Welcome to a NorthPoint Counseling Perspective, a podcast that addresses the intricate tapestry of individual, marriage, parenting, addictive sexual behavior, and betrayal partner trauma.
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A honest-talking, no barriers podcast for anyone that wants to know more about about sexual health, HIV/STD/Hepatitis C prevention, PrEP, LGBTQ inclusivity, substance use disorder, sexual positivity and other topics that most people avoid (or have "feelings" talking about). We give it to you honestly and bring in experts to share their advice and opinions.
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Every day, professionals from Children's Advocacy Centers and multidisciplinary teams do incredible work to help children and families heal from the trauma of child abuse. NRCAC's Team Talk podcast highlights the efforts of these heroes throughout the northeast region and across the United States.
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Catholics Fight Porn is a new ministry helping men break free from their porn addiction. Follow us as we share why we’re passionate about helping men become Finally Free!
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Difficult conversations with Max Karson. mrgirl.substack.com
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Welcome to our unique mental health podcast! Licensed therapist, Juliet Kuehnle, uses humor and real talk to dive into the stories of interesting people you (want to) know. Of course there will be therapy tips (because, let's be serious, we all need them!), but mostly these conversations are a glimpse into the vulnerability of the people you might think "have it all together." We want to elevate and normalize the dialogue around mental health and erase the stigma so we can all own our humann ...
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An enormous amount of time, money, effort, and good intentions goes into scientific research. But all too often the results aren’t shared – or effectively communicated – with those beyond the ivory tower of academia. The goal of Beyond the Jargon is to make academic research more accessible to a wider audience. Host Karen Albright engages listeners in a series of conversations designed to translate scientific research and to explore from a data-driven perspective the impacts of child abuse o ...
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Episode 50 - Transitioning From Peer to Supervisor
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1:06:00EPISODE SUMMARY: Transitions are such an important part of life, and one of the most challenging transitions is going from peer to supervisor. In this episode, Cara Vock, Program Manager and Chapter Development at Southern Regional Children's Advocacy Center, and Christina Rouse, Program Manager for CAC Development at Southern Regional Children's A…
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Send us a text In this episode of NorthPoint Counseling Perspective, host John Sternfels—a National Board-Certified Counselor, marriage therapist, and author—explores the power and purpose of a Couples' Weekly Check-In. This intentional practice can be a game-changer for couples looking to deepen connection, rebuild trust, and strengthen emotional …
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Episode 20: Truth and Trust - Why a Therapeutic Disclosure
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22:17Send us a text Hosted by John Sternfels, National Board-certified counselor, author, and clinical director of NorthPoint Professional Counseling, this episode dives deep into one of the most essential—and often misunderstood—tools in healing from betrayal: Why a Therapeutic Disclosure. John brings nearly two decades of experience helping individual…
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Episode 21: Family Impact Meeting - Strengthening Connections, Building a Healthier Future
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22:28Send us a text Are you seeking a structured approach to restore healing, truth, and unity within your home? Then don’t miss this episode of NorthPoint Counseling Perspective, where we dive into the Family Impact Meeting — a powerful, guided therapeutic approach to help families begin conversations around broken trust, addiction recovery, or betraya…
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Episode 22: Understand Your Attachment Style
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35:13Send us a text In this episode of NorthPoint Counseling Perspective, John Sternfels explores the foundational topic of attachment styles—how our early childhood experiences with parents /caregivers shape the way we connect, trust, and navigate intimacy in adulthood. John unpacks the four main attachment styles—Secure, Anxious (Preoccupied), Avoidan…
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Episode 23: Healthy Parenting: Preparing The Next Generation
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11:04Send us a text What does it take to raise strong, grounded, and emotionally healthy kids in today’s fast-paced, ever-changing world? In this powerful episode, John Sternfels gives us a sneak peek into his highly anticipated new book, Healthy Parenting: Preparing the Next Generation. With warmth, wisdom, and clinical insight, John unpacks what every…
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E41– Dr. Eddie Capparucci on Why Men Struggle to Love: Overcoming 14 Relational Blind Spots
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44:52Send us a text If you've ever felt frustrated by a struggle to love at a deep level, this episode is for you. We welcome back Dr. Eddie Capparucci, author of "Why Men Struggle to Love: Overcoming Relational Blind Spots," for an important discussion. Dr. Capparucci introduces us to the crucial concept of "relational blind spots," explaining how a ma…
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Episode 49 - New Jersey Problematic Sexual Behavior Program
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48:35EPISODE SUMMARY: In this episode of NRCAC Team Talk, we spotlight the New Jersey Children’s Alliance’s groundbreaking, statewide approach to addressing problematic sexual behavior (PSB) in youth. Join guests Nydia Monagas, Maria Isabel Poontoriero (MIP), and Valeria Vila from NJCA as they discuss the development of this innovative program, its foun…
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E40- Why We Act Out – A Catholic Path to Understanding the Roots of Problematic Sexual Behavior
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37:04Send us a text This episode tackles the profound question: "Why? Why do I keep doing this? Why can't I stop?" We dive deep into the roots of problematic sexual behavior, moving beyond shame to understand the complex interplay of factors that drive us. There are 7 "Why's" outlined to help you learn that these struggles often stem from misdirected na…
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Big Feelings, Bold Truths: Disability, Art, and Self-Advocacy - Alie B Gorrie (arts educator, disability inclusion advocate)
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32:41I’m joined by the incredible Alie B, a legally blind arts educator, disability advocate, and all-around powerhouse of empathy and expression. Alie B shares how discovering theatre and monologue work became her first form of self-advocacy. She opens up about living with low vision, navigating an eating disorder in her youth, and how she now supports…
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Episode 18: Therapeutic Marital Healing Separation Agreement
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12:11Send us a text In this compelling episode, counselor and author John Sternfels explores the Therapeutic Marital Healing Separation Agreement—a structured, intentional approach to marital separation that prioritizes healing, emotional safety, and personal responsibility. Designed specifically for couples in crisis who desire clarity, growth, and the…
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Episode 48 – Fostering Trust: Collaborating with Tribal Nations in Child Advocacy
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32:34EPISODE SUMMARY: Understanding the history and challenges faced by Tribal Nations is essential for building trust and fostering meaningful partnerships within the Children's Advocacy Center (CAC) movement. In this episode, Deanna Chancellor shares insights from her experience, discussing the historical trauma Indigenous communities have faced, how …
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E39- Holy Week: Walking with Christ through his Passion, Death, and Resurrection
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13:30Send us a text Whether you're on the path of recovery from lust and pornography, or walking the painful road of betrayal as a spouse, the Triduum holds sacred ground for your healing. In this episode, we’ll walk through Holy Thursday, Good Friday, Holy Saturday, and Easter Sunday, seeing how Jesus meets us in every stage of the journey. HELPFUL LIN…
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Fatherless Behavior with Lindsay Byron
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1:08:30This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mrgirl.substack.com/subscribeBy Max Karson
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This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mrgirl.substack.com/subscribeBy Max Karson
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This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mrgirl.substack.com/subscribeBy Max Karson
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The DDoS Kid and His Dad Talk About Destiny's 2011 Threats On Their Lives
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50:00Correction: The DDoS Kid was 16 at the time of the threats, not 15. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mrgirl.substack.com/subscribeBy Max Karson
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E38- Where is God? When He Feels Distant: Overcoming Lust, Shame, and Betrayal in Marriage
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34:11Send us a text "My God, my God, why have You forsaken me?" – Psalm 22:1-2. Have you ever felt abandoned by God? "How long, O Lord? Will You forget me forever?" – Psalm 13:1-2. Have you ever wondered when God would heal you? "If God loves me, why am I still struggling?" Does it feel like the problematic behavior is forgotten by Our Lord? In this epi…
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EPISODE SUMMARY: School Resource Officers (SROs) play a vital role in Children's Advocacy Centers (CACs) and multidisciplinary teams (MDTs). In this episode, we explore the importance of collaboration between SROs and CACs in the multidisciplinary response to child abuse cases, along with strategies for overcoming common challenges. Whether you're …
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Episode 17: The Therapeutic Disclosure Process: A Path to Healing and Trust
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31:53Send us a text Hosted by John Sternfels, The Therapeutic Disclosure Process: A Path to Healing and Trust is a podcast dedicated to guiding individuals and couples through the complexities of therapeutic disclosure after relational betrayal. As a National Board-Certified Counselor (NCC) and the owner of NorthPoint Professional Counseling Inc., John …
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Discussing Lily Phillips with Joolz Denby
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2:31:03This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mrgirl.substack.com/subscribeBy Max Karson
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Notes on disagreements: Infinite time dilation near an event horizon: At around 15:30, Paul and I disagreed about what an observer falling into a black hole would experience in terms of time dilation. Paul proposed a 2X limit on how quickly clocks would run in this observer's frame, but this limit only applies in a very specific scenario, and I bel…
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E37: Vinny Flynn on How Divine Mercy Heals the Wounds of Shame and Helps the Betrayed Spouse
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1:28:26Send us a text In this powerful episode, I'm honored to have Vinny Flynn, Catholic author, speaker and Divine Mercy expert, to explore how Christ’s Divine Mercy heals the wounds of shame and brings peace, and even renewal to the heart of a betrayed spouse. Tune in for insights into how St. Faustina found purity, the painting of the Image, the Chapl…
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Episode 16: SEX: Secular, Relativistic-Cultural, or Biblical? Sex Across Perspectives
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28:53Send us a text Sex. It’s everywhere—on our screens, in our culture, and shaping how we think about relationships, identity, and intimacy. But with so many competing voices—secular ideologies, cultural relativism, and biblical truth—how do we separate fact from fiction? In this eye-opening episode, counselor and author John Sternfels explores his up…
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Send us a text In this episode, counselor and author, John Sternfels will dive into the complex and often misunderstood topic of codependency in marriage. Many couples struggle with unhealthy relational patterns where one partner becomes overly reliant on the other for emotional validation, self-worth, or decision-making. This imbalance can lead to…
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EPISODE SUMMARY: Effective communication and building trust are essential skills for child abuse professionals working towards a shared mission to protect children and support families. In this episode, Ken Homer discusses the concept of Collaborative Conversations, a four-step model designed to enhance communication, build trust, and foster meanin…
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E36: Negative Sobriety and the Call to Transformation
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20:15Send us a text In this episode, we tackle the concept of negative sobriety—when someone merely avoids acting out but doesn’t pursue real transformation. White-knuckling through temptation is unsustainable. Sober is not well. Jesus calls us to have life and have it abundantly. We have to get past not acting out and grow in virtue so that doing the r…
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Episode 14: DOWNLOAD For Parents: Sex, Social Media, and Secrets
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20:47Send us a text In this episode, counselor and author, John Sternfels introduces his new book, "DOWNLOAD For Parents." DOWNLOAD is a crucial guide for today’s parents navigating the digital world with their children. Technology has transformed how our kids interact, learn, and socialize. Still, it has also introduced new challenges—exposure to harmf…
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Won't Remain Silent Anymore - Mike Gminski (Duke/NBA Athlete, Basketball Analyst)
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48:22CW: substance abuse/addiction In this powerful episode, Juliet (a proud Duke fan!) sits down with former Duke basketball star and 14-season NBA veteran, Mike Gminski. Now a basketball analyst, Mike opens up about his most fulfilling role yet—navigating recovery and using his story to help others. Mike shares what it was like to be a young athlete i…
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Discussing the Neil Gaiman allegations with Kat Rosenfield
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E35: Advanced Recovery w/Dr. Mark Denison
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59:25Send us a text Dr. Mark Denison joins the show to discuss Advanced Recovery. He wrote a book on the topic including 12 Keys to Long-Term Sobriety and the neat thing is, he includes 40 stories of men with long-term sobriety. The 200+ years of long-term sobriety in the stories are inspirational as they lay out what works, what doesn't and how to achi…
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E34: New Year, Fresh Start w/Cristin O'Connor
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22:14Send us a text In this episode, Steve is joined by his wife, Cristin, to take a look back at their highlights from 2024 and to discuss their word and focus for 2025. Please share CFP with anyone you know could benefit. May God richly bless you! Steve & Cristin. Helpful Links: -For 30 days Free of Covenant Eyes, sign up at: https://www.covenanteyes.…
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Beyond Words / Bodywork For Healing - Laura Phoenix (somatic practitioner)
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31:45Juliet chats with Laura Phoenix, a writer, healer, yoga teacher, and somatic experiencing practitioner who is queer, neurodivergent, and traumatized. Their life's work is guiding people in yoga and bodywork for trauma recovery. Juliet & Laura discuss going beyond 'talk therapy' and learning to listen to our bodies that are always trying to tell us …
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E33: 11 Holiday Struggles and How to Overcome Them
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34:43Send us a text Christmas is the most wonderful time of the year. Thanksgiving kicks off the holiday season and there's so much to get excited about. At the same time, the holidays present many different challenges. Steve dives into 11 struggles that surface around Christmastime and how to overcome each one using the wisdom of Scripture and the sain…
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Anxiety Is A Friend?! - Haley Weaver (author, illustrator)
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25:55In this episode, Juliet talks with Haley Weaver...you probably know her as @haleydrewthis from her adorable and relatable illustrations on Instagram! Haley recently published her first book called Give Me Space but Don't Go Far: My Unlikely Friendship With Anxiety. Juliet and Haley discuss the function of anxiety and how understanding your relation…
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E32: Techless Wisephone Founder Chris Kaspar
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43:31Send us a text Steve interviews Chris Kaspar - founder of the Techless Wisephone, which is the world's safest and healthiest minimalist phone. This is the perfect option for the one struggling with lust on their phone. Chris shares his story and what led to creating the Wisephone, what the Wisephone is and how it will help you. He also touches on a…
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E31: The Farmer + Recovery - Lessons of Delayed Gratification and Harvest
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13:12Send us a text In this episode Steve shares how the metaphor of the farmer and the concept of delayed gratification can provide powerful lessons in recovery. He explores themes like hard work, discipline and patience and how they lead to long-term rewards from addiction. Share with a friend and thanks for tuning in! Helpful Links: -For 30 days Free…
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E30: Looks + Glances Part II - 25 Reasons + Tips for Custody of the Eyes
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34:52Send us a text In this episode Steve covers 25 reasons a Catholic should strive for custody of the eyes and a tip for each reason. He caps off the episode with a powerful example from Scripture. Don't miss out and please help the show by sharing with a friend! Helpful Links: -For 30 days Free of Covenant Eyes, sign up at: https://www.covenanteyes.c…
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Problematic Sexual Behaviors - David Sanchez (Therapist)
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33:21In this episode, Juliet talks with fellow therapist, David Sanchez. David specializes in working with clients with problematic sexual behaviors (porn, affairs/infidelity, compulsive sexual behaviors, etc.). David educates listeners on what these behaviors actually are, removing stigma from it as his work is about understanding the person underneath…
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E29: Covenant Eyes Catholic Outreach Specialist Theo McManigal
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40:40Send us a text In this episode, Steve interviews Theo McManigal, the Catholic Outreach Specialist at Covenant Eyes. Theo shares his personal story on his battle with lust and how he was able to break free and stay free. Learn more about Covenant Eyes and how it can help you navigate the pitfalls that technology presents. Share this with a friend! H…
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E28: Custody of the Eyes: How to Combat Looks + Glances
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20:55Send us a text In this episode, Steve talks about the dangers of looks and glances and what to do about it to achieve custody of the eyes. Take a listen for strategies to maintain custody of the eyes and reflect on the five Bible verses to motivate us in purity. Finally, don't miss the amazing story at the end! Helpful links: Book a Complimentary, …
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Send us a text Behind The Smile by John Sternfels and Melissa Roberts is a real-life story of how one of John's clients, Melissa Roberts, overcame the horrors of being abused, traumatized, and sexually betrayed. As a result, Melissa experienced many psychological complexities, often behind a facade of happiness. The book is designed to offer reader…
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Sexual Moral Issues with Raja Halwani
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Neurodivergent Superpower! - Matt Zakreski (psychologist, author, speaker)
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43:51Dr. Matthew Zakreski (known as “Dr. Matt”) is a seasoned clinical psychologist and professional speaker renowned for his expertise in serving neurodivergent individuals (people with different brains such as gifted, ADHD, Autism, and dyslexia). Passionate about reducing stigma surrounding neurodiversity, Dr. Matt is driven by his mission to promote …
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Episode 27: Feeling Shame to Improve Relationships
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13:04Send us a text In this episode, Steve breaks down how it's healthy to feel shame to improve relationships with self and others. He recaps the difference between guilt and shame as well as offers 4 ways to use remorse for healing. He covers two scripture passages and a saint that exemplified this in their life. Check it out and share with a friend! …
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Modern Intimacy & Problematic Sexual Behavior with Kate Balestrieri
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56:10This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mrgirl.substack.com/subscribeBy Max Karson
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EPISODE SUMMARY: Sass Boucher and Kate Collier, co-founders of SelfCare Psychology Ltd, bring psychology, awareness, resources, and expertise to frontline workers in supportive roles. In this episode, they discuss the concept of Professional Trauma and Fatigue and how CAC staff and MDT partners can use the Five Pillars of Protection to mitigate the…
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Sex Differences & Evolutionary Psychology with David Geary
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Episode 26: The Use of a Polygraph in Full Disclosure w/ Ellen Drews
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54:14Send us a text Ellen Drews is back to discuss a crucial part of the Full Disclosure process which is the use of a Polygraph. Steve & Ellen break down the reasons for doing a polygraph, the pros and cons of it, 10 common concerns for taking a polygraph, different methods of polygraphs, where to find a polygrapher and what happens after the polygraph…
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