97. The Cost of Success: Why High-Performing Men Struggle at Home | Toni Versic

Dr Espen Podcast

“ The number one thing that will destroy a successful man's marriage is putting his business and career first.” -Toni

In this conversation, Dr Espen and Toni Versic explore the journey of empowered living for men, discussing the importance of emotional mastery, the balance of masculine and feminine energy, and the necessity of accountability and support in personal growth. They delve into the challenges faced by successful men in their relationships and the significance of creating a morning routine to set the tone for the day. The discussion emphasizes the need for clarity, commitment, and tools to achieve lasting change, while also preparing for hard times ahead. Ultimately, the conversation serves as a call to action for men to embrace their power and take charge of their lives.

About our guest:

Toni Versic is the powerhouse behind The Empowered Man—a 7-figure movement helping high-performing men win in life without losing their marriage, kids, or sanity.

Once a “business beast, relationship disaster,” Toni rebuilt from the inside out. Now, he helps driven men do the same—trading burnout and emotional shutdown for calm, connection, and true leadership.

Known for turning emotionally constipated men into grounded, present partners and fathers (no incense or drum circles required), Toni teaches men how to stop being the hero at work and the villain at home.

📲Find out more about Toni

Website: www.elitebusinessman.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toniempoweredman/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ToniEmpoweredMan

📲Find out more about Dr Espen

Website: https://drespen.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drespenwoldjensen

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_espen/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_espen

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💡Episode Highlights:

00:00:00 - Episode trailer

00:05:32 - Understanding Success and Failure at Home

00:08:18 - The Importance of Emotional Mastery

00:11:15 - The Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energy

00:17:12 - The Truth About Relationships and Priorities

00:23:49 - Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies

00:35:22 - Creating Lasting Change: The Three Pillars

00:42:57 - Mastering Control: Thoughts, Emotions, and Actions

00:46:21 - Understanding Emotional Constipation in Men

00:52:31 - Living in the Present: The Importance of Awareness

00:56:21 - Hard Times and Strong Men: The Cycle of Resilience

01:04:07 - Preparing for Hard Times: The Warrior Mindset

01:10:48 - The Empowered Man Method: From A to B

01:17:32 - The Empowered Man App: Tools for Transformation