170. Unlocking Discipline, Consistency & Self-Control

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It's no secret that discipline, consistency, and self-control are important for realizing all that God made you for. However, knowing what to do and actually doing what you know are far different.
In this episode, we break down how to create discipline, urgency, consistency, and self-control in your life. We all have stories we are telling ourselves every day and those stories enable the best and worst parts of ourselves. Learning to identify those stories and where they came from is the beginning of changing them. We break down story and how they get into our minds as well as how to take hold of them.
We go into specific detail on changing the story and building discipline both spiritually and physically as well as self-control around anger. This is a powerful episode that will reveal a blind spot and help you break it down so you can build unstoppable discipline, consistency, and self-control.
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170. Unlocking Discipline, Consistency & Self-Control

The Impossible Life

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#Fitness #Mental Health #Garrett Unclebach & Nick Surface #Garrett Unclebach #Nick Surface #Society #Religion #Christianity #Philosophy #Mindset #Growth #Personal Development

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225. Why She Doesn’t Respect You (And How to Change That) 28:41

3 days ago28:41

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Let’s be real—if your wife doesn’t respect you, it’s not just frustrating… it’s devastating. But here’s the harder truth: it’s probably your fault. In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett pull no punches as they unpack why so many men struggle with respect in their marriage—and what it actually takes to earn it back. This isn’t about ego or dominance. It’s about becoming a man your wife can trust, honor, and follow. The good news? Respect is rebuildable—but only if you're ready to face the truth. 🔥 In This Episode: The #1 reason women lose respect for their husbands (hint: it’s not lack of income) Why your wife's trust and admiration are tied to your discipline and consistency How men subconsciously train their wives to either trust or dismiss them Why nice guys often finish last in marriage—and what biblical masculinity actually looks like The difference between control and leadership Why integrity > intensity when it comes to earning back respect 💬 Mic-Drop Quotes: “If you don’t respect yourself, why would she?” “Your wife is responding to the man you’ve trained her to believe you are.” “If your yes doesn’t mean yes, your leadership doesn’t mean anything.” “You don’t need her submission—you need to become worth following.” Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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224. Creation vs. Evolution - The Shaping of Belief With Bryan Osborne 1:05:15

6 days ago1:05:15

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In this mind-opening episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett sit down with Bryan Osborne, speaker and apologist with Answers in Genesis, to take aim at one of the most contested foundations in the Bible: Genesis 1–11. What you believe about the beginning of the world directly impacts how you understand truth, identity, morality, and the Gospel itself. Bryan walks through scientific, biblical, and philosophical evidence to challenge the assumptions of evolution and reaffirm the authority of God's Word—from the very first verse. If you’ve ever wondered how to defend your faith in today’s culture—or if you're ready to move beyond vague belief to convictional clarity—this is the episode to sharpen your edge. 🔥 What You'll Learn: Why creation is the foundation of the Gospel—and what’s at stake if it’s lost How evolution fails the test of logic, science, and internal consistency The truth about radiometric dating, fossils, and why the “missing links” are still missing How the scientific method exposes the flaws of Big Bang theory Why most people confuse operational science with historical science—and why it matters How Genesis 1–11 defines key doctrines like gender, life, marriage, and sin 📖 Key Takeaways: Worldview matters: Everyone interprets evidence through a lens. The question is—whose lens? All science is not the same: Observing a frog isn’t the same as explaining where frogs came from There is no neutrality: You’re either standing on God’s Word or man’s opinion Faith is not blind: Biblical faith aligns with reason, reality, and revelation Connect with Bryan and Answers in Genesis. Answers in Genesis YouTube Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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223. Unpopular Opinion - Division of Labor In The Home Isn’t Oppression—It’s Excellence 26:50

10 days ago26:50

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Modern culture says equality means splitting everything 50/50. But what if that’s not just inefficient—it’s actually unwise? In this unapologetic episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett tackle one of their most controversial convictions yet: A clearly defined division of labor in the home isn't outdated—it's divine. Rooted in experience, principle, and biblical design, this conversation will challenge how you think about roles, parenting, identity, and the way you build your family life. If you're tired of shallow slogans and want to raise strong kids with a Kingdom vision—this one is for you. 🔥 In This Episode: Why dividing labor reduces resentment and eliminates scorekeeping in marriage How the “default parent” concept can actually provide security—not inequality The difference between roles that oppress and roles that express love and honor Why excellence and calling, not preference or pressure, should determine responsibility The spiritual and emotional cost of outsourcing your children’s formation The lie that “more money” equals a better life—and what real wealth looks like 📖 Key Themes: Honor – How embracing roles actually honors God and each other Excellence – Why your wife is better at some things—and that’s not just OK, it’s strategic Vision – The prerequisite to executing any structure that works long-term Sacrifice – How both men and women are called to give up comfort for what matters most Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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222. The 6 Principles Running Your Life—Whether You Know It or Not 53:07

13 days ago53:07

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Principles aren’t suggestions—they’re forces. Just like gravity, they govern your outcomes whether you believe in them or not. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett revisit one of the most foundational topics to living a life of purpose, excellence, and spiritual clarity: PRINCIPLES. They break down six core principles that every man is already navigating—often unknowingly—and show you how to align with them so you can build a life that actually works. 🔥 In This Episode: What principles really are—and why most people confuse them with tactics The difference between knowledge and wisdom Why you need to stop asking “What should I do?” and start asking “What force is at work here?” Why principles govern patterns, not preferences How to diagnose what’s not working in your life by tracing it back to a misaligned principle 🧠 The 6 Universal Principles Covered: Honor – What you value most will determine what flows into your life Trust – All relationships and leadership rise and fall on it Excellence – It always pays, but often with delayed rewards Focus – Determines direction and fruitfulness Discipline – The bridge between desire and achievement Leadership – Influence built through character and consistency Listen to the original episode 40 on principles by clicking here. Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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221. How to Get Real Wisdom: What Solomon Missed and Most Men Still Don’t Understand 25:12

17 days ago25:12

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Wisdom isn’t just about making smart decisions—it’s about becoming the kind of man God can trust. In this hard-hitting episode of The Impossible Life, Garrett and Nick unpack what it truly means to grow in wisdom—not just intellectually, but spiritually, practically, and biblically. Prompted by a listener question, they go beyond the usual answers of “read Proverbs and pray,” diving deep into why wisdom without submission to God leads to ruin, how to spot counterfeit wisdom, and what separates godly wisdom from clever manipulation. 🔥 In This Episode: Why Solomon’s story is a warning, not just a model How to define wisdom as “God’s perspective for God’s purpose” The three pillars of godly wisdom: submission, source, and discernment How to filter worldly knowledge through biblical truth and the Holy Spirit The surprising ways God uses failure, fools, and frustration to grow your wisdom 📖 Key Scriptures: Proverbs 4:7 – “Wisdom is the principal thing…” James 3:17 – The fruit of heavenly wisdom Proverbs 9:10 – “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom” Ecclesiastes – Solomon’s crisis of meaning and misplaced success Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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220. Gender Confusion, Truth, and the Collapse of Culture: Dr. Alex McFarland on the Fight for the Next Generation 1:01:22

20 days ago1:01:22

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In this fire-filled episode of The Impossible Life, Nick Surface sits down with renowned apologist, evangelist, and cultural analyst Dr. Alex McFarland—a man who’s preached in all 50 states, written over 20 books, and led thousands to truth through bold biblical worldview teaching. They dive headfirst into the most pressing issues of our time—the attack on truth, gender confusion, biblical illiteracy, and the weakening of the modern Church—and how Christian men can be the leaders our generation so desperately needs. 🔥 What You’ll Hear: Why the Church in America is losing influence—and how to reclaim it How we ended up in a culture where truth is relative and identity is fluid The real roots of LGBTQ ideology, gender confusion, and Gen Z’s identity crisis Why most Christians don’t understand the full cost of the Gospel The call for men to love boldly, lead spiritually, and speak truth unapologetically Get in touch, see his books, and get all the information on Dr Alex McFarland by clicking here. Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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219. You Become What You Worship: Redefining Worship, Identity, and Daily Obedience 33:00

24 days ago33:00

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Worship isn’t just music—it’s what you serve, what you sacrifice for, and who (or what) shapes you. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life, Nick is joined by returning guest Josh Craft to explore a hard-hitting biblical truth: You become like what you worship. (Psalm 115:8) From ancient idols to modern obsessions, the conversation uncovers how men today are constantly worshiping—often without realizing it. And the sobering reality is: whatever you give your time, attention, and trust to is forming your identity. In This Episode: The law of first mention and what Genesis 22 teaches us about real worship How Abraham’s obedience redefined worship as trust, surrender, and sacrifice Why your work, choices, and attention are all acts of worship The danger of modern idols: success, status, comfort, insecurity The Hebrew and Greek words for worship—and how they reveal the heart of biblical manhood Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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218. The Book of Acts Isn't Over - How The Holy Spirit Still Moves Today With Gwyn Daniel 52:06

27 days ago52:06

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The Holy Spirit is the most misunderstood person of the trinity. Often, you will hear the Holy Spirit referred to as an it rather than a person and people question whether He still moves the way we read in Acts chapter 2. In this episode, we have on Gwny Daniel from Wales who has spent over 50 years as a Pastor, church planter, and man of God. Gwyn's relationship and fellowship with the Holy Spirit is his source of greatest joy and he shares about his experiences and answers some of the most common questions and misunderstandings people have about the Holy Spirit. If you want to have a freshness in your relationship with God, listen to this episode. It will stir your faith, hunger, and desire for God to work through the Holy Spirit in your life. Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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217. Don't Be Vulnerable With Your Wife - Mindset Level Up 22:20

4 weeks ago22:20

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In this bold and counter-cultural episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett dive into a hot-button belief that challenges modern thinking about marriage, masculinity, and leadership: "Don’t be vulnerable with your wife—be transparent." It’s a concept that might offend, but it’s built on biblical truth, emotional discipline, and hard-won wisdom. Garrett breaks down why vulnerability—defined as making yourself susceptible to emotional wounding—is not your wife’s burden to carry. Instead, God has called men to strength, spiritual leadership, and emotional maturity that protects, not projects. 🔥 In This Episode: The crucial difference between vulnerability and transparency Why your wife isn’t meant to carry your emotional pain—and who is How emotional dumping can weaken your leadership and your marriage Why modern therapy culture has confused roles in marriage Biblical examples of godly men who were vulnerable with God, not with their wives The epidemic of fatherlessness and emotional outsourcing How to process pain without quitting your post as a man, husband, and father Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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216. Chris Widener: Influence, Revival, and the Real Secret to Leadership that Lasts 1:03:26

5 weeks ago1:03:26

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In this episode of The Impossible Life, we sit down with one of the most prolific voices in personal development and motivation—Chris Widener. With over 2,500 speeches, 25 books, and mentorship under legends like Zig Ziglar, Jim Rohn, and John Maxwell, Chris brings decades of wisdom on how to live with purpose, lead with conviction, and influence the world through faith. You’ll hear Chris’ incredible story—from losing his father at age four, to being a ball boy for the Seattle SuperSonics, to becoming one of the top 50 motivational speakers in the world—and how God used every step to shape his calling and bring him to a focus on revival in the church. 🔥 What You'll Learn: How to merge faith with leadership in business and life The overlooked power of Proverbs as leadership principles What Zig Ziglar, Jim Rohn, and John Maxwell taught him behind the scenes The strategy behind “sneaky evangelism” in corporate settings Why humor is a spiritual weapon when used with truth How to reach men effectively and why that changes everything for families and nations Connect with Chris Widener by clicking here. Get Chris' books by clicking here. Follow Chris on Instagram by clicking here. Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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215. Process vs. Outcome: Why God Cares More About Your Discipline Than Your Results 36:16

5 weeks ago36:16

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In this thought-provoking episode of The Impossible Life, Nick Surface sits down with author, speaker, and modern-day philosopher Josh Craft to unpack one of the most misunderstood principles in both spiritual and personal growth: God’s way is built on process, not outcomes. From ancient philosophy to biblical wisdom, this episode explores why your success isn’t measured by what you achieve—but by how you live. Together, Nick and Josh reveal how the world trains us to chase goals, hacks, and results, but God trains us to walk in faithfulness, discipline, and virtue. 🔥 What You'll Learn: Why your life will rise or fall to the level of your systems, not your goals How to recognize God’s patterns and preparation in your own story The difference between means and ends, and why getting them backwards derails your destiny Why spiritual discipline is the foundation for lasting transformation How to shift from an “outcome mindset” to a process mindset that honors God Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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214. Three Deaths That Lead To Life, Purpose, & Strength 1:01:38

6 weeks ago1:01:38

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Most people fear death because they’ve never learned how to die daily. In this powerful episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett walk through the three deaths every believer must face—the death of the flesh, the death of faulty thinking, and the death of the heart. This is not about physical death. It’s about the daily dying that leads to true spiritual life, purpose, and strength. With real stories, raw truth, and biblical perspective, this conversation will challenge the way you approach comfort, emotion, control, and calling. Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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213. How to Get to the Root of Your Problems: Mastering Your Emotions and Mindset 22:36

6 weeks ago22:36

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Ever feel overwhelmed and you don’t know why? Or find yourself reacting way too strongly to something small—like a casual comment, a minor setback, or an unexpected bill? You're not broken. You're just not getting to the root of the problem. And today on The Impossible Life Shortcast, Nick Surface walks you through a powerful, repeatable process to identify, disarm, and reframe the emotions that keep sabotaging your peace, focus, and purpose. 🔎 In This Shortcast, You’ll Learn: Why your heart is a follower, not a leader—and what Jeremiah 17:9 says about trusting your emotions How to spot a disproportionate emotional response and what it reveals Why most of your problems aren’t about what happened—they’re about what you believe about what happened How to rewire your subconscious by asking better questions The critical importance of meditation, self-awareness, and emotional honesty The mindset shift that turns your setbacks into sentences, not chapters 💥 Key Quote: “Just because it feels real doesn’t mean it’s true. Your heart can lie to you—but God never will.” 🧠 Step-by-Step Framework to Get to the Root: Awareness – Notice when an emotion feels too big for the moment Name It – Be specific: mad, scared, overwhelmed, rejected, etc. Ask Why – Get honest. Your subconscious is always giving you clues. Challenge the Belief – What would have to be true for this emotion to make sense? Zoom Out – Decide: Is this a sentence or a chapter in your story? ✅ Real-Life Examples: When Nick blew it: Buying a car, receiving unsolicited advice, and letting emotion take over When Nick nailed it: A home repair disaster, rising stress, and choosing truth over reaction 🔑 Final Takeaway: Most men don’t need more strength. They need more strategy. The power to lead your emotions, reframe your thinking, and obey truth is already inside you—it just needs to be activated. So before you let stress write your next chapter, ask yourself: Is this really worth it—or is it just a sentence I need to edit and move on? 📖 Scripture Reference: Jeremiah 17:9-10 – “The heart is deceitful above all things... I the Lord search the heart and examine the mind...” Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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212. Three Ways to Kill Your Destiny: Avoid the Traps That Sabotage God’s Purpose for Your Life 54:12

7 weeks ago54:12

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You were made for purpose. You were designed for greatness. But not everyone fulfills their destiny—and it’s not because God fails. It’s because we do. In this no-holds-barred episode of The Impossible Life, Nick and Garrett unpack 3 ways men kill their destiny—often without even realizing it. Inspired by biblical examples, elite military discipline, and real-life failures, this episode is your guide to avoiding the spiritual traps that sabotage your future. 🔥 The 3 Destiny Killers: 1. Disobedience Obedience is not optional—it's the path to purpose. Small compromises today become big failures tomorrow. Garrett shares a SEAL training story that reveals why understanding the intent behind instruction matters just as much as following the words. 2. Comfort & Selfishness The lie of “you deserve this” can take you off course fast. Comfort shows up as logic: “When’s it going to be about me?” The moment you ask that question is the moment destiny begins to die. 3. Fear Destiny doesn’t happen by accident—it’s built through ownership. Fear of what others think of you will cause you to miss God's purpose for your life. Most people don't miss their calling from a lack of talent. They miss it from a lack of submission. Highlights & Insights: Why obedience always precedes revelation The difference between living with purpose vs chasing preference Why the “Blue Falcon” mindset kills not just you—but everyone around you How military obedience training mirrors spiritual growth Why Jesus’ final instruction—“teach them to obey everything”—matters more than eve 📖 Scriptures Referenced: Jeremiah 29:11 – “For I know the plans I have for you…” Psalm 138:8 – “The Lord will fulfill His purpose for me…” Genesis 12 & Hebrews 11 – Abraham’s obedience Matthew 28:20 – “Teach them to obey everything I have commanded you” Parable of the Talents – Obedience vs fear Level up your life with IDLife nutrition by clicking here. Level up your greatest asset with us in Mindset Mastery. How you think will change everything in your life. Click here to learn more.…

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211. How to Kill Complacency: Tools, Tactics, & The Power of Intentional Living 17:49

7 weeks ago17:49