Best MaryB Safrit Podcasts (2025)

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Centering Our Most Vulnerable Neighbors (feat. Karen González) 48:11

2d ago48:11

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Today, Karen González and I talk about practicing generosity without a savior complex. Karen González (she/her) is a speaker, writer, storyteller, and immigrant advocate, who herself immigrated from Guatemala as a child. Karen is a former public school teacher and attended Fuller Theological Seminary, where she studied theology and missiology. For …

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Sharifa Stevens | Honest Prayer 53:36

1d ago53:36

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In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, host Kate Boyd welcomes back guest Sharifa Stevens to discuss her new book about prayer and poems. Their conversation explores how many Christians struggle with barriers to authentic prayer, often feeling they must approach God in a "perfect" way. Sharifa shares her journey toward understanding that ther…

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2 Samuel 18 | The Tragic End of Absalom 40:28

8d ago40:28

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In this episode, we dive deep into one of the most bizarre and tragic chapters in the David narrative - the death of Absalom. Set against the backdrop of a father-son civil war, 2 Samuel 18 tells the surreal story of Absalom getting caught in a tree while riding a mule, and Joab's brutal decision to kill him despite David's explicit command to "dea…

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Contemplative Spirituality for Queer People (feat. Matt Nightingale) 50:06

9d ago50:06

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Today, Matt Nightingale and I talk about why we need queer only spaces for spiritual conversations. Matt Nightingale (he/him) is a pastor, musician, speaker, writer, and spiritual director from San Francisco’s North Bay Area. He is the founder and executive director of Common Sanctuary, and co-pastor of a progressive American Baptist church called …

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#063 - Bridget Eileen Rivera - Following Jesus Without Shame 53:08

9d ago53:08

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Send us a text Bridget Eileen Rivera is a sociologist, writer, and committed Christ-follower. She is the author of a book titled Heavy Burdens, and her work explores orthodox theology and LGBTQ issues in the church. In this episode, we discuss Bridget’s journey of coming out in the church, confronting shame, and embracing a faith that doesn't deman…

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Liz Charlotte Grant | Reclaiming Scripture After Evangelical Upbringing 39:09

16d ago39:09

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Join Kate and Liz Charlotte Grant as they explore how to approach Scripture when traditional, literal interpretations no longer serve believers who are deconstructing or reframing their faith. Grant shares her journey of finding new ways to engage with biblical texts through literary analysis, diverse commentators, and interdisciplinary connections…

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Reimagining Church (feat. Eugene Kim) 44:29

16d ago44:29

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Today, Eugene Kim and I talk about practicing mutuality in church communities. Eugene Kim (he/him) is an ordained minister with over 25 years of experience in local church ministry. However, recognizing the need to rethink traditional models, he discerned the need to step beyond the familiar in order to reimagine how we do “church” from the ground …

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Releasing Certainty and Embracing Mystery (feat. Cara Meredith) 38:37

1M ago38:37

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Today, Cara Meredith and I talk about what church camp gets right (and wrong) about community. Cara Meredith (she/her) is the author of Church Camp: Bad Skits, Cry Night, and How White Evangelicalism Betrayed a Generation (Broadleaf Books, 2025). She is also a sought-after speaker, public theologian, and development director who found home at a chu…

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Jennifer G. Layte | The Pilgrimage of Faith 38:45

1M ago38:45

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In this enlightening episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, host Kate Boyd sits down with Jennifer Layte to explore the concept of stages of faith. Despite many Christians being taught that faith is static or linear, Jennifer shares insights from both James Fowler's modern framework and Teresa of Avila's 16th-century "Interior Castle" to help listene…

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#062 - Storm Hassett - Faith & Identity 41:55

1M ago41:55

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Send us a text Storm is a Queer Christian and the founder of The Identity Clinic—Australia’s first mental health organisation exclusively supporting the LGBTQIA+ community. We met at my very first gay wedding and immediately started talking about God, so I knew I had to bring them on the show. In this episode, we dive into navigating the intersecti…

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Decolonizing Our Way Toward Holistic Belonging (feat. Rohadi Nagassar) 53:39

1M ago53:39

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Today, Rohadi Nagassar and I talk about the challenges of creating the belonging we crave. Rohadi (he/him) is a writer predominantly engaging the topics of decolonizing and deconstructing Christianity. Discover Rohadi’s latest book, “When We Belong. Reclaiming Christianity on the Margins.” His podcast on decolonizing Christianity is called: Faith i…

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Losing Our Good Christian Reputations and Finding Ourselves (feat. Aimee Byrd) 49:00

1M ago49:00

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CW: spiritual abuse Today, Aimee Byrd and I talk about finding the courage to admit we were wrong. Aimee (she/her) is an author, speaker, blogger, podcaster and former coffee shop owner. Aimee is the author of several books, including Saving Face, The Hope in Our Scars, Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood and Sexual Reformation. Her arti…

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MaryB. Safrit | Learning to Belong 44:57

1M ago44:57

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In this episode of Untidy Faith, we dive into a thoughtful conversation with MaryB. Safrit about the valuable perspectives and insights that LGBTQ+ Christians bring to faith communities. MaryB. shares her personal journey and wisdom on how straight Christians can learn from queer believers to create more inclusive and authentic expressions of Chris…

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How Stories Shape Our Gender and Identity (feat. Shannon TL Kearns) 56:09

2M ago56:09

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Today, Shannon TL Kearns (he/him) and I talk about the complex journey to understand masculinity A former fundamentalist who became the first openly transgender man ordained to the Old Catholic priesthood, Shannon TL Kearns believes in the transformative power of story. As an ordained priest, a playwright, a theologian, and a writer, all of his wor…

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2 Samuel 17 | The Cycle of Violence 48:43

2M ago48:43

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Join us as we dive into 2 Samuel 17, examining the complex power dynamics between Absalom and David, the manipulative counsel given by advisors, and the troubling absence of God's voice amid human schemes for revenge and power. Topics Covered: * The contrast between Ahithophel and Hushai's advice to Absalom, and how manipulation through vanity and …

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Self Care and Communal Flourishing 30:48

2M ago30:48

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In this episode, Tiffany Bluhm returns to the Untidy Faith Podcast to help us reframe self-care as an essential component of both personal wholeness and communal flourishing. Moving beyond the commercialized wellness industry, Tiffany offers a powerful perspective on how caring for ourselves in a world that doesn't is both biblical and necessary fo…

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How to Know What You Want (feat. Tracey Gee) 53:06

2M ago53:06

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Today, Tracey Gee and I talk about the unexpected vulnerability of naming what we want. Tracey Gee (she/her) is a certified leadership coach and consultant dedicated to guiding individuals toward transformative self-awareness and meaningful personal and professional growth. As an author, Tracey draws insight from her extensive experience across wor…

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Reclaiming Deconstruction from White Dudes (feat. R. Scott Okamoto) 1:00:26

3M ago1:00:26

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Today, Scott and I talk about his journey out of Christian higher education. Scott Okamoto (he/him) is a 4th generation Japanese American (sansei) writer, musician, and podcaster. He grew up in a conservative evangelical household but found his way out while teaching English at Azusa Pacific University, a conservative evangelical school. He has sin…

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Reading Scripture with the Wesleyan Quadrilateral 26:16

3M ago26:16

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In this episode, Kate explores the Wesleyan Quadrilateral as a valuable framework for reading and interpreting scripture. This approach offers a more balanced and holistic way to engage with the Bible, especially for those who are deconstructing or reconstructing their faith. Kate shares how this framework has transformed her own relationship with …

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White Supremacy in Deconstruction Spaces 47:50

3M ago47:50

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In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, host Kate Boyd is joined by Trey Ferguson and Robert Monson from the Three Black Men crew for a thoughtful conversation about white supremacy in deconstruction spaces. They explore how patterns of white supremacy continue to manifest even after people leave conservative religious environments, and discus…

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#061 - MaryB Safrit - Queer, Christian & Unlearning Shame 59:52

3M ago59:52

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Send us a text MaryB. Safrit is a NYC-based relationship coach, author, host of the Found Family podcast, and maker of slightly unhinged merch. MaryB is also bisexual and Christian—so I wanted to get her on the podcast to talk about her journey with faith, how she accepts herself as a queer Christian and what her deconstruction journey looked like.…

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Queer Theology Is for Everyone (feat. Rev. Brandan Robertson) 53:35

3M ago53:35

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Today, Brandan Robertson and I talk about navigating the spectrum of queer faith in community. Rev. Brandan Robertson (he/him) is a noted author, activist, and public theologian, dedicated to exploring the intersections of spirituality, sexuality, and social justice. He serves as the Pastor of Sunnyside Reformed Church in New York City and is the f…

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2 Samuel 16 | Empire Business 42:17

3M ago42:17

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Content Warning: Sexual assault, violence Power, betrayal, and justice collide as David’s reign looks like it’s unraveling, and as he grasps for allies, we see just how far some will go to keep what they believe to be theirs. Join us to explore how systems of power perpetuate cycles of harm — as in the case of Mephibosheth and the women left behind…

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#060 - Salomé Sibonex - Has Wokeness Peaked? 1:07:35

3M ago1:07:35

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Send us a text Salomé Sibonex is an artist, speaker, and advisor who advocates for individual freedom and freedom of expression in the arts. In this episode, we explore her political shift, the divisive aspects of the social justice movement, her passion for individualism and how to foster dialogue with those we disagree with. Watch this episode on…

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What to Do When You're Not Seeing Progress (feat. Ashley Nadine Lopez) 49:45

3M ago49:45

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Today, Ashley and I talk about finding community that fuels you. Ashley Nadine Lopez (she/her) is the founder of Life Curious Women, a thriving platform empowering millennial and Gen Z women leaders to build confidence, pursue their passions, and live purpose-driven lives. As an on-camera actor, podcast host, speaker and advocate for holistic perso…

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Erin Moon | Dealing with Doubt and Holding onto Hope 41:39

3M ago41:39

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In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, host Kate Boyd welcomes Erin Moon, a writer, podcaster, and storyteller, to discuss the nuances of faith, doubt, and the many questions that arise along the journey. They explore why many feel uncomfortable expressing doubts about their faith and discuss the importance of creating safe spaces for curiosi…

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What are God's pronouns? 14:37

4M ago14:37

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In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, host Kate Boyd delves into the nuanced and often controversial topic of pronouns for God. Addressing the limitations and constraints of language, Kate explores how our choice of words and metaphors shape our understanding of God. She makes a compelling case for using more inclusive language to reflect th…

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From Othered to Belonging (feat. Jenai Auman) 52:16

4M ago52:16

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Today, Jenai Auman and I talk about reclaiming our agency after experiencing othering and religious trauma. Jenai Auman (she/her) is a Filipina American writer, artist, and author of Othered. She draws from her years in church leadership as well as her trauma-informed training to write on healing and holistic spiritual formation. She received her b…

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Jonny Morrison | Does your "good news" pass the vibe check? 36:03

4M ago36:03

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In this episode of the Untidy Faith Podcast, host Kate Boyd dives into an in-depth conversation with Jonny Morrison, co-lead pastor at Missio Dei in Salt Lake City and author of 'Prodigal Gospel.' They discuss the complexity of understanding the gospel, reflecting on how traditional narratives often emphasize shame and opposition rather than celebr…

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Looking for Belonging? Try the Church Basement (feat. Ian Morgan Cron) 53:50

4M ago53:50

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Today, Ian Morgan Cron (he/him) and I talk about why the twelve steps are for everyone. Ian is a bestselling author, psychotherapist, Enneagram teacher, Episcopal priest, and the host of the popular podcast Typology. His books include the Enneagram primer The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery, which has sold over one million …

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2 Samuel 15 | Which King Do We Serve? 45:58

4M ago45:58

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In this episode, we dissect the political and familial intricacies of Absalom's coup against his father, King David -- shedding light on the manipulation, subterfuge, and fractured relationships that underpin this biblical narrative. Then we discuss the ethical implications of David's actions, the oft-overlooked experiences of the concubines left b…

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Let's Talk About Mental Health (feat. Ayana Lage) 44:06

4M ago44:06

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CW: Ayana and I discuss some tender topics today, including mental health, pregnancy loss, and postpartum psychosis. If you are struggling, please reach out to a hotline such as the NAMI Helpline (1-800-950-6264) or a trusted mental health professional. If you are in extreme distress, please seek immediate medical care. Today, Ayana Lage and I talk…

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Pricelis Perreaux-Dominguez | Trauma-Informed Church 33:43

4M ago33:43

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In this episodes we discuss ... integrating trauma-informed care in church practices unlearning toxic patterns creating safe faith spaces the biblical literacy epidemic how individuals and churches can transform to better serve their communities Pricelis Perreaux-Dominguez (MSW, MSEd) is a truth-teller and space builder committed to helping the Bod…

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Mothering in Found Family (feat. Amber Flannery Field) 49:14

5M ago49:14

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Today, Amber Flannery Field (she/her) and I talk about the journey from nihilism to hopeful action and community. Amber is a New York City tour guide. New York Magazine named her among their "things we love about New York," and CBC Radio called her "the only good tour guide in New York City." She does video essays on race, community, and New York o…

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The Art of Showing Up as Yourself (feat. Emma Claye) 49:13

5M ago49:13

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Today, Emma Claye (she/her) and I talk about persistence in the midst of rejection. You can follow Emma on social media @emmaclaye. Listen to Emma's music wherever you stream music. Join the Found Family crew on Substack! Support the showBy MaryB. Safrit

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