Best Roula Abou Haidar Podcasts (2025)

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84: Can You Wear Crocs To A Wedding? 11:37

19h ago11:37

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Send us a text Crocs at a Wedding: Iconic or Inappropriate? One listener sent us four juicy messages—and this episode is dedicated to them. Kicking off with a theory about why men have nipples (you don’t want to miss Roula’s take), we then dive into the big debate: are Crocs ever acceptable at a formal event? From wedge-heeled clogs to silky brides…

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83: Is Losing Your Shit Ever Justified? 14:53

2d ago14:53

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Send us a text Roula and Rosie are asking the big question this time: what do you *really* think about people who lose their shit? Is it a sign of passion and overwhelm—or just poor emotional regulation? They dive into personal stories and uncomfortable reflections: - Rosie admits to shouting when she cares too much (and that one group project that…

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82: Do You Have A Resting Bitch Face? 11:28

3d ago11:28

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Send us a text Roula kicks off with a simple question: do you think you’re approachable? Cue Rosie spiralling into an identity crisis, confessing her resting bitch face and questioning whether her dog is the only reason strangers talk to her. The conversation zigzags through awkward small talk, people-pleasing, and what it really means to be “frien…

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81: Is Goal Setting A Waste of Time? 14:02

6d ago14:02

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Send us a text Rosie kicks things off with a dramatic question: is goal setting stupid? Roula’s not having it—she’s got daily goals, backup goals, food-related goals, and a whole philosophy to go with them. Meanwhile, Rosie admits she’s just been… waking up. No intention, no direction—just vibes. They dive into why setting goals can feel both empow…

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80: Does What We Wear Define Us? 16:09

7d ago16:09

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Send us a text Do Clothes Really Make the Person? Roula throws a question at Rosie while she’s mid-salami bite: do clothes make the person? What starts off as a light, silly chat quickly becomes a surprisingly raw conversation about appearance, first impressions, confidence (or lack of it), and how we choose to show up in the world. Rosie opens up …

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79: Is Peeing In The Shower OK or Just Plain Gross? 13:10

8d ago13:10

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Send us a text What started as a casual question turned into a full-blown confessional. Roula admits she might have lied (or misremembered?) about how she got into the habit of peeing in the shower—and Rosie wants to know: is it actually environmentally friendly, or just an excuse? They also cover the weird things we find gross (Roula’s fine with u…

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78. Show Me How You Drive, I tell You Who You Are 14:21

9d ago14:21

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Send us a text Are You a Road Rager or a Granny Driver? This week, Rosie and Roula hit the gas on a high-energy conversation about driving styles—and the unspoken rules of the road. From tailgating and speeding to cultural chaos behind the wheel, they swap stories of road rage, reckless Ubers, and why a smooth stop can be the ultimate flex. Roula c…

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77. Do You Feel Guilty Doing Nothing? 10:25

10d ago10:25

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Send us a text Feeling Guilty for Doing Nothing? You're Not Alone. In a world that glorifies hustle and productivity, Rosie and Roula slow things down to talk about a guilt almost all of us carry: the guilt of doing… nothing. Why do we feel bad for resting? Why do our weekends need to be "productive"? Why does boredom feel like failure? This week, …

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76. Night Owls vs Early Riser: Who's Got It Right? 7:56

13d ago7:56

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Send us a text Rosie is a midnight mastermind. Roula is up with the sun. This week, we dive deep into the funny (and frustrating) tension between night owls and early birds and what our sleep schedules say about how we live. From guilt about sleeping in to the joy of empty morning streets, they unpack how society is rigged for the 9-to-5ers… and wh…

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75. Big Boobs, Small Boobs: Does It Even Matter? 11:23

14d ago11:23

11:23

Send us a text In this episode, Rosie and Roula get personal, playful, and unexpectedly deep about… boobs. From A-cups to E-cups, breast envy to back pain, they dive into body image, societal expectations, and what it means to feel feminine or not in a world that constantly has opinions about our bodies. Rosie opens up about life on the small-boob …

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74. Who Should Pay on the First Date? 11:47

15d ago11:47

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Send us a text Romance, money, and… awkward silences. In this episode, Rosie and Roula dive headfirst into a classic dating dilemma: who picks up the bill on date number one? What starts as a chat about etiquette quickly unravels into something deeper—expectations, power dynamics, gender norms, and how we handle (or avoid) talking about money. Rosi…

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73: When I Grow Up, I will be... 10:31

16d ago10:31

10:31

Send us a text "What Did You Want to Be When You Grew Up?" From superstar singer to best-selling author, this episode dives into childhood dreams and how life — and our bodies, parents, and practicality — often get in the way. This week, Rosie and Roula get deeply personal. From Rosie’s chip-eating vengeance to Roula’s Cyndi-Lauper-inspired daydrea…

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72: Was Paris Hilton's Sex Tape Really Leaked, Or Was It A Strategic Move? 16:40

17d ago16:40

16:40

Send us a text Sex Tapes: Leaked or Launched? From Paris Hilton to Pamela Anderson, “leaked” sex tapes have shaped careers, sparked scandals, and provoked endless debate. But how many of these tapes are truly accidental and how many are strategic moves dressed as tabloid chaos? This week, Rosie and Roula wade into murky waters, asking uncomfortable…

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71: Control and Shame - the 9 to 5 Work Hours 15:51

20d ago15:51

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Send us a text The 9-to-5 Lie: Control, Shame & Why It’s Still Broken The 9-to-5 grind: we all know it, but should we still tolerate it? In this week’s episode, Rosie and Roula dive into the frustration of rigid office hours, cultural shaming, and the outdated rules that control us. From skipping lunch to working overtime for free, they discuss how…

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70: Why Are GP's always Late? 8:58

21d ago8:58

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Send us a text Why Are GPs Always Late? You show up on time. You wait. And wait. And wait. This week, Rosie and Roula tackle a universal frustration: doctors who never run on time. From 10-minute delays to full hours spent in a waiting room, they vent about the absurdity of scheduled appointments that mean absolutely nothing and the larger, uncomfo…

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69: Easy Going Avoiding Conflict? 12:24

22d ago12:24

12:24

Send us a text Are You Really Easygoing? Or Just Avoiding Conflict? Calm. Chill. Unbothered. Or... secretly screaming inside? In this episode, we unpack what it really means to be easygoing and why it’s not always as peaceful as it seems. Rosie thinks it’s often a mask for avoidance. Roula wonders if it’s a quiet form of strength. Together, they tr…

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68: Why Going To The Movies Is A Terrible First Date 12:25

23d ago12:25

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Send us a text Popcorn, silence, and... sexual tension? In this episode, we dive into the debate: is going to the movies a terrible idea for a first date, or an underrated icebreaker? Rosie is firmly Team No (you can’t even talk!), while Roula thinks it might be the perfect low-pressure setting to see if sparks fly followed, ideally, by a walk or a…

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67: Why You Should NEVER Tell Someone to 'Calm Down' 17:12

24d ago17:12

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Send us a text If you’ve ever been told to “calm down” when you’re in the middle of a heated moment, this episode is for you. Rosie and Roula dive into why those two little words are more likely to escalate tension than bring peace. Rosie shares her personal experience with how “calm down” triggers frustration, and the conversation flows into an ex…

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66: Is an Affair Always The End of A Relationship? 15:36

27d ago15:36

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Send us a text Roula wants to know: is an affair the end of a relationship—or could it actually be the beginning of something better? This episode picks up where our chats about secrets and white lies left off, but now we’re diving headfirst into the big one: cheating. We talk about what actually counts as cheating (spoiler: it’s not just sex), why…

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65: Secrets - Are Some Things Better Left Unsaid? 10:50

28d ago10:50

10:50

Send us a text Roula’s got a juicy question this week: is it ever okay to keep a secret? What starts as a deep dive into privacy, trust, and how much we *really* owe each other quickly turns into... well, something a little unexpected (hint: it involves a bed, hands, and dinner prep). You’ve been warned. We’re unpacking the difference between priva…

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64: Is It OK To Tell White Lies? 17:25

29d ago17:25

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Send us a text 64. Roula and Rosie peel back the layers of the little lies we all tell—like “sure, I’ll come back for that shirt” or “no worries about the noise in the garden”—and ask: are white lies harmless, helpful, or just everyday BS? From lipstick compliments to pretending you love your kid’s questionable artwork, this episode explores whethe…

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63: "It Is What It Is" - Healthy Stoicism or Emotional Immaturity? 16:08

30d ago16:08

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Send us a text Is “it is what it is” a sign of emotional maturity—or just emotional laziness? Roula and Rosie dig into this deceptively simple phrase and how it makes them deeply uncomfortable. Is it a shield to avoid vulnerability? A refusal to take responsibility? Or could it actually be a quiet form of acceptance? From toxic masculinity to menst…

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62: Millenial Helps Gen X Mum Understand TikTok 13:23

1M ago13:23

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Send us a text What started as an experiment turned into a lifeline. Rosie opens up about her journey on TikTok from posting for fun to finding a deeply supportive community that showed up when she needed it most. We talk about the ups and downs of creating content, the weird magic of reading Harry Potter live for strangers (who became friends), an…

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61: The Lost Art Of Flirting and Why We Must To Get It Back 13:39

1M ago13:39

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Send us a text Remember when flirting was fun? Rosie and Roula explore how something once playful and innocent has become complicated by mixed signals, social shifts, and fear of crossing lines. We talk about the subtle signals, the importance of consent, and why flirting doesn’t always mean romance. Sometimes, it’s just about being human curious, …

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60: What Makes Tattoos So Popular? 19:02

1M ago19:02

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Send us a text Rosie and I get talk about tattoos and what they mean, why we get them, and how they’re seen. From subtle ink with big emotional weight to bold full-body art, we explore how tattoos tell stories and challenge societal expectations. We also talk about the stigma, especially in workplaces and across different cultures, and why it’s tim…

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59: Have You Ever Been To A Naked Spa? 17:47

1M ago17:47

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Send us a text So… Roula went to a naked spa. And no, it’s not what you think. Rosie and Roula talk about stepping into spaces where everyone’s baring it all, and how that can actually lead to feeling more comfortable in your own skin, not less. From the fear of the first-time experience to the surprising sense of community that comes with it, we e…

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58: Mispronouncing Words: Embarrassing Or Who Cares? 17:05

1M ago17:05

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Send us a text What happens when you say a word "wrong"? Rosie and Roula explore the messy, beautiful, and sometimes hilarious world of pronunciation and why getting it perfect might not matter as much as we think. From workplace tensions to childhood cuteness, we reflect on how language connects us, challenges us, and reveals a lot about who we ar…

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57: Why "Let's Catch Up for a Wine" Turns Us Off 9:59

1M ago9:59

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Send us a text You know that casual “Let’s catch up for a wine” invite? Turns out, it rubs Roula the wrong way—and she’s not holding back. Rosie joins in with her own beef about the classic “coffee catch-up,” and the two unravel why these little social scripts can be a turnoff. From mocktails to assumptions about wine culture, they get into the uns…

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56: Why Did I Dream I Had a Penis? And Other Weird Sleep Mysteries 11:51

1M ago11:51

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Send us a text 56. Rosie and Roula take a deep dive into the wild world of dreams—from the utterly bizarre (yes, there’s a penis dream) to the deeply emotional and symbolic. Roula shares the recurring people who rescue her in dreams, and Rosie questions why we even call life goals “dreams” when actual dreams make no damn sense. It’s an unscripted, …

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55: Keep Your Head Up - What Your Posture Says About You 12:32

1M ago12:32

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Send us a text A woman walking with her eyes fixed on the ground sparks a surprising reflection for Roula—and things get unexpectedly deep. Is looking down a sign of insecurity or just a habit? Does holding your head high really change how you feel or how others see you? Rosie challenges Roula’s assumptions and in the process, they uncover somethin…

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54: Why Do Men Have Nipples? 9:47

1M ago9:47

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Send us a text Roula was warned not to get all science-y about this, but here we are. Rosie brings a question straight from her friend’s husband that spirals into nipple piercings, evolution, and whether all embryos really start as female. Things get weird, mildly inappropriate, and unexpectedly informative. Is it biology, pleasure, or something el…

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53: Would You Pay To Attend A Wedding? 16:01

1M ago16:01

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Send us a text 53. Weddings are weird. From extravagant ceremonies to guests stressing over gifts, the whole thing is a bit... much. So why do we still do it this way? Roula and Rosie dive into the world of wedding gifts—why they feel outdated, whether asking for money is any better, and if guests should just pay to attend instead. Plus, Roula shar…

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52: Sharing Voice Messages From Our Listeners 10:57

1M ago10:57

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Send us a text 52. Listeners Take Over! This episode is all about YOU! We’re featuring voice messages from our listeners, sharing their thoughts on past topics, personal experiences, and some unexpected wisdom. You’ll hear: 🔹 A deep ethical dilemma, retrieving sperm from a deceased partner 🔹 "Hate at first sight", how quick judgments shape our reac…

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51: Do Women and Men Support Each Other Differently? 10:28

2M ago10:28

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Send us a text 51. When a guy messes up, his mates roast him. When a woman messes up, her friends rally around her, no matter what. But is that true? And if it is, is one approach better than the other? In this episode, we’re diving into the way men and women support each other—whether it’s brutal honesty or blind loyalty, which one actually helps?…

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50 Episodes Today! 22:42

2M ago22:42

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Send us a text We made it! 50 episodes, baby 🎉 Roula sipping lukewarm tea, Rosie’s already halfway through her choco milk and we’re feeling all the feels in this milestone episode. We’re talking: 🔥 What we've learned from 50+ episodes (and counting) 🔥 Why our solo podcasts felt... *meh* 🔥 The magic of finding the right co-host 🔥 That time we record…

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49: Do Men Sit Longer on The Toilet than Women? 9:43

2M ago9:43

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Send us a text 49. We’ve seen it, dads disappearing for 30-minute bathroom breaks while moms barely goes 30 seconds. But why? Is it really in their DNA, or have they just mastered the art of sneaking in alone time? Roula brings in scientific (questionable) reasoning, while Rosie calls BS on the whole thing. We’re talking: ⚡ The great toilet escape,…

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48: Are Drinks a Type of Food? The Debate No One Asked For 11:49

2M ago11:49

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Send us a text 48. We're diving into the hard-hitting questions today: are drinks technically food? Rosie accidentally sparks a full-blown existential crisis over a simple Instagram post, and Roula—while snacking on a mandarin—throws some serious millennial shade. From soup dilemmas to the ultimate smoothie debate, we try (and fail) to get to the b…

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47: Cultural Pride or Assimilation Disaster? 18:29

2M ago18:29

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Send us a text 47. What culture do you call your own? The one you were born in or the one you’ve grown? In this episode, we dive into the tension between cultural pride and assimilation. Rosie wrestles with the question, “What even is my culture?” while Roula reflects on the challenges of making connections in a country where people don’t often inv…

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46: Why Being Stubborn Isn't a Bad Thing 14:17

2M ago14:17

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Send us a text 46. Rosie swears she's stubborn, but Roula's not so sure. In this episode, we unpack what stubbornness really looks like: when it’s a strength, when it’s a roadblock, and how to tell the difference. From cereal debates (milk first? Seriously?) to pushing back on bold design choices, we get into the nuances of standing your ground ver…

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45: Yalla, Let's Go! Language, Culture, and the Power of Words 10:42

2M ago10:42

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Send us a text 45. One word, endless meanings: Roula gives Rosie a crash course on "yalla" and why context is everything. From bedtime routines to moments of impatience, we break down how tone, culture, and emotion shape language. Plus, Roula shares how Dutch directness threw her for a loop—and why words like "prima" just don’t cut it. Tune in and …

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44: Having Fun in Midlife: Why It Matters More Than Ever 14:33

2M ago14:33

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Send us a text 44. Who says getting older means getting boring? Not us! This episode kicks off with an intense love affair—with mandarins—and quickly turns into a deep dive on why fun shouldn't stop just because you hit a certain age. Roula shares insights from a midlife women's group, tackling why so many relationships lose their spark and what to…

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43: How to Deal with People Who Always Try to One-Up You 10:49

2M ago10:49

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Send us a text 43. We all know that person—the one who can’t help but turn every conversation into a competition. You’re sick? They were sicker. You had a bad day? Theirs was worse. It’s frustrating, dismissive, and honestly, just plain annoying. But is it always intentional? Roula and Rosie dive into why people one-up, when it’s harmless versus do…

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42: The Silent Judgment of the School Pickup Zone 11:52

2M ago11:52

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Send us a text 42. Roula’s red lipstick sparked an existential crisis—kind of. In this episode, we dive into the unspoken social dynamics of the school pickup zone, the weirdly persistent power of peer pressure (even as adults), and why something as simple as lipstick can make you feel like you stand out in all the wrong ways. Rosie questions wheth…

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41. Kissing Our Children On The Lips 11:57

2M ago11:57

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Send us a text Some say it’s just affection. Others think it crosses a line. In this episode, we get into it. Roula says it’s a hard no (hello, germs and boundaries), while Rosie questions if we’ve just been conditioned to see it as romantic. We’re talking: ✨ Is it harmless or confusing for kids? ✨ The hygiene factor—should we be worried? ✨ How cul…

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40. Miss Mrs Ms And just Mr Mr Mr 12:03

2M ago12:03

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Send us a text Why do women have to pick a title that reveals their relationship status, while men just get Mr. for life? In this episode, we get into it. Rosie has a full-blown what the hell?! moment, while Roula breaks down the history (it’s as ridiculous as you think). We’re talking: Why women get stuck with Miss, Mrs., or Ms. and men just don’t…

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39. Divorce: Could Be Rising Like a Phoenix 11:43

2M ago11:43

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Send us a text Breakups and divorces: soul-crushing endings or the start of something better? In this episode, we get real about what comes after love ends. Rosie swears it’s a full-on phoenix moment (rebirth!), while Roula digs into the messy but crucial part—accountability. From heartbreak and nostalgia to leveling up and learning what not to do …

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38. Marriage: Romance or Requirement? 12:12

2M ago12:12

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Send us a text Marriage, a romantic fairytale or just a contract? In this episode, we get real about the highs, the lows, and the absolute chaos of love and marriage. Rosie talks about her experience, while Roula explains how her first marriage felt more like a practical deal to make the love story possible. We break down the weird stigma around di…

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37. Hot Blooded Woman and Fierce Man 7:58

2M ago7:58

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Send us a text Roula hears it in a song and starts wondering… what does hot-blooded really mean? Rosie immediately pictures someone fiery and passionate, but the dictionary definition? Easily angered and sexually aroused. 😳 So why do men get to be fierce while women are out of control? We unpack the meaning, the double standards, and the one outfit…

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36. The Power of A Thank You 13:48

2M ago13:48

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Send us a text Ever feel annoyed when you do something nice for someone, and they don’t say thank you? Yeah, we get it! In this episode, we talk about why a simple thank you goes a long way and how it feels when it’s missing. Rosie vents about those who take without showing any appreciation, while Roula shares a story about someone who never bother…

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35: Overcoming Language Anxiety and Embracing Your Accent 13:24

2M ago13:24

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Send us a text 35. Learning a new language is one thing, but speaking it with confidence? That’s a whole different challenge. Roula shares her journey of learning Dutch and the pressures of proving herself beyond her accent, while Rosie talks about her fear of mispronouncing French and avoiding speaking altogether. We unpack the quirks of accents, …

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