Welcome to Rewire Your Attachment Style with Maya Diamond, where you’ll deepen your self-love, uncover how to be in a secure relationship, & empower yourself to attract emotionally available partners. With interviews from love/sex/relationship professionals, insights & strategies from Maya. Rewire Your Attachment Style is your go-to resource for upleveling your love life, becoming more secure, & magnetizing your dream partner.
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Did you know that too much conflict and arguing is one of the top 3 reasons couples get divorced? According to Forbes, 58% of divorcing couples cited this as their #1 reason for splitting up. When I read this 2024 statistic, my first thought was: It doesn't have to be this way! Hi, I'm Ali Miller, and I created the Love Each Other Better Podcast to share relationship-saving tools and principles that will help you and your partner spend less time fighting and more time doing what you do best: ...
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Women in a Day is a podcast created to give a deep look at the daily lives of women of all kinds, from sunrise to sunset. Join hosts Jenny Halsor and Portia Hensley for an in-depth conversation with an inspiring woman each episode. The lives of some women may sound familiar, others may be a surprise but all will leave you with a greater understanding of what it's like to walk in another woman's shoes for a day.
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28: You’re Upset—Now What? How to Talk About It Without Making Things Worse
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21:40We all experience moments of hurt, frustration, or disappointment in relationship—but how do we address them without making things worse? How can you talk about the things that bother you in a way that doesn’t escalate the conflict or further damage the connection? In this episode, we’ll explore the critical difference between intent and impact and…
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27: Breaking Free from Patriarchy, Sexism and Misogyny in Hetero Relationships with Vivek Patel
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56:05In this episode I'm so honored to be joined by Vivek Patel of Meaningful Ideas to explore the impact of patriarchy, sexism, and misogyny in heterosexual relationships and how to break free from this toxic conditioning that contributes to so much pain for so many people. Vivek shares his own personal journey of recognizing and unlearning his own sex…
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Emotional Potty Training for Adults with Rachel Kaplan // Ep.70
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1:06:06Send us a text Welcome to another episode of Rewire Your Attachment Style! In this insightful conversation, host Maya Diamond welcomes Rachel Kaplan to the show. Rachel is here to share her expertise on emotional healing and how tuning into your feelings can help you heal, take responsibility for your feelings in relationships, and create greater e…
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26: Understanding Attachment Theory to Create Secure Relationships with Maya Diamond
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50:33In this insightful episode of the Love Each Other Better Podcast, I’m honored to have a very special guest, relationship expert Maya Diamond. Maya guides us in a deep-dive into the fascinating world of attachment theory. She unravels the complexities of the four primary attachment styles—secure, avoidant, anxious, and fearful avoidant—and explores …
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25: How to Be Assertive Without Being an A-hole
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27:02In this episode we dive into how to communicate assertively without crossing into aggression. I share powerful insights from Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and offer practical tools to help you ask for what you want in a way that empowers you AND strengthens your connection with others. Whether you're navigating conflict with your partner, or just …
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24: Building Beloved Community with Roxy Manning, PhD
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53:53In this episode of Love Each Other Better, I’m thrilled to welcome Roxy Manning, PhD, a psychologist, Nonviolent Communication trainer, and the author of How to Have Anti-Racist Conversations. Together, we explore the concept of the Beloved Community, inspired by Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., and how it ties into Roxy’s work and activism. We dive int…
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The Integrated Masculine: How to Balance Love, Purpose, and Money with Jason, GS, and Zev / Ep.69
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1:00:53Send us a text Welcome to another transformative episode of the Rewire Your Attachment Style podcast! In this episode, host Maya Diamond sits down with three exceptional guests—Zev Aaron, Jason Lange, and GS Youngblood. These accomplished men’s coaches bring decades of experience working with men to help them deepen their purpose, strengthen their …
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23: Relationship Resolutions for Your Best Year Yet
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26:40Welcome to a special New Year’s episode! As we say goodbye to 2024 and look ahead to 2025, I’m diving into the idea of Relationship Resolutions. Whether it’s your partner, kids, friends, coworkers, or even yourself, the relationships in our lives shape so much of our joy and fulfillment. In this episode, I share simple, practical ideas for strength…
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22: Challenging White Supremacy, Patriarchy, and Capitalism in our Families with Jen Lumanlan
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55:07In this thought-provoking episode of the Love Each Other Better podcast, I sit down with Jen Lumanlan, host of the Your Parenting Mojo podcast and author of Parenting Beyond Power: How to Use Connection & Collaboration to Transform Your Family and the World. Join us for an introduction to how white supremacy, patriarchy, and capitalism shape family…
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21: Self-Regulation Strategies for Thriving Relationships with Dr. Gila
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46:38In Episode 21 of the Love Each Other Better podcast, I’m joined by clinical psychologist, neuropsychologist, and certified parenting coach, Dr. Gila, to explore self-regulation strategies and their transformative impact on intimate relationships. Dr. Gila is a master at simplifying complex concepts in interpersonal neurobiology while providing prac…
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Unlock Your Sexual Potential: Erectile Dysfunction, Semen Retention and Men’s Sexual Health with Taylor Johnson / Ep.68
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1:02:32Send us a text If you want to listen to Taylor’s podcast you can check it out here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-upgraded/id1614256864 If you want to watch Taylor share about Men’s Sexual Health, check out his YouTube here: Click Here If you are in a romantic relationship and would love to increase the pleasure, sexual connection and i…
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Secure Wealth: Julia Wells on Pleasure Based Business and Healing Avoidant Attachment / Ep.67
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58:41Send us a text In this episode, I talk to the brilliant Julia Wells about how to build a pleasure based business, her own journey healing her own avoidant attachment, becoming comfortable with visibility and vulnerability, and creating a millionaire mindset. So excited for you to listen to this episode. If you are single and would like to work with…
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20: Building Connection: The Intersection of Neuroscience and Nonviolent Communication, with Sarah Peyton
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52:07In this enlightening episode I'm joined by Sarah Peyton, a renowned neuroscience educator, author, and certified Nonviolent Communication trainer. We delve into the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and Nonviolent Communication, unpacking how our understanding of trauma, nervous system states, and attachment styles can profoundly influence o…
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19: "How do we find time to connect in our busy lives?" Live Coaching with Noelle + Frank
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1:04:48How do you keep the spark alive with your partner when life feels like a never-ending to-do list? In this very special episode, you get to be a fly on the wall as I sit down with Noelle and Frank, a married couple caught in the familiar struggle of staying emotionally and physically connected amid the demands of modern family life. Through live, re…
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Love is Blind’s Tom Stroud on Dating, Masculinity, and Attachment / Ep.66
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51:31Send us a text I had the joy of interviewing Love Is Blind UK’s Tom Stroud about dating, discernment, finances/relationships, how attachment shows up in your love life, and so much more. Watch this episode or listen to it and enjoy this deep and lively conversation. If you are single and would like to work with Maya 1-1 to help you heal your attach…
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18: Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy with Dr. Rachael Meir
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49:55In this inspiring episode, we explore the nuances of ethical non-monogamy (ENM) with Dr. Rachael Meir, addressing common questions and concerns about polyamory, open relationships, and other forms of ethical/consensual non-monogamy. Dr. Meir breaks down the distinctions between terms like ENM and polyamory, explaining how ENM serves as an umbrella …
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John Gray on Polarity, Hormones, and Attraction in Relationships / 065
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49:58Send us a text In this episode, I interview John Gray about how to keep the passion alive in a long term relationship. We discuss the nature of attraction and how hormones and polarity play a big role in creating and maintaining the erotic intimacy in your relationship. To find out more about John's work go to: https://www.marsvenus.com/ If you are…
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In this episode, we dive into the hard-to-admit but common feeling of "hating" your spouse. What does it really mean when those emotions surface, and where do they come from? We'll explore the dysfunctional communication patterns—like criticism, contempt, and defensiveness—that often fuel resentment and emotional distance in relationships. More imp…
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In this episode we’re diving into the most common and critical mistake couples make—and it's not what you might think. Join me to explore why waiting until your relationship is in crisis before seeking support can be a recipe for heartbreak. I'll share insights from over two decades of working with couples, revealing the patterns that lead to thriv…
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15: Empowering our Kids through Collaborative Problem-Solving
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24:38This episode is a bit different from my usual focus on romantic relationships, as I dive into the parent-child dynamic. While today's discussion is tailored for parents, the principles I'll explore are just as applicable to your relationship with your partner or anyone you spend time with, making this episode valuable for everyone. As a mom to a fo…
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14: Client Spotlight: Margot and Dan
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1:05:07In episode 14, "Client Spotlight: Margot and Dan," I have something truly special for you. This is my first episode featuring a real, live couple who have been coaching clients of mine. Margot and Dan sat down with me to share their journey, experiences, and the transformative impact of NVC and coaching on their relationship. In this episode, you'l…
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Want Secure Love? Time to Rewire for Love / 064
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16:53Send us a text In this episode, Maya shares about her group coaching program for women, called Rewire For Love, that begins July 15th. She shares about who the program is for, what kind of results women are getting and the time/financial investment for this 4-month program. Get all the deets by listening to this episode! If you are ready to enroll …
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Have you ever found yourself overwhelmed by anger and wondered what's truly fueling it? In today’s episode, “What’s Underneath Your Anger?”, I dive deep into a cathartic experience I just had that unveiled the tender feelings lurking beneath my own anger. Join me as I explore the vulnerable emotions that often underlie anger, such as stress, fear, …
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12: From Reactive to Responsive: The Key to Transforming Your Relationship
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30:10Welcome to today's enlightening episode, "From Reactive to Responsive: The Key to Transforming Your Relationship." There's a timeless quote, often attributed to Viktor Frankl, that encapsulates the essence of our discussion: "Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our…
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How to Improve Your Relationship With an Avoidant Partner / 063
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18:59Send us a text In this episode Maya shares 3 tangible shifts you can make to have a better relationship with your avoidant partner. These are not easy to do but are transformative for yourself and your relationship. If you are a woman and interested in signing up for the next round of the Rewire For Love program, you can do so by clicking on these …
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11: Three Unconventional Ways to Stop Repeating the Same Fight and Finally Resolve Your Issues
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20:07In this episode, we're diving into something many couples struggle with: breaking the cycle of recurring fights. If you and your partner find yourselves stuck in the same argument loop, this episode is for you. Brought to you by my new eight-week private coaching program for couples, "Stop Fighting Without Stuffing Your Feelings or Sacrificing Your…
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10: Connecting Across Neurotypes with Bob Yamtich
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43:29Join us in this profound episode of Love Each Other Better as we delve into the transformative power of Nonviolent Communication (NVC) within the autism community and beyond. My guest, Bob Yamtich, a seasoned NVC teacher and former Marriage and Family Therapist who has worked extensively with the autism community, shares insights into the beauty of…
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In this episode, I dive into a common critique of Nonviolent Communication (NVC): that it feels robotic, formal, inauthentic, and unnatural. Have you encountered this criticism before, or do you share these feelings yourself? Or maybe your partner has said this? NVC is a powerful framework for communication and conflict resolution, but some struggl…
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From Numb to Joy: Saul's Journey to Happiness in Love & Life / 062
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39:25Send us a text In this episode, Maya interviews Saul about the challenges he was facing in his life and how the work in the 1-1 Rewire For Love program with Maya helped to heal his attachment style, and shift some major blocks to receiving love, happiness, and internal security and confidence. To receive free support with this, available exclusivel…
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High & Dry: How to Release Your Addiction to Unavailable Men / 061
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31:26Send us a text In this episode, Maya and Erin dive deep into this pervasive pattern. Maya shares the 5 steps to release the addiction to unavailable men, how to become empowered in your love journey instead of a victim, and how to finally find an available partner. To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, j…
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One of the most inspiring parts about Nonviolent Communication for me is how it helps people connect across differences. But let’s be honest: there are some differences that are harder to navigate than others, and that's why I'm devoting an entire episode to this one. Picture this: Partner A is dissatisfied with an aspect of the relationship and at…
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07: Let's Talk About Sex, featuring Mary Goyer
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1:02:21In this thought-provoking episode I interview NVC trainer, Mary Goyer, about one of the most challenging topics for couples to talk about openly: sex. Why is it so hard to discuss sex openly, compassionately, and connectedly, and how can Nonviolent Communication help us through this so we can have the amazing sex lives we long for? Exploring variou…
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Wishing & Hoping They Will Change Their Mind: The Addiction to the Not Quite Available / 060
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21:45Send us a text In this episode, Maya shares about this common situation that people will get trapped in - wishing and hoping someone will change their mind about you and finally commit or finally decide you are the one. Maya shares about where this pattern comes from and how to break free from it once and for all. To receive free support with this,…
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06: The Key Ingredients of an Authentic Apology
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21:38Welcome to Episode 6 of the Love Each Other Better podcast, where we dive deep into the complexities of relationships with compassion and understanding. Today, we're tackling a topic that's essential for anyone navigating the ups and downs of love: the art of the authentic apology. In every relationship, there are bound to be moments where we inadv…
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From Chaos to Stability: Repair Your Disorganized Attachment and Find Healthy Love / 059
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28:23Send us a text In this episode, I share about the challenges that people with disorganized attachment face and the steps to heal your attachment system and become more secure in relationship. I also go over how clients have been able to shift their disorganized patterns in love and find healthy secure partnership. I hope this episode gives you hope…
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In this illuminating episode, we delve deep into the heart of conflict within relationships. In my work with hundreds of couples I've noticed a common thread that keeps couples stuck in endless cycles of conflict: they're stuck in what I call "courtroom mentality," where both people are putting all their energy into trying to prove who is in the ri…
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From Heartbreak to Heart Fulfilled: Emily's Surprising Journey To Secure and Deep Love / 058
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31:49Send us a text In this episode, I interview Emily about her surprising journey to deep and healthy secure love. She graduated the Rewire For Love Program in Spring 2023 and through the work in the program developed her self-worth, healthy boundaries, secure attachment and opened up to big love! Find out how she went from heartbreak to her heart fee…
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In this episode, I dive into a topic that's crucial for fostering peace and connection in your relationships: How to Get Your Partner to Change. Now, I know what you're thinking – isn't trying to change your partner futile? We've all heard that the only person you can change is yourself. But let's be real: most of us find ourselves wanting our part…
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Maya Interviews Alicia Dattner, Comedian, and Graduate of the Rewire for Love Program / 057
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40:01Send us a text In this interview Maya interviews LA Comedian, Alicia Dattner about how she shifted her patterns and found healthy secure love through the Rewire For Love Program. She shares how she had tried lots of things before the program and it was only until she did the deep work and had the structure of the program that she found a new kind o…
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Listening is SO Much More Than Waiting for Your Turn to Speak: Crash Course in NVC Part 3
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33:20Welcome to Episode 3 of the Love Each Other Better podcast! In this third installment of my 3-part Crash Course in Nonviolent Communication, I delve into the transformative power of listening as an act of love. In a world where communication often revolves around speaking, listening tends to take a backseat. But listening is not just about waiting …
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Wired for Pleasure: Exploring the Erotic Blueprints with Ian Ferguson / 056
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1:10:40Send us a text In this episode, I have the pleasure of interviewing Ian Ferguson, Master Trainer and co-founder of Jaiya Inc. about the Erotic Blueprints. We explore each blueprint, the way the blueprints can address the common challenges that come up in couples around their sexuality, and how Erotic Blueprint work can awaken and expand one’s sexua…
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Moving Beyond Blame: Crash Course in NVC Part 2
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25:33In Episode 2 of our Crash Course on Nonviolent Communication, we delve into the transformative concept of moving beyond blame. Join me, your host, as we explore how to navigate conflicts with compassion, focusing on understanding our own needs and those of our loved ones. Today, we take a closer look at a core principle of Nonviolent Communication …
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The Effects of Sexual Trauma on Your Dating/Love Life: Reclaim Your Power / 055
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29:10Send us a text In this episode, Maya details the effects sexual trauma has on your dating and relationship life. In addition, she shares how it impacts the ways you show up in relationship as well as your attachment style. She shares about why one might decide to spend the time, energy, and resources to heal and the level of power, self-worth, conf…
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"But I'm not violent!": Crash Course in Nonviolent Communication: Part 1
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12:26Welcome to the inaugural episode of the "Love Each Other Better" podcast, hosted by Ali Miller, a seasoned licensed marriage and family therapist and certified coach specializing in couples communication and conflict resolution. In this episode, Ali introduces the core theme of the podcast: how Nonviolent Communication (NVC) helps us love ourselves…
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Welcome to the Love Each Other Better podcast! I’m your host, Ali Miller, and for over 20 years I’ve been helping people love themselves and each other better. As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Couples Communication Coach, on this podcast I will be sharing with you transformational tools and principles from Nonviolent Communic…
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The Art of Safe Dating: How to Minimize Risk and Maximize Joy / 054
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28:18Send us a text In this episode, Maya shares her top suggestions for how to dating in a healthy, safe, and secure way. This episode is especially helpful if you’ve been in unavailable or narcissistic relationships and are wanting to do things differently and aren’t sure how. You deserve to have your heart protected and honored while you are dating. …
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Send us a text In this episode, Maya and Erin discuss the why and how of impeccable boundaries. They cover how weak boundaries deteriorate relationships and how to instead create stronger boundaries in yourself so you can have a secure and healthy lasting relationship. To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listener…
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From Rollercoaster Romance to Everlasting Love: Stephanie’s Journey to Engagement and Fulfillment / 052
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19:03Send us a text In this podcast episode, I interview Stephanie about her journey from hot/cold relationships and lack of inner love to finding a healthy secure partner. She shares why she joined the program and the deep security/wholeness she found inside herself. She is so happy to be experiencing what she always wanted but wasn’t sure was possible…
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Becoming a Cunning Linguist: A Men’s Panel on Giving Her Pleasure / 051
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1:11:19Send us a text In this episode, I have the delight of interviewing 4 men (who are my dear friends) about the pleasure of giving oral sex. This interview is for anyone who wants to learn more about the art and skill of oral sex, as well as for anyone who wants to get a transmission of what it’s like to love giving women pleasure. Both men and women …
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Carlyne’s Big Shift: How She Went From Struggling/People Pleasing to Deep Self-Trust/Engaged / 050
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27:35Send us a text In this episode, I interview Carlyne about her experience in the Rewire For Love Program. She went from struggling/getting divorced to finding a deep sense of self-trust, self-love, internal security, and discernment. Also, we celebrate her recent engagement to a man she loves who treats her so well! I hope this episode brings you ho…
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