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Sharing candid talks, expertise and fun with embodied leaders and influencers from around the globe. Aimed at improving mental health and life purpose for men. Expect practical tips, adult language and some immature humour.
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Krav Maga instructor, Lewis Groves joins me to get into what Krav Maga really is, where it comes from, and how it’s different from traditional martial arts or rule-bound sports. We talk about training for the street rather than the ring, the value of simplicity under pressure, and why so many martial arts end up in fantasyland. We also cover ego, h…
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I’m joined by author and men’s work coach Jack Donovan for a deep, honest chat about modern masculinity. We get into why strength matters, how weakness is being sold as virtue, and why the idea that we're all "blank slates" might be doing more harm than good. We talk martial arts, the value of tactical virtues, and what honour really means in a wor…
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Scott Hanley joins me to talk about how he turned the tables on his Parkinson's diagnosis. We explore how mindset, movement, and a willingness to experiment played key roles in his recovery. We also talk about CrossFit, brain health, neuroplasticity, and the social disconnection that’s worsened since COVID. It’s a conversation packed with practical…
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In this episode, I’m doing one of my not-so-solo solo casts - with Dr. Helen Machen-Pearce in the room. We talk the power of nervous system regulation and how co-regulation plays a key role in well-being. This candid conversation dives into mental health, somatic practices, and how we connect as humans. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or jus…
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Ex-Dutch special forces operator turned breathwork coach Wouter Huizer joins me to discuss masculinity, elite performance, and mastering the nervous system. We get into counter-terrorism, ethics, high-performing teams, anger, discipline, military identity, the “off switch,” up-regulation, insecurity, and refusing the shot. A punchy, masculine, and …
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The Warrior Philosopher joins me for a dive deep into the intersection of philosophy, masculinity, and the struggle for meaning in the modern world. Drawing on Nietzsche, Mishima, and the ideals of the warrior poet, we explore how strength, aesthetics, and discipline shape a life of purpose. We also discuss the alienation of modern men, the consequ…
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Mikaal Bates joins me for a thought-provoking discussion on the growing divide between men and women, the shifting landscape of masculinity, and why more people are turning back to traditional values. We explore the impact of feminism, the rise of the "trad wife" movement, and the unintended consequences of modern social trends. We also discuss how…
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Host of The Emerald and animism teacher Josh Schrei joins me to explore topics that span existential questions to practical rituals. We look at what it means to be alive in a world teeming with distractions, the role of myth in modern life, and the tension between liberalism and animism. Josh shares his take on mental health, the importance of auth…
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Spoken word artist and coach Adam Roa joins me for a wide-ranging chat about life, love, and the messiness of it all. We get into the highs and lows of going viral, why self-love can sometimes look a lot like narcissism, and what’s total BS in the personal growth world. Adam shares war stories from the world of artistic entrepreneurship - think big…
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Uptrust and Relatefulness founder Jordan Myska Allen joins me to tackle one of the biggest challenges of our time - social media. We dig into the dark side of the platforms we all love to hate: polarization, narcissism, addiction, and how algorithms keep us hooked and divided. But Jordan has a plan. He introduces Uptrust, a radical new approach to …
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Philosopher Nancy Sherman joins me to unpack Stoicism - what people often misunderstand about it, and what’s really worth taking away. We dive into Marcus Aurelius, Seneca, and how ancient wisdom still speaks to modern practices like CBT. Nancy shares insights on moral injury, PTSD, and the dynamics of resilience in relationships, alongside Aristot…
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In this powerful episode, I sit down with Joshua Wenner, a relationship coach specializing in nervous system well-being, somatic healing, and grief work. Joshua opens up about his personal journey through love, loss, and trauma, sharing profound insights on how to process grief, build resilience, and navigate emotional challenges. We dive deep into…
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Ashanti Branch has made it his life’s work to challenge the very idea of men being told to "man up". In this episode, I sit down with Ashanti, the founder and director of the Ever Forward Club, to dive into what it really means to be a man—and why society’s version is doing more harm than good. Ashanti opens up about growing up without a father, th…
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Host of the Man Talks podcast and author of Men’s Work Connor Beaton joins me to talk about the myth of vulnerability, suicide, being useful, who defines masculinity, postmodernism, psychological fracturing, women and safety, Chris Bumstead, the psychological industrial complex, APA guidelines, Andrew Tate, weight lifting and mental health, mentori…
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Explore the intersection of masculinity, sports science, and philosophy with Nick Winkelman, Head of Athletic Performance for Irish Rugby. In this episode, we dive into what sports can teach us about personal growth and leadership, overcoming mental barriers, understanding the mind-body connection, and the power of effective communication. Learn wh…
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Russian martial arts teacher Vladimir joins me to discuss Systema, health, aikido, fear, fight and flight, breathing, community, family and context, 911, fighting evil, post-COVID fighting, protesting and more. A lovely vibrant one. Find out more about Vladimir here: https://www.russianmartialart.com/index.php --------------------------------------…
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Professor Mark Sedgwick joins me for a profound exploration of Traditionalism and its many facets. We dive into the primordial and perennial traditions, unpack why humanity isn't headed for a "Star Trek" future, and discuss key concepts like Kali Yuga, Rene Guenon's influence, and the ongoing meaning crisis. Our conversation touches on Sufism, the …
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Integral tech teacher Farsam joins me to discuss the interplay between technology and consciousness. We chat East-West dynamics, Ken Wilber, social media, augmented reality, Black Mirror, virtual reality, Minority Report, technology that helps, Facebook evils, TTCONF.org, the enlightenment cap, ethical design, Dylan Newcomb, and more. Where embodim…
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Men’s Movement legend Warren joins me to discuss his early work in the women’s movement, feminism, “the patriarchy”, three gender world-views, why boys need dads, gender studies and activism, rejection, the gender pay gap, Men’s beauty contests, power and being powerless, HR, and more. Maybe not an easy listen for some, but very important. Find out…
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Founder of "Always Better than Yesterday" & a podcast host Ryan joins me to talk Men vs Women, John Gray, language games, cultures of life and death, cascading care, what women are seeking, Peter Pan, masculine archetypes, leadership, faith, embodied spirituality, what we all worship, the split in psychology, and more. This one may be provocative, …
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Swiss children’s aikido teacher Urs joins me to talk martial arts, learning, how to work with kids in martial arts, body-mind training, embodying peace, George Leonard’s Samurai Game, Urs’s aikido game, spiritual fondue and how to integrate practices as a generalist. An energetic and wide ranging one. Find out more about Urs here: www.zuvuya-agenda…
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Holistic mover Joseph joins me to chat parkour, the practice, why we train, discipline, play and goal orientation, his school outside Berlin, the fundamentals of being human, the importance of craft, agency and creation, what’s lost in modern life, Hipster hunting, “time well spent”, gardening, how to navigate the diversity of practice in the moder…
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Breath philosopher Petri rejoins me to talk salt, elemental philosophy, Bachelard, is philosophy back, the trust issues, why philosophy is fashionable, shouting over each other, trust, breath and purpose, Descartes, breath as life, respiratory religion, phenomenology, breath and powerlifting, intimacy, sleep, Socratic enquiry and coaching. A deep a…
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Founder of the London Movement Group Wil joins me to chat growing up on a building site, competitive sports, movement culture, social media, being “monk-like”, downgrading technology, Jordan Peterson, comparisons, Parkour, fear, “what-why-how”, philosophy, agism and The Art of Learning. One for the movers! Find out more about Wil here https://www.f…
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Authour & teacher Dr. Roger Walsh joins me to talk about times of crisis, the meta crisis, social media, Nietzsche, meaning, Matt Walsh, Keith Martin Smith, balance, what we feel called to do, insignificance, wisdom questions, how we respond to threat, the risks of ideals, ethics, and the power of the stop. A deep one. Learn more about Dr.Roger Wal…
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Men’s work leader Owen Marcus joins us to discuss working with men for 25 years, Rolfing, Hakomi method and body types, dyspraxia, autism spectrum conditions, Stephen Porges, men’s groups, what’s missing for men today, emotional intelligence for men, our tribal roots, what exactly is a men’s group, embodied meditation, emotions, how men connect, ho…
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Pilates and yoga teacher trainer Adrien joins me to talk about France, Vietnamese martial arts, healing and fighting, traditional and modern arts, men and yoga, being afraid of weakness, over-specialism, David Goggins, extremes, types of Pilates, work in prisons, and somativism. A wide ranging pleasant embodiment chat. Find more from Adrien here: p…
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Jimi Hunt joins our teammate Allison Lindsay to talk about rebranding mental health, the mental fitness continuum, body-based practices to quieten your mind, the power of meditation, storytelling as a means to shift the debate around mental health, opting into our own healing, and creating your own mental fitness toolbox. Find out more about Jimi h…
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The attachment specialist Adam joins me to talk young men’s dating, what masculinity is, service to others, protection and provision, why not follow Andrew Tate’s dating advice, role models, spiritual holding, the connection between fathers and spirituality, being into attachment before it was cool, EMDR, red flags for attachment disorders, boundar…
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Masculine archetype teacher Amir joins me to discuss initiation, boys needing men, nature, men and power, polarity, David Deida, the king being of service, the lover archetype, the magician, purpose, COVID manliness, men on Zoom, and some good recommendations. A great one for the guys (and women too, actually). Learn more about Amir here: https://e…
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Trauma educator (and my mentor) Paul joins me to discuss our new learning model of trauma, is everyone traumatised, powerlessness, superpowers, martial arts, the use of trauma, love and power, violence, relating, language use, the new age, the new global network, the “smile of freedom”, and more. A funny, touching, deep one. Some triggering stuff h…
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Exercise scientist Mike joins me to discuss why we might all want to do weight training, what makes us attractive, virtue and the gym, the psychological impact of weight training, anxiety, agency, humility, the high of working out, can the gym be addictive, the negatives of exercise, compensation, an “exercise pill”, what’s it like being a man, and…
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Writer and strength enthusiast Joe joins me to talk the gym, ageing, The Greeks, Japanese budo, Christianity, virtue and character development, the politics of working out, self discovery vs self creation, existential lifting, abstinence and renunciation, “confidence”, “discipline”, resentment, Socrates and Mishima. A wonderfully deep exchange. Fin…
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In this session Jakob talks about methods, tips and information on how men can effectively increase their testosterone naturally. It is the hormone that defines men's essence, and he shows men how to rediscover this power. Not a less valuable episode for females too. Find more information about Jakob here: https://mensrevival.de/ ------------------…
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Coach Michael Mason joins me, Mark Walsh, to talk about fitness in middle age, martial arts, Japan, longevity, situational awareness, body guarding, the carnivore diet and how to start it, mindset, gut biomes, different types of meat, doctor’s bad advice, and how to maintain testosterone levels. A solid helpful one. Find out more about Michael here…
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Ex Navy Seal and leadership trainer Mark joins me to talk karate, Zen, military life, yoga, discipline, freedom, box breathing, humility and mindfulness. An eloquent speaker with some important points. The Mark Divine Podcast - https://markdivine.com/markdivine/podcast More info about Mark Divine's work - https://markdivine.com/ -------------------…
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Fitness pro Andrew joins me to talk “fitness for normal people”, women in gyms, stereotypes, mental health, habits, behaviour change, aspirational identity, “body positivity”, food buckets, bears, personal responsibility and victimhood. A super useful one if you’d like to be healthier. Find more about Andrew here: https://andrewcoatesfitness.com/ -…
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In this episode Mark expands on the different ways strength training impacts our mental state. Feral Philosophy is a groundbreaking approach to building character through strength training. Launching this October on Substack, and already out on YouTube, our mission is to help young men find meaning, overcome mental health challenges, and develop vi…
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