Best Adoption Constellation Podcasts (2025)

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237. Taya Reed: "I Found Her" 59:07

5d ago59:07

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Taya Reed is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Supervisor with over 15 years of therapeutic experience. She established her private practice, Sound House Therapy, 5 years ago. Adopted in 1970 during the Baby Scoop Era through the LA County Adoption Agency, Taya's personal experience within a closed same-race domestic adoption has profoundly sha…

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236. Angie: "Interconnectivity Among Adoptees" 49:23

12d ago49:23

49:23

Angie was born in Washington, DC in 1971. She spent the first couple of months at St. Ann's Maternity Home before being adopted by a somewhat older couple. She learned about her adoption as a young child after asking her mother if she had been adopted, as suggested by some classmates. Angie searched for and found her biological family in her early …

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235. Danna Schmidt: "Rituals of Healing From Birth to Worth" 1:03:44

19d ago1:03:44

1:03:44

Danna Schmidt is an end-of-life navigator, ceremonialist, and adoptee who often writes about ritual and threshold moments at the bedside or graveside. Her writings have appeared in Adoptee Voices, Severance Magazine, Grown and Flown and in Maggie Oman Shannon’s Crafting Love: Sharing Our Hearts Through the Work of Our Hands. She has two works in pr…

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Episode 17: Three Fathers Share Their Reflections About Fathering on Father's Day 49:44

22d ago49:44

49:44

Join co-hosts and adoption coaches, Sharon Butler-Obazee (an adopted person) and Sally Ankerfelt (an adoptive parent) for another lively discussion about Father's Day. First aired in June of 2024, we thought we should bring these three amzing men back in honor of Father's Day 2025. Being a dad in adoption can be complicated! Tune in to hear an adop…

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234. Ed Di Gangi: "Gliding Through Goodbye" 44:14

26d ago44:14

44:14

Ed Di Gangi is a returning guest. He was adopted at the time of his birth. It wasn't until late in his adulthood that he chose to explore the identity of the woman who had placed him for adoption so many years before. His meticulous research led to his learning the circumstances of his birth and subsequent adoption. A dna sample helped him identify…

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233. Jean Widner: "The Adoption Paradox: Putting Adoption in Perspective" 51:01

1M ago51:01

51:01

Jean Widner is the author of a new book, The Adoption Paradox: Putting Adoption in Perspective. Today we’re talking about her road to understanding adoption and why she wrote this important book. Jean was born in 1965 and raised in Washington State as an adoptee. After having a mostly positive adoption experience growing up, she shares her story, a…

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232. Chris Benton: "Why Can't We Talk About My Relinquishment and Adoption?" 55:54

1M ago55:54

55:54

Chris Benton from the UK (Birmingham) was fostered until 2 years of age prior to adoption. He listens to OUATIA podcast while doing landscaping work for his business. He recently transitioned from tree surgery to grounds maintenance (landscaping). He has an adoptive older brother (troubled) and in contact with bio brother who is 4 years younger (al…

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The Life and Work of Bert Hellinger 40:49

2M ago40:49

40:49

Honouring Bert Hellinger: A Conversation with Maia In this special episode, Maia joins Julie to reflect on Bert Hellinger's life and legacy, who would have turned 100 this year. You'll learn about his extraordinary biography and how he developed the Family Constellation method to identify and heal intergenerational trauma, transforming lives by res…

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231. Stacey Gatlin: "Yes We Adopt" 53:23

2M ago53:23

53:23

Stacey Gatlin, a passionate servant leader, is on a mission to transform the lives of children, women, and families through her commitment to personal, professional, and community development. She transitioned her corporate experience in talent management, leadership, and project management into entrepreneurship and advocacy. Stacey was compelled t…

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Episode 16: Mother's Day Reflections 25:41

2M ago25:41

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This is a rebroadcast of last year's Mother's Day episode honoring and celebrating this special day for mothers. Listen to birth mothers, adoptees, and an adoptive dad share heartfelt feelings and maybe even some complicated thoughts about mothers. Join hosts, adoptive parent, Sally Ankerfelt and Adopted Person, Sharon Butler-Obazee, as they acknow…

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230. Part 2/2 with Leslie Lee: "Connection with a Community That Gets Me" 55:10

2M ago55:10

55:10

Music by Corey QuinnBy Jennifer Dyan Ghoston

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229. Part 1/2 with Leslie Lee: "Connection with a Community That Gets Me." 1:10:16

2M ago1:10:16

1:10:16

Leslie Lee at the age of 58, is just beginning to explore what it truly means to be adopted. As a same-race adoptee, she was placed with her family at eight weeks old, according to the transcript she received from the agency (Louise Wise) that facilitated the adoption. For most of her life, she carried this part of her identity in silence—only shar…

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228. Veronica: "Adoption Cost Adoptees So Much" 47:50

2M ago47:50

47:50

Veronica is a returning guest. She is the co-author of "Rooted in Adoption-A Collection of Adoptee Reflections" and the "Rooted in Adoption Journal" now on Amazon. Veronica's Instagram is @rootedinadoption0520 Recommendations: https://www.sdpb.org/2012-07-16/piecing-together-stories-of-families-lost-in-slavery https://growbeyondwords.com/2015/08/sc…

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Episode 15 Resilience, Leadership & Service as Pathways to Healing with Special Guest Marcie Keithley 38:58

2M ago38:58

38:58

Welcome to ADOPTION MATTERS, a podcast with real people sharing real stories and getting real about adoption from all three perspectives of the adoption triad. Join coaches, Kim Noeth, one of your co-hosts, and a birth mother, along with Sharon Butler-Obazee, an adopted person, and Sally Ankerfelt, an adoptive parent as they explore difficult topic…

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227. Kimberly L. Carter: "Rise, Thrive, and Flourish" 46:43

2M ago46:43

46:43

Kimberly L. Carter is a women's leadership strategist, speaker, and author of the journal, “Rise, Thrive, and Flourish”. With a background in spirituality, empowerment, and Gen Z leadership development, she helps women and organizations cultivate confidence, clarity, and purpose. Through her consulting work, coaching, and vibrant online presence, K…

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226. Laura Batt: "Bridging the Gap Between the Adoption Trauma Chasm" 49:39

3M ago49:39

49:39

Laura Batt (she/her) was adopted domestically as an infant and raised in a closed adoption. She has been in reunion with her biological family for 26+ years. Laura is also a birth/first parent to her oldest adult son. She is parenting another teenage son and young child with her significant other in Oregon. Laura worked in pregnancy and parenting s…

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225. Mirella Stoyanova: "Healing Toward Authenticity" 52:14

3M ago52:14

52:14

Mirella Stoyanova is a therapist, writer and international adoptee from Bulgaria of both Bulgarian and Iraqi origin. Her writing work has appeared in Write or Die Magazine, Business Insider, and HuffPost Personal, among other places. She is a proud member of Adoptee Voices and lives in Seattle, Washington with her husband Jason, her son Milo and he…

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224. Maureen McCauley: "Lions Roaring Far From Home" 56:11

3M ago56:11

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Maureen McCauley is the adoptive mom of four now-adult children, two sons born in the U.S. and twin daughters born in Ethiopia; she has lived experience with infant adoption, international adoption, older child adoption, U.S. adoption, and transracial adoption. She also has three granddaughters. Her professional background is in social and educatio…

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Episode 14 "Blind Spots" in Adoptive Parenting 49:07

3M ago49:07

49:07

Welcome to ADOPTION MATTERS, a podcast with real people sharing real stories and getting real about adoption from all three perspectives of the adoption triad. Join coaches, Kim Noeth, one of your co-hosts, and a birth mother, along with Sharon Butler-Obazee, an adopted person, and Sally Ankerfelt, an adoptive parent as they explore difficult topic…

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223. Brooke Haynes: "Consurgo" 50:18

3M ago50:18

50:18

Brooke Haynes is a business coach, website and marketing system designer, and the founder of Consurgo, a personal development community for visionary entrepreneurs. With a unique ability to see the big picture, Brooke helps small businesses streamline their systems, build engaged communities, and create sustainable growth. Everyone who works with B…

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222. Stephanie C. Watterson: "Septopus" 51:08

4M ago51:08

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My guest is Stephanie C. Watterson. Originally a shy and awkward biracial adoptee, Stephanie is now one of those people who, as soon as you meet her, you’ll feel joy around. She graduated from Langara College (Digital & Print Publications, Dean’s Honour Roll) and recently from Simon Fraser University (Editing Certificate). Last summer, she publishe…

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221. Bonus: "A Tribute to Ricky; an Adoptee Ally" 11:15

4M ago11:15

11:15

This episode is dedicated and in tribute to Ricky Lamont Boone. August 7, 1962-January 2, 2025. Music by Corey QuinnBy Jennifer Dyan Ghoston

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220. Dr. David McCarty-Caplan: "Adoption Consciousness and Education Through Research" 56:37

4M ago56:37

56:37

Dr. David McCarty-Caplan (PhD) is a researcher, educator, writer, and consultant whose professional experience focuses on issues of identity development, support of underserved populations, racial equity, and pursuit of social justice. David was born in Bogota, Colombia but adopted and raised in a white Jewish family in the United States. This live…

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An International Adoptee's Journey with Anna Lehnardt 32:41

4M ago32:41

32:41

In this episode, we sit down with Anna Lehnardt, an international adoptee, to learn about the personal and emotional challenges from her experience of growing up in a family across borders. From navigating identity to facing the complexities of belonging, this conversation sheds light on the realities of international adoption.…

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219. D. Yvonne Rivers: "F.O.G. and I.C.E." 48:31

4M ago48:31

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D. Yvonne Rivers is a returning guest. She is the host of the Birth Moms Real Talk Podcast. Since 1988, D. Yvonne Rivers Aka Phoebe has been a champion of a cause, from business success, domestic violence, re-entry, and adoption community. One facet of this global business expert is an esteemed speaker, facilitator, and trainer across the globe on …

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218. Black History Month: "Powerful Words From Adoptees" 2:13:32

4M ago2:13:32

2:13:32

Reflecting on words from eleven prior adoptee guests for Black History Month" In order of appearance: Dr. Syb Brown, Isaac Etter, Maya Holmes, Sandria Washington, Dr. Jack Rocco, Kenneth Bonomo, Joi R. Fisher-Griffin, David Bynum, Dr. Patrice Martin, Iris Bryant and Dr. KE Katherin Garland. Thank you for your generous gift of sharing a part of your…

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Episode 13: What's Love Got to Do with It? 19:02

5M ago19:02

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Valentine's Day is upon us once again. Love is supposed to be "in the air." But what if it isn't. Today, our hosts, birth mom Kim Noeth, adoptee Sharon Obazee, and adoptive parent, Sally Ankerfelt are joined by adoptive parents, Susan David and Gayle Swift, discuss the idea that love is sometimes an obligation. As always, their discussion is infuse…

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217. Dewi Sungai Marquis-Houston: "My Name Is Not Amy" 47:53

5M ago47:53

47:53

Dewi Sungai Marquis-Houston is a mixed-race Native Bornean (Ngaju Dayak, Banjarese, Sundanese, English) mother, wife, and filmmaker who was born in Indonesia, adopted as an infant by white American parents, renamed “Amy" (a name she has since rescinded to reclaim her birth name), and raised in the U.S. in white suburbia. Dewi's experiences as a tra…

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216. Diego Vitelli: "Adoptee Identity, the Search for Answers and Sitting in True Authenticity." 1:01:43

5M ago1:01:43

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Diego Vitelli is a dedicated adoptee-focused therapist, relationship expert, and advocate for racial diversity and LGBTQ+ inclusion. An international adoptee from Colombia, Diego was adopted at approximately five years old by an Irish-Italian family outside of Boston. His lived experience as an adoptee fuels his deep passion for amplifying adoptee …

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Adoption and Suicidal Ideation: A Conversation with Beth Syverson 44:16

5M ago44:16

44:16

In 2019, when Beth Syverson's adopted son Joey was 15, he was hospitalized with a mental health crisis. While there, Beth discovered he had been using cannabis, psychedelics, and more. It has been a sometimes-excruciating marathon since then, with runaways, overdoses, psych hospitals and treatment centers, relapses, suicidal ideation, and anxiety &…

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215. Paul Kimball: "We are all Human Beings; An Adoptee Ponders" 1:17:42

5M ago1:17:42

1:17:42

Paul Kimball is an active musician in Stockton California. He conducts Musicals, The Zion Chamber Orchestra and Pops Choir and recently retired after 36 years as a music teacher with the Lincoln Unified School District. He is French Horn player. As a baby, Paul lived in Foster Care after being relinquished by his first mother, a concert cellist, at…

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214. Jennifer Hiltebeitel: "Trust Falling" 54:10

5M ago54:10

54:10

Jennifer Hiltebeitel (HILL-ta-bite-el) is a returning guest. Jennifer is an adopted person on a lifelong healing journey. She was adopted through the county foster care system in Pennsylvania in the early 70s and just obtained her original birth certificate in 2023. She met her biological mother at 17 and father at 21 before the internet existed an…

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Episode 12: Thoughts on the Loss of One's Mother 22:58

5M ago22:58

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Real life brings challenges that include grief and loss. Of course, this is true for those in the adoption constellation. As adoption coaches, we talk a lot about grief and loss in the context of a child adoptee losing their birth mother even as the adoption brings them an adoptive mom. But what about the adult adoptee? And how might the adoptive p…

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Episode 7: More Than a Flower Transplanted: An Adoptee's Perspective on Roots and Growth 28:33

5M ago28:33

28:33

Join us for Part 2 of our powerful conversation with Liliana, an international and transracial adoptee, as she continues to share her journey of self-discovery, cultural reconnection, and healing. In this episode of Constellation Conversations, Liliana dives deeper into the complexities of navigating identity and belonging as an adoptee. She opens …

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213. Astrid Castro: "Three Decades of Serving the Adoption Constellation" 1:06:15

6M ago1:06:15

1:06:15

Astrid Castro is a returning guest. Astrid is the founder and CEO of Adoption Mosaic, an adoptee-led, BIPOC woman-owned business that creates for and connects our adoption constellation community through adoptee-centered events, education courses, and consultations. For over three decades, Astrid has served the adoption constellation through a vari…

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Pioneering Openness with Linda R. Sexton 35:13

6M ago35:13

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Linda R. Sexton shares her experiences and insights regarding open adoption, including the challenges and benefits involved. She also discusses the importance of prioritizing the child's needs, maintaining open communication with birth parents, and the potential for intergenerational trauma to impact adoptees. Additionally, Linda shares about her b…

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212. Sharon Butler-Obazee: "Growing Intentional Families Together (GIFT)" 51:29

6M ago51:29

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Sharon Butler-Obazee, an adoptee, attended Cal State Hayward. She worked in human services and tenured with the insurance industry as a medical sales rep. After retirement, she became certified under the International Coaching Federation after attending Professional Christian Coaching before starting her coaching practice. Her handle on social medi…

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Episode 6: Liliana's Journey: Unveiling the Complexities of Transracial Adoption 24:24

6M ago24:24

24:24

Join us for a powerful conversation with Liliana, an international and transracial adoptee from the indigenous community of Ecuador, as she shares her journey of complexity, self-discovery, and cultural reconnection. In this first part of a two-part episode of Constellation Conversations, Liliana opens up about the complexities of growing up adopte…

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211. A Review of 2024: "Happy New Year's Eve!" 21:55

6M ago21:55

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We encourage you to go to https://www.onceuponatimeinadopteeland.com/ and search the individuals mentioned in this episode to find their contributions/links. OBC to California Born Adoptees: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=erHylYLHqXg Music by Corey QuinnBy Jennifer Dyan Ghoston

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210. Jennifer Hiltebeitel: "Where Did I Come From, Who Do I Look Like and Why Did This Happen?" 58:24

6M ago58:24

58:24

Original air date: November 1, 2022 Jennifer Hiltebeitel (HILL - ta - bite - el) was adopted from foster care as a preschooler and grew up to be a fourth-grade teacher with a Master's degree in Multicultural Education. She met members of her biological family between the ages of 17-21 and is honored to understand pieces of her story that were once …

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Episode 5: Holiday Reflections for Adult Adoptees and First Families 16:03

6M ago16:03

16:03

The holidays can be a time of joy, but also a time of complex emotions for those touched by adoption. In this episode of Constellation Conversations, we shift our focus to the adults in the adoption constellation – adult adoptees and first families. Join Sarah, an adult adoptee and trauma therapist and Brenda, an adoptive parent in an open adoption…

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Episode 4: Unwrapping Adoption- Supporting Adoptees During the Holidays 34:30

6M ago34:30

34:30

In this episode, Sarah, an adoptee and trauma therapist, shares her unique perspective on how the holidays can bring up a mix of emotions for adoptees. Brenda and Sarah discuss practical tips and insights on creating a supportive holiday experience for adoptees. Guided Learning: Want to dive deeper? We've created a set of reflection questions based…

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Episode 11: Gift Giving in Adoptive Families 14:10

6M ago14:10

14:10

It's that time of year again and the holidays are upon us! How do adoptive families handle gift giving when there may be more than one family in the holiday photo? Join hosts Kim Noeth (a birth mother), Sharon Butler-Obazee (an adoptee), and Sally Ankerfelt (an adoptive parent), along with their colleagues, adoptive parents and coaches, Gayle Swift…

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209. Natasha Tripplett: "THE BLUE PICKUP and JUNETEENTH IS" 1:02:12

6M ago1:02:12

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Natasha Tripplett, a Jewish-Jamaican American author, lives in Northern California where she writes from a tree house perched in a sycamore tree. As a baby, Natasha was adopted into a Dutch, Christian family. Growing up on Vancouver Island in Canada, she was acutely aware that she was different from her family; this did not keep her from integratin…

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An Adoption Triad Interview 37:40

6M ago37:40

37:40

Birth mom, Sara Jane, returns to the podcast with her daughter, Courtney, who she placed for adoption, and Courtney's adoptive mom, Jeanette. We get to hear thoughts from these three women who are from different parts of the adoption triad, and who have all become family. They share what open adoption looks like for them and how their relationships…

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Episode 3: Bridging Two Worlds: Open Adoption and Family Connections 26:53

7M ago26:53

26:53

Description: In this episode of Constellation Conversations, Sarah and Brenda explore the complex dynamics of open adoptions, focusing on the challenges of reunion and the critical importance of biological family connections. Brenda shares her personal experiences navigating open adoption and reaching out to biological family, while Sarah provides …

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208. Lisa MM Butler: "As The Crow Flies" 59:26

7M ago59:26

59:26

Lisa MM Butler is a Black (biracial), US domestic, transracial adoptee and former foster youth. She is an artist, writer, advocate, community organizer, and library lover. Lisa is known, online, as the Adoptee Clown and shares her experiences as an adoptee both on her Instagram @theadopteeclown and on Substack as The Adoptee Clown Diaries. She serv…

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207. Anita Garber: "A Transracial Adoptee, Author and Poet" 1:04:03

7M ago1:04:03

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Original Air Date: 11/22/22 Anita is a passionate, creative, transracial adoptee. Adopted with her identical twin sister, she grew up on a chicken farm with five siblings and considers her faith and family to be most important to her. She has a bachelor's degree in Social Work and is presently pursuing her Master's degree in Social work and a Certi…

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Episode 2: Adoption is an Existential Trauma: Living a Story Written By Others 29:16

7M ago29:16

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Description: In this episode, we explore the unique and often misunderstood trauma of adoption and its impact on identity. Sarah Harper, an adoptee and trauma therapist, shares her personal and professional insights on how adoption can shape one’s sense of self through narratives crafted by others. We discuss the existential loss adoptees experienc…

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206. Jill Mann: "A Team Member of BIPOC Adoptees" 43:24

7M ago43:24

43:24

Jill Mann is a transracial, transnational Korean adoptee. She is an artist, musician, and writer, and a member of the BIPOC Adoptees team. She also works on the BIPOC Adoptees documentary project as editor, animator, and producer. She is also on the board of Asian Heritage Association, a local organization based in McMinnville, Oregon. Website: htt…

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