackle the challenge of navigating biased judges. As many of you know, the discretion and minimal oversight in family courts often give judges an unfortunate ability to "run amok." This lack of accountability can deeply affect the outcomes of sensitive cases involving terminatio…
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Episode 20 - Firing & Hiring Family Law Attorneys
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36:10862.800.7850 Today, we dive into the often overlooked challenge of hiring and firing attorneys in family law. We'll explore why switching lawyers too frequently could leave you vulnerable and possibly hinder your case, as frequent changes can annoy judges and lead to adverse decisions. It's your right to change attorneys, but making informed, strat…
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Episode 19 - Strategy & Parental Alienation
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39:03862.800.7850 Today, we're shining a light on a difficult yet critical topic that many families face: parental alienation. This phenomenon can strike any family, irrespective of background or status, often leading to grueling legal battles and profound emotional distress. In recognition of Parental Alienation Awareness Day on April 25th, we'll explo…
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Episode 18: Levels of Conflict in Family Court
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21:43862.800.7850 Are you caught up in a web of conflict in family court? Tracey Bee is back to tackle the levels of conflict you may encounter. This episode doesn't shy away from the tough realities of fighting for your family's future. We're going deep into the high, medium, and low ends of the conflict spectrum – because knowing is half the battle. I…
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Episode 17: The "Real" Impact of Having Legal Custody
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24:33862.800.7850 In this eye-opening episode, I take listeners on a deep dive into the overlooked yet crucial aspect of legal custody or decision-making in family court. With my signature straightforward approach and strategic insights, I peel back the layers to reveal the significant impact that legal custody has on a parent's ability to make crucial …
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Episode 16 - Using Mediation as Part of Your Strategy
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28:16862.800.7850 In this episode of "Self Represented in Family Court," host Tracey B delves into the often misunderstood world of mediation in family court. Contrary to popular belief, mediation isn't just about reaching an agreement; it's much more than that. Tracey explores the complexities and potential benefits of mediation, as well as how to stra…
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Episode 15: Making the Best Of Working with a GAL
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40:20862.800.7850 Shownotes: Are you preparing for or involved in a high-conflict custody case and feel like there's an unknown player in the mix – the Guardian ad Litem? Tune in to understand who they are, what they do, and how to work with them effectively. In this episode, we delve into the complex and crucial, yet controversial, role of the Guardian…
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Episode 14: Tactics for Each "Lane" of Your Divorce or Custody Case pt. 2
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21:36862.800.7850 Shownotes Family court – often seen as a sanctuary for resolving family matters in the best interest of the child, but it is the complete opposite. Tracey Bee continues to delve into the raw and ugly reality of family court. But in this episode she takes us behind the scenes to expose what really goes on with in-court divorce and custo…
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Episode 13 Family Court Strategy: Tactics for Each "Lane" of Your Divorce or Custody Case
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28:04862.800.7850 Do you have a family court case looming over you? Whether you're considering court for the first time or gearing up for trial, understanding the strategic nuances of family court can make all the difference in your case's outcome. In this episode of "Self Represented in Family Court," I will take you behind the scenes to uncover the pr…
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Episode 12: Family Court Tactics: A Game Plan for Success
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37:34862.800.7850 Is your family court strategy as solid as you think? It's time to up your game and get strategic with your planning. In this episode, we delve into the nuances of maneuvering through the maze of family court. Whether you have legal representation or are braving the battlefield pro se, you'll uncover the vital importance of strategy in …
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Episode 11: You're Ready to File Your Case in Family Court
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38:25862.800.7850 Join us in this informative episode as we delve into the intricacies of navigating family court proceedings. Whether you're embarking on your first court appearance or preparing for the deciding phase, this episode provides essential insights and practical tips to help you navigate the family court system effectively. What You'll Learn…
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862.800.7850 Today, we're delving deep into the labyrinth of co-parenting rights – a topic crucial for anyone navigating the complex terrain of family court. Join me as we unravel the intricacies of your rights as a co-parent, shedding light on the nuances that shape your role in decision-making, custody arrangements, and day-to-day responsibilitie…
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862.800.7850 Ever wondered if your rights as a parent clash with your rights as a self-represented litigant? Are you navigating the tricky waters of family court, uncertain if being a parent gives you a legal upper hand? Well, you're in the right place. In this episode, we're not just decoding the legal jargon; we're unraveling the complexities of …
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Episode 8: Finding and Using Resources for Family Court
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30:21862.800.7850 In today's discussion, we delve into the heart of a matter that affects an increasing number of individuals—navigating family court as a pro se litigant. As the pandemic has driven a surge in family court cases, a staggering 90% find themselves standing alone in the courtroom, facing critical decisions that impact their lives and those…
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Episode 7: The Most Common Mistakes Pro Se Litigants Make in Family Court
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32:05862.800.7850 Are you tired of trying to navigate the treacherous waters of family court on your own? Want to avoid doing what other pro se litigants do by sinking thousands into legal fees and losing what matters most? Tune in as I reveal the top mistakes pro se litigants make – and how to steer clear of them! In this episode, I delve deep into the…
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862.800.7850 Are you feeling overwhelmed by the thought of dealing with lawyers in family court? Whether you're self-represented or considering hiring an attorney, today's episode is a must-listen! In this episode, I dive deep into the role of lawyers in family court. We'll explore different scenarios: you with an attorney, you against an attorney,…
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Episode 5: Your Rights as Self-Represented in Family Court
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28:48862.800.7850 Did you know that stepping into family court without an attorney doesn't mean stepping away from your rights? Today, we're uncovering the important rights you have as a self-represented litigant, rights that can significantly impact your family court experience. Join me as we explore these rights and learn how to advocate for yourself …
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Episode 4: Which Lane Are You or Your Case in Family Court
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38:50862.800.7850 Are you standing at the crossroads of family court litigation, unsure of your next step? This episode, titled "Which Lane Are You or Your Case in Family Court," is your roadmap to clarity and confidence in Family Court. We're not just talking about legal strategies; we're diving into a journey of empowerment and self-discovery in the l…
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Episode 3: Let's Be Real About The Best Interests of the Child
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18:38862.800.7850 Do you think family court is all about the kids' best interests? You need to think again. Discover how what you think you know about family courts might be far from the truth as I reveal the dirty truth behind them. This episode explores a topic that is often misunderstood or misconstrued: the reality of family court. I take you behind…
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862.800.7850 Tired of the family court rollercoaster? Buckle up for an eye-opening episode! I, your Family Court Strategist and Coach, reveal the hidden gems of conflict resolution, helping you avoid the legal battleground. Get ready to take control of your family's future! If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the thought of entering the legal fray o…
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862.800.7850 In this episode, we delve into the complex and often disheartening world of family court. We explore the myriad issues plaguing this system, which impacts countless individuals embroiled in legal battles, particularly concerning divorce and custody disputes. Our discussion highlights the following key points: - The financial burden fac…
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Welcome to the Family Court Strategy Podcast!
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1:10862.800.7850 Here we discuss how to use strategy in Family Court to get the results you want. A family law professional with twenty years of experience in the field will share with you what really matters in Family Court. Whether you are going through divorce or custody, if you are representing yourself you need to know the tactics that will end th…
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