Best Traver Boehm Podcasts (2025)

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Why you’re willing to betray yourself to fit in and how to stop — with Traver Boehm 9:37

8h ago9:37

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In this episode I’ll talk about why so many of us find ourselves in a constant cycle of self betrayal all in the name of fitting in and being loved. OY! We all do it to some degree, but once you see how you betray yourself in the name of keeping and creating connection and belonging, your life will change forever. I’ll share with you a single sente…

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Redefining Pain’s Purpose with Traver Boehm 53:52

10d ago53:52

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This episode dives into the raw, messy, and ultimately transformative terrain between suffering and awakening—a journey that’s anything but straightforward. Traver Boehm. His story is wild—think: MMA fighter by day, acupuncturist by night, and years later, a man who spent a month alone in complete darkness to confront the deepest parts of himself. …

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From porn to non ejaculatory orgasms with Taylor Johnson 51:59

7d ago51:59

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If you’re a man who has sex, or know one who does, this episode is for you. Taylor Johnson used to be addicted to porn. Heavily. And like so many men, it destroyed his sex life. It led to erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, depression and anxiety. Sounds great doesn’t it?After putting himself through a series of abstinence experiments his …

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Five things you need to know in a breakup or divorce — with Traver Boehm 12:44

14d ago12:44

12:44

In this episode I’ll talk about five of the most important factors for you to consider if you’re in a breakup or divorce. My writing career kicked off with a book about how to use the pain of your breakup or divorce to transform your life, so this is my bread and butter! Since that book I’ve worked with thousands of people who are now on the other …

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The deep psychology of BDSM & Kink with Dr. Douglas Thomas 1:00:38

21d ago1:00:38

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In this episode I speak with renowned author Dr. Douglas Thomas on what makes people tick in the bedroom and beyond it. After reading Dr. Thomas’s book, The Deep Psychology of BDSM & Kink while in Costa Rica, I reached out to Dr. Thomas to see if he’d come on the podcast with me. He agreed and magic was made. We talk archetypes, the power of our se…

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Tara Dower Beyond Endurance 54:14

24d ago54:14

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Let's go to the Appalachian Trail. The AT as it’s called. Here’s some stats. At just under 2200 miles It’s longest hiking-only footpath in the world. Each year roughly 3 million people visit a segment of it. Of that, about 3000 people attempt to hike the whole thing… with only fraction finishing. Last year 1 of those finishers did it faster than an…

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The price you pay for being uncommon — with Traver Boehm 8:46

28d ago8:46

8:46

In this episode I’ll talk about how and why you need to get past the idea that people who don’t live like you do or even want to, are supposed to understand you. If there’s one thing that needs to be navigated in order to live a life outside of the box — it’s being misunderstood. This comes from family, friends, and of course, perfect strangers who…

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The truth about a 24 hour Dom/sub relationship with Andrew from Infinite Devotion 58:47

1M ago58:47

58:47

If you’re curious how to build more trust, devotion, and polarity in your relationship, this episode is for you. Ever wonder what really happens in a relationship dynamic where both parties have agreed to a complete Dom/sub relationship? Ever wonder how that dynamic could help you be a better partner in your own relationship, no matter how it’s put…

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Stuck? You’re not afraid of failure or success — w/ Traver Boehm 12:55

1M ago12:55

12:55

Every time I have a client say their stuck because they’re afraid of either failure or success I roll my eyes and say — OH LORD. No you’re not. You’re afraid of the unknown. The deep unknown. The things you can’t even conceptualize right now. And — you need to start anyway. Anyone and everyone you know who’s done something outside of their comfort …

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You’re Not Competing With AI—We're Merging With It - With AI Educator Matt Konwiser 2:04:28

2M ago2:04:28

2:04:28

In this conversation AI Designer, Educator, Futurist and Educator Matt Konwiser discusses the complexities and implications of Artificial Intelligence, particularly generative AI, with a focus on its impact on creativity, technology, and society. Konwiser emphasizes the importance of understanding the potential risks and benefits of AI integration …

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No Barriers Live Part 2 - Kara & Alice Brouhard 39:56

2M ago39:56

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This is part 2 of No Barriers Live featuring Kara Star of the World, with Kara Brouhard. Part 1 of No Barriers Live is the previous episode and features From My Window, with Melissa Simpson. Afterwards, Erik talks with the stars of these films and their family caregivers. He explores the challenges and rewards of adopting a “No Barriers Mindset,” a…

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Living from soul with Evan Meyer 49:30

2M ago49:30

49:30

Now more than ever, people are craving a deeper experience of their lives. I bet you can relate. In this episode I speak with Boulder Outdoor Survival School graduate, Men’s Work Facilitator, and BJJ enthusiast Evan Meyer on his own path towards living a soul based life, the pain and turmoil he’s had to go through to get where he’s at, and of cours…

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The way of the satisfied woman with Dr. Alanna Kaivalya 1:00:58

2M ago1:00:58

1:00:58

Myth. Sex. Pleasure. Oh my. In this conversation with author and Depth Psychologist Dr. Alanna Kaivalya we jam on several aspects of relationship and female pleasure. And this podcast isn’t just for our female listeners, guys you will glean much from this episode as well. Dr. Kaivalya has a unique lens on the relationship world as both a psychologi…

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No Barriers Live Part 1 - Melissa Simpson 42:54

2M ago42:54

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This is part 1 of No Barriers Live featuring From My Window, with Melissa Simpson. Part 2 of No Barriers Live is the next episode and features and Kara Star of the World, with Kara Brouhard. Afterwards, Erik talks with the stars of these films and their family caregivers. He explores the challenges and rewards of adopting a “No Barriers Mindset,” a…

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"They Told Us To Trust The Science’—But Whose Science?" - Dr. Michael J. Schwartz 2:09:49

2M ago2:09:49

2:09:49

COVID changed everything—our freedoms, our beliefs, and even how we think about science itself. But in the aftermath of lockdowns, mandates, and mass fear, one question remains: Did we actually follow science, or just a carefully crafted narrative? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Michael J. Schwartz, a medical expert specializing in genetics, …

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Jiujitsu, Breathwork, and following your own path — with Pat Divilly. 1:07:05

2M ago1:07:05

1:07:05

Today I bring you another Irishman and a fascinating one at that. Pat is a good friend of the Uncivilized world and has been leading a life worthy of the title of Uncivilized since before we were born. In this episode we follow Pat’s career going from fitness success and lack of satisfaction into the world of Breathwork and how that has radically c…

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Click Here or Stay Broke: Steal Whitney Bonds’ Affiliate Marketing and Passive Income Secrets to Ditch the 9-5 Forever 1:01:05

2M ago1:01:05

1:01:05

In this episode, we sit down with entrepreneur and YouTuber Whitney Bonds, who transformed her career from a virtual assistant gig into a thriving online business. Whitney opens up about her path to passive income through YouTube and affiliate marketing, revealing how she built a flexible lifestyle that lets her work from home while raising a famil…

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All things men’s sexual health — with Dr. Kelly Casperson M.D. 58:14

2M ago58:14

58:14

Considering the fact that it’s reason the species perpetuates, the difference between friendships and romantic relationships, as well as a MASSIVE source of both life’s pleasures and pain — it’s shocking that we don’t have more open and honest conversations about sex. In this episode I get to ask Dr. Kelly all the questions you men ask me, covering…

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The primal and divine aspects in our bodies — with Michael Gay 53:10

3M ago53:10

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Michael Gay is Uncivilized royalty, having been there from the beginning and is one of our co-leaders in our workshops. He’s also a licensed therapist and would probably be happiest living in the woods. In this episode we explore the ways men and women both can create a deeper relationship with your intuition and the parts of your body and knowings…

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Buddy Levy - Realm of Ice & Sky 55:07

3M ago55:07

55:07

A self-promoting egomaniac known mostly for his catastrophic failures. No, not our guest today. But there’s definitely something for us to learn from this individual who leads the cast of characters in The Realm of Ice & Sky. It’s the latest historical work of author Buddy Levy, where he takes on a gripping journey through the attempts to conquer t…

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Numb is not a powerful way to live — with Chris Bale 58:54

3M ago58:54

58:54

Chris is an old friend of The Uncivilized Podcast and in his third appearance with us speaks to the ways that we all numb and disconnect from our bodies, and the truth we’re so afraid to acknowledge. In this potent exercise we speak of potent ways to be in your body, to live more powerfully, and experience who we are underneath lives shackled with …

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It's not too late to name your year. 39:40

3M ago39:40

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NAME YOUR YEAR—START YOURS NOW It’s February. Too late. (No it's not.) For years, men and women around the world have kicked off their journeys with my powerful ritual—Naming Your Year. It’s not a resolution. Not a wish list. Not another empty promise. It’s a stake in the ground. A declaration. A call to something greater. In this recorded call, Tr…

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Adayemi Adayosoye — Truth is the fire that purifies a man’s heart. 1:01:05

3M ago1:01:05

1:01:05

Let’s talk tantric sex, full body non ejaculatory orgasms, psychedelics, and the dark masculine… In this episode with renowned Men’s Leader Adayemi Adayosoye we get into all of it. We cover the conditioning and patterning that leads men to live lives of drudgery and quiet misery rather than truth and ecstatic joy. This is a powerful episode for men…

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Thinking of Quitting Your Job? Listen to This First— How You Can Break Free with CEO Aaron Harper 1:11:40

3M ago1:11:40

1:11:40

Ever feel stuck in life, knowing you’re capable of more but unsure how to break through? In this episode, I sit down with Aaron Harper, CEO of Rolling Suds, who took an unexpected leap from corporate America into building a thriving national power washing empire. Aaron doesn’t hold back—he shares the raw, unfiltered truth about risk, reinvention, a…

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2024 Highlight Reel 55:24

3M ago55:24

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By request from our listeners! To kick off 2025 we want to take a trip down memory lane from 2024. This episode showcases some of our favorite highlights from guests we spoke to in 2024. Enjoy!By Erik Weihenmayer, Didrik Johnck

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Live Nice Guy coaching session — embracing responsibility with Traver Boehm. 34:36

4M ago34:36

34:36

In this episode you get to peak behind the coaching curtain and watch me work one-on-one with a man who’s struggling bringing structure into his life. This is showing up in his challenge around meal planning and workout programming, as well as the deeper issue at hand:— This is a protection mechanism keeping him from getting what he really wants. W…

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Sean Kipe — True Crime’s #1 Podcaster 58:48

4M ago58:48

58:48

I’m a True Crime dork, and if you are too, then this episode is for you. Hell, even if you’re not this episode will show the path of a man who was deep in a music career, had a hiccup, then on a whim after a single conversation decided to try something new. Millions and millions of downloads later with popular shows such as In The Red Clay, Drownin…

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How do you heal as a Nice Guy during your breakup? A LIVE Coaching Call. 41:56

4M ago41:56

41:56

If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who is going through a breakup or divorce — then this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who asked me a straight up question: How do I heal these Nice Guy parts of me? And boy do we get into it. As someone who figured out he was a Nice Guy…

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Deaf Mountaineers Scott & Shayna Breaking Stereotypes 53:32

4M ago53:32

53:32

You can’t hear. You can’t speak. How do you function in this world? Oh you want to climb mountains? The biggest ones in the planet? You rely on sign language, how ya gonna sign with oversized mittens or in a white out with snow coming at ya sideways? Oh you’re not sure? Ah… too risky for you. Better find something else to do…. Our guests heard thes…

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Gavin Meenan — Porn replaced her. 1:10:40

4M ago1:10:40

1:10:40

Gavin Meenan is a world-class men’s coach in Ireland. But he wasn’t always. At one point, he was a porn-addicted young father, buried in grief and shame. And it wasn’t until his porn use became public when videos of him in chat rooms made their way around the internet that he was able to shift his life forever. In his candid and open conversation, …

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Comfort Zones Are Killing Your Soul: Why I Chose to Risk It All with Matt Dawson 1:13:04

4M ago1:13:04

1:13:04

What happens when you leave the corporate grind to conquer the world’s tallest peaks and row across oceans? In this episode, Jay Alders dives into the incredible journey of Matt Dawson, a former investment banker turned world record adventurer. Discover how loss, pain, and stepping outside of his comfort zone transformed Matt’s life—and how it can …

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017 | Embracing Feral Wisdom in 2025 w/ Evan Meyer 42:44

4M ago42:44

42:44

Join the Feral Wisdom community: feralwisdom.carrd.co I'm back. After a year of absolute devestation, I've returned to the Undomesticate podcast to give an update on what I've been up to and how I'm stepping into 2025 living in deeper alignment. This homecoming episode explores the essence of Feral Wisdom - a path for those seeking to make an impac…

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Hendrix Black — The Path to Financial Freedom for Men 1:08:49

4M ago1:08:49

1:08:49

In this episode Hendrix and I dive into the ways men end up trapped with money, stuck in debt, and otherwise feeling disempowered when it comes to their finances. We talk about common stories men hold and how to break them — mostly by creating an actual relationship with money they’ve never had before. We also dig into why so many men who say they …

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Building Warriors: The Vision Behind The Tactical Games with Nick Thayer 1:24:47

5M ago1:24:47

1:24:47

In this episode, Jay Alders chats with Nick Thayer, President of The Tactical Games, about his journey from U.S. Coast Guard veteran to leader of one of the most intense fitness and shooting competitions in the world. Nick shares how The Tactical Games combines athleticism, marksmanship, and mental toughness, creating a unique challenge for competi…

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Sarah Thomas: Swimming Through Adversity 44:07

5M ago44:07

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Erik’s goal with these interviews is to shine light into that obscure terrain between the struggle and the success. It’s dark there with plenty of barriers; metaphorically speaking certainly, but also many times literally…. as is the case with Sarah; she stared into the darkness of English Channel waters crossing it back and forth twice. Oh yeah, s…

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TOP 5 REPLAY - The power of integrity and connection with Mark Groves 1:03:00

5M ago1:03:00

1:03:00

The connection we create around us will always be the key to building relationships where we can be ourselves without the need to hide any feelings. In this episode, I had a pleasant conversation with another exceptional man, my friend Mark Groves. Mark will explain what all these connections are about and why it is so important for us, as men, to …

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David Sutcliffe — You will make something your god. 1:07:37

5M ago1:07:37

1:07:37

I stumbled upon David’s work just a short time ago and was immediately hooked. After leaving a successful acting career in Hollywood, David did what very few actors do and became a therapist! And a brilliant one at that. In this episode we talk about following the path of your soul, about the ways men trip themselves up, and the common challenges f…

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Katelyn McKinney: Approaches to Wilderness Therapy 1:29:17

5M ago1:29:17

1:29:17

There’s much to be said about the effect of wild places on the human psyche…. therapeutic, healing, transformative … a place to experience mindfulness…. Even scary for some, however, our guest Katelyn McKinney simply sums it up like this: “When our bodies are in a wild space we are simply more at ease.” She’s been busy testing that idea by bringing…

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How to help your woman feel safe with Traver Boehm 28:43

5M ago28:43

28:43

This is a big topic and one that often gets overlooked or misunderstood by most men. And, here at UNcivilized we’re interested in supporting you in becoming unlike most men. Radically so. In this solo episode I give you four concrete ways you can shift your own ways to help everyone around you feel safer, especially any woman in your life. They’re …

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Raj Jana — Consciousness, EQ, and Entrepreneurship 1:00:04

5M ago1:00:04

1:00:04

Raj Jana is wears many hats. CEO of a tech company, teacher, speaker, podcast host, and seeker. Getting to sit down with him here in Boulder was an incredible experience as we dove into his journey from running a coffee startup to his now leading a team of entrepreneurs creating digital mapping of our emotional lives. This is a great episode if you…

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Top 5 — Bonner Rinn — The gift of the wound. 1:00:41

6M ago1:00:41

1:00:41

Bonner Rinn is an extraordinary man and he’s a man with Cerebral Palsy. But honestly that’s not what’s interesting about him. What is interesting is what he’s done with his life going from a home where his condition wasn’t able to be spoken about to running a world wide organization brining awareness and resources to kids with disabilities in devel…

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How do you find and live your purpose. A Nice Guy LIVE Coaching Call. 47:05

6M ago47:05

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If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who struggles with either finding or fully embodying your purpose — then this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his pattern of struggling with believing he’s worth doing what he really wants in the world. He’s a massage therapi…

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Creative Identity Crisis: Searching For The Joy in Art Again with Artist Bo Bramwell 1:45:56

6M ago1:45:56

1:45:56

In this heartfelt episode of the Shifting Perceptions Podcast, artist Bo Bramwell joins Jay Alders for a deep dive into the vulnerable side of being a creative. Known for his intricate, surreal pen-and-ink and digital art, Bo has collaborated with music legends like Sublime, Slightly Stoopid, and Atmosphere and exhibited alongside the visionary art…

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How to live the life you deserve with Sylvester McNutt III 44:53

6M ago44:53

44:53

In this episode I sit down with 10 time author Sylvester McNutt. Sly is a good friend and brother who I’ve known for years now. His new book is all about crafting the life you want to live and letting go of all the things that stand in your way. You’ll get to hear us dive into how he now has to organize his life since becoming a father, what he see…

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Nicky Clinch — To heal or not to heal 1:00:11

6M ago1:00:11

1:00:11

I met Nicky at a dinner in London two months ago and knew immediately I wanted to interview her. She runs a world wide company working with people at the deepest levels of their healing. Her work is life changing. And — her story is equally fascinating. Going from a drug addicted twenty year old to a business powerhouse, then having to rebuild her …

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Why do you struggle with your discipline? A Nice Guy LIVE Coaching Call. 46:38

7M ago46:38

46:38

If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who works in a service profession like coaching, teaching, or parenting — then this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his pattern of struggling with discipline when it come to doing the things that will benefit HIM. If it’s to …

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Top 5 — Carly Rae Beaudry — Women’s sexual health and why you need to understand it. 53:23

7M ago53:23

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I was told NOT to do this interview. Why? Because “no one cares about women’s sexual health.” Well…that wasn’t true, as this is the 3rd most listened to episode in the Uncivilized Podcast. Carly pulls no punches as she teaches you all you need to know about your woman, her cycle, and more. This is an episode every single man and every single woman …

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Ginger Kern: The devotion-based relationship. 56:44

7M ago56:44

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Ginger Kern teaches primarily women how to be in relationship in a new paradigm. One based on mutual respect, devotion, and truth. She also adds that this will be a “relationship without leaks.” Sounds intriguing doesn’t it? We dive into Ginger’s marriage, why it wasn’t the right fit for her and what has happened in her life and her partner’s life …

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Top 5 — Chris Bale — Undomesticate yourself as a man. 59:04

7M ago59:04

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Chris Bale is one of the most unique men I know. He’s a fellow acupuncturist, a men’s guide, and an energy worker like no other. In this episode we bring back one of the Top 5 most listened to episodes of the Uncivilized Podcast just for you — this is the first day I ever spoke with Chris. We’ve since become good friends and I know Chris well. His …

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Calling all procrastinators! A Nice Guy LIVE Coaching Call. 40:45

7M ago40:45

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If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who likes to put off hard tasks to the very last minute, then of course, beat yourself up for doing so — and not doing more in your life — then this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his pattern of not doing what he needs to in…

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