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Hey hey, it's Jay & A are Gay. We are 2 Good Judy's in New York City who are hopping on a mic to talk, life, theatre, sex, dating, politics, and whatever else comes to mind. Join us with your coffee, cocktail, commute or so much gay white noise in the background. Life is about choice. Love Jay & A xox
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We are a happily married lesbian couple who LOVE playing with sexy ladies. So how did we go from ”We’ll never, ever have a threesome” to ”How did we get involved in a girl pile orgy last night”? It definitely required some involved conversations! There are very few exclusively lesbian couples in the Lifestyle so we present our swinging journey from a different and unique perspective. We don’t take ourselves too seriously, you shouldn’t either. Come along for the ride, it’s bound to be sexy!
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Call Her Daddy, but for the Gays 🌈. LGBTQ+ topics that matter to our community - from coming out to exploring our sexuality. Straight allies are welcome too! Get ready, because this show has no boundaries. With Bianca behind the mic, you're in for a treat. Get ready to laugh, learn, and maybe (hopefully) even blush a little. Welcome TF to Dear Bianca. Season 2 - LIVE NOW
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Two queer immigrants discuss ethical non-monogamy, queerness, immigrant child guilt, sex, and life in general. Originally college roommates that hated each others guts, cohosts Aleks Midnight + Shay Luna transitioned from enemies to lovers 10 years later - after realizing they had both stumbled into the worlds of polyamory, kink, and queer identity. This podcast delves into personal experiences of a range of guests of different races, sexualities, genders, relationship styles, abilities, and ...
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This episode means so to me. But before you hit play, do yourself a favor—grab a box of tissues, because I cannot keep it together. Today, February 21st, is my best friend Shannon’s birthday. She should be here celebrating, but instead, I’m honoring her memory. Shannon passed away at just 28 years old due to alcohol addiction, which led to acute ki…
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How to Handle Friendship Changes in Your 30s
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14:36Hi lovers! Friendships in your 30s are definitely a whole vibe—some stick, some fade, and some just look totally different. In this episode, I’m chatting about why friendships change as you grow and how to navigate those shifts without losing your mind (or your squad). Plus, I’ll mention that I’m getting yoga certified—because let’s be real, a litt…
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Queer, Thriving, and The Struggles of Finding a Therapist in 2025
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23:15Happy New Year, babes! We’re kicking off 2025 with a little self-love because what’s a new year without some fresh goals, a little therapy chat, and of course, queer vibes all around? In this episode, I’m diving into the wild world of therapist hunting (trust me, it’s a journey), what I look for in a therapist and why insurance makes it feel like w…
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Ep. 69 - Swinging and Self-Care: Why We Ghosted the Mic in 2024
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32:07After a year-long podcast hiatus, Tiff and Rachel are back! In this episode, we dive into where the heck we have been the last year. Tiff opens up about mental health struggles and how ketamine treatments have been a game-changer. Rachel offers perspective as a supportive partner and how they’ve navigated this challenging year together. We are so h…
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The Straight Guy Shuffle: When They Find Out I'm Gay
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19:02Ever noticed how the vibe can suddenly shift when a guy finds out you're gay? On this episode of Dear Bianca, I'm diving deep into the "Straight Guy Shuffle" – that awkward dance they do when their initial interest takes an unexpected turn. From the subtle cues to the more obvious changes, I'm sharing my candid observations on how some men react wh…
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🎥 First Video Episode Alert! (Apologies for the focus issues on this one—I promise, we're getting it together!) ANYWAY - let's get the fuck into it: "The egg donor is a lesbian. I am a lesbian. They're gay. And the first woman that I slept with in that threesome...she's delivering the baby." | Lindsay Perrin returns to the show! Since her last appe…
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Love, Lessons & Red Flags: Sedona Prince Scandal + Season 2 Premiere
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25:14"This is a new light, a new energy, a new chapter" | Bianca is back bitches, and Season 2 of Dear Bianca is about to take you on another wild ride! In this premiere, Bianca dives into the jaw-dropping scandal involving college basketball player Sedona Prince and her tangled mess of exes, flings, and everyone in between. Alex Cooper’s new SiriusXM d…
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Episode 17: Cohosting with Podcast God
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1:15:01In today's episode, listeners get a VERY special treat... Podcast God is officially cohosting with Aleks for today! THE ONE WHERE... Podcast God now has a new partner and Aleks discusses their grievances... also, because they are both ADHD, chaos ensues and random other topics get pulled into the conversation. Be aware... TRIGGER WARNINGS: childhoo…
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The one where we discuss sugar daddies, Aleks and Lily's final break up revelations, and polyamory resources and advice. This is part 4 (the final episode) of the Lily and Matt interview series.By Aleks Midnight & Shay Luna
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In part 3 of this four-parter interview series, cohosts Aleks and Shay discuss attachment styles, Aleks' bad dating choices, Lily and Matt's academic readings on polyamory and love, and Podcast God gets roasted. Tune in next week for the LAST and final part of the Lily and Matt Interview: Part 4.By Aleks Midnight & Shay Luna
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Episode 14: Meet the Ex - Part 2 - Polyam Hot Takes
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1:03:37In Part 2 of the Lily (& Matt) Saga, cohosts Aleks and Shay do a deeper dive into Lily and Aleks' break up, the evils of relationship hierarchy, and the guests' hot takes on a few polyamory topics in a spicy speed round at the end. Aleks also reveals some personal truths when it comes to gender identity and less than ideal therapists. Spiciest and …
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In Episode 13, we hear part 1 of the Lily (& Matt) Saga - in which Aleks chats with their ex-partner Lily Kerrigan about the breakup, Shay learns what it means to be Jew(ish), and Matthew Marcus ...is there. We also cover some more serious topics, so trigger warning for: domestic violence, depression, and general kinky debauchery. Check out part 2 …
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Episode 12: Catholic Goths & Basement Kinks
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1:00:28In this episode, we interview the tall, goth, fascinating Raven - host of the podcast Raven After Dark. We cover everything from abortion rights and losing our virginity to Catholic school, strippers, basement kinks, and dating as a tall girl.By Aleks Midnight & Shay Luna
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In the first episode of 2024, cohosts Aleks and Shay discuss why Aleks took a big step back to rest and reset this past couple of months. Yes, we have been MIA... but now we are BACK! We talk about health issues, how they impact dating, disability and chronic illness, and - we do it all while sick (sorry about the sniffles). Thanks for listening!…
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Living with an Ex - Lesbian Edition. "How the fuck is everybody doing?" - Join me on a whirlwind emotional journey in this short, but special episode. Living through the aftermath of a breakup while sharing space with your ex can be tumultuous, but here I am diving deep into my feelings, giving you an intimate peek into where my soul is at. I bare …
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After 10 years in Lifestyle, we chat about our origin approach, how things have evolved and share lots of memories. We hope you enjoy this recap and maybe even hear something new! sapphicswingers.blogspot.com https://www.casualtoys.com/ (15% discount code: FSU)By Sapphic Swingers
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Episode 9: Lesbians, Porn & Open Mics
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1:02:48In Part 1 of our guest episode interviewing Maya Wiseman, we learn about her coming out story, her community queer events around Atlanta, and what polyamory means to a queer woman. Check out Episode 10 for Part 2 of this interview.By Aleks Midnight & Shay Luna
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Episode 10: A "Wise Man" Once Said (The Gay Version)
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51:43In Part 2 of the Maya Wiseman interview, cohosts Shay and Aleks learn about building BIPOC queer communities. Maya is a leader in the Atlanta queer scene, creating safe spaces for families, sober individuals, and even straight-passing queers looking to connect and network. Check out Episode 9 for Part 1 of this interview. TRIGGER WARNING for discus…
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Have you ever wanted a quick and easy way to GRADE your relationship compatibility? In episode 8, Shay and Aleks discuss their 5-point dating criteria scale and rate their exes, their current partners, and... their OWN relationship as enemies turned to lovers!By Aleks Midnight & Shay Luna
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Is marriage with kids doable with polyamory? Did Aleks get an STD? Most importantly, do hot dads exist? Find out in episode 7! Our well read guest, Steve, talks about his long term polyamory journey with his wife, coming to terms with his Honduran culture and his relationship preferences, and... his STI scare with our very own cohost, Aleks - and y…
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In this installment of Enemies2Lovers, Aleks and Shay discuss all the drama in their dating lives - from recent breakups to polyamory realizations, episode 6 is action-packed and sure to keep you crying laughing... or maybe just laughing to keep from crying.By Aleks Midnight & Shay Luna
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Lauren Sanderson: The Rise of a Queer Icon
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45:32"I feel like I've lived a million lives and this is my last life to just do it all" | In this episode, we get up close and personal with sensational queer singer/songwriter, Lauren Sanderson as she takes us behind the scenes of her electrifying tour, the 'IDC AT ALL Tour'. Hailing from the Midwest, now capturing hearts worldwide with her music jour…
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In Part 2 of Alec and Marcella's guest appearance, the monogamous couple ends up in the HOT SEAT! The cohosts grill our guests about their hyper religious upbringing, breaking the 7th Day Adventist / Christian bubble, and if they will consider polyamory in their future. Stick around til the end for some ridiculous bloopers.…
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Episode 4: We Shocked a Monogamous Couple
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1:10:08A monogamous couple that grew up with highly religious backgrounds - Alec and Marcella - dive into the truths about polyamory and open relationships. Aleks and Shay bare all, answering questions from deep... to spicy! This episode is part 1 of the 2-part Alec + Marcella interview. Part 2 delves deeper into the couple's story of growing up 7th Day A…
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Ep. 67 - A whole new life, a whole new Lifestyle
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35:09After one year in Colorado, we sit down to chat about the differences between swinging here versus Florida. We discuss the LS club, Scarlet Ranch, attend a Kasidie Girls Uncorked party, and meet some awesome, welcoming locals. http://sapphicswingers.blogspot.com http://scarletranch.comBy Sapphic Swingers
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Episode 3: Polyamory Origin Stories - Shay
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32:47How does a shy immigrant kid end up in the kink and polyamory worlds? Listen to this episode to hear Shay's story of finding ethical non-monogamy, followed by a SPEED ROUND of Aleks and Shay asking each other audience-submitted polyamory-related questions.By Aleks Midnight & Shay Luna
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Episode 2: Polyamory Origin Stories - Aleks
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33:05How does a monogamous 12-year high school sweetheart relationship TURN INTO dating and hookups? Listen to Aleks recount the tale of cheaters past, relationships present, and Podcast God's takes on polyamory. Tune into Episode 3 after this to hear Shay's side of the polyamory journey.By Aleks Midnight & Shay Luna
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Jet-Setting with Pride: LGBTQ Travel with @OnAirplaneMode__
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1:00:30"To us, traveling is about learning someone else's culture, not imposing ours on them" | We're BACK in the Dear Bianca studio - fuck, I missed you all. Kirstie and Christine, the dynamic duo behind @OnAirplaneMode__ take us on a journey through their extraordinary world of LGBTQ travel influencing. Listen to how they transformed their passion into …
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In this introductory episode, co-hosts Aleks Midnight and Shay Luna explore the story of how they went from college roommates and sworn enemies to present-day lovers and friends. A decade after parting ways, they bonded over polyamory, kink, & bisexuality, had a steamy college reunion, and then... started a podcast. Listen to this episode to learn …
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"With straight women, there's no committment" | We have a very special guest joining us on the show - Sara, my childhood friend and the only lesbian friend from my hometown. We go way back to our travel softball days when we were kids. Sara and I take a trip down memory lane as we recall the moment we realized we were attracted to women. It's fasci…
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Mind Games In A Relationship + Q&A with Bianca
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25:09"I'm in love with a girl who likes to play with my emotions, what's your advice?" | Taylor Swift, Noah Beck, Relationship Mind Games, and The Importance of Kissing - let's dive TF in. Bianca takes the hot seat this week for a solo episode as she answers questions submitted by her followers on Instagram. With Pride Month wrapped up, Bianca also refl…
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Iris Dailey: The World of Psychedelics and the Power of Human Connection
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1:11:22"I can help people facilitate their awakenings with psychedelics" | Bianca is in Los Angeles this episode to connect with beautiful soul, Iris Dailey. Known for her unique perspective on life and the profound impact of psychedelics, Iris takes us on a deeply personal journey of self-discovery and healing. In this candid and vulnerable conversation,…
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Let's dive into the latest Netflix sensation, 'The Ultimatum: Queer Love,' dissecting each couple's journey with our own unique perspectives and sharing our unfiltered opinions. Follow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcast xx B text me :)By Bianca Duran
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The Ex-Files: To Keep or Not to Keep Gifts from an Ex?
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21:59"I fucking ripped apart every single letter that she ever wrote me" | Get ready, folks, because Bianca is back and she's bringing the heat in this one! Today, she's diving headfirst into a topic that's sure to stir up some controversy: should you keep gifts and letters from your ex? Should you hold on to those sentimental trinkets that remind you o…
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"Heterosexuals sin just as much as we do" | Being gay and having to go to church is kind of weird. Bianca touches on the challenges of finding acceptance in a community that traditionally condemns homosexuality. Pride Month is around the MF corner, bitches. Where can you find Bianca at this year's celebrations? Let's get into. Follow Bianca on TikT…
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Breaking Free: A Gay Woman in a Heterosexual Marriage
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40:01"I would have lived what I thought was the perfect American dream because I cared so much about what other people thought about me." | Well-known in the queer TikTok world for her "Are You Gay?" videos, Lindsay Perrin shares her journey as a gay woman who was married to a man for nine years. She opens up about the challenges of living a life that d…
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"And at that moment, I did not want to fuck Harry Styles" | She's insanely funny, fashion-forward, and newly single - it's MF, Georgia Bridgers. Georgia started her social media journey as quite the YouTube star, but has also recently become a TikTok sensation. On this episode of Dear Bianca, Georgia shares the moment she realized she was no longer…
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The Impact Of Social Media On Relationships
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11:47"I will address this here once and for all, so everybody can calm the fuck down" | Do you think posting your significant other on social media validates your relationship? Does your boyfriend or girlfriend get upset if you don't post them? + Bianca addresses questions that have been thrown at her recently, providing the clarity these people may nee…
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Sexual Health & Wellness, Queer Sex Toys, How To Reignite Your Sex Life
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30:29"Get out of your comfort zone" | Happy MF Valentine's Day, bitches. In this week's episode we talk a whole lot about sex. I sit down with Alice Derock - founder of the queer sex toy company, Wet For Her. Alice sheds light on many thought-about, but rarely spoken about topics. Sit back, relax and listen tf in. February Partnership: Wet For Her. Visi…
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Ep. 66 - 2022 FSU Cruise Reflections, Part 2
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1:01:51Just when you thought it couldn’t get wetter…you fell into the pool! Or, you joined us as we slide down memory lane with sexy adventures that range from chocolate ice cream to Queen…and some very sticky things in between! The guys learn the many benefits of a girl pile and Rachel joined a gym on board??? We conclude with the second part of Heath an…
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"What you see with the human eye is unreal" | Bianca is off to the beautiful islands of Turks and Caicos. This is a super short and sweet episode, a quick check in with the Dear Bianca fam. Full episodes are scheduled to resume next week on February 14th! February Partnership: Wet For Her. Visit wetforher.com & use code: BIANCA10 at checkout on you…
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Making Time To Rebalance Yourself And Not Being Sorry For It
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8:18On this weeks episode, Bianca gets real and vulnerable. She shares the current reality of her life. This episode is short and sweet, but a powerful and important episode that Bianca wants everyone to hear. Take time for yourself and recognize when it's time to reset. xx B text me :)By Bianca Duran
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Ep. 65 - 2022 FSU Cruise Reflections, Part 1
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1:38:24Hello beauties! Thanks for listening as we recap the latest amazing swinger cruise. We kick off pre-cruise festivities with 2 nights at the "compound" in Fort Lauderdale with 10 sexy couples. Things only got sexier once we get on board with naked pool parties, sexy playtime, Tiff's birthday, an amazing Burlesque show and much more! Also, two of our…
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"Who the fuck cares" | Bianca is back for another solo episode. People are loving these solo episodes, so turn it the fuck up and listen in. Bianca touches on a bunch of random shit like why Valentine's Day is overrated. She also answers the questions you submitted to her on Instagram. As a lovely example, "How do you make a girl squirt"? In additi…
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"It was hard for me to truly accept that I was transgender" | Liam Lazore is a Transgender Man . When did he know he was trans? How did he come out to his parents? What surgeries has he gotten so far? What d*ck size has he committed to for his bottom surgery? He shares it all on this episode of Dear Bianca. Oh, he also admits that Bianca is his 'ty…
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Manda Malina: What It's Like To Date A Woman, a Female Perspective
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31:27"In every relationship with a man, I felt like I was suffocating" | Singer-songwriter, Manda Malina was once bisexual, but officially identifies as a lesbian. In this episode, she brings us through what her queer journey looked like and why dating women is just...better tbh. Manda who was born in Sweden, now resides in Los Angeles and is pursuing m…
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JoJo Siwa + Avery Cyrus + Soph Mosca, The Love Triangle
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12:38"It's a reality show playing out on social media" | The drama continues. JoJo Siwa and Avery Cyrus call it quits. Soph Mosca and Avery have rekindled and are going on a trip to Europe?! What the f**k is happening. Miley Cyrus has asked FLETCHER to perform at her annual New Years Eve Party. 2023 is around the corner bitches, are you ready? Follow Bi…
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"I don't want a public relationship ever again" | They're newly single, living in California, friends with Fletcher, on a journey of self-love, and their career is thriving. Alissa sheds light on the intimate moments of their healing journey, post-breakup. They take us back in time to the first crush they had and shares the reality of what it was l…
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Dating a Fuck Girl, Life As An Independent Artist, A Relationship vs. A Situationship
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35:40"She knew it hurt me and she kept doing it" | Have you ever been in a relationship, situationship, or an entanglement with a fuck girl or fuck boy? Listen to Bianca's advice on how to deal with one. Damn does it feel like a never ending shitshow. Brianna Musco gives us insight into her life as an independent artist. Join her in New York City on Jan…
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Dixie D'Amelio Coming Out, LGBTQ Challenges At The World Cup, The L Word
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17:26"Kehlani, sit on my face" | On this week's episode, Bianca discusses all the LGBTQ-related issues that fans, teams, and locals are experiencing at the World Cup in Qatar. Bianca discusses The L Word + The L Word: Generation Q on the podcast for the first time. We are also looking for clarity on if Dixie D'Amelio actually came out as a lesbian this …
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