We’ve all heard it: “More money, more problems.” But what if that’s only one way to see it? In this episode, I share a conversation with Rabbi Shira Stutman that helped shift my perspective from viewing money as a burden to seeing it as a tool for possibility. It’s a simple lens change… but it might just change everything, especially if you’ve ever…

A real email exchange about a home repair gone wrong reveals something deeper: how writing without curiosity—especially when we’re certain we’re right—can turn a simple message into emotional kindling.By Carl Richards

If you're frustrated by bottlenecks in your projects, teams, or creative work... look closer. It might be you. In this episode, Carl shares why that's actually good news—and how entrepreneurship, at its best, is a brutal but beautiful path to personal growth.By Carl Richards

We all say money can't buy happiness. But deep down, are we hoping it can remove our unhappiness? In this episode, Carl flips the script—and asks what hole we're really trying to fill.By Carl Richards

By Carl Richards

By Carl Richards

By Carl Richards

By Carl Richards

Feeling stuck in a loop? Like every day is just… the same? In this episode, Carl explores what happens when purpose goes missing—and why the smallest spark can change everything. From “bullshit jobs” to freshman soccer referees, this one’s about reclaiming meaning in ordinary moments. You don’t need a big dramatic change. But you do need to decide …

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Ever felt that spark when watching someone do something incredible—like you're catching a glimpse of pure passion in action? That feeling isn't random. It's a clue, a breadcrumb, guiding you toward what makes you come alive. In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl reveals exactly how to decode these moments, uncover your own passion, and turn i…

Ever grab an electric fence? Carl has—and he says that’s exactly what money conversations can feel like when we don’t expect emotions. In this short episode of Behavior Gap Radio, he shares one simple idea that might change how you talk about money forever: expect feelings. Because money isn’t just numbers… it’s identity, power, fear, and love. Whe…

Ever found yourself spiraling into a story before you even know what’s happening? In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares a powerful tool he picked up from a conversation with Henry Shukman: SOS—Sensations Over Stories. When money decisions trigger anxiety, the key isn’t to analyze the story… it’s to drop into the body. Carl unpacks how …

When life feels out of control—markets crashing, job uncertainty, financial stress—Carl shares the most reliable response: a flight to simplicity. In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, he explains how shrinking the problem and focusing on what you can control (even something as small as a single breath) helps restore calm and clarity. It's not abo…

Ever nailed your morning routine only to find yourself doom-scrolling by 2:47 p.m.? In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl unpacks why we fall off track—even when we know better—and how the real solution isn’t a hack or shortcut… it’s practice. The kind that stings. The kind that invites us to notice, realign, and try again. Again and again. T…

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the strange magic of urgency and asks a simple question: What are you waiting for? Whether it’s sending that email, raising your fees, or finally writing the thing you’ve been thinking about for years, the time between idea and action doesn’t have to be so long. Carl shares real stories—his own a…

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares his most tactical money decision-making tool: the Financial Pause. Forget budgets and spreadsheets—this is about noticing what you're feeling before you act. Carl walks through a four-step process that starts with tuning into your body and ends with making choices from a calm, centered place. It’s …

In this gentle reminder from Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares what to do when someone comes to you feeling nervous, scared, or uncertain—and thinks action is the answer. Instead of rushing to give advice, Carl encourages us to slow down, lead with empathy, and ask thoughtful questions. Because often, the wisest answers come not from us but from the …

In this quiet but powerful episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares a simple phrase that might just rearrange the furniture in your brain: We live in the feeling of our thinking. Not our circumstances. Not the email. Not the number on the statement. Carl unpacks how noticing our thoughts—not fixing or fighting them—can shift everything. It’s not …

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl comes in hot with a wake-up call about the hidden cost of distractions. He shares shocking stats about how often we're interrupted, how much time we lose to switching tasks, and why most knowledge workers only get two hours of deep work a day—on a good day. But this isn't just finger-pointing. It's Carl c…

In this episode, Carl takes on the wild, stretchy nature of time—why we can procrastinate for months on a task that only takes minutes. He explores Parkinson’s Law, the mental weight of unfinished tasks, and the surprising productivity gains of adding constraints. With practical tools like the two-minute rule and a three-hour workday experiment, Ca…

In this episode, Carl explores a powerful framework for navigating creative and financial risk: understanding whether you're playing a luck-based or skill-based game. Drawing on insights from Michael Mauboussin’s book, The Success Equation, Carl explains why sharpening your decision-making process is essential in luck-driven environments—like marke…

In this episode, Carl shares a personal experiment in breaking free from the “dopamine machine”—those tempting websites and distractions that quietly steal our time. He talks about using defensive measures like locking down access, creating space between stimulus and response, and replacing old habits with more meaningful activities. Along the way,…

In this episode, Carl explores what he believes is the greatest risk of all—not failure, but waking up one day and realizing we haven’t been the person we hoped to be. He reflects on daily regrets, the subtle ways distraction can derail our intentions, and why ignoring that quiet sense of misalignment only makes it worse. Most importantly, he offer…

In this episode, Carl dives into one of his most-quoted ideas: "Risk is what's left over after you think you've thought of everything." He unpacks the concept of residual risk, why it matters in everything from investing to skiing, and how small, safe-to-fail actions can help us navigate uncertainty. Plus, he explores the idea of general resilience…