We live in a world of cause and effect. Unconditional Self Kindness is knowing what you are believing and perceiving about your life, creates your life and the world around you. By looking to ourselves, we radically change EVERYTHING around us. Join Pete Sibley as he chats about what exactly does it means to embody this cause and effect right now? Pete Sibley is a life coach & recording artist/ musician sharing the discoveries he has made in his own quest to become more loving towards himsel ...
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Gender Curious is a podcast about all things gender. We will explore all kinds of experiences of gender, how gender is experienced today, how gender has been experienced in the past and more. This podcast is an opportunity to be curious and learn more about how human beings understand and experience gender. Join us and let's get curious!
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The State of Men is hosted by two Elder Millennial work-from-home-Dads, Mike Watts (cis man) and Aydian Dowling (trans man). A funny and real-life approach to being Men in the 2020s The State of Men is taking a deep dive into masculinity to talk about what we do, and why we do it. We believe a better future for our world is in part the responsibility of the Men in it. We invite all men to do the work and fix their shit, so we can leave a legacy we are proud of. Societally, men have been brai ...
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Every week, join Amethysta Herrick to hear the interesting, frightening, and overall wacky stuff that thunks through her head. Topics include books Ami's reading, productivity tips, and the philosophy and science of gender and identity.
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This episode is here to plug us in! We're here to flow all the good into this physical world, open the tap and let it feel good! One Result, in Six Weeks, for a Lifetime of Benefits! Ready to transform your inner narrative to powerfully create an amazing 2025! What is it that you are wanting more of in your life right now? What would help you feel …
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A Different Story Will Bring Different Results
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17:24A different story will bring different results. We're all telling internal stories, are you loving yours? This episode goes right to how and why telling a new story brings different results. 2025 SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story. for all the details! Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection with feeling good and inspired a…
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You are Safe. It may not have been true at one point in your life, but right here and now, it's safe. It's SAFE to let yourself feel good, right now. It's safe to be allowing yourself feel good! 2025 SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story. for all the details! Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection with feeling good and inspir…
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Sitting on the beach, in central California, I ask a simple yet PROFOUND question: "Can it be alright for me to feel good w/o needing the world to change 1st?" YES! In fact that is the path to everything I desire to have, be, do, experience in my life, here's how it can work for you.... 2025 SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story. …
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Workshop Recording - Focusing w/ Intention
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40:38Jan 8th Workshop Audio recording Focusing with Intention - All of Me Makes Sense! Everything is based upon your perception, and you have the ability to focus what you want to see more of. “Between the stimulus and the response, there is a space. And in that space lies our ability to choose.” Viktor Frankl, Austrian neurologist, psychologist Your ab…
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Creating Peace Within Yourself - do you know how?
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8:54Jan 8th workshop register here: https://forms.gle/srLedGyCoo3nQcjr9 Do you know how to create peace within yourself? This is the podcast to begin doing just that! 2025 SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story. for all the details! Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection with feeling good and inspired about your own inner narrativ…
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Your Dreams & Desires are SOOOO much Bigger!
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10:01It's cool to notice that our dreams are actually WAAYYYYYY BIIIIGGGGG!!! Let them have a life! Look at how big your dreams actually want to be. This mini-episode is here to help you feel safe in noticing their breadth and depth! SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story. for all the details! Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection…
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NEW YEAR'S DAY WORKSHOP - free sign up here: https://forms.gle/Fp8G9LM9njRkSStCA 11am Pacific - Jan 1, 2025 Everything we want is b/c we believe in the having of it we will feel better Life hack - go for felling better right in this moment first - don't wait for the circumstances around you to have to change first! More Self Kindness: SELF STORY gr…
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This episode: Fear is a crap motivator. When I feel fear, I rarely want to then go after what I think needs to get done. And fear as a motivator is almost always for something that I didn’t want to do in the first place or isn’t satisfying. Then why do I use it? Because other people used it on me to motivate me to do what they wanted me to do. So, …
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What do you do when you're feeling squeezed in your life? The overwhelm, the too much and not enough time feeling, not seeing anything joyful on the horizon... In this episode I talk about: 1st thing - Get out of the "trash compactor!" 2nd thing - Understand what the contrast in your life is growing within you! (spoiler - it's better than you think…
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Moving From Where you ARE to Where you WANT to BE
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21:50How to move from where you are right now, ie: how you're feeling and what you're thinking... TO Arriving at where you want to be, ie: feeling better, thinking more capable, confident, connected thoughts! We want to be feeling better: more lightness, more powerful, more capable, more worthy, etc It's much more straight forward than you might think, …
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Every want you have is because you believe in the having of it you will FEEL better. What happens if you go to FEEL better first? Redefining old definitions that no longer serve you. Choosing to "grow" without suffering. How are you choosing? Is it by default? Fear-based? Today we explore two (2) ways to choose with intention: 1 - Choosing thoughts…
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Are you allowing good into your life? It happens moment by moment. How to make small shifts to experience RELIEF and how that adds up to a good life, a great life! Allowing things to be good and letting good into your life, bc we are so well trained to look for and expect things might good poorly. Instead we can focus on piling appreciation upon ap…
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Allowing the feeling of relief, enjoyment and grounding as a result of self kindness right in this moment, is something you can do intentionally. By putting attention on any emotion you help to create space and dissipate the intensity. What if you lived the belief that, "All of me makes sense!" This is the difference between indifference VS indepen…
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How to LOVE your life journey from wherever you are!
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24:26Life is a journey that happens RIGHT NOW! Are you enjoying the journey? Do you LOVE the journey as it unfolds? There are two (2) simple questions you can as in any moment, if you ask these questions, your life will radically shift! 1 - How am I doing right now? 2 - Do I want/ desire to reach for something different or reach for a little better feel…
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How to incorporate NEW "empowering" thoughts
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19:54Ready to expand your capacity to FEEL better? YES! New intentional thoughts have the power to create big shifts in our lives. However, the mind has a lot of momentum with the old, default thoughts. So in this episode I share how to begin incorporating the NEW thoughts (as I share and teach it weekly with my Self Story group members www.petesibley.c…
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How can we deliberately choose feeling good more often, without the conditions of our lives needing to change? Ask yourself what are you choosing in the moment, in this episode I discuss each of these choices: Truth or Feeling Good Go it Alone or With the Divine Past/ Future or Present Moment Victim or Hero Against me or For Me Condition or Uncondi…
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There is wisdom and knowing that ever human is born with. Stress, worry and negative emotions are indicators of whether or not you are connecting to this within YOU. In this episode I share a way I help clients to connect with this wisdom. You are telling the story, make it a great one! FREEBIES!! click HERE 15 minute life coaching session & downlo…
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We ALL were built to feel good - it's why we don't like feeling bad, and yet we seem to believe it's more responsible to feel bad more of the time than feel good!! WHAAA??!!! Once upon a time you told a beautiful story about yourself, it's time to begin telling it again!! this episode I talk about: HOW TO allow more feeling good by following the si…
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True self confidence is allowing good and joy into your life EVEN WHILE circumstances look they way that they do. Maybe the situation has been challenging, but YOU can allow in good regardless, And when that is TOP PRIORITY in your life, things change dramatically today's example is around allowing in more abundance, but allowing in good can be app…
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In this episode I share a clip from a recent live talk I gave. What happens when you experience your power? What happens when you begin to believe a different and more empowering story about yourself? In this episode I share two stories that are very different but point to the same truth: You are the narrator in your life - don't like the story? yo…
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The way you feel does not have to be a result of what you see. And in fact, the way you feel can radically affect what you see. What would your life look like if you were free from worry, uncertainty and even shame? That's living in the unconditional and it's so much easier than you think, in fact it's who you are!! **NEW SELF STORY group program i…
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Self Trust, Why it FEELS like heresy in the beginning
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24:30Self Trust is KEY to creating a beautiful and sustained life that FEELs like it's working for you. Self Trust is locked in, through the action of BEING that which you desire, in the moment. If you made it your top priority every moment to deliberately feel better, then you would experience life in a new way. As something that is here for you to cre…
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Self Story: Living, Thriving & Being Who You Really Are
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17:01You are capable of shifting your self story each moment. It is less about the zero to hero journey and more about the beautiful unfolding legacy you're creating! It IS possible to be more deliberate about feeling good and joy in your life. My new group program, Self Story, has been specifically designed to help you master those skills and DO just t…
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Fresh Start, How to Tell a New Self Story
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13:01We tell ourselves stories all the time, the one we are most obsessed with is our OWN story. all about: How things are working (or aren't working) in our lives. How things are going, stories about how we look and why. Stories about about our families, our career, other people, the world, etc, etc In this episode I unpack exactly how being more delib…
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Saying YES to the Greatest Journey of Your Lifetime
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9:34We're going there today! What is behind this thing we call LIFE and even better, How do you directly connect, inform and co-create with it. Welcome to the Greatest Journey of Your Life! This might be too far out there for you, but come along if you're ready!! 1:1 Life Coaching - Living the Self Kindness Effect 6 months of powerful one to one coachi…
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We've been taught that we need certain conditions to happen before we can feel a specific way. This episode is all about FEELING what you want first, outside of conditions What if you just felt good first - and then went about addressing the conditions of your life? Or peace, or joy....FIRST! How much more powerfully would you meet the conditions o…
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Letting go of the blocks we’ve put up How we’re telling the story, that’s what we can let go of and see things rapidly change in our lives The biggest take away from today's episode: Letting go of the belief that there is something outside you that you need to learn, understand, adapt, get - that will “complete you” Every tool, skill, experience th…
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How to Choose Your Own Best Story (Adventure)
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25:25Did you know that you can change so much in your life, by changing the story that your are listening to in your own mind? We each are telling a story every moment of every day in our own mind. The story is explaining things, other people’s behaviors, what you need to do, making sense of the world around you. It’s also throwing in critiques, past ev…
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Now’s the time. We know this intellectually, as a concept, we can wrap our brains around the idea. Now is the time when we do, think, say, feel, experience, have…it’s got to be in this moment, right now. And yet how often do YOU actually live that way? In this episode How to bring yourself to be present in the moment. How being present right now is…
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Setting Your Intention & Create How You Want to See it
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19:02How you create is how you ARE in this moment. Again and again. In this episode I share exactly how to set Your intention so that your attention focuses on where you want to go. I explain, why it's more important to focus on where you WANT to go, then focusing on why it's not here or why it's not working. All to bring us to feeling connected, more a…
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It's not a mystery to your deeper, innate knowing how to create and move towards your dream life, the true mystery is how we've been made to feel so separate from that inner knowing. You've the most delicious opportunity right now, are you ready to accept it? We are born into the world as experiential beings, touching, feeling the world as babies a…
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How having a glass door shatter in my hands then plunging in the cold Pacific ocean brought me back to my inner compass! You can move from overwhelm to more connected and even joy by being aware of the signs and signals you are getting in the moment. In this episode I will describe how I've helped many of my clients and myself grow this skill CHANG…
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How to BE a powerful creator for the life you WANT
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22:51This IS how life really works! Becoming aware of what you want, noticing your vibrational intelligence and then begin allowing the good into your life - this episode is all about how to do just that! CHANGE YOUR LIFE w/ COACHING 6 months 1:1 coaching program Imagine your life in 6 months, living as a powerful creator for the life you WANT. Click He…
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How to shift from WHAT IS to WHAT YOU WANT TO BE
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25:51Any shift or change in our lives begins with awareness, and noticing what is happening! In this episode I'm sharing a client's experience of going from what she didn't want to what she did want. It's all about connecting with your inner power to intentionally live. CHANGE YOUR LIFE w/ COACHING 6 months 1:1 coaching program Imagine your life in 6 mo…
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How to know that your personal transformation work serves EVERYONE
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19:38Too often we get caught up in thinking that something to our benefit (if it's outside of eating, sleeping, using the bathroom) is Selfish. In this episode I'm going to clearly show you that what you thought was Selfish is actually, Self-LESS...while what we often tout as Self-less is really being selfish. Why? B/c it adds more stress, worry, etc to…
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How to Allow more GOOD into your life Right Now
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22:33The strangest realization might be that we are powerful enough to shift how we're feeling through self awareness. In this episode I will share exactly how I am deliberate about shifting to allow more good feelings, more consistently. I'll unpack why it SEEMS so hard, but how it's as natural as anything else you've learned to do, like walk, talk, et…
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Living a life with LESS Regret and MORE Integrity
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20:13How do you stay in integrity and let that help you move towards what you want in your life? In this episode I describe the three steps I use, and just used to find a new house in one week and move the very next week! After people had been telling us it's so hard, there's nothing available and we didn't have the savings at the time we began looking …
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08 September 2023 - Mental Health and the LGBTQ Community
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1:00:26This episode is the beginning of what is to become Gender Identity Weekly - my existing Dingbat Diaries idea, but engaging other contributors to Gender Identity Today. I may someday break this out into a separate podcast, but I will publish them here as well until the change occurs. REFERENCES: CDC Statistics: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/suicide-da…
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31 August 2023 - Being Blonde, Female, and Depressed
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19:34On the program today: - Why I missed the Dingbat Diaries video for last week - A response to an article that explained my absence last week in which I was called female - Do I really buy into the rhetoric that genetics is gender? -- REFERENCES: Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com Series of articles I wrote: "All Except for My Par…
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RENAMING/ RELAUNCHING - The Self Kindness Effect
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22:14WELCOME back!! It's been a moment and I' back with a new podcast name and some new focus! This work is about shifting our perspectives and coming into direct experience with where we want to be: peace, at ease, connected, capable - and so much more! Self awareness, self compassion, self trust, even self love! This episode is from a LIVE event speak…
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18 August 2023 - New Web Site, Haterade, and D&D
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20:51On the program today, I talk about these fabulous topics: - I launched the new web site I've talked about for a month - I had a short video get many views - and many hate comments - I want to talk about role-playing...probably not what you're thinking -- REFERENCES: Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com Instagram video with 13K vie…
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10 August 2023 - Gender and Voice with Kevin Dorman
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49:11Hi, Kittycats! This is The Dingbat Diaries for the week of August 10th, 2023, which features Kevin Dorman of Prismatic Speech Services: - What is gender-affirming voice? - How do we develop gender and gender identity? - How is gender perceived out there in the world today? -- Linktree: https://linktr.ee/amethystadings Prismatic Speech Services: htt…
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04 August 2023 - Barbie, Music for Minors, and Cisgender Dysphoria
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28:04Hi, Kittycats! This is The Dingbat Diaries for the week of August 4th, 2023: - What in the world makes "Barbie" such a controversial movie? - A new friend of mine helped open my eyes to greater issues of mental health around youth developing identity - A couple conversations that reminded me how gender and gender identity is understood today -- Lin…
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27 July 2023 - Shapewear, Aliens, and The Boost
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31:41Hi, Kittycats! Today on The Dingbat Diaries, I discuss: - Medium's new Partner Plan for August 2023 - How I finally found shapewear that suits my budget and my butt - Aliens in Congress, which is why transgender people should be left alone -- Linktree: https://linktr.ee/amethystadings Buster Benson's MPP changes article: https://blog.medium.com/new…
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20 July 2023 - I'm Scientific and You're Not
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23:15Hi, Kittycats! Today on the Dingbat Weekly, I talk about my newest article detailing my gender theory, "Gender as Mediator," but also how I ended up getting to the point of writing the article. I finish up with a scathing indictment (not really) of Christian thoughts around gender. Linktree: https://linktr.ee/amethystadings "Gender as Mediator:" ht…
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13 July 2023 - Medium, My Future, and Having Thoughts
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13:08This is the first in a series of discussions I have with myself about what I thought about in the past week. Today I talk about: - Where publishing to Medium has gone, including discussion with @robin_wilding - A new publication web site I'm considering - How I think in abstractions and what that means Robin Wilding on YouTube: https://www.youtube.…
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Feeling the MAGIC of Life - The Perfect Fit class
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46:55Listen to the rebroadcast of my recent class - Finding the Perfect Fit. In the class I go over how to bring ourselves back to this moment, helping ourselves feel safe with receiving the good in our lives, and finding what works for you in this moment - your perfect fit - to bring you powerfully back to feeling like life is working. CHANGE YOUR LIFE…
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"Who am I? What am I?" These are the questions humans have been asking since we began thinking. And yet, do you truly know the answer that is true for you? Overwhelm, frustration, anxiety are all symptoms of feeling disconnected within ourselves. Listen in as I share what we are NOT, to point to what we are. (spoiler, you are not your summary of ac…
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How "BE-ing" changes everything You want to "DO!"
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12:53What you DO is always, always, always secondary to how you are BEING!! Focus on how you are BEING and watch your life radically change! CHANGE YOUR LIFE w/ COACHING 6 months 1:1 coaching program Imagine your life in 6 months, after you’ve deeply questioned your purpose. Imagine your life in 6 months, after you’ve allowed more of your LOVES to come …
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