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Welcome to the Faithfully Feminine Podcast — where timeless truth meets a tender heart. Hosted by Carla Shellis, this series is your space for real conversations about faith, femininity, and living a Christ-centered life with grace and strength. Each episode offers biblical insight, heartfelt encouragement, and practical guidance for women who desire to grow in both godliness and confidence.
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Really Feminine

Carla Shellis, Michelle Calderon

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The Really Feminine Podcast — where Carla Shellis, joined by Michelle, answers all of your questions about everyday etiquette, hosting tips, emotional etiquette, and so much more. Each episode includes Tea Time, a special segment where you send in your questions, and we spill the tea with advice and insights to help you live gracefully and confidently. Tune in for practical guidance, heartfelt conversations, and a touch of feminine charm.
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While the focus of our podcast is leadership, the foundation is on the impact communication has across all relationships. Our podcast is a no-holds-barred exploration of myth and method, risk and reward, hell and hope, idiocy and ideas, ouchies and opportunities, do’s and don’ts, fear and fearlessness. It is our hope that you’ll leave each episode with a new perspective to consider, a different way of thinking about something, a rabble-rousing approach to solving a problem, or a realization ...
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Together, we're redefining what it means, looks and feels like, to be doing "woman's work" in the world today. With confidence and the occasional rant. From boardrooms to studios, kitchens to coding dens, we explore the multifaceted experiences of today's woman, confirming that the new definition of "woman's work" is whatever feels authentic, true, and right for you. We're shedding expectations, setting aside the "shoulds", giving our finger to the "supposed tos". We're torching the old play ...
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Let’s face it—rejection sucks. Whether it’s a gut-punch text, a polite but painful ā€œno,ā€ or the opportunity you swore was yours slipping through your fingers—it all sucks. But if you’re putting yourself out there (pitching, applying, risking anything at all), rejection isn’t a bug in the system. It is the system. Enter: Alice Draper. She’s the host…
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In this heartfelt and spirit-led session, we begin with a prayer of gratitude and surrender—inviting God to lead, speak, and move in our hearts. Together, we dive into the story of the fall of Jericho from the Book of Joshua, unpacking how God’s plans often look nothing like ours—but are always filled with purpose, power, and victory. Through perso…
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In this heartfelt and deeply spiritual session, we begin with a prayer of gratitude and seek divine guidance. The focus is on understanding and applying biblical teachings to overcome personal and spiritual strongholds. Key scripture readings from Deuteronomy and Joshua illustrate the importance of faith, patience, and trust in God's plan. Detailed…
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šŸ‘€ Still stuck where you don’t belong? In this punch-to-the-gut episode, Carla and Shellie get real about the emotional trench warfare of staying too long. Whether it’s a soul-sucking job, a lopsided friendship, or a role that’s outgrown you, this convo dives deep into the guilt, grief, and glorified martyrdom that keep us hanging on—and what finall…
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We’re done pretending health only comes from hacks, trends, or the latest supplement that costs $72 and tastes like sadness. Today’s episode is all about tuning into the real expert—your own body. Joining us is Nidhi Pandya, a NAMA-certified Ayurvedic Doctor with a fierce commitment to blending ancient wisdom with modern life. She’s taught thousand…
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This week’s Freedom Formula unpacks the levels of friendship, how to recognize them, and why they matter. During Tea Time, Carla and Michelle share their thoughts on listener questions. The Etiquette segment walks through formal dining basics: which utensil to use, BMW, and napkin etiquette. To support the mission of Bochy’s Org.- Bochys.org (www.b…
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In this heartfelt episode, we dive deep into chapters one and two of Joshua, focusing on the story of Rahab and her remarkable journey from a life of prostitution and idol worship to becoming a critical part of Jesus' genealogy. The speaker, with a background in human trafficking and victim support, emphasizes the multifaceted nature of God's word …
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Join Carla Shellis for a transformative Bible study that brings the powerful lessons of the Book of Joshua to life. In this deeply personal and faith-filled session, Carla explores how to break free from past wounds, overcome mental strongholds, and step boldly into the promises of God. Through personal reflection, prayer, and practical application…
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Let’s be honest: when it comes to pelvic floor health, most of us have been fed a steady diet of silence, shame, and ā€œjust deal with it.ā€ But that ends today. In this episode, we welcome Dr. Sara Reardon, aka The Vagina Whisperer (yes, really), a board-certified pelvic floor physical therapist, TED speaker, and author of FLOORED: A Complete Guide t…
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Ever waited ā€˜til you felt ready and missed your shot? Spoiler: Confidence isn’t a prerequisite—it’s a byproduct of doing the damn thing. This episode will lovingly drag you out of your ā€œpreparation caveā€ and remind you that every sweaty palm and racing heart is just proof you care. Whether your pants split onstage (yep, that happened) or you throw …
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Let’s drop the highlight reel for a second: entrepreneurship is hard. It’s lonely, messy, and full of moments where you wonder if you’re the only one falling apart behind the scenes. So in this episode—and a few more to come—we’re cutting through the noise and talking about what it really takes to build a successful, scalable business. Enter: Dr. D…
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In this episode of Really Feminine, during Carla’s Freedom Formula, we explore the difference between living in the Pink Zone (freedom) versus the Red Zone (survival). During Tea Time, Carla and Michelle answer the listener's questions about how to tell a friend they have halitosis and address a mom struggling to connect with her daughter. In our E…
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Tired of feeling like your tech is running you instead of the other way around? You’re not alone—and you’re not stuck. It’s time to declutter your digital life and turn your tech into the reliable assistant you wish you had. Today’s guest is Amanda Jefferson, TEDx speaker, tech and productivity coach, and one of the world’s first certified KonMari …
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"She’s Always Late. Is That Disrespect?ā€ Welcome to our post-show aftershock: one honest moment sparked a full-on unpacking of lateness, respect, and how we assign meaning. Carla wonders: is repeated lateness a quiet betrayal of friendship? Shelley says: not so fast. What if it's not about you at all? From neurodivergence and cultural rhythms to pe…
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Can you build an 8-figure business and have a fulfilling personal life? Kelly Roach says yes—and she’s living proof. On this episode, Kelly Roach, award-winning entrepreneur, former NFL cheerleader, Fortune 500 executive, and 11x international best-selling author, joins us. She built her company from zero to 8 figures with no investors, no debt, an…
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Starting a business online has never been easier. But growing one that actually makes money? That’s where most people get stuck. Whether you're building a brand from scratch, monetizing your content, or trying to turn a side hustle into something sustainable—this episode is for you. I’m joined by Carla Biesinger, business mentor and online course c…
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Heads up — we’re calling BS on the apology reflex. In this no-holds-barred conversation, Carla and Shellie peel back the layers behind ā€œI’m sorryā€ — that automatic mask we slap on before sharing an opinion, asking a question, or daring to take up space. If you've ever said "I'm sorry, but..." before saying what you really meant, this one’s for you.…
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For a lot of us—especially high-achieving women—ambition can feel like a double-edged sword. It drives us, fuels us, and pushes us forward. But it can also drain us, disconnect us, and quietly lead us away from who we really are. That’s exactly why I invited Amina AITai back to the podcast. She’s a holistic business and career coach, a chronic illn…
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We talk a lot about confidence on this show—what it is, how to build it, and how to hold onto it in a world that’s constantly trying to tear it down. And when it comes to raising confident girls? The most powerful thing we can do isn’t lecture or list strategies—it’s model it. Because confidence is contagious. Especially when it’s real. In this epi…
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🚨REAL TALK: You do NOT need confidence to take the mic, pitch the idea, or put your message into the world. In fact, confidence comes AFTER you do the scary thing, not before. šŸŽ¤šŸ’„ In this laugh-out-loud, gut-punching episode of Unapologetic Rabble-Rousers, Carla Lewis and DocShellie drop truth bombs on embarrassment, perfectionism, and the lie that …
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We’ve turned intuition into a buzzword—flattened it into a slogan, a gut feeling, or a vague whisper we don’t always know how to hear. But what if intuition is so much more? What if it's one of the most powerful tools we have—and we’ve just forgotten how to use it? In this episode, I’m joined by Hrund Gunnsteinsdóttir, Icelandic thought leader, fil…
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Let’s be real: some of us aren’t just experiencing burnout—we’re perfecting it. Overachieving our way into exhaustion. Piling on responsibilities like it’s an Olympic sport. And believing that if we just get it right enough, peace and happiness will magically follow. In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Tiffany Moon, a board-certified anesthesiologis…
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🚫 "It’s fineā€ is killing your vibe. You're not burnt out—you’re exhausted from pretending that everything you’re tolerating is ā€œno big deal.ā€ In this spicy, soul-stirring episode, Carla and DocShellie expose the quiet killer of joy: unspoken resentment. Expect truth, laughter, and the ultimate question: What are you tolerating that’s slowly stealin…
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Feeling exhausted, anxious, bloated, foggy, or just off—and being told ā€œit’s normalā€ because you’re aging or just a woman? Yeah, no. It’s not normal. And it’s definitely not something you have to accept. In this eye-opening episode, I’m joined by Dr. Erika Schwartz, a pioneer in bio-identical hormone therapy and founder of Evolved Science, where sh…
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Clutter isn’t just a pile of stuff on your desk or a closet that won’t close—it’s a drain on your energy, your focus, and your peace of mind. And if your physical space feels chaotic, chances are something deeper is, too. In this episode, I’m joined by Shira Gill, globally recognized home organizing expert and author of LifeStyled: Your Guide to a …
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🚨 What if the biggest thing holding you back isn’t what you don’t know—but what you think you do? We’re talking about unlearning today—the sneaky, subconscious programming that keeps you playing small. From the beliefs we inherited as kids to the silent ā€œrulesā€ we live by without question, Carla and DocShellie are ripping it all apart to show you h…
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Let’s be real—being a woman isn’t either empowering or exhausting… it’s both, often at the same damn time. And the parts we’re told to keep quiet about? The messy, emotional, deeply human ones? Those are exactly the conversations we need to have out loud. In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Jessica Zucker, psychologist, writer, and creator of the vi…
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We’ve been told self-care is selfish, indulgent—even unnecessary. That being a ā€œgood womanā€ means putting everyone else first and clapping for ourselves last. But what if real self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a radical, world-shifting, life-saving act of rebellion? In this episode, I’m joined by Shelly Tygielski, author of Sit Down to Rise Up and foun…
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Whether you check your horoscope religiously or just know your sun sign and call it a day, this episode is for you. We’re diving into astrology not as fate or fluff—but as a tool for clarity, confidence, and career alignment. Joining me is Tali Edut, one half of the iconic AstroTwins duo (yes, the astrologers behind Beyoncé’s chart). Tali and her s…
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🚨 PSA: Being nice is NOT the same as being kind—and if you’ve been trained to be nice at all costs, it’s probably costing you more than you realize. Niceness is about avoiding conflict, keeping people comfortable, and sacrificing your own truth. Kindness, on the other hand? That’s about honesty, respect, and standing in integrity—even when it’s awk…
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We made it—300 episodes of This Is Woman’s Work! And we’re marking this milestone by giving you something that could seriously change the game in your business or career: the skill of pitching yourself effectively. Whether you’re dreaming of being a podcast guest, landing a speaking gig, signing a client, or just asking for what you want with confi…
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We live in a world that screams more, more, more—more money, more success, more hustle, more everything. But what if the key to fulfillment isn't more... it's enough? In this episode, we're joined by Elizabeth Husserl, financial advisor, speaker, and co-founder of Peak360 Wealth Management, to unpack the mindset shift from scarcity to sufficiency. …
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🚨 Are you living or just existing? 🚨 Ever felt like you’re just going through the motions—wake up, work, sleep, repeat? That’s silent resignation, and it’s sneaky as hell. In this episode of Unapologetic Rabble Rousers, Carla and DocShellie break down why it happens, how to recognize it (before you wake up wondering what the hell happened to my lif…
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We’ve been taught that bragging is bad. That confidence is cocky. That talking about your wins makes you ā€œtoo much.ā€ But what if we’ve been buying into a lie that’s keeping us small? Today, we’re rewriting that story with Tiffany Houser—executive coach, leadership facilitator, and founder of EVOLVE and the Self Worth AdvantageĀ®. Tiffany’s made it h…
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Boundaries vs. Ultimatums with Jan & Jillian Yuhas | 297 On this episode we dive into a topic that affects every single one of us: boundaries. But more specifically, we’re breaking down the key differences between boundaries and ultimatums—because let’s be real, people get these mixed up all the time. And who better to tackle this than two people w…
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🚨 Self-sabotage isn’t just a bad habit—it’s a full-blown defense mechanism dressed up as "logic." 🚨 We tell ourselves, ā€œI’ll fail anyway, so why try?ā€ or ā€œIf I succeed, they’ll expect more.ā€ Sound familiar? Carla and DocShellie are here to expose self-sabotage for what it really is: a sneaky thief stealing your happiness, career growth, and even yo…
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Workplace wellness is broken. Free snacks, ping-pong tables, yoga-at-lunch—none of it actually works if your workplace culture is toxic or disconnected. So what does create a thriving, healthy work environment? According to today’s guests, it starts with leadership—and it’s a lot less about perks and a lot more about people. We’re diving deep into …
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Business success doesn’t have to be a solo journey. When women partner with intention, they don’t just create thriving businesses—they set a powerful example of what’s possible when collaboration, strategy, and shared vision come together. In this episode, we’re diving into the real story of female partnerships—what it takes to build, maintain, and…
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🚨 What if your biggest fear isn’t failure…but being seen? 🚨 Carla and DocShellie are exposing the hidden fear that keeps so many people playing small—the fear of showing up fully, unapologetically, and authentically. From childhood messages like "Don’t show off" to the gut-clenching doubt of "Am I enough?", they unpack why visibility can feel like …
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Stress—it’s everywhere, unavoidable, and, if we’re being honest, usually the enemy. But what if we’ve been thinking about it all wrong? What if stress isn’t just something to manage but something we can leverage? Today, we’re flipping the script on stress with Dr. Sharon Bergquist, an award-winning physician, researcher, and expert in lifestyle med…
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Getting what you want isn’t just about setting goals—it’s about taking risks, embracing fear, and stepping into uncertainty with courage. It requires trusting yourself, being okay with setbacks, and pushing forward even when people don’t understand or support you. Today’s guest, Jenny Wood, has built a career helping people go after what they want …
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🚨 NEWS FLASH: Playing small is exhausting, perfectionism is a trap, and people-pleasing is not the flex you think it is. 🚨 Carla and DocShellie are wrapping up their deep-dive into the behaviors that keep us stuck—people-pleasing, mask-wearing, self-doubt, and perfectionism. If you’re tired of over-explaining your "no," struggling with self-worth, …
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Death is something we all have to face, yet most of us avoid talking about it—until we have no choice. But what if we approached it differently? What if we could embrace the inevitable in a way that brings peace, purpose, and even a sense of fulfillment? Our guest today, Suzanne B. O’Brien, RN, has spent her career at the bedside of over 1,000 end-…
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Women excel in school—higher GPAs, more degrees, more advanced education—yet the moment they enter the workforce, the advantage disappears. And when it comes time for promotions, the numbers tell a stark truth: for every 100 men promoted to manager, only 81 women make the jump. This gap compounds over time, keeping women from reaching senior leader…
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The word influencer gets thrown around a lot, but what does it actually mean in today’s digital world? It’s more than just followers and filters—it’s about impact, leadership, and showing up authentically on the world’s biggest online stages. Rachel Levin, the force behind RCLBeauty101, is redefining what it means to be a digital creator, musician,…
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🚨 Would You Be Friends With Your Self-Talk?! 🚨 Imagine if that voice in your head was a real person… would you grab coffee with them or run for the hills? 😬 In this episode, Carla and DocShellie rip off the mask of negative self-talk, expose the sneaky ways it holds us back, and show you how to reclaim your inner dialogue. Ready to stop being your …
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Did you know there’s an actual science to uncovering your hidden genius? It’s not about filling out a ā€œdream jobā€ worksheet—it’s about understanding how your brain is wired, identifying your natural aptitudes, and using them to thrive. This isn’t just a self-discovery exercise. It’s a game-changer for your career, your relationships, and how you sh…
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Ever caught yourself thinking, Why am I like this? Maybe you wish you were more outgoing, less anxious, better at setting boundaries, or just less awkward at small talk (or maybe that’s just me). But this episode isn’t about forcing you to become someone you’re not. It’s about understanding how personality works, what’s actually within our control,…
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Are you a perfectionist trapped behind a mask? This episode of Unapologetic Rabble Rousers exposes the link between perfectionism and people-pleasing. Discover why the pursuit of perfection is a trap, how it stifles your true self, and learn practical strategies to break free from the cycle of self-criticism and embrace your authentic, imperfect se…
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Spiritual health isn’t about following a specific religion, meditating on a mountaintop, or taking the sacrament (unless you want to do those things). It’s about something deeper—our connection to something greater than ourselves, our capacity for faith, and the hope that carries us through life’s challenges. Dr. Lisa Miller is a New York Times bes…
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