#40: Is It Possible to be with Your Ex and Not Ruin the Party?

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We all dream. Every night. Whether we remember them or not. And maybe — just maybe — those dreams aren’t random, ridiculous, or irrelevant. Maybe they’re trying to tell us something we’re too distracted, too busy, or too burned out to hear while we’re awake. Here to help us decode the language of dreams is Dr. Bonnie Buckner — founder of the International Institute for Dreaming and Imagery®, executive coach, faculty director at GWU’s Center for Excellence in Public Leadership, and author of The Secret Mind: Unlock the Power of Your Dreams to Transform Your Life . She’s spent her career teaching people how to use dreaming and imagery for personal growth, leadership, and creative breakthroughs . We explore: Why your dreams are worth paying attention to (even the weird ones) The science and strategy behind using dreams for personal development How feelings and subconscious wisdom can point to answers What to do if you don’t remember your dreams Why slowing down might be the key to speeding up your clarity Because what if the clarity you're chasing isn't out there — it's already in you, waiting for you to slow down, shut off, and tune in? Connect with Bonnie: Website: https://bonniebuckner.com/ Book: https://bonniebuckner.com/the-secret-mind/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/dreamwithiidi/ Related Podcast Episodes: How To Rewire Patterns That No Longer Serve You with Judy Wilkins-Smith | 323 The Icelandic Art of Intuition with Hrund Gunnsteinsdóttir | 307 The Astrology Advantage with Tali Edut of The AstroTwins | 301 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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No joke, does this idea seem like a pipe dream? Like chasing down a unicorn? How can it be, if you (and your ex) both want "what's best for the kids?" Holidays, graduations, weddings, funerals ... these are all times that you will most likely be around your ex again. And these are all times, that your kids and family will be embarrassed and feel awkward ... if you don't get COMMITTED to actually doing and being what's best for your kids, instead of just setting a goal to do it. There's a BIG DIFFERENCE between Commitment energy and Goal-seeking energy. In this episode, begin to figure out where you're really at, before it's too late.

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#40: Is It Possible to be with Your Ex and Not Ruin the Party?

Divorce With Heart and Conscious Co-Parenting

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published 6 years ago

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Stay connected, ask questions, and share stories: in the Divorce With Heart Facebook Group. Follow Gina on Instagram @ginamariedeprima

54 episodes

#Divorce #Divorcecoach #Familylaw #Healing #Jointcustody #Legalcustody #Parenting #Relationship #Separation #Self-Improvement #Fitness #Gina Deprima #InFlowRadio.com | Gina Marie DePrima #Coaching

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#46: Holiday Health and Weight Loss 53:47

6 years ago53:47

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Join Gina and her special guest, Dr. David Rendelstein, leading wellness and weight loss expert, for a frank talk about maintaining physical health during difficult times and why NOW is the time to take control of your health. Dr. Rendelstein is a living testimonial for weight loss, even during difficult times. He lost 100 lbs. in 6 months and now helps his client's do the same. Special giveaway: Take the ThinTest to discover your barriers to losing weight and keeping it off...www.thintest.com Help change the paradigm of divorce and spread peace to more families. SUBSCRIBE, RATE/REVIEW, SHARE with a friend. GET IN TOUCH: ***www.DePrimalaw.com for legal/mediation consultation ***www.doorwaytoheal.com for coaching and mentoring support ***Facebook Group: Divorce with Heart…

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#45: Why Settle? 21:11

6 years ago21:11

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WOW! This episode is powerful. Join Gina as she breaks down some top reasons WHY you should settle (or at least seriously consider it). She speaks with tenacity, compassion and love for her listeners and from a place of raw beautiful honesty to help protect their futures. A definitely "must listen" for anyone going through a legal process.…

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#44: How To Quickly Shift Your Mind and Heart 33:11

6 years ago33:11

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8 months ago, she was getting married... She was a stay at home mom of a beautiful little boy...life at home was good, going along as planned. 3 Months ago, life changed. She was out on the street, no money, no job, no fiance, and about to embark on a "battle" for custody. The break up was like getting hit with a Mack Truck. But she didn't stay down! she got up stronger than ever; She dropped the sword and started a new fight: a fight for peace. On today's episode hear all about how she did, what it was like, and how she feels now, as I interview Ashley, from California.…

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#43: Why you need to "Check Your Bags" at the door, if you want more peace in your life 25:31

6 years ago25:31

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Did you know your thoughts and feelings are transmitted in your conversations and through your interactions, even when you're not aware of them. That's right. When we interact, we not only convey and transmit intended information and ideas, we also convey and transmit subtle information that we may not even be aware of. It's your vibe. Your vibe that emanates from your heart carries with it encoded information about your overall thoughts, feelings, and state of being. So if you think angry thoughts all day, and feel guarded or defensive, your vibe will transmit that to whoever you are interacting with. Tune in to explore some ways to mind your energy, Check your Bags and shift into what you really want your vibe to be. For support with techniques and to practice elevating your vibe, join the membership portal at www.divorce intelligence.com. To dive deeper and change your experience, heal your heart, and breakaway from damaging relationship patterns, go to www.doorwaytoheal.com to talk with Gina about personal coaching support.…

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#42: Communication Tips for Back to School 33:26

6 years ago33:26

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Access schedules, sports, instruments, homework, activities, vaccinations even.... all these things come to mind when I think about communication and back to school. What do you do when your communication is strained? What do you do when you can't talk to your Ex or STBX? How do you navigate all that needs to be done to protect and promote your children's best interests? Gina dives in to explore communication tips and tricks to help you stop fighting and start peacemaking and problem solving, instead. There's always room to add more heart and to learn how to communicate coherently. Find out in this episode. For more tools and support from Gina, join the membership portal at www.divorce intelligence.com; or for private coaching book a call at www.doorwaytoheal.com.…

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SPECIAL GUEST EPISODE: UNLOCKING HEART WISDOM 56:01

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#41: Are You a Reactor or a Responder? 30:10

6 years ago30:10

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If you're like most people in the midst of a breakup, it can feel like your world has been turned upside down. It can feel like your guts have been ripped out of you. It can feel like you have no sense of control and like you're just spinning further and further out of control. Good news ... first, you're not alone. Second, none of that is true. The truth is that you do have power to change things, and you do have power to feel in control and secure again. Today we'll explore an essential ingredient to your success: learning to become a responder instead of a reactor. Ask questions and share stories in the Facebook group: Divorce with Heart. Follow Gina on Instagram @ginamariedeprima…

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#40: Is It Possible to be with Your Ex and Not Ruin the Party? 35:35

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#39: Communication with the Players and Your Ex 33:16

6 years ago33:16

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The legal system can seem unfair especially when you don't understand what's going on. Effective communication with your lawyer can make all the difference. This week Gina continues to explore communication with the other attorneys as well as your own, so you don't make the same mistakes that so many people do. And if you find yourself having to sit through mediation or co-parenting sessions with your ex, don't worry, Gina explores communication tips for that too. To stay in the loop: * join the Facebook Group- Divorce With Heart * Get your FREE guide to Healing through Divorce or Choosing the right Lawyer, by subscribing to the email list at www.deprimalaw.com. * Get more tools and strategies to help you experience a better breakup at www.divorceintelligence.com membership portal…

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#38: Communicating for Success with Attorney for Child, Guardian Ad Litem, Attorney Ad Litem, Custodial Evaluators 30:00

6 years ago30:00

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If you're going through a divorce with kids or in court fighting for custody and other parental rights, then you don't want to miss this week's show. Learn the difference between a law guardian, an attorney for the child, a guardian ad litem and a custodial evaluator and discover what you should do when communicating with other players, and how to prepare your kids for what's to come. To stay in the loop: * join the Facebook Group- Divorce With Heart * Get your FREE guide to Healing through Divorce or Choosing the right Lawyer, by subscribing to email list at www.deprimalaw.com. * Get more tools and strategies for a better break up experience at www.divorceintelligence.com membership portal.…

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#36: Listener Q & A and Making Space for What's New 30:32

7 years ago30:32

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Divorce is a life transformation. Your life is changing and will change no matter how you feel about the situation. It's inevitable. Before you can call in and create a better version of your life, of your family--after divorce, you have to make space for something new to appear and grow. In this episode, Gina explores some helpful detox and space clearing tips to help you wash away the old and make space for your new life. Also enjoy answers to listener questions recieved in January through the Divorce With Heart facebook group. Grab your FREE GUIDE to Winning the Emotional Battle of Divorce => https://bit.ly/2yubNhj *Please leave a REVIEW in ITUNES if you enjoy the show. 1 reviewer will be randomly selected per month and gifted with one month of free access to Divorce Intelligence™ (basic training) For help and support on a more personal level, book a call with Gina at www.doorwaytoheal.com…

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#35: My Teen Doesn't Have To See His Dad If He Doesn't Want To ... Or Does He? 31:54

7 years ago31:54

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You've worked hard at crafting a parenting schedule, maybe you've even been following it for a while now and there haven't been any issues. And then it happens....your teen flexes their independance, and tells you that they don't have to go anymore...that they don't have to follow the schedule. What do you do? What do you do, if you are the parent being rejected? What shouldn't you do because it almost always makes it worse? Get answers to these questions and better handle the situtation with Gina's guidance in today's episode. Grab your FREE GUIDE to Winning the Emotional Battle of Divorce => https://bit.ly/2yubNhj *Please leave a REVIEW in ITUNES if you enjoy the show. 1 reviewer will be randomly selected per month and gifted with one month of free access to Divorce Intelligence™ (basic training) For help and support on a more personal level, book a call with Gina at www.doorwaytoheal.com…

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#34: You Want to Stop Fighting? Create a Vision of Peace 40:24

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Visions control everything. It's your vision that makes or breaks your future and your daily decisions that make or break your vision. Creating the right vision for the future can serve as a roadmap. It can provide context for how you live life, where you operate from, and how you make informed decisions and judge your success. In this episode, Gina guides you through the process of taking personal stock and creating a vision for yourself. It's been said that divorce is not the end, it's a new beginning; a chance to start over and begin again, to create a life full of intention and purpose. In this episode gina helps you clear out the old, so you can be more renewed. Join Gina as she explores the important topic of VISION. Sign up for the Divorce with Heart email list here: https://bit.ly/2yubNhj…

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#33: What's Broken Needs Healing to Feel Better 34:30

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Healing is a choice! A broken heart produces feelings of hurt, anger, frustration, sadness, stress, jealousy, resentment and a whole lot more. So, you a have choice. Do you let it be? Knowing it will only fester and get worse? Or do you choose to TAKE ACTION and HEAL!? Choosing to heal is choosing to envision a better self, a better life, and a better future for yourself. Choosing healing means you can create a healthier divorce experience, and a healthier, happier life for you and everyone else involved. In this episode, Gina guides listeners on what it means to choose healing and what simple steps you can take right now to begin the healing process and start living your vision for a whole and happy life. Join the Email List at https://bit.ly/2yubNhj…

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#32: Growing Through Gratitude Part 2 (The Step Parent) 30:58

7 years ago30:58

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Are you feeling angry and frustrated with your ex's new significant other? Is it bringing out the worst in you? Don't worry, that's normal! But it's not healthy or beneficial for anyone involved! In this episode, Gina expands on the topic of Growing Through Gratitude, this time confronting the step parent issue! You won't want to miss this episode! Gina explores the frustration and anger directed at the new stepmom or "girlfriend," how to move past the pain and into gratitude! This episode also features a listener Q&A and energy reading! Join Gina and learn how to grow through gratitude and be the bigger person!…

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#31: Growing Through Gratitude During Heartbreak 28:31

7 years ago28:31

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YOU JUST WANT PEACE & HAPPINESS! BUT YOU'RE SO ANGRY! In order to reach the point of peace & happiness, you need to forgive. BUT IT'S SO HARD!!! So how can you overcome those negative feelings and start down the path to forgiveness? GRATITUDE. Gratitude is essential to peace and happiness and future life. Your future depends on the choices you make today. Gratitude can help you heal the emotions that left unchecked cause you to say or do things that you wish you could take back. Gratitude can change your life! In this episode, Gina is covering gratitude! How to get it, create it, and grow it!…

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#30: Overcome Anxiety and Announce Your Divorce With Peace and Confidence 25:15

7 years ago25:15

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Consumed with anxiety about telling your friends and family about your divorce? Confused about when and how to tell them? Worried about their reactions? It's normal. But it's not necessary. In this episode, Gina shares tips for knowing when the time is right, deciding what to say, how much information to divulge, and how to help others understand how they can best support you during this turbulent time of transition. Join Gina as she shows you how to conquer your anxiety, manage those difficult conversations, and put the focus back on the future! YOUR FABULOUS FUTURE!…

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#29: Falling In Love With Fear, To Become Fearless 28:17

7 years ago28:17

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You know what's at the bottom of irrational decisions, senseless illogical decisions!? IT'S FEAR! It’s got you so worried, that you can't think straight. You're out of your mind crazy. Unable to sleep. Unable to eat. Unable to relax. Even breathe.You feel nuts. Like life is spinning out of control and like you're about to lose it at every turn.That’s the feeling of fear. And when you feel like that, you don’t listen. You don’t hear things around you. You don’t hear good advice and direction and sensibility. You hear only your own voice. The voice of irrationality. IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY! You CAN begin to trust again! You CAN regain your center of control! You CAN have peace in your life again! In this episode, Gina is talking about how to fall in love with FEAR to become FEARLESS! She’ll give you solid tips for conquering your fears and learning to use them to your advantage so you can regain control of your life and stop letting your divorce be your master.…

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GET OUT OF YOUR CHILD'S WAY (replay) 13:47

7 years ago13:47

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In this episode, divorcing parents can learn to untangle the emotions that keep them from reaching a fair agreement over the custody/parenting schedule.

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#27: Are You the World's Greatest...? 56:01

7 years ago56:01

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Come on we've all seen them, the World's Greatest Mom, or the World's Greatest Dad awards. And yes, of course, we all think we are the greatest, right? Maybe we've even received a mug or two. But are we really? Are we really our child's greatest cheerleader? This week we explore more about what coaches wish you knew, and the interplay of your kids' activities and your co-parenting schedule.…

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#26: Parenting Technology Zombies (Your Kids) from Two Different Homes 46:56

7 years ago46:56

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Are you raising kids glued to Fortnite, Rocket League, Minecraft, Snapchat, Instagram? I think we all are. Girls don't put their phones down and boys are stuck on the PlayStation. Right? Now throw in the mix of co-parenting. ARGH. Today Gina is joined by licensed therapist and tween/teen specialist Cheryl A. Kosmerl for a frank talk on keeping your kids safe in this day and age and other tips for co-parenting technology zombies from two homes.…

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#25: The Answer Show 54:01

7 years ago54:01

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The Answer Show. What's troubling you? Listen as Gina answers some listeners' questions and meet Joe Vegas, a featured Rock Star of Divorce. He has some really great tips and insight to share for all you dads out there going through divorce and wanting custody of your kids.

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#24: Dealing With the Absent Parent 54:01

7 years ago54:01

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Who does he think he is? He hasn't been around in years and now all of sudden I'm supposed to wait on him? Be flexible and accommodating to his schedule? Encourage the kids to see him, when they're angry or just don't care ... and for good reason. Sorry gentlemen, but in my experience I have yet to have a case with a mother absenting her kids and then using the courts to enforce her rights. Why is that? Moms can be absent too, but I've only seen dads not wanting to give up and threaten use of the courts.…

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#23: From Stay-at-Home Mom to Career Woman? How to Make It Happen with Ease 56:01

7 years ago56:01

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Today Gina is joined by career coach Lorraine Rise of WorkSmart Career Counseling. They will discuss how to make a seamless transition from stay-at-home mom to career woman. They will share their stories and take callers live on air. GUEST NAME: Lorraine Rise GUEST BIO: Career coach and founder of WorkSmart Career Counseling GUEST URL: https://www.worksmartcounseling.com/…

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#22: Time to Hit Stop on Relationship Replay 56:01

7 years ago56:01

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Ever wonder why your ex/soon-to-be-ex and past lovers seem so different but yet so similar? How interesting that you were promised the sun, the moon and stars, by both, only to be left empty and shattered with the realization that they all promised one thing, seemed to act one way, and then just ... poof ... flipped the switch and left. Or why is it that you find yourself attracted to people with substance or communication and intimacy issues? How can you move on and stop finding the same mate, and stop replaying the same relationship? Find something new, by attracting something new ... learn how in today's episode.…

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#21: What Your Kid's Teachers, Coaches, and Friends' Parents Want You to Know, But Don't Want To Tell You 55:01

7 years ago55:01

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Nobody wants to screw up their kids by breaking up their marriage...but the reality is that it can happen and it does happen. Subtle gestures, hints, and comments made in front of kids are often to blame. Today we will explore some examples in perfect timing for the newness of Fall and back to school. So you can start this year off right.…

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#20: Ten or So Things Your Lawyer Isn't Telling You, That Could Save You Time and Money 56:01

7 years ago56:01

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Divorce, separation, child custody—it's all very expensive if you're relying on judges and lawyers to solve the problem for you. You want out, you want to be amicable, but somewhere down the line, things spin out of control, and your "amicable" divorce becomes a battle for the win. What happens? What can you do about it? What do you need to know and aren't being told?…

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#19: Stop Feeling Angry, Hurt and Pissed Off and Live Happier After Divorce 56:01

7 years ago56:01

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Join Gina in today's episode to find out how you can create less emotional baggage for your future and lighten your load. It really comes down to two things: don't meet anger with anger and paint the picture of a smile. We all have choices. Stop carrying the burden of your feelings, and choose to feel something different. Feelings are meant to be a choice and a signal, NOT your cross to bear.…

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#14: Divorce Intelligence 56:01

7 years ago56:01

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Join Gina as she discusses her Divorce Intelligence program, a service designed to assist people going through a divorce by providing the necessary legal help alongside a host of other emotional services designed to help divorcing couples resolve conflicts more easily and align their goals to make the process easier. Divorce Intelligence is designed to reduce stress, reach resolution faster, give individuals the chance to make their own decisions and help couples find a peaceful conclusion to their marriage.…

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#18: Love Yourself So Others Will Learn to Love You Right 42:01

7 years ago42:01