The divorce storm has hit. You need an anchor. Not more noise, clarity. This podcast is your calm in the chaos. Your guide through the first phase: Stop reacting. Start thinking. Make decisions you won’t regret. Hosted by NYC divorce attorney Corey Shapiro, author of Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind.
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If your divorce feels like a boxing match, you might be up against a brawler—someone who’s obsessed with one issue and won’t let go. In this episode, divorce coach and attorney Corey Shapiro unpacks the “brawler” attorney style: what it looks like, how it operates, and how to respond without getting knocked out. Brawlers aren’t random. They’re focu…
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Don’t feed the chaos: how to outsmart a swarmer in your divorce
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4:26If every message from your ex or their attorney feels like an ambush, you’re not imagining it—you’re dealing with a swarmer. In this episode, I’ll show you how to spot the tactics that thrive on chaos and keep you stuck in reaction mode. You’ll learn how to stay steady, shut down the noise, and make strategic moves that actually move your case forw…
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Sometimes it’s not just your ex—it’s their attorney. In this episode, I pull back the curtain on the four types of divorce lawyers who fuel conflict instead of resolution—and how to stay steady when the other side plays dirty. If you’re months (or years) in and wondering, “Why is this still dragging on?”—this will help you get clear, get grounded, …
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Divorce can take years. Don’t waste them.
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10:08Everyone worries about money. But what about the hours, months—even years—this could steal from your life? In this episode, I unpack the real cost of conflict: your time, your energy, your peace. I’ll share five ways I help clients protect their calendar and their sanity—including how to avoid pointless meetings, use a 24-hour pause to regain contr…
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Time Is the hidden cost of divorce—don’t waste It.
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11:03Divorce can drag on for years—and no one tells you how much it will take out of you. In this episode, I talk about why your energy is your most precious resource and how to protect it like a budget. I’ll share three simple tools I use with clients—movement, gratitude, and meditation—to help refill your tank and stop pouring yourself into every fire…
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I think my lawyer’s being honest. But I still don’t understand the bill.
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9:32Divorce is expensive, but it should not cost your financial future. In this episode, we break down three hidden traps that often drain money without you realizing it. You will learn how to spot billing abuse, understand the risks of attorney fee dynamics between spouses, and explore alternatives to open-ended hourly rates. If you are worried about …
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Divorce torture comes in only two forms: fast or slow
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9:50Divorce is expensive, but not just in dollars. Emotional spending is what drains people the fastest. In this episode, we look at the real cost of reactivity, the difference between fear-based and faith-based decisions, and how to cut your emotional output by half. This is how you stop fueling the conflict and start protecting your future. Welcome t…
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My divorce ended years ago. But it’s still ruining birthdays.
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8:24A divorce doesn't end when the papers are signed. Not when there are birthdays, graduations, and future weddings ahead. In this episode, we introduce the Divorce Budget, a four-part framework that helps you protect your emotions, finances, energy, and time. If you want to avoid decisions that drain your future, this is where to start. Welcome to Ge…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinki…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinki…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinki…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinki…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinki…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinki…
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The Power of Nothing: When Inaction is Your Best Action
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9:24Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinki…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clea…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clea…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clea…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clea…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clea…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clea…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clea…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clea…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clea…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clea…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clea…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clea…
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Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clea…
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Corey sits down with Dr. Jeremy S. Gaies, a true peacemaker for families navigating divorce. Dr. Gaies is the author of A Clear and Easy Guide to Collaborative Divorce and co-author of Mindful Co-Parenting: A Child-Friendly Path Through Divorce. With nearly three decades of experience in Tampa, Florida, he’s helped countless families find healthier…
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Finding the Right Divorce Attorney for You III Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.…
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Finding the Right Divorce Attorney, Part 1 Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.…
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Finding the Right Divorce Attorney, Part 1 Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.…
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Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Book — Chapter 7, Part 3 Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.…
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Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Book — Chapter 7, Part 2. Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.…
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Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Book — Chapter 7, Part 1. Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.…
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Divorce Attorney Tactics, 4 Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Book — Page 93 Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdictio…
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Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Book — Divorce Attorney Tactics, 3 Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.…
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Sonya Weisshappel On Getting Organized In Your Divorce
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36:49Corey Shapiro talks with professional organizer Sonya Weisshappel about organizing your life and home to prepare for a divorce. Sonya authored Confessions of a Chaos Whisperer: My Life as an Organizing Guru, Business Owner, and Mom. Sonya's company, Seriatim, is also celebrating over a quarter-century (1999-2024) of helping individuals navigate the…
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Tactics of Divorce Attorneys: The Brawler
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11:34Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Book — Divorce Attorney Tactics, 2 Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.…
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Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Book — Divorce Budget, 5 Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.…
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Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Book — Divorce Budget, Video 4 Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.…
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Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Book — Divorce Budget, Video 3 Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.…
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Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Book — Understanding the Divorce Budget, Video 1 Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your juris…
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Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Book — Become Less Defensive, Video 2 Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.…
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Michael Lennington On Escaping the Victim Mindset
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38:36Corey Shapiro talks with Michael Lennington, the execution expert and co-author of the New York Times bestseller The 12-Week Year, about his latest book, Uncommon Accountability. They explore how the insights from the book can be applied to taking on greater personal responsibility throughout one's divorce journey. Video Available On YouTube Gettin…
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The Power of Doing Nothing In Your Divorce
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17:06Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Book — Self-Management Getting Divorced? Start Here? >>Sign up for our email newsletter. Disclaimer This podcast is intended to entertain and inform - not to provide legal advice. For any legal advice about your divorce or otherwise, please consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.…
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