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Comedians Amy Gledhill and Harriet Kemsley are recently single and in their 30s ...UH OH! They’re trying to navigate the dating scene - but the landscape has changed. How do you flirt? What’s the best dating app? Do love spells work? They’ll speak to experts and friends, talk about dates they’ve been on and share your dating horror stories to try figure it all out, and to feel less alone. Hosted by Amy Gledhill (Edinburgh Comedy Award Best Show 2024, Would I Lie to You?, Nevermind the Buzzco ...
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Getting married is tough for the vast majority of Muslims in the West. We know because we’ve been there. My (Zaid) journey spanned nearly nine years. It was filled with rejections and self-doubt. While I (Hiba) didn't know there was a journey to be on in the first place. After we got married we decided to create something different to help single Muslims complete their deen. And so our matchmaking service Halal Match was born. After a few years of interviewing singles, a friend suggested we ...
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Black Enso

Mikaal Sulaiman

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An Enso is part of the Zen practice of drawing a circle in a single stroke and the resulting imperfections of the sphere represent a person’s inner emotional and creative life imprinted on the canvas. The Black Enso podcast, hosted by Mikaal Sulaiman, is an audio Enso that reveals and reflects on all of the interesting imperfections of our creative community by way of sonic essays and special guests. Black Enso Media is a sacred society for creatives, offering evergreen reflections for artis ...
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Drawing on their unique perspective from the West Coast of Canada, Boma and Nofel talk about being single, black, Muslim, Arab, and queer. With a healthy dose of THOT-iness, pop culture, politics, activism, drama, and gossip. It's like being invited to sit at the popular table for once in your life. **NEW EPISODE EVERY FRIDAY**
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PODvocative

Bold Media

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A PODvocative person is one who confronts the unconventional with courage. Each week, NYC-based millennials Farheen and Sheetal will host a “PODvocateur” to share their unique perspectives. Through this exchange, we hope to foster a sense of togetherness and understanding, acknowledging that each of us has something to learn from seemingly ordinary people, who share their extraordinary points of view. We spotlight Ismaili Muslim voices, those that bravely confront topics that may be traditio ...
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Welcome to 'Listening to Understand, where sensitive Jewish truth-seekers gather in a safe place for candid conversations on challenging topics. When we listen to truly understand - and not to respond - we can replace judgment with curiosity and open our hearts to every Jew, regardless of their personal choices.
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Princess R Lakshman, author, counsellor, life coach, and degree-qualified clinical nutritionist, speaks on different aspects of healing and recovery. These podcast episodes are inspired from the author’s life when she was healing and recovering from mental illness that began when she was battling with a brain tumour, adjusting to life as a single mother after a sudden marriage breakdown due to domestic violence, and facing rejection and disownment from family due to her choice to embrace Isl ...
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If we were getting married in 2025, we’d do things very differently. After four years as professional matchmakers and a whole lot of hindsight we’ve got some honest reflections (and a few regrets) to share. This episode dives into the blind spots we didn’t see coming, the mindset shifts we wish we had earlier, and the biggest lessons we now pass on…
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We’re still on our summer holidays and we’ll be back VERY soon, but this week’s bonus episode is a little different. A simple chat about how life is going accidentally escalated into a conversation how awful things are in the world right now. It’s hard not to feel hopeless, but you’re not alone. Big love to everyone. Trigger Warning: In this episod…
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This week on Patreon, a listener writes in about their long distance situationship. This is a preview of a Patreon episode. To hear the full episode and more listener stories like this, support the podcast and enjoy early and ad-free listening, BTS content and more, subscribe to our Patreon at patreon.com/singleladiesinyourarea We want to hear your…
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Most of us think readiness means having a stable job, moving out of our parents’ home, or feeling financially secure. And while those things matter, they only scratch the surface. What if the deeper signs you are not ready are less obvious, but quietly showing up in how you think, react, and relate? After years of matchmaking and nearly six years o…
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Single Ladies are on a summer break! We’ll be back soon, but to tide you over until then, we’re sharing weekly episodes over on our Patreon. This week on Patreon we have a brilliant letter from a listener - it’s a man(!) who asks for advice on how to approach someone without inadvertently coming across as creepy. Excellent question. This is a previ…
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Artists are understandably worried about being replaced by AI, but the real threat isn’t artificial intelligence, it’s your fear of your own idiosyncrasies. In this meditation on rigor, imitation, and presence, Mikaal dissects the quiet resistance we build against our most original selves. From Move 37 and James Brown to Elmyr de Hory and Spike Lee…
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Most single people are laser-focused on spotting red flags, but what if that mindset is holding you back? In this episode we flip the script and talk about green flags that often go unnoticed but are key to a successful marriage. From apologizing without a "but" to the ability to disagree without drama, we share nine underrated traits that matter w…
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Single Ladies are on a summer break! We’ll be back soon, but to tide you over until then, we’re sharing weekly episodes over on our Patreon. This week on Patreon, a letter from a listener about an unexpected kink turns into a DMC between Harriet and Amy all about body image, learning to love yourself and 👏 building 👏 self 👏 esteem 👏 This is a previ…
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What happens when love meets real honesty, deep faith, and a few assumptions that need challenging? In this episode, we speak with Rabia Khedr, a blind Muslim woman, community leader, and mother of four, whose story flips the narrative on what it means to marry with a disability. From confident conversations with her future husband to surprising ac…
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Single Ladies are on a summer break! We’ll be back soon, but to tide you over until then, we’re sharing weekly episodes over on our Patreon. This week everyone can enjoy this sneak peek of what’s to come! Harriet and Amy delve further into holiday romances with a warning from a listener, and friend of the pod Olga Koch shares her holiday romance ni…
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In this deeply moving and raw episode, Matana sits down with writer and founder of Awake Jewish Women, Rea Bochner, for a powerful conversation on addiction, recovery, faith, and awakening. Rea shares her personal journey through food addiction, her 20+ years in 12-step recovery, and how spirituality—not religion—became the anchor that saved her li…
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She’s got the career, the home, the passport stamps.. so does she really need a husband? Today we sit down with Hafsa Taher, a life coach for high-achieving women to talk about what happens when Miss Independent starts considering marriage. We unpack why checklists might be ruining your love life, how success can clash with surrender, and what heal…
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This episode isn’t polished. It’s not prepped. It’s just raw. We hit record and asked each other honest questions about our marriage, no script, no filters. What unfolded was a vulnerable, improvised conversation about love, fears, cultural differences, and everything in between. If you’re single and wondering what actually matters in a marriage, b…
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Amy and Harriet are joined this week by comedian, singer, actor and writer Jordan Gray! She helps answer questions like what are the pros and cons of opening up a marriage? What is a “unicorn"? And is the best type of community the sex-having-community? Catch Jordan in her brand new sitcom Transaction, out 24th June on ITV and ITV X. And go see her…
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This week, psychotherapist Aiah Neamatallah joins us to talk about what many converts face after the shahada, especially when it comes to marriage, from feeling caught between two worlds to navigating power dynamics in relationships. We dig into what converts should know before getting married, what born Muslims and their parents often overlook, an…
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This week’s episode is a special live recording of the podcast, coming to you from the Bill Murray in London. Harriet and Amy get to meet fellow single ladies in REAL LIFE and hear your dating horror stories, so we all feel less alone! To hear Amy's story that we couldn't possibly keep in the edit, sign up to our Patreon at patreon.com/SingleLadies…
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Money talks before marriage don’t have to be cringey, they’re actually a must. We brought in Jesse Reitberger, an Islamic finance expert and founder of Canadian Islamic Wealth, to break down why it’s not about the salary number, but how that money’s made. Spoiler: halal income beats a fat paycheck every time. Jesse drops gems like the $10K question…
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This week on the podcast we welcome the incredibly funny and VERY wise, Fatiha El-Ghorri, who answers questions like: How do you not cringe through a pre-date FaceTime? What are the Muslim dating apps like? And can you get sued for telling someone their cravat is shit? Fatiha's debut novel 'The Perks of My Hijab' will be out next year and is availa…
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🚨 Heads up: If you only listen to one episode of this podcast, make it this one. We’re obsessed. What if preparing for marriage wasn’t about ticking more boxes, but about aligning your effort with purpose, intention, and barakah? We sat down with Muhammed Faris, founder of Productive Muslim, and the conversation honestly blew us away. He unpacks wh…
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This week Amy and Harriet share their experience of doing therapy and answer questions like: How do you find the right therapist? When will you start feeling better? And is it okay to bring your own wigs and props to act out difficult conversations? Harriet is performing her critically acclaimed stand-up show Everything Always Works Out For Me at t…
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Let’s be honest, courting can feel like a weird mix of awkward silences and overly intense “So, where do you see yourself in five years?” vibes. Today, we're sharing a better way: playful, thought-provoking activities designed to spark real connection without killing the vibe. These aren’t your typical icebreakers. One minute you’re ranking your to…
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This week Amy and Harriet are joined by comedian Ania Magliano, who answers questions like: How much arguing is too much arguing? Is it okay to not know what you want? And is doing 'baby talk' in a relationship (or something equally embarrassing) inevitable? Listen to Ania's podcast A Bisexual and a Boyfriend on your favourite podcast app. Harriet …
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Ghosting sucks, especially when you’re serious about marriage. You start overthinking: Did I say something wrong? Is it my looks? But usually, it’s not about you. In this episode we get real about ghosting, from both sides. Zaid admits he once micro-ghosted because he couldn’t be honest, while Hiba shares the pain of being left hanging. We break do…
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This week Harriet and Amy are MAN-ifesting their ideal partners, and consider questions like: could you date someone with different political views to you? Is caring about the NHS a dealbreaker? And is there anything hotter than a man who can return your parcels for you? (Answer: no) Harriet is performing her critically acclaimed stand-up show Ever…
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You made istikhara... now you're just confused, dreamless, and wondering what’s next. Sound familiar? If you're in the marriage search scene, you've probably bumped into the mysterious world of istikhara, or worse, been "istikhara’d" (aka ghosted with a religious excuse). Today we’re breaking down what istikhara is really about: seeking goodness fr…
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Single Ladies are back! In the first episode of a brand new series, Amy and Harriet bring in the big guns and invite friend and comedian Stephen Bailey to, in his words “sort them out”. He helps them with questions like where do you go to meet single men? Does dating start with building self-esteem? And which is the sexiest flavour crisp? Stephen i…
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What do you do when your dad turns into a one-man dating app filter… and swipes left on everyone? In this episode we’re talking about something major: when your father’s wilayah (guardianship) can actually be removed. Yep, it’s a thing, and it’s not taken lightly. We’re diving into real stories, like the woman who aged out of her prime while her pa…
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Misyar marriage—halal but hotly debated. In this episode, we break down what it actually is, why some people turn to it, and why scholars aren’t exactly cheering it on. Think: waived rights, complicated intentions, and a whole lot of ethical gray area. We cover everything from divorced moms looking for companionship to men using it as a loophole—an…
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They're still single, still ladies, and very soon they'll be back in your area. Single Ladies In Your Area series two launches Friday 9 May 2025. For bonus content, access to BTS photos and videos, messages from Amy and Harriet, AND to support the pod 💖 sign up to our Patreon at patreon.com/singleladiesinyourarea OR isitham.org (really.) Want to sh…
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What happens when a student catches feelings... for her professor? And what if he feels the same but can't say a word until the semester ends? This isn't your average love story. It’s a journey shaped by quiet moments, bold choices, and some family drama that challenged what they thought love would look like. Now 25 years in, they're sharing how it…
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In this week’s Patreon you can enjoy some exclusive, Single Ladies unheard bits. To listen to the full episode and to enjoy WEEKLY bonus content during the break, have access to BTS photos and videos, messages from Amy and Harriet, AND support the pod 💖 sign up to our Patreon at patreon.com/singleladiesinyourarea OR isitham.org (really.) We want to…
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"I wish she gave me more attention.. Why do I have to beg for intimacy?.. Maybe I should consider a second wife!" Today we're unpacking a trend we’re seeing more often: men considering polygamy, and women actually open to it. While polygamy is part of our faith, it’s not a free pass for avoiding deeper issues in a marriage. We also talk about the p…
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This week we hear from a listener who is solo travelling, and Amy and Harriet discuss the pros and cons. To listen to the full episode and to enjoy WEEKLY bonus content during the break, have access to BTS photos and videos, messages from Amy and Harriet, AND support the pod 💖 sign up to our Patreon at patreon.com/singleladiesinyourarea OR isitham.…
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In this episode, we’re diving into the world of halal courting with the incredible Lama Aboubakr, a relationship coach who specializes in helping Muslims attract the right person they truly deserve. Let’s face it—sometimes, past experiences and old patterns can hold us back from finding the fulfilling relationship we long for. But Lama’s here to sh…
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In this week’s bonus episode, we hear from a listener who is struggling with balancing dating and parenthood. To listen to the full episode and to enjoy WEEKLY bonus content during the break, have access to BTS photos and videos, messages from Amy and Harriet, AND support the pod 💖 sign up to our Patreon at patreon.com/singleladiesinyourarea OR isi…
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This week’s Patreon exclusive episode is a letter from a listener. She's been trying out a new tactic for beating the first date nerves with, in her words, ✨mixed results✨. To listen to the full episode and to enjoy WEEKLY bonus content during the break, have access to BTS photos and videos, messages from Amy and Harriet, AND support the pod 💖 sign…
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Rabbanit Rachel Weinstein lives in Tekoa with her husband and eight children. She studied at Migdal Oz, graduated from the Nishmat Yoetzet Halacha program, and completed the Matan Hilcheta program. She has been serving as a Yoetzet Halacha for the past 18 years. Rachel has taught in various women's Torah study programs and currently works at MMY, L…
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This week on Patreon you can enjoy some exclusive, unheard, bonus content from guest Sofie Hagen. To listen to the full episode and to enjoy WEEKLY bonus content during the break, have access to BTS photos and videos, messages from Amy and Harriet, AND support the pod 💖 sign up to our Patreon at patreon.com/singleladiesinyourarea OR isitham.org (re…
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This week’s Patreon is a bonus VIDEO, where Amy and Harriet do a deep dive into their star signs ♏️ ♋️. To WATCH the full episode and to enjoy WEEKLY bonus content during the break, have access to BTS photos and videos, messages from Amy and Harriet, AND support the pod 💖 sign up to our Patreon at patreon.com/singleladiesinyourarea OR isitham.org (…
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This week’s Patreon episode is a letter from a listener, who tells Amy and Harriet about a Hinge date’s extremely niche excuse. To listen to the full episode and to enjoy WEEKLY bonus content during the break, have access to BTS photos and videos, messages from Amy and Harriet, AND support the pod 💖 sign up to our Patreon at patreon.com/singleladie…
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"Muslim Matchmaker" is making waves, and we’re diving deep into it. In this episode, we break down whether the show hits or misses when it comes to Islamic courtship. Does it reflect our values, or are there some glaring mismatches? We chat about the show's ideas and how it stacks up against other matchmaking shows. Does the flashy aesthetic add an…
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In this Patreon episode, Amy and Harriet read a letter from a listener about the difficult end of her 10 year relationship. To listen to the full episode and to enjoy WEEKLY bonus content during the break, have access to BTS photos and videos, messages from Amy and Harriet, AND support the pod 💖 sign up to our Patreon at patreon.com/singleladiesiny…
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Starting over after a breakup or divorce? We know it’s not easy, but you’re not alone. In this episode, we sit down with therapist Sarah Sultan to talk about what it really takes to heal, grow, and move forward with confidence. We discuss how to recognize red flags you might have missed the first time around and how to rebuild your self-worth so yo…
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This week’s Patreon episode is a letter from a listener, who tells us why her break up last year means she can no longer look at cheese. To listen to the full episode and to enjoy WEEKLY bonus content during the break, have access to BTS photos and videos, messages from Amy and Harriet, AND support the pod 💖 sign up to our Patreon at patreon.com/si…
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If you’ve ever downloaded a Muslim 'dating' app full of hope, only to find yourself drowning in awkward chats, ghosting, and people who don’t seem to know why they’re there… we get it. It’s exhausting. In this episode, we’re talking about the real struggles of apps; the disappointments, the confusion, and the moments that make you want to delete th…
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It’s the series finale ...and Valentine’s Day! Amy and Harriet share tales of their best (worst) Valentine’s, and to end on a high, Amy shares news of some dating success! Bring on series 2 and the year of the snake snog. If you're sad that the series is over for now, why not sign up to our Patreon for WEEKLY bonus content during the break! You als…
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Today we're spilling the tea on how social media is turning our brains into mush when it comes to marriage expectations. From scrolling through picture-perfect weddings to comparing our own love lives to influencer highlight reels. We’ve all been there, feeling FOMO because your friend’s husband just bought her a Ferrari, while you’re getting excit…
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This week our Single Ladies are joined by comedian Jack Barry to discuss non-monogamy, open communication and sensing a vibe with someone you fancy. Can an open marriage bring you closer together? How much and when should you communicate with each other? And if you aren’t sure if there’s a vibe with someone is it best to just …text them afterwards …
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