How Your Senses Are Key to Better Communication with Your Spouse with Nicole Villegas

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Dr. Nicole Villegas, occupational therapist and founder of the Sensory Conscious Institute, explores how understanding nervous systems and sensory patterns helps build relationships rooted in safety, connection, and clarity.
• Beyond the five senses: interoception (internal feelings), vestibular (movement through space), and proprioception (body position awareness)
• Creating collaborative solutions versus compromises for different sensory preferences
• Using the Three C's: curiosity, compassion and consent in communication
• How unaddressed sensory needs lead to seemingly disproportionate reactions later
• The AHA method for regulation: Acknowledge, Honor, and take Action toward safety
• Signs your nervous system is dysregulated: racing heart, difficulty focusing, feeling "buzzy"
• Walking and talking as an effective strategy for difficult conversations
• Recognizing when your partner is overwhelmed through body language cues
• Using "I noticed..." statements instead of judgment when discussing sensory responses
• Learning to appreciate how sensory awareness creates opportunities for deeper connection
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Chapters

1. Introducing Dr. Nicole Villegas (00:00:00)

2. Beyond Five Senses: Interoception & Vestibular (00:01:38)

3. Becoming a Sensory Conscious Partner (00:03:36)

4. Sensory Preferences in Daily Life (00:05:40)

5. The Three C's: Curiosity, Compassion, Consent (00:11:38)

6. Managing Dysregulated Nervous Systems (00:14:33)

7. Recognizing & Responding to Sensory Cues (00:27:05)

8. Understanding Partners Through Sensory Awareness (00:41:15)