A fun and relatable podcast tailored for moms. Delving into the multifaceted journey of motherhood, the podcast navigates candid discussions on parenting, marriage, and the profound influence of faith in Jesus. Through engaging conversations, personal anecdotes, and expert insights, this podcast offers a supportive space where moms can connect, find solace, and rediscover their ’cool’ amidst the beautiful chaos of raising a family.
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On this episode, Xan and Hannah dive into potty training, peace-making and pushing back on the idea that motherhood is suffering. They chat about session two and three of the Sweeter than Honey bible study and remind us that Jesus is the answer and sometimes the old stories just hit different. Follow Us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/weusedtob…
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49: Deep Roots Make Strong Moms w/ Xan and Hannah
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34:08On this episode, Xan and Hannah kick off a special summer series based on the Bible study “Sweeter than Honey.” This week they share what they took away from session one specifically what it means to be a woman and a mom with roots planted in God’s word. Haven’t read the book? No worries! This episode is for everyone! Follow Us on Instagram: https:…
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On the season 4 finale, Xan and Hannah chit chat about things they are learning and loving lately. They talk scripture, Survivor, and the So What Theory. Tune in for an exciting announcement about a special summer series coming in June! Buy "Sweeter Than Honey" here: https://www.amazon.com/Sweeter-than-Honey-Bible-Enjoying/dp/B0D76R236B/ref=asc_df_…
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47: Parenting with Peace and Purpose w/ Hannah and Xan
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41:44On this episode, Hannah shares about her new outlook on parenting based on the book “The Flourishing Family” by Dr. David and Amanda Erickson. She reminds us that we are called to love our kids like Jesus does and we know he is gentle, kind and patient with us. She leaves us with a call to prioritize connection over correction. Every parent needs t…
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46: Hope in the Midst of OCD w/ Connor Keeter
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44:33On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with mental health counselor, Connor Keeter to discuss OCD, anxiety and intrusive thoughts. Connor helps us understand the signs of OCD, strategies for coping, and avenues for healing. She reminds us that there is a significant and important crossroads between Christianity and mental health counseling. Email…
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45: Rhythms, Resets and Becoming HER w/ Alexis Greco
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37:24On episode 45, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom, wife and business coach, Alexis Greco. As always, Alexis has so much great advice on managing our homes while also reaching our goals. She reminds us that we must prioritize purpose over performance and maintain a heart posture that is holy and resilient. Follow Alexis on Instagram: https://instagram…
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On this episode, Xan and Hannah travel to Charlotte to catch up with everyone’s best friend and favorite hairstylist, Marissa Hughes. As usual, her wisdom and spiritual insight during this conversation led us straight to church! We talk contentment, deception, and kitchen appliances. Follow on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to hit Follow/Sub…
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On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom and wife, Laurie Parks. She shares about her daughter’s battle with Leukemia, her relationship with her husband, and the way the Lord has continually shown up for her family. In her wisdom and grace, she reminds us that motherhood is full of little holy moments and a strong marriage just requires “w…
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42: Motherhood and Mental Health w/ Jordan Mitchener
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50:45On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom of two and licensed therapist, Jordan Mitchener. Jordan specializes in helping women through the perinatal period (conception through the first year after birth). She has so much valuable insight and wisdom especially when it comes to normalizing conversations about mental health for moms. Share thi…
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41: The 4th Trimester Mission w/ Alex Richardson
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37:46On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom of three, entrepreneur and the executive director of 4th Trimester Mission, Alex Richardson. She shares the inspiration behind her nonprofit and the realities that mom’s face in the first 3 months after birth. She gives some practical advice about self-care, communicating with our spouses and the st…
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40: You Were Made for This w/ Tabitha Cox
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53:52On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with Tabitha Cox, LCSW to talk about her role as a mom, wife, and therapist. She shares her testimony and the way God has continually worked in her life. She reminds us that we were made for these exact moments with these exact children. Follow on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow & subscribe o…
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39: A Day Late and a Dollar Short w/ Xan and Hannah
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20:52On this short episode, we share about our technical difficulties this week and how we can decide first thing in the morning how our day is going to turn out. Follow on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow & subscribe on your preferred streaming platform. Thanks for tuning in!By weusedtobecoolpodcast
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38: Praying over our Kids w/ Xan and Hannah
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30:25On this episode, Xan and Hannah share a practical way to pray for our kids. They discuss the importance of parenting from a posture of prayer and the way the Lord shows up when we ask him to work in our lives and in the lives of the people we love the most. Follow on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow & subscribe on your preferred stre…
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37: New Year, New Mercies w/ Xan and Hannah
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38:052025 is here and so is season 4! On the season premiere, Xan and Hannah chat about the holidays, their goals for the new year and they share some of your resolutions. Follow on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow & subscribe on your preferred streaming platform. Thanks for tuning in!By weusedtobecoolpodcast
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36: The Most Wonderful Time of Year Exclamation Point w/ Xan and Hannah
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40:38On the season finale, Xan and Hannah talk through their hopes for this Christmas season and their desire to stay present and joyful in the midst of the chaos. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!By weusedtobecoolpodcast
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On this episode, Xan and Hannah chat about what they’e been learning lately. Xan shares about her time at the Behold and Become retreat, and all that she learned about herself and her relationship with the Lord. They also chat about mom rage and how to manage our to-do lists to help manage our emotions. Share with someone who needs to be reminded h…
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34: Big Family, Big Feelings w/ Kathy Kalish
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57:50On episode 34, Xan and Hannah sit down with their lifelong friend and super mom Kathy Kalish to talk all things motherhood. Kathy shares about the importance of conscious parenting, self-reflection and meeting each of our kids’ individual needs as we raise them to be good humans. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe …
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33: Restoring Play-based Childhoods w/ Dana Laymon
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52:06On episode 33, Xan and Hannah sit down with their friend Dana Laymon to discuss Jonathan Haidt’s book “The Anxious Generation.” They talk about the dangers of smart phones and social media on our kids, and how we can use this book and other resources to restore a healthy, play-based childhood for our kids. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod B…
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32: Mom’s Health Matters w/ Dr. Rachel Neathery
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51:04On episode 32, Hannah and Xan sit down with physical therapist and pelvic floor specialist, Rachel Neathery, to discuss reclaiming pelvic health during and after pregnancy. She shares some easy ways to incorporate exercise into our daily lives and the importance of muscle mass, protein and mindfulness on our physical and mental health. Follow Rache…
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31: Ensuring Our Kids Feel Seen and Loved w/ Austin Blake Mays
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43:06On episode 31, Xan and Hannah sit down with their best friend and brother Austin Blake Mays to discuss sibling closeness and all the things their parents did right. We laugh and we cry, and you probably will too! Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!…
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On episode 30, Xan and Hannah catch up on life lately. Xan shares about Daisy’s birth day, her family’s transition from three to four and the postpartum ups and downs. As always, thanks for tuning in! Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!…
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29: That’s so good w/ Alicia Tucker
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1:02:33On episode 29, Xan and Hannah sit down with their sister from another mister Alicia Sutton Tucker to talk about homeschooling, mental health and the power of affirmation. Alicia shares what she has learned in parenting her four kids and what she wishes she knew when she first started her motherhood journey 16 years ago. There is something for every…
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28: Blind Faith and Prioritizing Family Closeness w/ Blake Mueses
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44:27Blake Mueses is back for episode 28 to tell us all about her family’s decision to spend time away for five months to lean into their faith and their family while having the adventure of a lifetime in Puerto Rico. She learned so much and shares how motherhood can be an adventure no matter where you find yourself. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool…
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27: The Fruit of the Spirit with Madeline Murphy
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54:31On this episode, Xan and Hannah sit down with rock star mom and author Madeline Murphy to discuss her new devotional “The Fruit of the Spirit” written just for moms. Madeline shares about the joys and struggles we all face as moms and the importance of prioritizing our relationships— first with the Lord and also with our kids. Buy her new book here…
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26: Long days, Short years w/ Xan and Hannah
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40:03On episode 26, Xan and Hannah catch up on everything since they left the “studio” in April. They share about entertaining three kids all summer long and the things that made them laugh (and cry) over the last 4 months. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!…
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On the season 3 premiere, Hannah shares about Fletcher’s unexpected hospital stay and Tilly’s birth. We cover the transition from 2 to 3 and what the Lord has been teaching Hannah throughout the last few months. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!…
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On the season two finale, Xan and Hannah both share about their pregnancies and their struggles during this season. They also share some tips and tricks for summertime with toddlers and what they are loving right now! See you next season! Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & tha…
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23: Dads Who Used to be Cool w/ Ethan and Jud
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52:02Episode 23 is one for the Dads. Xan and Hannah sit down with their husbands, Ethan and Jud, to chat about all things parenthood. They answer the tough questions, share what’s worked for them, and laugh a lot. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!…
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22: Parenting through 4 Decades w/ Dodd and Whitnee Mays
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58:36On episode 22, Xan and Hannah sit down with their favorite guests yet— their mom and dad! They talk about them on almost every episode, but finally you get to hear it straight from the source. Tune in to hear all about how they were raised and lessons Dodd and Whitnee have learned in 35 years of continual parenting. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobe…
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On episode 21, Hannah and Xan chat about where they’ve been and what they’ve learned over the last couple of weeks. They discuss the importance of positive parenting and managing our own emotions to model that for our kids. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning …
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On episode 20, Hannah and Xan breakdown registry dos and don’ts, and other advice for new and expecting moms. They chat about surviving the time change, being type B moms, and why being aesthetically pleasing isn’t a thing anymore. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for…
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On episode 19, Xan and Hannah sit down with online business coach, Alexis Greco. Alexis is passionate about coming alongside women and helping them find a rhythm between running their home and running their business. As a homeschool mom of 4 and a business owner, she has so many practical tips that every mom can apply today. We learned so much and …
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On episode 18, Hannah and Xan sit down to talk about what the Lord has been teaching them over the last few weeks. They discuss their own struggles and strongholds, and the importance of replacing the lies we tell ourselves with the truth. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & th…
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17: Practical Parenting Tips w/ Jane Brock
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58:52On episode 17, Hannah and Xan sit down with super mom of 5, Jane Brock, to discuss practical tips for raising kids. She gives discipline strategies, education advice and shares the importance of being encouraging, loving moms above all else. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & …
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On episode 16, Hannah and Xan sit down with twin mom Jennifer Pitman as she bravely shares about her traumatic birth experience, the tragic loss of her daughter in the NICU and how the experiences have shaped her as a person and as a mom. TW: infant loss Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streamin…
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On episode 15, Xan and Hannah sit down with one of our favorite moms, Becky Cook to talk about the value in showing up in our friendships as our authentic selves. Becky shares about the book she is writing, the flexibility motherhood requires, and the importance of enjoying each season because none of them last forever. Find us on Instagram @weused…
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14: Wild Kids, Calm Moms w/ Catherine Ward
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43:31On episode 14, Xan and Hannah sit down with fellow boy mom and podcast host, Catherine Ward, to discuss remaining calm in the chaos of raising kids. She shares how important it is to control our own emotions and enjoy the day-to-day. She also shares about her brand new podcast "To Be Loved" and the eternal value our stories hold. Follow Catherine @…
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On the season 2 premiere, Hannah and Xan reflect on the holidays, discuss their personal and parenting goals for the new year and talk about things they are looking forward to in 2024. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!…
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On the season 1 finale, Xan and Hannah answer some listener questions, breakdown toddler discipline and reflect back on the first season of We Used to be Cool. Thanks for listening and Merry Christmas! Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!…
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After 32 Christmas seasons together, Xan and Hannah have a lot to discuss. This week, they breakdown the pressure of the holidays, the enhanced mental load and they share some simple ideas to take away a little bit of the stress. The girls also think through and answer some thoughtful questions from several “friends of the pod”. Nativity Scenes Dec…
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TW: miscarriage and pregnancy loss On episode 10, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom, wife, business owner and fellow podcast host Kathryn Benko to discuss shameless living, breaking free from body shame, and holding onto hope in the face of devastating loss. Kathryn's Business & Podcast: Sole Fitness in Wilmington, NC: https://www.solefitness.org/ H…
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On episode 9, Hannah and Xan sit down with Natalie West to discuss single-parenting, the necessity of depending on the Lord, and modeling ministry and service to our kids. We also dive into the challenging but beautiful calling that is foster care. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming plat…
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08: Relationship-Minded Parenting w/ Serinda Moulton
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41:29On episode 8, Xan and Hannah sit down with mom of 7, Serinda Moulton, to discuss parenting with the relationship in mind. Serinda shares about how to make each of our kids feel loved and important and reminds us that it’s God’s kindness that leads us to repentance. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferr…
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07: Giving Our Kids the Gifts of Hope & Health w/ Christian Stallings
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1:03:57On episode 7, Hannah and Xan sit down with registered nurse, lactation consultant, and pregnancy health coach Christian Stallings to discuss developing healthy habits in ourselves and our kids. Christian dives into her relationship with the Lord and the joy in being refined through the journey that is motherhood. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecoo…
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06: Maintaining Healthy & Thriving Friendships in All Seasons of Life w/ Marissa Hughes
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42:49On episode 6, Xan and Hannah sit down with everyone’s bff Marissa Hughes to talk about creating and maintaining friendships that can thrive in any season and the importance of showing up when it really counts. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!…
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05: Raising Empowered, Inclusive, & Compassionate Kids w/ Lora Kates
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51:16On episode 5, Xan and Hannah sit down with twin mom and DIY queen Lora Kates to learn more about Spina Bifida, processing a diagnosis and supporting our kids as they navigate adversity. Lora shares about the importance of inclusion and raising our kids to be kind and compassionate. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscrib…
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04: Embracing & Enjoying the Chaos of Each Day w/ Emily Jennings
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1:05:29On episode 4, Hannah and Xan sit down with supermom Emily Jennings to discuss the joy that can be found in the chaos, the power in praying for our kids, and walking beside them as they discover their individual value and callings. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Follow Emily - @emjen2000 Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred stream…
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03: Modeling Our Faith in Meaningful Ways w/ Heather Colenda
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33:29On episode three, Hannah and Xan sit down with Heather Colenda to talk about modeling our faith to our kids through organic prayer and praise. Shoutout to helping our kids grow up knowing they are loved and whole because of who they are in Christ. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Song we have on repeat: https://open.spotify.com/track/2GGvmX…
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02: Intentional Parenting & Prioritizing Rest w/ Blake Mueses
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44:15On episode two, Hannah and Xan sit down with Blake Mueses to discuss the importance of intentional parenting, prioritizing rest, and what it takes to thrive in even the most challenging of parenting seasons. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in!…
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On this pilot episode of We Used to be Cool, Xan and Hannah sit down to discuss their hopes for the show, Alli Worthington's new book, & how the Olsen Twins informed their parenting. Find us on Instagram @weusedtobecool_pod Be sure to follow/subscribe on your preferred streaming platform & thanks for tuning in! ----------- Reference to Alli Worthin…
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